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9 questions to stop making you feel like a failure!


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If you ever felt like a failure or are feeling like a failure, here are 9 questions which will set you off the guilt and on a quest to find the real solutions to your problems

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9 questions to stop making you feel like a failure!

  1. 1. FAILURE ! 9 Questions To Stop Making You Feel Feel Like A
  2. 2. 1) What does it mean? Think about this failure – what does it really mean? •Does it mean that you have to change your peer group? •Does it mean that you have to change the books you read? •Does it mean you have to change your approach? . . What does it actually mean?
  3. 3. 2) What else can it mean? Forget the traditional answers, forget the moral answers. •Does it mean that it gives you more time to reevaluate your life? •Does it mean that you can be more adventurous, now that you have less to lose? •Does it mean that you can look at a larger view of life? . . What else can it actually mean to you?
  4. 4. 3) How Can I Use This? Everything that happens is an outcome and it can very well be an opportunity. Feeling bad is natural, everyone does that. What most people don’t do is be a little smart about it and we ask, WHY NOT?
  5. 5. 4) Are you the only one? We constantly search for people who can sympathise or empathise. And naturally enough, we don't want to feel disturbed. But then, disturbance has great power, it makes you want to get the hell out of it. Get out there, be disturbed, tell yourself that people have gone through bigger troubles and made it awesome in life and I am going to be one of them.
  6. 6. 5) My Life, My Rules? No one has the right to make you feel bad. If someone is, avoid - sometimes it is alright to be a bit rude. What is more important - your life or pleasing someone else in the society?
  7. 7. 6) What Will Others Feel? It is your life, your results, your outcomes. We can hope that someone might support us but it is unreasonable for us to expect that they will understand. It doesn’t matter if you feel that you let others down. It is important whether you let yourself down.
  8. 8. 7) What The Bloody F is This Failure Anyway? •What is it anyway? •Does it mean less marks than your peers? •Does it mean not being able to pay your monthly bills? Failure is a very personal thing and so is success. You got to define what it really means to you. Only you have to do that!
  9. 9. 8) Do I get only one chance? Things are bound to go wrong. It is like the law of life and it is ok. You are going to mess up in something or the other. You are going to screw up royally. Don’t lead this one shot life, if there is a mistake, go out and fix it, that’s all! You do get a second chance
  10. 10. 9) What can I do right now to make me feel better? What is that one action, a very small one which can take you in the right direction. Create enough follow up mechanisms. But DO SOMETHING! That is the only thing that is going to get you out of this!
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