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AN INTERACTIVE DECISION-MAKING GAME
    ABOUT LGBT RIGHTS IN AMERICA




        GET STARTED
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




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You are a sophomore in high school, living in a small suburban town.




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               THE SITCH
 You have a lot of friends in school, but none of them
know you’re gay. You want to come out, and you hope
    that they’ll be considerate and understanding.


        STAY IN THE CLOSET or COME OUT
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




          COME OUT
Phew. Your friends are cool with it. They’re
 really supportive and tell you that nothing
          has changed between you.


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 Hey...I just wanted to say that was really
 brave of you. I know that coming out is a
really difficult thing to do, especially at this
school. If you ever need anyone to talk to,
               just let me know.




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BONUS!
new friend



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        STAY IN
      THE CLOSET
Secrets are hard to keep. You struggle
to connect with friends without telling
      them how you really feel.


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CAN’T HANDLE IT?


DID YOU KNOW...




Many states explicitly address discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of elementary and high school students, though not all are LGBT
inclusive. These protections can be in the form of statutory law, regulation or ethical codes of conduct for teachers.

     States with law that addresses discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of students based on sexual orientation and gender identity (17 states and D.C.)

     States with law that addresses discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of students based on sexual orientation (2 states)




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CAN’T HANDLE IT?


DID YOU KNOW...




Many states explicitly address discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of elementary and high school students, though not all are LGBT
inclusive. These protections can be in the form of statutory law, regulation or ethical codes of conduct for teachers.

     States with law that addresses discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of students based on sexual orientation and gender identity (17 states and D.C.)

     States with law that addresses discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of students based on sexual orientation (2 states)




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TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What are some reasons for staying in the closet while you’re
 in school? Do you think it affects school life?

 -What could schools/teachers be doing for preventing bullying
 other than fight for these laws to be passed?

 -Are laws useful to prevent bullying?

 -Have you learned about diversity and acceptance in school?
 What lessons have been successful?

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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What are some reasons for staying in the closet while you’re
 in school? Do you think it affects school life?

 -What could schools/teachers be doing for preventing bullying
 other than fight for these laws to be passed?

 -Are laws useful to prevent bullying?

 -Have you learned about diversity and acceptance in school?
 What lessons have been successful?

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     You’ve graduated college and are planning on moving to a new city.
     You are finally ready to live on your own and start a life for yourself.




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     You’ve graduated college and are planning on moving to a new city.
     You are finally ready to live on your own and start a life for yourself.




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                     THE SITCH
  You’re looking for apartments, but you’re having some trouble
with your broker (the person you've hired to help look). Ever since
  you brought your partner with you to visit an apartment, your
broker has been unhelpful - not answering questions and ignoring
          important paperwork needed to secure a place.



                   IGNORE IT    or TAKE ACTION
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




                     THE SITCH
  You’re looking for apartments, but you’re having some trouble
with your broker (the person you've hired to help look). Ever since
  you brought your partner with you to visit an apartment, your
broker has been unhelpful - not answering questions and ignoring
          important paperwork needed to secure a place.



                   IGNORE IT    or TAKE ACTION
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




    TAKE ACTION
   No luck. You try to report your
  broker, but there are no Housing
Discrimination laws in place in your
state. Now you’ll either have to stick
 with this broker or find a new one.


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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




    TAKE ACTION
   No luck. You try to report your
  broker, but there are no Housing
Discrimination laws in place in your
state. Now you’ll either have to stick
 with this broker or find a new one.


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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




          IGNORE IT
 You don’t have to go through the trouble
of finding a new broker, and as time drags
 on he eventually finds you an apartment.


                CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




BONUS!
new apartment

                     CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?


DID YOU KNOW...




Housing Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that prohibit discrimination in the sale, rental, and financing of dwellings, and in other
housing-related transactions, based on race, color, national origin, religion, sex, familial status (including children under the age of 18 living with
parents or legal custodians, pregnant women, and people securing custody of children under the age of 18), and handicap (disability).

      States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.)

      States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (4 states)                                         CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?


DID YOU KNOW...




Housing Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that prohibit discrimination in the sale, rental, and financing of dwellings, and in other
housing-related transactions, based on race, color, national origin, religion, sex, familial status (including children under the age of 18 living with
parents or legal custodians, pregnant women, and people securing custody of children under the age of 18), and handicap (disability).

      States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.)

      States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (4 states)                                         CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?


DID YOU KNOW...




Housing Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that prohibit discrimination in the sale, rental, and financing of dwellings, and in other
housing-related transactions, based on race, color, national origin, religion, sex, familial status (including children under the age of 18 living with
parents or legal custodians, pregnant women, and people securing custody of children under the age of 18), and handicap (disability).

      States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.)

      States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (4 states)                                         CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 -Have you stood up for yourself in a situation like this?
 What do you do when you aren't getting the help you deserve?

 -Have you been in a situation where you knew someone who
 was homophobic? How have you reacted?




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TALK ABOUT IT:
 -Have you stood up for yourself in a situation like this?
 What do you do when you aren't getting the help you deserve?

 -Have you been in a situation where you knew someone who
 was homophobic? How have you reacted?




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TALK ABOUT IT:
 -Have you stood up for yourself in a situation like this?
 What do you do when you aren't getting the help you deserve?

 -Have you been in a situation where you knew someone who
 was homophobic? How have you reacted?




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     You have just applied for a great job that you’re really excited about.




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     You have just applied for a great job that you’re really excited about.




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     You have just applied for a great job that you’re really excited about.




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We think you’d be a really great fit for this
position. You’re highly qualified and seem
very motivated. We look forward to all that
       you have to bring to the table!




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We think you’d be a really great fit for this
position. You’re highly qualified and seem
very motivated. We look forward to all that
       you have to bring to the table!




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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




We think you’d be a really great fit for this
position. You’re highly qualified and seem
very motivated. We look forward to all that
       you have to bring to the table!




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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




BONUS!
 new job



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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




BONUS!
 new job



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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




               THE SITCH
You haven’t explicitly come out to your coworkers, but
the stares and comments you’ve been receiving at work
  are seriously taking their toll on your everyday life.



             IGNORE IT   or TAKE ACTION
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




               THE SITCH
You haven’t explicitly come out to your coworkers, but
the stares and comments you’ve been receiving at work
  are seriously taking their toll on your everyday life.



             IGNORE IT   or TAKE ACTION
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




      IGNORE IT
Ouch. You continue to endure the
 harassment. It could get worse,
         so be careful.

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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




      IGNORE IT
Ouch. You continue to endure the
 harassment. It could get worse,
         so be careful.

           CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




    TAKE ACTION
Too bad. There are no Employment
    Non-Discrimination laws in
  place in your state and your boss
laughs when you bring up the issue.
    At least you didn’t get fired...


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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




    TAKE ACTION
Too bad. There are no Employment
    Non-Discrimination laws in
  place in your state and your boss
laughs when you bring up the issue.
    At least you didn’t get fired...


             CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW...




Employment Non-Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that ban discrimination in private employment.

     States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.)

     States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (5 states)



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CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW...




Employment Non-Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that ban discrimination in private employment.

     States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.)

     States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (5 states)



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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What does it mean to be an “Equal Opportunity Employer”?

 -What are some situations when you would not come out
 at work?

 -What are the different protections for transgender people vs
 lesbian, gay, and bisexual people in a workplace?




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TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What does it mean to be an “Equal Opportunity Employer”?

 -What are some situations when you would not come out
 at work?

 -What are the different protections for transgender people vs
 lesbian, gay, and bisexual people in a workplace?




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     You’re living in a new city and have begun to settle into your
     surroundings.



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     You’re living in a new city and have begun to settle into your
     surroundings.



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                     THE SITCH
 As you leave the grocery store, several strangers surround you
and verbally and physically attack you for being gay. It turns out
 that one of the people recorded the video and uploaded it to
         the Internet where many people have seen it.



                  IGNORE IT    or TAKE ACTION
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




                     THE SITCH
 As you leave the grocery store, several strangers surround you
and verbally and physically attack you for being gay. It turns out
 that one of the people recorded the video and uploaded it to
         the Internet where many people have seen it.



                  IGNORE IT    or TAKE ACTION
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




        TAKE ACTION
Good news. You report the crime and find
out that there are hate crime laws in place
in your state. With the video as evidence,
      your attackers are prosecuted.

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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




        TAKE ACTION
Good news. You report the crime and find
out that there are hate crime laws in place
in your state. With the video as evidence,
      your attackers are prosecuted.

                CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




          IGNORE IT
 Tough choice. You keep quiet about the
attack, and so far no one else has harassed
 you about your appearance or sexuality.

                CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




          IGNORE IT
 Tough choice. You keep quiet about the
attack, and so far no one else has harassed
 you about your appearance or sexuality.

                CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW...




All but five states (Arkansas, Georgia, Indiana, South Carolina and Wyoming) have laws addressing a variety of hate crimes, but there
is variation in the list of protected classes.

     States that have a law that addresses hate or bias crimes based on sexual orientation and gender identity (13 states and D.C.)

     States that have a law that addresses hate or bias crimes based only on sexual orientation (18 states)

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CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW...




All but five states (Arkansas, Georgia, Indiana, South Carolina and Wyoming) have laws addressing a variety of hate crimes, but there
is variation in the list of protected classes.

     States that have a law that addresses hate or bias crimes based on sexual orientation and gender identity (13 states and D.C.)

     States that have a law that addresses hate or bias crimes based only on sexual orientation (18 states)

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TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What constitutes a hate crime?

 -Should there be different levels of punishment for different
 types of hate crimes (physical, emotional, virtual)?

 -What can you do as a bystander of a hate crime (particularly
 on Facebook and other social media sites)?




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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What constitutes a hate crime?

 -Should there be different levels of punishment for different
 types of hate crimes (physical, emotional, virtual)?

 -What can you do as a bystander of a hate crime (particularly
 on Facebook and other social media sites)?




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BONUS!
 fall in love



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     You and your partner have been together for four years.




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You're my best friend and the love of my
life...there's no one else I want to be with.
           Will you marry me?




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                         THE SITCH
For you, there's no question. You want to get married to your partner,
but your state does not recognize any form of same-sex marriage. You
 love where you live, and you both have steady jobs and social lives.




                  STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




               MOVE
 You and your partner are legally wed,
 but you're still looking for a job and a
better place to live. It's also hard to keep
  in touch with many of your friends.


                CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




        STAY WHERE
          YOU ARE
 You and your partner cannot be legally
wed, but you're able to celebrate milestones
 with friends and family nearby. You both
    get to stay put and keep your jobs.



                CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW...




Lesbian and gay couples do not have the freedom to marry (a right of all heterosexual couples) in most U.S. states.

      State issues marriage licenses to same-sex couples (6 states and D.C.)

      Statewide law providing the equivalent of state-level spousal rights to same-sex couples within the state (9 states and D.C.)

      Statewide law providing some statewide spousal rights to same-sex couples within the state (3 states)

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CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW...




Lesbian and gay couples do not have the freedom to marry (a right of all heterosexual couples) in most U.S. states.

      State issues marriage licenses to same-sex couples (6 states and D.C.)

      Statewide law providing the equivalent of state-level spousal rights to same-sex couples within the state (9 states and D.C.)

      Statewide law providing some statewide spousal rights to same-sex couples within the state (3 states)

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TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What are the legal differences between marriage, civil unions,
 and domestic partnerships?

 -Why do some couples choose not to get married?
 Do you agree? Disagree?

 -What are some arguments against same-sex marriage?
 Do you agree? Disagree?


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TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What are the legal differences between marriage, civil unions,
 and domestic partnerships?

 -Why do some couples choose not to get married?
 Do you agree? Disagree?

 -What are some arguments against same-sex marriage?
 Do you agree? Disagree?


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     You have been with your partner for several years and you want
     to start a family.



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     You have been with your partner for several years and you want
     to start a family.



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                     THE SITCH
 You currently live in a state that does not recognize any form of
same-sex parent adoption, but you’re comfortable where you are.



                STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




                     THE SITCH
 You currently live in a state that does not recognize any form of
same-sex parent adoption, but you’re comfortable where you are.



                STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




               MOVE
  Congrats! You are now the parent of
 your first child. Your friends and family
are thrilled and they keep in touch as life
     settles down in your new home.


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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




    STAY WHERE
      YOU ARE
     Unfortunately you and your
partner cannot adopt a child in your
 state. Both of you are heartbroken
 that you can't start a family by law,
      even though you're ready.

             CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




    STAY WHERE
      YOU ARE
     Unfortunately you and your
partner cannot adopt a child in your
 state. Both of you are heartbroken
 that you can't start a family by law,
      even though you're ready.

             CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW...




Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. A Joint Adoption involves a couple adopting a child from the child’s biological
parent(s) or adopting a child who is in the custody of the state. In many states it is unclear whether a same-sex couple would be permitted to file
a joint petition to adopt.

      States where same-sex couples can jointly petition to adopt statewide (18 states and D.C.)

      States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned to adopt in some jurisdictions (2 states)

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CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW...




Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. A Joint Adoption involves a couple adopting a child from the child’s biological
parent(s) or adopting a child who is in the custody of the state. In many states it is unclear whether a same-sex couple would be permitted to file
a joint petition to adopt.

      States where same-sex couples can jointly petition to adopt statewide (18 states and D.C.)

      States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned to adopt in some jurisdictions (2 states)

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CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW...




Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. A Joint Adoption involves a couple adopting a child from the child’s biological
parent(s) or adopting a child who is in the custody of the state. In many states it is unclear whether a same-sex couple would be permitted to file
a joint petition to adopt.

      States where same-sex couples can jointly petition to adopt statewide (18 states and D.C.)

      States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned to adopt in some jurisdictions (2 states)

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DID YOU KNOW (PT. 2)




 Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. In some states, a person can petition to adopt the child of his or her partner.
 These are usually called Second-Parent or Stepparent Adoptions.

       States where second-parent adoption is an option for same-sex couples statewide (18 states and D.C.)

       States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned for second-parents adoption in some jurisdictions (8 states)



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DID YOU KNOW (PT. 2)




 Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. In some states, a person can petition to adopt the child of his or her partner.
 These are usually called Second-Parent or Stepparent Adoptions.

       States where second-parent adoption is an option for same-sex couples statewide (18 states and D.C.)

       States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned for second-parents adoption in some jurisdictions (8 states)



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CAN’T HANDLE IT?



DID YOU KNOW (PT. 2)




 Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. In some states, a person can petition to adopt the child of his or her partner.
 These are usually called Second-Parent or Stepparent Adoptions.

       States where second-parent adoption is an option for same-sex couples statewide (18 states and D.C.)

       States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned for second-parents adoption in some jurisdictions (8 states)



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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What is artificial insemination?

 -What is in vitro fertilization?

 -What is a surrogate?

 -Do you know any lesbian or gay couples that have chosen
 to use one of these methods?


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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What is artificial insemination?

 -What is in vitro fertilization?

 -What is a surrogate?

 -Do you know any lesbian or gay couples that have chosen
 to use one of these methods?


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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 -What is artificial insemination?

 -What is in vitro fertilization?

 -What is a surrogate?

 -Do you know any lesbian or gay couples that have chosen
 to use one of these methods?


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     Your partner has been diagnosed with cancer.




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     Your partner has been diagnosed with cancer.




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     Your partner has been diagnosed with cancer.




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                          THE SITCH
   Married or unmarried, the state you now live in does not recognize
same-sex unions and views you and your partner as legal strangers. You
 are not able to make any decisions in your partner’s treatment process.



                   STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




                          THE SITCH
   Married or unmarried, the state you now live in does not recognize
same-sex unions and views you and your partner as legal strangers. You
 are not able to make any decisions in your partner’s treatment process.



                   STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




                          THE SITCH
   Married or unmarried, the state you now live in does not recognize
same-sex unions and views you and your partner as legal strangers. You
 are not able to make any decisions in your partner’s treatment process.



                   STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




         STAY WHERE
           YOU ARE
  Rough. You have no say in your partner’s
well-being, and you can’t go past the waiting
room during checkups and treatment, which
 hurts both of you during this difficult time.



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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




         STAY WHERE
           YOU ARE
  Rough. You have no say in your partner’s
well-being, and you can’t go past the waiting
room during checkups and treatment, which
 hurts both of you during this difficult time.



                 CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




         STAY WHERE
           YOU ARE
  Rough. You have no say in your partner’s
well-being, and you can’t go past the waiting
room during checkups and treatment, which
 hurts both of you during this difficult time.



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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




            MOVE
    Good news. Now you can be
present for your partner’s check-ups,
      treatment, and recovery.


             CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




            MOVE
    Good news. Now you can be
present for your partner’s check-ups,
      treatment, and recovery.


             CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 - What does being a “legal stranger” mean?

 - How would you react if a doctor said you couldn't see
 your partner?




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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 - What does being a “legal stranger” mean?

 - How would you react if a doctor said you couldn't see
 your partner?




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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 - What does being a “legal stranger” mean?

 - How would you react if a doctor said you couldn't see
 your partner?




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CAN’T HANDLE IT?




TALK ABOUT IT:
 - What does being a “legal stranger” mean?

 - How would you react if a doctor said you couldn't see
 your partner?




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CAN’T HANDLE IT?


DID YOU KNOW...




In times of emergency, members of a same-sex couple may be blocked from making important medical decisions with their partner. Sometimes,
hospital policies allow only legally or biologically related family members to visit a patient, preventing unmarried couples from being with each
other, even on their deathbed.

      States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through marriage equality or statewide relationship recognition
      (11 states and D.C.)

      States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through specific provisions as part of a limited
      relationship recognition statute (5 states)

      States extend hospital visitation rights through a designated visitor statute (8 states)                                                    CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?


DID YOU KNOW...




In times of emergency, members of a same-sex couple may be blocked from making important medical decisions with their partner. Sometimes,
hospital policies allow only legally or biologically related family members to visit a patient, preventing unmarried couples from being with each
other, even on their deathbed.

      States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through marriage equality or statewide relationship recognition
      (11 states and D.C.)

      States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through specific provisions as part of a limited
      relationship recognition statute (5 states)

      States extend hospital visitation rights through a designated visitor statute (8 states)                                                    CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?


DID YOU KNOW...




In times of emergency, members of a same-sex couple may be blocked from making important medical decisions with their partner. Sometimes,
hospital policies allow only legally or biologically related family members to visit a patient, preventing unmarried couples from being with each
other, even on their deathbed.

      States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through marriage equality or statewide relationship recognition
      (11 states and D.C.)

      States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through specific provisions as part of a limited
      relationship recognition statute (5 states)

      States extend hospital visitation rights through a designated visitor statute (8 states)                                                    CONTINUE
CAN’T HANDLE IT?


DID YOU KNOW...




In times of emergency, members of a same-sex couple may be blocked from making important medical decisions with their partner. Sometimes,
hospital policies allow only legally or biologically related family members to visit a patient, preventing unmarried couples from being with each
other, even on their deathbed.

      States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through marriage equality or statewide relationship recognition
      (11 states and D.C.)

      States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through specific provisions as part of a limited
      relationship recognition statute (5 states)

      States extend hospital visitation rights through a designated visitor statute (8 states)                                                    CONTINUE
THAT’S THE SITCH!
   It isn’t easy to put yourself in someone else’s shoes.
Being LGBT in the United States and every corner of the
globe is a hard journey. People of every age, background
  and identity deal with these very real issues every day.


                    START OVER
CAN’T HANDLE IT?
   It isn’t easy to put yourself in someone else’s shoes.
Being LGBT in the United States and every corner of the
globe is a hard journey. People of every age, background
  and identity deal with these very real issues every day.


                    START OVER

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  • 1. AN INTERACTIVE DECISION-MAKING GAME ABOUT LGBT RIGHTS IN AMERICA GET STARTED
  • 2. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 15 22 24 26 28 32 55 You are a sophomore in high school, living in a small suburban town. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 3. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH You have a lot of friends in school, but none of them know you’re gay. You want to come out, and you hope that they’ll be considerate and understanding. STAY IN THE CLOSET or COME OUT
  • 4. CAN’T HANDLE IT? COME OUT Phew. Your friends are cool with it. They’re really supportive and tell you that nothing has changed between you. CONTINUE
  • 5. CAN’T HANDLE IT? Hey...I just wanted to say that was really brave of you. I know that coming out is a really difficult thing to do, especially at this school. If you ever need anyone to talk to, just let me know. CONTINUE
  • 7. CAN’T HANDLE IT? STAY IN THE CLOSET Secrets are hard to keep. You struggle to connect with friends without telling them how you really feel. CONTINUE
  • 8. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Many states explicitly address discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of elementary and high school students, though not all are LGBT inclusive. These protections can be in the form of statutory law, regulation or ethical codes of conduct for teachers. States with law that addresses discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of students based on sexual orientation and gender identity (17 states and D.C.) States with law that addresses discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of students based on sexual orientation (2 states) CONTINUE
  • 9. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Many states explicitly address discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of elementary and high school students, though not all are LGBT inclusive. These protections can be in the form of statutory law, regulation or ethical codes of conduct for teachers. States with law that addresses discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of students based on sexual orientation and gender identity (17 states and D.C.) States with law that addresses discrimination, harassment and/or bullying of students based on sexual orientation (2 states) CONTINUE
  • 10. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What are some reasons for staying in the closet while you’re in school? Do you think it affects school life? -What could schools/teachers be doing for preventing bullying other than fight for these laws to be passed? -Are laws useful to prevent bullying? -Have you learned about diversity and acceptance in school? What lessons have been successful? CONTINUE
  • 11. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What are some reasons for staying in the closet while you’re in school? Do you think it affects school life? -What could schools/teachers be doing for preventing bullying other than fight for these laws to be passed? -Are laws useful to prevent bullying? -Have you learned about diversity and acceptance in school? What lessons have been successful? CONTINUE
  • 12. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 15 22 24 26 28 32 55 You’ve graduated college and are planning on moving to a new city. You are finally ready to live on your own and start a life for yourself. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 13. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 15 22 24 26 28 32 55 You’ve graduated college and are planning on moving to a new city. You are finally ready to live on your own and start a life for yourself. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 14. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH You’re looking for apartments, but you’re having some trouble with your broker (the person you've hired to help look). Ever since you brought your partner with you to visit an apartment, your broker has been unhelpful - not answering questions and ignoring important paperwork needed to secure a place. IGNORE IT or TAKE ACTION
  • 15. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH You’re looking for apartments, but you’re having some trouble with your broker (the person you've hired to help look). Ever since you brought your partner with you to visit an apartment, your broker has been unhelpful - not answering questions and ignoring important paperwork needed to secure a place. IGNORE IT or TAKE ACTION
  • 16. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TAKE ACTION No luck. You try to report your broker, but there are no Housing Discrimination laws in place in your state. Now you’ll either have to stick with this broker or find a new one. CONTINUE
  • 17. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TAKE ACTION No luck. You try to report your broker, but there are no Housing Discrimination laws in place in your state. Now you’ll either have to stick with this broker or find a new one. CONTINUE
  • 18. CAN’T HANDLE IT? IGNORE IT You don’t have to go through the trouble of finding a new broker, and as time drags on he eventually finds you an apartment. CONTINUE
  • 19. CAN’T HANDLE IT? BONUS! new apartment CONTINUE
  • 20. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Housing Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that prohibit discrimination in the sale, rental, and financing of dwellings, and in other housing-related transactions, based on race, color, national origin, religion, sex, familial status (including children under the age of 18 living with parents or legal custodians, pregnant women, and people securing custody of children under the age of 18), and handicap (disability). States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.) States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (4 states) CONTINUE
  • 21. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Housing Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that prohibit discrimination in the sale, rental, and financing of dwellings, and in other housing-related transactions, based on race, color, national origin, religion, sex, familial status (including children under the age of 18 living with parents or legal custodians, pregnant women, and people securing custody of children under the age of 18), and handicap (disability). States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.) States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (4 states) CONTINUE
  • 22. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Housing Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that prohibit discrimination in the sale, rental, and financing of dwellings, and in other housing-related transactions, based on race, color, national origin, religion, sex, familial status (including children under the age of 18 living with parents or legal custodians, pregnant women, and people securing custody of children under the age of 18), and handicap (disability). States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.) States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (4 states) CONTINUE
  • 23. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -Have you stood up for yourself in a situation like this? What do you do when you aren't getting the help you deserve? -Have you been in a situation where you knew someone who was homophobic? How have you reacted? CONTINUE
  • 24. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -Have you stood up for yourself in a situation like this? What do you do when you aren't getting the help you deserve? -Have you been in a situation where you knew someone who was homophobic? How have you reacted? CONTINUE
  • 25. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -Have you stood up for yourself in a situation like this? What do you do when you aren't getting the help you deserve? -Have you been in a situation where you knew someone who was homophobic? How have you reacted? CONTINUE
  • 26. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 22 24 26 28 32 55 You have just applied for a great job that you’re really excited about. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 27. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 22 24 26 28 32 55 You have just applied for a great job that you’re really excited about. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 28. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 22 24 26 28 32 55 You have just applied for a great job that you’re really excited about. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 29. CAN’T HANDLE IT? We think you’d be a really great fit for this position. You’re highly qualified and seem very motivated. We look forward to all that you have to bring to the table! CONTINUE
  • 30. CAN’T HANDLE IT? We think you’d be a really great fit for this position. You’re highly qualified and seem very motivated. We look forward to all that you have to bring to the table! CONTINUE
  • 31. CAN’T HANDLE IT? We think you’d be a really great fit for this position. You’re highly qualified and seem very motivated. We look forward to all that you have to bring to the table! CONTINUE
  • 32. CAN’T HANDLE IT? BONUS! new job CONTINUE
  • 33. CAN’T HANDLE IT? BONUS! new job CONTINUE
  • 34. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH You haven’t explicitly come out to your coworkers, but the stares and comments you’ve been receiving at work are seriously taking their toll on your everyday life. IGNORE IT or TAKE ACTION
  • 35. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH You haven’t explicitly come out to your coworkers, but the stares and comments you’ve been receiving at work are seriously taking their toll on your everyday life. IGNORE IT or TAKE ACTION
  • 36. CAN’T HANDLE IT? IGNORE IT Ouch. You continue to endure the harassment. It could get worse, so be careful. CONTINUE
  • 37. CAN’T HANDLE IT? IGNORE IT Ouch. You continue to endure the harassment. It could get worse, so be careful. CONTINUE
  • 38. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TAKE ACTION Too bad. There are no Employment Non-Discrimination laws in place in your state and your boss laughs when you bring up the issue. At least you didn’t get fired... CONTINUE
  • 39. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TAKE ACTION Too bad. There are no Employment Non-Discrimination laws in place in your state and your boss laughs when you bring up the issue. At least you didn’t get fired... CONTINUE
  • 40. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Employment Non-Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that ban discrimination in private employment. States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.) States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (5 states) CONTINUE
  • 41. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Employment Non-Discrimination Laws are statewide statutes that ban discrimination in private employment. States that prohibit housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity (16 states and D.C.) States that prohibit housing discrimination based only on sexual orientation (5 states) CONTINUE
  • 42. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What does it mean to be an “Equal Opportunity Employer”? -What are some situations when you would not come out at work? -What are the different protections for transgender people vs lesbian, gay, and bisexual people in a workplace? CONTINUE
  • 43. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What does it mean to be an “Equal Opportunity Employer”? -What are some situations when you would not come out at work? -What are the different protections for transgender people vs lesbian, gay, and bisexual people in a workplace? CONTINUE
  • 44. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 24 26 28 32 55 You’re living in a new city and have begun to settle into your surroundings. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 45. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 24 26 28 32 55 You’re living in a new city and have begun to settle into your surroundings. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 46. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH As you leave the grocery store, several strangers surround you and verbally and physically attack you for being gay. It turns out that one of the people recorded the video and uploaded it to the Internet where many people have seen it. IGNORE IT or TAKE ACTION
  • 47. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH As you leave the grocery store, several strangers surround you and verbally and physically attack you for being gay. It turns out that one of the people recorded the video and uploaded it to the Internet where many people have seen it. IGNORE IT or TAKE ACTION
  • 48. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TAKE ACTION Good news. You report the crime and find out that there are hate crime laws in place in your state. With the video as evidence, your attackers are prosecuted. CONTINUE
  • 49. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TAKE ACTION Good news. You report the crime and find out that there are hate crime laws in place in your state. With the video as evidence, your attackers are prosecuted. CONTINUE
  • 50. CAN’T HANDLE IT? IGNORE IT Tough choice. You keep quiet about the attack, and so far no one else has harassed you about your appearance or sexuality. CONTINUE
  • 51. CAN’T HANDLE IT? IGNORE IT Tough choice. You keep quiet about the attack, and so far no one else has harassed you about your appearance or sexuality. CONTINUE
  • 52. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... All but five states (Arkansas, Georgia, Indiana, South Carolina and Wyoming) have laws addressing a variety of hate crimes, but there is variation in the list of protected classes. States that have a law that addresses hate or bias crimes based on sexual orientation and gender identity (13 states and D.C.) States that have a law that addresses hate or bias crimes based only on sexual orientation (18 states) CONTINUE
  • 53. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... All but five states (Arkansas, Georgia, Indiana, South Carolina and Wyoming) have laws addressing a variety of hate crimes, but there is variation in the list of protected classes. States that have a law that addresses hate or bias crimes based on sexual orientation and gender identity (13 states and D.C.) States that have a law that addresses hate or bias crimes based only on sexual orientation (18 states) CONTINUE
  • 54. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What constitutes a hate crime? -Should there be different levels of punishment for different types of hate crimes (physical, emotional, virtual)? -What can you do as a bystander of a hate crime (particularly on Facebook and other social media sites)? CONTINUE
  • 55. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What constitutes a hate crime? -Should there be different levels of punishment for different types of hate crimes (physical, emotional, virtual)? -What can you do as a bystander of a hate crime (particularly on Facebook and other social media sites)? CONTINUE
  • 56. CAN’T HANDLE IT? BONUS! fall in love CONTINUE
  • 57. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 26 28 32 55 You and your partner have been together for four years. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 58. CAN’T HANDLE IT? You're my best friend and the love of my life...there's no one else I want to be with. Will you marry me? CONTINUE
  • 59. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH For you, there's no question. You want to get married to your partner, but your state does not recognize any form of same-sex marriage. You love where you live, and you both have steady jobs and social lives. STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
  • 60. CAN’T HANDLE IT? MOVE You and your partner are legally wed, but you're still looking for a job and a better place to live. It's also hard to keep in touch with many of your friends. CONTINUE
  • 61. CAN’T HANDLE IT? STAY WHERE YOU ARE You and your partner cannot be legally wed, but you're able to celebrate milestones with friends and family nearby. You both get to stay put and keep your jobs. CONTINUE
  • 62. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Lesbian and gay couples do not have the freedom to marry (a right of all heterosexual couples) in most U.S. states. State issues marriage licenses to same-sex couples (6 states and D.C.) Statewide law providing the equivalent of state-level spousal rights to same-sex couples within the state (9 states and D.C.) Statewide law providing some statewide spousal rights to same-sex couples within the state (3 states) CONTINUE
  • 63. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Lesbian and gay couples do not have the freedom to marry (a right of all heterosexual couples) in most U.S. states. State issues marriage licenses to same-sex couples (6 states and D.C.) Statewide law providing the equivalent of state-level spousal rights to same-sex couples within the state (9 states and D.C.) Statewide law providing some statewide spousal rights to same-sex couples within the state (3 states) CONTINUE
  • 64. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What are the legal differences between marriage, civil unions, and domestic partnerships? -Why do some couples choose not to get married? Do you agree? Disagree? -What are some arguments against same-sex marriage? Do you agree? Disagree? CONTINUE
  • 65. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What are the legal differences between marriage, civil unions, and domestic partnerships? -Why do some couples choose not to get married? Do you agree? Disagree? -What are some arguments against same-sex marriage? Do you agree? Disagree? CONTINUE
  • 66. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 28 32 55 You have been with your partner for several years and you want to start a family. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 67. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 28 32 55 You have been with your partner for several years and you want to start a family. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 68. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH You currently live in a state that does not recognize any form of same-sex parent adoption, but you’re comfortable where you are. STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
  • 69. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH You currently live in a state that does not recognize any form of same-sex parent adoption, but you’re comfortable where you are. STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
  • 70. CAN’T HANDLE IT? MOVE Congrats! You are now the parent of your first child. Your friends and family are thrilled and they keep in touch as life settles down in your new home. CONTINUE
  • 71. CAN’T HANDLE IT? STAY WHERE YOU ARE Unfortunately you and your partner cannot adopt a child in your state. Both of you are heartbroken that you can't start a family by law, even though you're ready. CONTINUE
  • 72. CAN’T HANDLE IT? STAY WHERE YOU ARE Unfortunately you and your partner cannot adopt a child in your state. Both of you are heartbroken that you can't start a family by law, even though you're ready. CONTINUE
  • 73. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. A Joint Adoption involves a couple adopting a child from the child’s biological parent(s) or adopting a child who is in the custody of the state. In many states it is unclear whether a same-sex couple would be permitted to file a joint petition to adopt. States where same-sex couples can jointly petition to adopt statewide (18 states and D.C.) States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned to adopt in some jurisdictions (2 states) CONTINUE
  • 74. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. A Joint Adoption involves a couple adopting a child from the child’s biological parent(s) or adopting a child who is in the custody of the state. In many states it is unclear whether a same-sex couple would be permitted to file a joint petition to adopt. States where same-sex couples can jointly petition to adopt statewide (18 states and D.C.) States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned to adopt in some jurisdictions (2 states) CONTINUE
  • 75. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. A Joint Adoption involves a couple adopting a child from the child’s biological parent(s) or adopting a child who is in the custody of the state. In many states it is unclear whether a same-sex couple would be permitted to file a joint petition to adopt. States where same-sex couples can jointly petition to adopt statewide (18 states and D.C.) States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned to adopt in some jurisdictions (2 states) CONTINUE
  • 76. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW (PT. 2) Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. In some states, a person can petition to adopt the child of his or her partner. These are usually called Second-Parent or Stepparent Adoptions. States where second-parent adoption is an option for same-sex couples statewide (18 states and D.C.) States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned for second-parents adoption in some jurisdictions (8 states) CONTINUE
  • 77. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW (PT. 2) Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. In some states, a person can petition to adopt the child of his or her partner. These are usually called Second-Parent or Stepparent Adoptions. States where second-parent adoption is an option for same-sex couples statewide (18 states and D.C.) States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned for second-parents adoption in some jurisdictions (8 states) CONTINUE
  • 78. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW (PT. 2) Each state has its own laws governing adoption that vary widely. In some states, a person can petition to adopt the child of his or her partner. These are usually called Second-Parent or Stepparent Adoptions. States where second-parent adoption is an option for same-sex couples statewide (18 states and D.C.) States where same-sex couples have successfully petitioned for second-parents adoption in some jurisdictions (8 states) CONTINUE
  • 79. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What is artificial insemination? -What is in vitro fertilization? -What is a surrogate? -Do you know any lesbian or gay couples that have chosen to use one of these methods? CONTINUE
  • 80. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What is artificial insemination? -What is in vitro fertilization? -What is a surrogate? -Do you know any lesbian or gay couples that have chosen to use one of these methods? CONTINUE
  • 81. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: -What is artificial insemination? -What is in vitro fertilization? -What is a surrogate? -Do you know any lesbian or gay couples that have chosen to use one of these methods? CONTINUE
  • 82. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 32 55 Your partner has been diagnosed with cancer. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 83. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 32 55 Your partner has been diagnosed with cancer. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 84. CAN’T HANDLE IT? 32 55 Your partner has been diagnosed with cancer. 55 32 28 26 24 GO 22 15
  • 85. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH Married or unmarried, the state you now live in does not recognize same-sex unions and views you and your partner as legal strangers. You are not able to make any decisions in your partner’s treatment process. STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
  • 86. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH Married or unmarried, the state you now live in does not recognize same-sex unions and views you and your partner as legal strangers. You are not able to make any decisions in your partner’s treatment process. STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
  • 87. CAN’T HANDLE IT? THE SITCH Married or unmarried, the state you now live in does not recognize same-sex unions and views you and your partner as legal strangers. You are not able to make any decisions in your partner’s treatment process. STAY WHERE YOU ARE or MOVE
  • 88. CAN’T HANDLE IT? STAY WHERE YOU ARE Rough. You have no say in your partner’s well-being, and you can’t go past the waiting room during checkups and treatment, which hurts both of you during this difficult time. CONTINUE
  • 89. CAN’T HANDLE IT? STAY WHERE YOU ARE Rough. You have no say in your partner’s well-being, and you can’t go past the waiting room during checkups and treatment, which hurts both of you during this difficult time. CONTINUE
  • 90. CAN’T HANDLE IT? STAY WHERE YOU ARE Rough. You have no say in your partner’s well-being, and you can’t go past the waiting room during checkups and treatment, which hurts both of you during this difficult time. CONTINUE
  • 91. CAN’T HANDLE IT? MOVE Good news. Now you can be present for your partner’s check-ups, treatment, and recovery. CONTINUE
  • 92. CAN’T HANDLE IT? MOVE Good news. Now you can be present for your partner’s check-ups, treatment, and recovery. CONTINUE
  • 93. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: - What does being a “legal stranger” mean? - How would you react if a doctor said you couldn't see your partner? CONTINUE
  • 94. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: - What does being a “legal stranger” mean? - How would you react if a doctor said you couldn't see your partner? CONTINUE
  • 95. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: - What does being a “legal stranger” mean? - How would you react if a doctor said you couldn't see your partner? CONTINUE
  • 96. CAN’T HANDLE IT? TALK ABOUT IT: - What does being a “legal stranger” mean? - How would you react if a doctor said you couldn't see your partner? CONTINUE
  • 97. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... In times of emergency, members of a same-sex couple may be blocked from making important medical decisions with their partner. Sometimes, hospital policies allow only legally or biologically related family members to visit a patient, preventing unmarried couples from being with each other, even on their deathbed. States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through marriage equality or statewide relationship recognition (11 states and D.C.) States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through specific provisions as part of a limited relationship recognition statute (5 states) States extend hospital visitation rights through a designated visitor statute (8 states) CONTINUE
  • 98. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... In times of emergency, members of a same-sex couple may be blocked from making important medical decisions with their partner. Sometimes, hospital policies allow only legally or biologically related family members to visit a patient, preventing unmarried couples from being with each other, even on their deathbed. States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through marriage equality or statewide relationship recognition (11 states and D.C.) States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through specific provisions as part of a limited relationship recognition statute (5 states) States extend hospital visitation rights through a designated visitor statute (8 states) CONTINUE
  • 99. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... In times of emergency, members of a same-sex couple may be blocked from making important medical decisions with their partner. Sometimes, hospital policies allow only legally or biologically related family members to visit a patient, preventing unmarried couples from being with each other, even on their deathbed. States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through marriage equality or statewide relationship recognition (11 states and D.C.) States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through specific provisions as part of a limited relationship recognition statute (5 states) States extend hospital visitation rights through a designated visitor statute (8 states) CONTINUE
  • 100. CAN’T HANDLE IT? DID YOU KNOW... In times of emergency, members of a same-sex couple may be blocked from making important medical decisions with their partner. Sometimes, hospital policies allow only legally or biologically related family members to visit a patient, preventing unmarried couples from being with each other, even on their deathbed. States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through marriage equality or statewide relationship recognition (11 states and D.C.) States extending equal hospital visitation rights to same-sex spouses or partners through specific provisions as part of a limited relationship recognition statute (5 states) States extend hospital visitation rights through a designated visitor statute (8 states) CONTINUE
  • 101. THAT’S THE SITCH! It isn’t easy to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. Being LGBT in the United States and every corner of the globe is a hard journey. People of every age, background and identity deal with these very real issues every day. START OVER
  • 102. CAN’T HANDLE IT? It isn’t easy to put yourself in someone else’s shoes. Being LGBT in the United States and every corner of the globe is a hard journey. People of every age, background and identity deal with these very real issues every day. START OVER