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  1. 1. ==== ====For Great Dating Tips Check This Out: ====The following 21 dating tips for men are based on research and personal experience. Most ofthem are exclusive to men and not applicable for use by women, although they may benefit byreading them. The same is true of the ones for women; men may benefit by reading them as well.Dating Tips for Men #1: Ask her for a date like a man. Pick the day before you call. If she tells youthat its not a good day, do not negotiate unless she offers a specific alternative that fits into YOURplan. If she doesnt offer a specific alternative (This would NOT include, "Call me next week."), sayto her, "Perhaps some other time." Thats it! If she is interested, she will re-arrange her schedule.Think it over for a week or more and if you feel in your gut that you should give it second try, go forit. If not, move on! Dating Tips for Men #2: Make dates in advance. Ask her to go out with you well in advance of theactual date. 1-2 weeks is good at the beginning. This strategy gives you time to makearrangements for your date and it also creates romantic anticipation. Dating Tips for Men #3: Have it all planned. Have the entire date planned, scheduled, andreserved before you pick her up. Not only will she be impressed by your organization, but youllalso have a better time. Dating Tips for Men #4: Invest your time and money wisely. There is no sense investing a lot ofyour time or money until you determine if you like each other. Most women will only becomeuncomfortable, or perceive you as being foolish, if you spend a months pay on the first date.Dating Tips for Men #5: Use a progressive dating strategy. Start with inexpensive dates during theweek and work your way up to more expensive dates on the weekends. Dating Tips for Men #6: Timeliness is classiness. Be on time to pick up your date. This does NOTmean getting there early. Many women, and men, schedule their preparations for going out downto the last minute. If you are running late by more then 10 minutes, call and let her know when toexpect you. Dating Tips for Men #7: Being yourself is your best act. Dont try to impress your date with yourmoney, your position, your car, or your body measurements. Using these things to win a womanover will only attract those with superficial intentions. Win them over by showing them the qualitiesyou have inside by simply being yourself.Dating Tips for Men #8: Be like a movie star. Almost all of the male movie stars who attract an
  2. 2. abundance of women on and off the screen have exquisite manners. Women love being treatedlike ladies. You see these men opening a door for her, letting her walk into a room first, andhelping her with a chair. I once witnessed two (2) young army combat veterans instantly stand upwhen a poor, unattractive teenage girl entered the room. They had no obligation or incentivewhatsoever to respond as they did. It was beautiful! Dating Tips for Men #9: Keep your eyes on the ball. Do not check out other women. Even whendone on the sly, women will pick it up. Nothing is more classy and warrior-like than a man whokeeps his attention on the woman hes with regardless of who she is. Dating Tips for Men #10: Cleanliness is coolness personified. Be sure that all areas of your bodyare clean and fresh. This includes your hair, ears, body, and especially your teeth. Bad breath,which is often caused by a dental or periodontal problem, is usually not noticeable by the personwho has it. Nothing is more of a turn off than bad breath. If you havent had your teeth cleaned inthe last six months, get it done! Dating Tips for Men #11: Hold your flattery. Save your compliments about her beauty for the righttime. Although you might be intoxicated by her beauty, do not reveal the full extent of your feelingson your first few dates. Save that for the right moment several dates down the road. Just say, "Youlook very nice this evening." and leave it at that. In regard to sexual innuendoes, they have noplace during the early stages of dating. Dating Tips for Men #12: Put it in your autobiography. Dont tell her your whole life story and allyour secrets right away. In fact, always try to maintain some degree of anonymity in some area ofyour personality or life, as it naturally provokes more excitement. Mystery is a mental aphrodisiac! Dating Tips for Men #13: One night to stand. Do not expect to have sex on your first date.Consider these scenarios: If you do have long-term interest in a particular woman and your mainfocus is sex on the first date, her opinion of you will be lowered. If you do NOT have any long-terminterest in a particular woman and she willingly has sex with you on the first date, she hasprobably done it before! Maybe several times, maybe hundreds of times! Having sex with awoman like this GREATLY increases the chances of you contracting a sexually transmitteddisease (STD). Heres my advice: Take the pressure off yourself and dont expect sex on the firstdate. This will enable you to more clearly evaluate the person and youll have a better time. Dating Tips for Men #14: Sex without full mutual agreement is rape. Do not pressure a woman tohave sex. Regardless of how you feel about a particular woman, it is inappropriate to pressure awoman to have sex at anytime. Dating Tips for Men #15: Patience equals unimaginable pleasure.. Do not rush a woman to havesex. If youre really interested in a long-term relationship with a particular woman, do NOT rush herto have sex with you based on any kind of "timetable." If you want to have the BEST sexualexperience of your life, become best friends FIRST and then have sex. I assure you, it is worth thewait! Dating Tips for Men #16: Romance is the key to receiving a womans best. Women loveromance! They need it in order to feel complete. It literally fulfills a part of their sexual needs. Itswhat they require for true satisfaction. So, include romance into your dating plans.
  3. 3. Dating Tips for Men #17: Be a creative romantic. The traditional methods for creating romanceremain unchanged. These include buying her flowers, candy, jewelry, perfume, and romanticmusic; sending her love letters and notes; taking her to dinner at unique restaurants; taking herdancing at nightclubs; and taking her to movies, operas, or plays that depict a love story. The keyto having the outcome that you want, however, is to come up with your own unique twists to theseancient practices. In other words, be CREATIVE! Dating Tips for Men #18: Keep your grip. Do not get lazy about your relationship or you might geta letter from her one day that says, "Goodbye." Keep yourself looking your best. Keep therelationship alive by continually telling her and showing her how much you care. And dont everforget to do something for her birthday and any other holidays that are important to her. Dating Tips for Men #19: Warriors goodnight kiss. Dont liger after the goodnight kiss at thebeginning of your dating activity with a particular person. Kiss her once to the duration that feelsright. Then say good night, turn, and walk away. Do not linger, talk more, try to kiss her again, orask her for another date! This practice creates the mystery/romance that women love andprevents you from getting catch up by the heat of the moment and acting like a fool. Take a deepbreath and go home. Take a few days to think things over. Is she right for you? Do you want tosee her again or move on? Its a lot easier to move on at the beginning than down the road. Dating Tips for Men #20: Trust your gut. Do not continue to date a woman if you know shes notright for you. Dont keep her around until you find someone better. Thats not fair to her or you.Dont waste your time. Do whats right. Have the courage to move on! Dating Tips for Men #21: Smart moves pay lifetime dividends. No matter how truthful, safe, andhealthy your partner/friend seems, make certain that an adequate birth control method is beingused, and that you both get tested for sexually transmitted diseases (STD) BEFORE your firstsexual encounter. If you dont have medical insurance to cover these expenses, most local healthdepartments offer birth control counseling and STD testing for free or at a nominal fee. One badchoice in this area can instantly ruin your life forever!I wish you much dating and relationship success!==== ====
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