2. Why is communication
important?
• It’s what we humans do.
• Communications makes us human
• In the process of management,
we communicate when:
• We plan
• We organize
• We control
• We lead
4. What is Communication
• A process of acting on Information
• An action process
• Information is transferred
• Interactive
• Includes feedback within a context
• Noise
• Transactive
• Simultaneous interaction
• Complex process
• Verbal and Non Verbal interaction
8. Myths about Listening
• Related to Intelligence
• Cannot be learned
• Listening is the same as hearing
• Speaker is responsible for
communication
• Means agreeing
9. Listening on Three Levels
• Hearing
• Involves receiving, translating and
understanding the message
• Involves translating non verbal cues to
comprehend the message as intended
• Analyzing
• Hearing is included
• Inferring the intent of the speaker-what did
he really mean-and the context in which
communication is taking place.
• Confirming responses and asking questions
helps with this
10. Empathizing
• Includes hearing and analyzing
• Gets at the emotional content of
the message
• Seeing the world through the eyes of
the other person
• Emotional Relationships breed trust
11. Barriers to Effective
Listening
• Anything at all that distracts
• Prejudging - I know what he’s
going to say-mind goes on
vacation
• Rehearsing - As soon as he
stops talking this is what I’ll
say.
12. Active Listening
Involves
• Stop what you are doing
• Look for the non verbal cues that
identify feelings
• Match verbal and non verbal cues to
decipher content and emotion
• Ask confirming questions
• Paraphrase content to insure you
understand
• Paraphrase feelings to understand
what is being felt
13. Language and Words
• One of the things that make us
human
• Ability to create our world
• Tools by which people make sense
of other people’s world
• Act as boundaries to group
communications - double filters
• Affecting group climate
• Make people defensive
• Shift attention towards personal goal of
protection and away from the group
goal, reducing productivity
15. Importance of non verbal
communications
• We communicate non verbally ---
like it or not!
• Emotions and feeling generally
are communicated non verbally.
• Non verbal communication is
more believable.
16. Frequency of Non Verbal
Communication
• 7% of the emotional meaning of
a message is verbal
• People use non-verbal
communication far more than
verbal
• Exercise on Page 157
19. Non Verbal
Communication
• Kinesic Behavior-Functional
• Body Postures, movements, eye
contact, facial expressions
• Paralinguistic Qualities-
Functional
• Vocal tone e.g. pitch, volume,rate,
intonation, use of silence
• Proxemic Behavior-Structural
• Spatial and distance orientations
20. Kinesic Behavior-
Functional
• Emblems – gestures that replace spoken messages
• Shhh
• Hitch hikers thumb
• Check your watch
• Illustrators – add meaning to verbal communication
• Pound the desk for emphasis
• Affect Display – demonstrates feelings
• Slouch means bored
• Regulators
• Eye contact, facial expression, raised hand that
regulates the flow of the conversation. Can I talk
now?
• Self Adapters
• Nervous habits that help adapt to environment.-
holding a pencil
21. Communicating with
your eyes
• Performs four functions in
communications
• Cognitive – look away to clear
thoughts, or keep from being
distracted
• Monitoring – allows modifying
message based on reactions
• Regulatory – open or close
communication gate
• Expressive – helps express
emotions
22. Proximic Behavior
• The way we use space
• Communications are facilitated
when distance is comfortable
23. Proximic Behavior
• Territoriality and Personal Space
• Resident advantage
• space you own-home court advantage
• perform better in your space
• Mark our territory
• Personal Space
• Psychological outline around you
• Expands and contracts to meet social needs
• Four categories that have implications for group behavior
− Intimate Distance (0 to 8 inches)
Body contact and intimate relationship.
− Personal distance (1 ½ to 4 feet) typical interaction for
friends,
− Social distance (4 to 12 feet) out of touch range – used
for casual contact with strangers and business functions
− Public distance (12 feet and beyond) formal encounters,
speeches, platform presentations, classrooms
24. Personal Space varies
culturally and ethnically
• Saudi Arabia, you might find yourself almost nose
to nose with a business associate because their
social space equates to our intimate space.
• If, on the other hand, you were visiting a friend in
the Netherlands, you would find the roles
reversed, you would be doing the chasing because
their personal space equates to our social space.
• Americans tend to pull in our elbows and knees and
try not to touch or even look at one another while
riding the bus.
• In Japan, subway passengers are literally pushed
into the cars until not even one more person will fit.
You cannot help but be pressed against someone
else's sweaty body.
25. Proximic Behavior
• Group Spatial Ecology
• Sociopetal-encourages contact
• Sociofugal-discourages discourse and
communication
• The way people arrange themselves in
small groups
− Leaders and dominent people sit at the
ends of rectangular tables
− Potential leaders are in positions with the
most eye contact
26. Spatial Ecology
• Who you have eye contact with
determines who you talk to
• People who are more centrally
located receive more messages
• You speak to people across
from you
• People who sit at the corners of
a table contribute less
27. Informal
communications
• MBWA
• No formal agenda
• Make friends
• Observe what is going on
• Grapevine
• Links all employees in all
directions
• 70-90% of information is accurate
29. Information Model
• Reduces time to solve problems by making
information universally available and
ubiquitous.
• Allows teams to work at a distance
• Eastman and Mallach
• Mode 0=no sharing of computers
• Mode 1= Stand alone systems, some hardware
sharing
• Mode 2= Management puts information where it
deems it will be needed
• Mode 3= anybody puts anything in the system for
anyone to read and use.
30. Barriers to
Communication
• Individual Barriers
• Prejudging and Rehearsing
• Selecting the wrong channel
• Semantics
• Inconsistent cues – verbal /non
verbal
31. Barriers to
Communication
• Organizational
• Status and power differences
• Organizational Structure