1. How Not to Cock Block Yourself
Doing the opposite of your instincts

2. So you had a great date!
 Chances are she doesn’t think things went as well as
you did.
 Remember everyone has an opinion, that one’s yours.
 If the date actually was great you’ve got lots more
opportunities to fuck it up now!
 Chances are your instincts are telling you to do all the
wrong things right this minute.
Warning: Don’t let your dick think for you right now!

3. Follow the Flow
Did she Did she
actively Yes ask Yes
listen? questions?
Did you
No ask
questions?
Did she touch
You her hair, arm,
bombed, send a Yes Yes
leg, etc.
text saying frequently?
thanks (See slide
4) and leave it
be.
You didn’t bomb, congrats to you! Don’t get too excited you
can derail it from here.

4. What Now?
Don’t: Do whatever you are thinking about
Do: Send the following text (stick to the script)
I had a great time
tonight, thanks.
Hope to do it again
sometime.
Don’t: send any more messages until you receive an
answer. Assume no reply = never will
Warning: Don’t be a desperate stalker

5. Some Key Don‘ts
Don’t:
 Invite her to events months in advance when you’ve been
dating for a week
 Express your love, write poetry, send flowers after the 1st or 2nd
date
 Send repeated texts when you receive no response. No
response = no interest
 Be a prick if she’s not interested, chances are it’s not her it’s you
 Send her your head shots to “show her what she’s missing”
 Forget your texts/emails/voicemails will be a permanent joke
between her, her friends, her family and her future boyfriends