HARD REALITY OF 21ST CENTURY WOMEN• She wants all your property in her name. Her father and brothers won’t give it to her, so she will take it from you.• Wants all your salary and income in her account. Her father and brothers never used to give her enough money for her expenses.• Wants you to throw your parents out of your home immediately after marriage. You better do it or she has a law to support her in throwing you and your parents out.• Anything you say to her is a torture to her. She can slap you and there is no law for your to safeguard yourself from this domestic violence. Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
UNITED NATIONS REPORT ON ELDER ABUSE IN INDIA Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
EVEN SOME INDIAN VIEWS ARE SAME…. Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
FIRST THINGS FIRST: BE HAPPY !!• STRESS = UNCERTINITY * IMPORTANCE• MAKE ONE OF THEM ZERO, YOUR STRESS WILL BE ZERO.IF NOT, use following 3A formula: • ACTION PLAN • ACT • AVOID Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
ATTITUDE/MIND SET OF COMMANDO• MUST READ/VIEW THE CHYNAKAYA NITI • ALWAYS LOOK FOR A CHANDRA GUPTA MAURYA• INDENTIFY THE STRENGHT AND WEEKNESS OF ENEMY • CREATE FEAR IN THE MIND OF ENEMY CAMP• SHARPEN YOUR WEAPEN • SET THE ACTION BY EXAMPLES THAN ADVICE/INSTRUCT OTHERS• USE CARPET BOMBING • ALWAYS THINK ABOUT WELLFARE OF MEN• EMOTION AND LEGAL ISSUE SHOULD NOT BE COMBINED. • LEARN TO DIE AS DEBIT MAN THAN CREDIT MAN.• FORMATION OF TEAM : LIKE POLITICAL CAMPAIN, MEDIA CAMPAIN, LEGAL CAMPAIN, WEEKLY MEETINGS, DATA BASE, EMAIL CAMPAIN..ETC. ALLOW THE DIFFERENCE OF OPINION, ACTION PLAN TO EXECUTE IN DIGNIFIED WAY AND SUPPORT THE CAUSE, NOT ANY INDIVIDUAL, TO STOP LEGAL TERRORISM. Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
TOOLS OF COMMANDO• Blog/Website: Men suicide / Murder / Crime Against Men data • Mail id of Journalist / media Houses• Address of all MPs / MLAs • Address and mail id of all related Ministries• All men NGO head contact numbers / mail ids • Attend weekly meetings• Study all men suffering / news • Protest for any anti male article / news• Victim story • Press conference• Meetings / Dharna • Pamphlet / Poster / mass email activity• Social net working • Non-Apologetic to any women having issues• Create alternative to men than marriage system • Create more and more study reports• Establish more and more media through programs / videos on YouTube • Learn to use multidimensional strategy• Use the Technology AWARENESS IS KEY TO STOP LEGAL TERRORISM. Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
COME OUT FROM SOME LIES SPREAD BY SOCIETY/MEDIA• MEN MARRY FOR DOWRY, DOWRY ITSELF IS BOGUS WORD. IT IS STREEDHAN AND IT IS WOMEN’S RIGHT, MEN HAVE NOT RIGHT THERE.• ANY WOMEN WHO DIES WITH IN 7 YEARS OF MARRIAGE IS ASSUMED DOWRY DEATH - A BIG LIE, MORE THAN 15000 UNAMRRIED WOMEN ALSO DIE BEFORE MARRAGE, WHY IT IS NOT TERMED AS DOWRY DEATH?• IN IPC ALL LAWS ARE THERE TO PUNISH ANY CRIME RIGHT FROM PHYSICAL HURT TO DEMAND OF MONEY, BUT THIS DUPLICATION OF LAW IS MADE BY MISREPRESENTATION OF THE INDIAN CONSITUTION ARTICLE 15(3).• IT IS MEN WHO WANT DIVORCE WHILE WOMEN ONLY SUFFER AFTER DIVORCE.• THE PAIN OF A MOTHER / SISTER IS NILL WHEN THEY LOSE THEIR BROTHER / SON.• IF MEN EARNS MORE, THE MORE HE WILL HAVE TO GIVE.• THE EARNING OF MEN, THE CONTRUBUTION OF WOMEN, IS EQUAL. AS IF WITHOUT WIFE A MAN CAN’T EARN WHAT HE IS EARNING TODAY.• FOR FAILURE OF THE GOVT. / GIRLS PARENTS TO MAKE WOMEN FINCIANCIALLY INDEPENDENT, MEN SHOULD BE PUNISHED.• LET SOME MEN SUFFER, AS WOMEN SUFFER MORE, “TYPICAL TERRORIST ORGANIZATION’S IDEOLOGY.• IT IS MEN WHO ALWAYS HARRASE WOMEN, WOMEN DON’T HARRASE MEN, WOMEN DO NOT LIE, WOMEN DO NOT DO ADULTRY, FRAUD, MURDER!! ARE YOU READY TO ACCEPT THE TRUTH AND EXPOSE THE LIE? USE BLOG. Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
WHY YOU SHOULD NOT MARRY AN 498A WOMEN• A 498A Wife has desires to own all your assets / property and money – which might be owned or shared with your other family members.• To get the above desires fulfilled she keeps nagging, harassing and taunting you.• Kills the family harmony.• Even the draconian laws support her in her motive.• Even if you want to get out of a marriage, she won’t let you.• Indian laws do not allow a man to get divorce. It dependent on the mercy of wife.• All of the above lead to a stressful life for husbands and they are not able to live peacefully – leading to increased cases of suicides. Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
WHY YOU SHOULD MARRY A FOREIGNER• You travel a lot and know who can be best life partner for you after considering 498A women psyche and greed.• Only well off people are implicated by greedy wives by misusing the Indian law, no rickshaw puller has ever been implicated – and you are the one who is well off and can give her a huge settlement amount.• You have a wonderful life and can enjoy your life better when you do not fear dominating Indian wife – foreigners are generally more understanding and adjusting. They also have a respect for gender equality – which Indian women and laws don’t have.• All channels show everyday some software engineer, engineer, NRI or corporate manager being implicated by wife and harassed by media. And …. you are one of them. A foreigner wife will not do it to you.• Indian laws do not allow a man to get divorce. It depends on the mercy of wife. Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
WHAT IS OUR DEMAND• ALL LAW / POLICYS SHOULD BE GENDER NETURAL. THE MAN / WOMAN TERM TO BE REPLACED BY “PERSON” AND HUSBAND / WIFE TO BE REPLACED BY “SPOUSE”.• GIRLS / BOYS SHOULD GET EQUAL SHARE AND RESPONSIBILITY IN PARENTAL PROPERTY / ASSESTS.• ANY MARRIAGE DISPUTE TO BE RESOLVED THORUGH CIVIL LAW, NO CRIMINAL LAW SHOULD BE ALLOWED.• ESTABLISH A MEN’s WELFARE MINISTRY.• MISUSE CLAUSE TO BE INSERTED IN ALL SPECIAL LAWS WHICH HAVE JAIL AND FINE TERMS.• IF WOMEN DO NOT DO CRIME WHY ARE THEY AFRAID TO ACCEPT THE GENDER NETURAL LAW? INJUSTICE SOME WHERE IS DIRECT THREAT OF JUSTICE EVERY WHERE. Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
BOYCOTT 498A GIRLS/FAMILIES/LAWYERS• If you know any girl / family that has filed a false 498A case, IMMEDIATELY STOP all interactions with her / them• Ensure that NO ONE (e.g. Your brother / sister / friend / relative etc) marries in such a family• STOP calling them to your family functions and STOP attending their FAMILY Functions• TRY NOT to give your cases to LAWYERS who file false cases for girls• Ensure that none of your own family members / relatives have filed any of the Gender Biased cases at all. Cleaning of one’s own House is very Important. Kill Legal Terrorists Using Legal System
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THREE VITAL ACTION AREASChange Existing laws like 498a / DV STOP New laws from forming SIFF and allied NGOs Long term 10-20 yrs Men’s rights awareness in Society 20
COMMANDO TEAMS TO BE FORMED• Event Management Team (Dharna, Press Conferences etc) • Pamphlet, Banners, Posters, , invitation, phone calls, Media Handling• Legal Research Team• RTI Team• Gender Research Team• Database Management• Financial Management for Events• Media Handling Everyone should contribute (small or big way) ……………………
OUR NEXT EVENT• International Men’s Day on November 19, 2012• Has be to be a Mega Event• Working Team to be formed Immediately Entire Delhi should Know about the Event…How to do it ?