be
GROUCHY!!!but…
DO YOU GET GROUCHY? DO YOU
SNAP AT PEOPLE?
HEY LISTEN, IT’S OK TO
ANSWER YES
IT IS COMPLETELY FINE. EVERYONE GETS
GROUCHY. IT’S NATURAL. IT IS
PROBABLY A BIOLOGICAL &
PSYCHOLOGICAL NECESSITY
SO, GO AHEAD. BE GROUCHY IF YOU NEED
TO BE.
HOWEVER
DON’T BE NAÏVE. KNOW
THAT YOUR GROUCHINESS
HAS IMPLICATIONS
WHEN YOU’RE GROUCHY, YOU EMANATE
NEGATIVE ENERGY - WITH WORDS, BODY
LANGUAGE, PHEROMONES, FACIAL
EXPRESSIONS
IF YOU’RE LUCKY,
THIS NEGATIVE
ENERGY
DISSIPATES
BECAUSE THOSE
EXPOSED HAVE
MECHANISMS TO
DISPERSE IT
OTHER TIMES, THE GROUCHINESS IS SHARED
LESS DESTRUCTIVELY – LIKE A BITCH FEST
ABOUT A COMMON CO-WORKER
HOWEVER, MOST OF THE TIME, YOUR NEGATIVE
ENERGY HAS VICTIMS - EMPLOYEES,
COWORKERS, FAMILY MEMBERS, FRIENDS,
STRANGERS, OR...
SOMETIMES YOUR GROUCHINESS ACTUALLY
HURTS THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU
OTHER TIMES IT INFECTS THEM WITH THEIR
OWN GROUCHINESS
IT HAS HAPPENED TO YOU. SO YOU KNOW
WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT
SO HERE’S MY
ADVICE
WHEN YOU ARE GROUCHY, BE GROUCHY. I’M
NOT TELLING YOU TO, “STOP BEING GROUCHY.”
THAT’S NOT POSSIBLE.
HOWEVER
ACCEPT THAT YOU HAVE RESPONSIBILITIES
FIRST, YOU HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO
RECOGNIZE THAT YOU ARE GROUCHY
ONCE YOU RECOGNIZE
THAT YOU’RE IN A
FOUL MOOD, YOU
HAVE THE
RESPONSIBILITY TO
TRY TO STAY AWAY
FROM OTHERS, OR AT
LEAST DI...
FINALLY, WHEN YOU CAN’T PROTECT OTHERS,
YOU HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO APOLOGISE
ONCE YOU REGAIN COMPOSURE
APOLOGISE WHETHER OR NOT THEY WERE HURT,
BECAUSE PEOPLE MAY NOT TELL YOU & BECAUSE
BEING GROUCHY IS BAD MANNERS
BETTER YET, IF YOU ARE GROUCHY AND YOU KNOW IT,
ACKNOWLEDGE IT. “I’M JUST SO GROUCHY TODAY!
SORRY IN ADVANCE”. THAT, IN IT...
SO…
BE
GROUCHY,
BUT…
SHARE THIS
DECK &
FOLLOW ME(please-oh-please-oh-please-oh-please)
stay up to date with my future
slideshare posts
http://w...
CLICK HERE FOR MORE!!!!
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Be grouchy, but...

  1. be GROUCHY!!!but…
  2. DO YOU GET GROUCHY? DO YOU SNAP AT PEOPLE?
  3. HEY LISTEN, IT’S OK TO ANSWER YES
  4. IT IS COMPLETELY FINE. EVERYONE GETS GROUCHY. IT’S NATURAL. IT IS PROBABLY A BIOLOGICAL & PSYCHOLOGICAL NECESSITY
  5. SO, GO AHEAD. BE GROUCHY IF YOU NEED TO BE.
  6. HOWEVER
  7. DON’T BE NAÏVE. KNOW THAT YOUR GROUCHINESS HAS IMPLICATIONS
  8. WHEN YOU’RE GROUCHY, YOU EMANATE NEGATIVE ENERGY - WITH WORDS, BODY LANGUAGE, PHEROMONES, FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
  9. IF YOU’RE LUCKY, THIS NEGATIVE ENERGY DISSIPATES BECAUSE THOSE EXPOSED HAVE MECHANISMS TO DISPERSE IT
  10. OTHER TIMES, THE GROUCHINESS IS SHARED LESS DESTRUCTIVELY – LIKE A BITCH FEST ABOUT A COMMON CO-WORKER
  11. HOWEVER, MOST OF THE TIME, YOUR NEGATIVE ENERGY HAS VICTIMS - EMPLOYEES, COWORKERS, FAMILY MEMBERS, FRIENDS, STRANGERS, OR EVEN SMALL ANIMALS.
  12. SOMETIMES YOUR GROUCHINESS ACTUALLY HURTS THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU
  13. OTHER TIMES IT INFECTS THEM WITH THEIR OWN GROUCHINESS
  14. IT HAS HAPPENED TO YOU. SO YOU KNOW WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT
  15. SO HERE’S MY ADVICE
  16. WHEN YOU ARE GROUCHY, BE GROUCHY. I’M NOT TELLING YOU TO, “STOP BEING GROUCHY.” THAT’S NOT POSSIBLE.
  17. HOWEVER
  18. ACCEPT THAT YOU HAVE RESPONSIBILITIES
  19. FIRST, YOU HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO RECOGNIZE THAT YOU ARE GROUCHY
  20. ONCE YOU RECOGNIZE THAT YOU’RE IN A FOUL MOOD, YOU HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO TRY TO STAY AWAY FROM OTHERS, OR AT LEAST DISSIPATE THE GROUCHY ENERGY ON SOMETHING INANIMATE
  21. FINALLY, WHEN YOU CAN’T PROTECT OTHERS, YOU HAVE THE RESPONSIBILITY TO APOLOGISE ONCE YOU REGAIN COMPOSURE
  22. APOLOGISE WHETHER OR NOT THEY WERE HURT, BECAUSE PEOPLE MAY NOT TELL YOU & BECAUSE BEING GROUCHY IS BAD MANNERS
  23. BETTER YET, IF YOU ARE GROUCHY AND YOU KNOW IT, ACKNOWLEDGE IT. “I’M JUST SO GROUCHY TODAY! SORRY IN ADVANCE”. THAT, IN ITSELF, MAY HELP.
  24. SO…
  25. BE GROUCHY, BUT…
  26. SHARE THIS DECK & FOLLOW ME(please-oh-please-oh-please-oh-please) stay up to date with my future slideshare posts http://www.slideshare.net/selenasol/presentations https://twitter.com/eric_tachibana http://www.linkedin.com/pub/eric-tachibana/0/33/b53
  27. CLICK HERE FOR MORE!!!!
  28. CREATIVE COMMONS ATTRIBUTIONS & REFERENCES Title Slide: https://www.flickr.com/photos/shandilee/ Slide 2: https://www.flickr.com/photos/mtsofan/ Slide 3: https://www.flickr.com/photos/paperpariah/ Slide 4: https://www.flickr.com/photos/issin/ Slide 5: https://www.flickr.com/photos/nowovyr/ Slide 7: https://www.flickr.com/photos/beckstei/ Slide 8: https://www.flickr.com/photos/foundanimalsfoundation/ Slide 9: https://www.flickr.com/photos/jdhancock/ Slide 10: https://www.flickr.com/photos/neilmoralee/ Slide 11: https://www.flickr.com/photos/allenthepostman/ Slide 12: https://www.flickr.com/photos/mnedermeijer/ Slide 13: https://www.flickr.com/photos/robbie73/ Slide 14: https://www.flickr.com/photos/ochre_jelly/ Slide 16: https://www.flickr.com/photos/jelles/ Slide 18: https://www.flickr.com/photos/sandeepachetan/ Slide 19: https://www.flickr.com/photos/25228175@N08/ Slide 20: https://www.flickr.com/photos/76377775@N05/ Slide 21: https://www.flickr.com/photos/flyzipper/ Slide 22: https://www.flickr.com/photos/25792994@N04/ Slide 23: https://www.flickr.com/photos/abhiomkar/ This Slide: https://www.flickr.com/photos/21572939@N03/

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