Managing Technology in the Home speaking event at Costa Mesa High School February 2nd, 2016

1. Tues
Feb
2nd
Managing Technology in the Home

2. HELP!

4. Do you think an adult
could be addicted to a
phone or social media
APP?
Question…

6. Do you think a CHILD
could be addicted to a
phone or social media
APP?
Question…

8. Current Statistics
• The AVERAGE teen spends about 4 hours a day online
• 25% have met up in person somebody they met online
• 30% of teens have cheated on a test using a mobile phone
• 35% have hacked into a friends social media account or email
• 40% have accessed pornography online (purposely)
• 75% admit to hiding their online behavior from parents
• Only 40% of kids have parental controls on their computers
Surprised?

9. What in the world
are my kids doing
online?
Current trends in
Tech!

10. Key Terms
Filtering
programs that BLOCK content
specifically, adult content
Monitoring
programs the
record computer
and cell phone
activities

11. Social networking parents =

12. Social networking for kids…

13. Rules for social media use…
• Know the platform
• Know the password
• Know their friends / followers
INTERNET SAFETY RISKS

14. Rules for social media use…
• Always use privacy settings
• Post respectfully - positively
• No Bullying!
• Select photos carefully
INTERNET SAFETY RISKS

15. Current Trend: Fan Following
• Collect followers and likes
• Instagram is the #1
• Kids can get obsessed with these!

16. Followers

17. Followers

18. Social Networking
Facebook and Twitter

19. Pornography
• 1 in 9 websites
online are
pornographic
• Put a filter
program on ANY
computer that your
child will use.

21. Pornography
• The average child accidentally stumbles
onto pornographic website by age 12
• Over 50% 14 year old have accessed
pornography purposefully
• The time for the “new” pornography talk is
BEFORE this happens, not after..

22. Pornography
• Family Computer
• Laptop
• Cell phone
• iPad / Tablet
• Game console
• Friends house
• Put a filter program on ANY device that your
child will use, especially when they are
young.

23. Anonymous Apps
Secret
Whisper
YikYak
Sober

24. Cyber Bullying

25. Cyber Bullying
Rebecca Ann Sedwick
12 Years old.
Died from suicide 8/10/13

26. Cyber Bullying

28. Danger! Beware!
Completely Anonymous

29. Cyber Bullying

30. Sexting
Definition…
Sending of sexually explicit photos
or text through one’s mobile phone
to friends or suitors.

31. Sexting

32. Oct, 2014
10,000 images
Mostly 13-17 year olds
Over 1000 videos
Posted and reposted to 10
sites in less than 24 hours

33. Hook up Apps
Tinder, Blendr, Grindr, Skout, and
Swoon

34. Hook up Apps
Down
Pure

35. We are the first
generation of
parents that
have had to deal
with the new
phenomenon!
Colleges and
employers are
looking!

36. How do I keep my kids
safe from the ever
changing world of
technology!?!

37. Virus – Malware - Phishing

39. The most common problem
Location….Location….Location…

40. Cell phones at night…
Zip Mini
thejoyfactory.com
Keyword: integrity

41. Cell phones at night…
Scott’s low
cost budget
version…..
The iBasket

42. Cell phones at night…

43. Contracts!
• Cell phone contract
• www.iccguru.com/cellphonecontract.doc

44. Passwords

45. Google and YouTube
• Google’s “Safe Search”

46. Google and YouTube
• YouTube’s “Safety Mode”

48. www.safesearchkids.com

49. WebFilter

50. WebFilter

51. WholehouseWebFilter
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

52. Monitoring for the computer
• Email
• Instant Messaging
• Keystrokes
• Screenshots
• Website history
• Searches
• Facebook
• YouTube

53. SetupiOSrestrictions
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

54. iPhone – iPad – iTouch CONTROL

55. CellPhonelocation

56. TextMessageMonitoring

57. AndroidCellPhones
SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY

58. SAFEONLINE
TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
CellPhoneCarriers

59. Scott’s Final Tips
1)Educate yourselves on social media
whenever possible
2)Know the log-ins of all your children's
accounts
3) Remove technology at night
4)Talk about consequences of social
media
5)Put a filter on all internet devices

60. Connect with your KIDS