with End in
H1: Be Proactive
Don’t Be reactive
Be responsible for your life.
Don't blame genetics, circumstances, conditions
Make Choices from Values Not Temporary or Immediate
Your life doesn't just “HAPPEN”. Whether you know it or not, it is carefully designed by you.
The choices, after all, are yours.
H2. Begins with End in MIND
To begin with the end in mind means:
• to start with a clear understanding of your destination.
• to know where you’re going.
• understand where you are now.
……. so that the steps you takes are always in the right direction.
H2. Begins with End in MIND
Identify your vision.
Discover a personal mission
Support it with chosen roles and goals
Establish personal values that will guide proactivity
Visualize and create a mental image of what you want to create physically
The law of the farm: You reap what you sow
H3:Put First Things First
This is about life management as
well- for your
Operate every day from priorities established in your vision, mission,
roles, and goals.
Translate your mission into specific daily activities.
Create optimal value from your time.
Last Minute Change
Dealing with late Input
Forcing decision and Closure
Low Value but required
Non Project Emergencies
High Quality Output
Self Indulgent Perfectionism
H4 : Win-Win
See life as a cooperative arena, not a
A frame of mind and heart that
constantly seeks mutual benefit.
Agreements or solutions are mutually
beneficial and satisfying.
All get to eat the pie, and it tastes
WIN-LOOSE: other person get the hard feelings
LOOSE-WIN: You gets the hard feeling
LOOSE-LOOSE: Never Pays
WIN-WIN: Emotional Bank Account
When do we need to “Think Win-Win?”
When we are playing sports, games, etc.
When we need to work as a group
When we need to address problems in our relationships
We need win-win for most of our human interactions.
H5:Seek First to Understand
Seek First to Understand
Being genuinely interested in
seeking another person’s
point of view
Attitude of openness
Skill of empathetic listening.
listen with the intent to reply
want to do
Synergy is the combined action that occurs
when people work together to create new
alternatives and solutions. The essence of
synergy is to value and respect differences
Valuing differences is what really drives synergy.
Give truly value the mental, emotional, and psychological differences among the people.
H7:Sharpen The Saw
Sharpen the Saw means preserving and enhancing the greatest asset you
have in you. It means having a balanced program for self-renewal in the
four areas of your life: physical, social/emotional, mental, and spiritual.
battle of good versus evil
(atheism, Christianity, Hinduism,
family, friends, service
(notes, phone calls, emails, visits)
reading, journaling, discussing,
endurance, strength, flexibility,