Help! I'm the parent of a Tech Saavy Teen!

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GATHER with us as Scott Burnett, owner of Integrity Computer Concepts, gives a seminar on how quickly a child online can be tossed into an unsafe situation. Scott has spent years giving Cyber Technology and Internet Safety Seminars, and his work with schools, law enforcement and parents gives him a unique perspective.

About the Author: Scott Burnett is a technology expert with a heart for parents. He and his wife have 4 young children and have been involved with youth ministry at their church for 15 years. Before starting Integrity Computer Concepts in 2006, Scott was leading a cutting edge Technology Team on staff at Saddleback Church. His background in technology, experience with youth ministry and passion for parents have uniquely shaped him to teach about the subject of online safety. Scott speaks to groups all over California when he is not helping parents one on one deal with the challenges that the ever changing world of technology brings.

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Help! I'm the parent of a Tech Saavy Teen!

  1. 1. Help! I’m the parent of a tech-savvy kid! Tech safety for parents facebook.com/iccguru
  2. 2. HELP!!
  3. 3. The Burnetts
  4. 4. Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it”
  5. 5. What are we going to learn today? Session 1 “WHAT” • What kids are doing online • Where technology is going • What to look for Session 2 “HOW” • Practical filters • Monitoring applications • Commonsence rules to put into place at home Q & A
  6. 6. Current Statistics • Teens spend about 5 hours a day online • 15% have met up in person somebody they met online • 17% have hacked into a friends social media account or email • 25% of teens have cheated on a test using a mobile phone • 32% have accessed pornography online (purposely) • Only 50% of kids have parental controls on their computers • 70% of teens hide their online behavior from parents • Parents MUST stay in the know. We can not give up!
  7. 7. Current Statistics
  8. 8. Session 1 What in the world are my kids doing online and HOW do I keep up?
  9. 9. Social Networking
  10. 10. Social Networking 3 Rules for Social Networking • Know the platform • Follow your child • Know their password
  11. 11. Social Networking
  12. 12. Social Networking Instagram • Turn off public sharing • Turn off GPS tagging • Talk about what they are posting • Follow their Instagram feed
  13. 13. Social Networking Facebook and Twitter
  14. 14. Social Networking Vine • 6 seconds of looping video • Owned by Twitter • Easy to post & find porn on Vine
  15. 15. Social Networking Social Media Clean up! •Talk to your child •Google their name •Review all their profiles •Help them remove unused profiles •Don’t forget the blogs…
  16. 16. Pornography • 1 in 9 websites online are pornographic • Put a filter program on ANY computer that your child will use.
  17. 17. Pornography • Family Computer • Laptop • Cell phone • iPad / Tablet • Game console • Friends house • Put a filter program on ANY device that your child will use, especially when they are young.
  18. 18. File Sharing • FrostWire • Shareaza • Vuse • eMule • BitTorrent • Limewire • BitComet • Kazaa • uTorrent • Ares
  19. 19. File Sharing
  20. 20. Anonymity Secret Whisper
  21. 21. Yik Yak • 4 months old (March 2014) • Mostly east coast & Southern CA • 400,000 users • Cross / Twitter and SnapChat • Designed for college students • Completely anonymous • Share with 100 up to 10,000 • a VIRTUAL bathroom wall
  22. 22. Cyber Bullying 1) Ask the tough uncomfortable questions! Ask “What if…” questions. 2) Keep the laptop and cell phone out of the bedroom for as long as possible. 3) Look for the signs of bullying. Depression, excessive sleeping, complains of headaches / stomach aches. 4) Remove apps that are commonly used for bullying. 5) Look at your kids texts. Monitor their apps.
  23. 23. Cyber Bullying
  24. 24. Online Predators
  25. 25. Online Predators Secrecy is the predators greatest weapon Communication is a parents greatest defense.
  26. 26. Online Predators 2 questions predators always ask 1) Where is your computer? 2) Are you alone?
  27. 27. Online Predators Catfishing someone who pretends to be someone they're not using Facebook or other social media to create false identities, particularly to pursue deceptive online romances. Sextortion When a person uses guilt, power, or knowledge of certain secrecy, to force another person into having sex or performing sexual favors.
  28. 28. Cyber Bullying
  29. 29. Cyber Bullying Rebecca Ann Sedwick 12 Years old. Died from suicide 8/10/13
  30. 30. Cyber Bullying
  31. 31. Danger! Beware! Completely Anonymous
  32. 32. Sexting Definition… Sending of sexually explicit photos or text through one’s mobile phone to friends or suitors.
  33. 33. Sexting
  34. 34. Hook up Apps Tinder, Blendr, Grindr, Skout, and Swoon
  35. 35. Hook up Apps Down Pure
  36. 36. We are the first generation of parents that have had to deal with the new phenomenon! Colleges and employers are looking!
  37. 37. Session 2 How do I keep my kids safe from the ever changing world of technology!?!
  38. 38. Virus – Malware - Phishing
  39. 39. Virus – Malware - Phishing KidZui
  40. 40. Passwords
  41. 41. The most common problem Location….Location….Location…
  42. 42. Cell phones at night…
  43. 43. Cell phones at night… Zip Mini thejoyfactory.com Keyword: integrity
  44. 44. Cell phones at night… Scott’s low cost budget version….. The iBasket
  45. 45. Contracts! • Cell phone contract • www.iccguru.com/cellphonecontract.doc • Computer Contract • www.iccguru.com/computercontract.doc
  46. 46. Software you can use to keep your kids safe
  47. 47. Google and YouTube • Google’s “Safe Search”
  48. 48. Google and YouTube • YouTube’s “Safety Mode”
  49. 49. HomeworkHelpers! SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  50. 50. WebFilter SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  51. 51. WebFilter SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY Virtual Parent Software Helps Supervise child's online activities
  52. 52. WholehouseWebFilter SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  53. 53. MonitoringSoftware SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  54. 54. SetupiOSrestrictions SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  55. 55. iPad SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  56. 56. TextMessageMonitoring SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  57. 57. TextMessageMonitoring SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  58. 58. CellPhonelocation SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  59. 59. CellPhoneparentalControl SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY • Set internet usage rules • Disable ALL internet on phone • See list of currently installed apps • See internet usage per app • Weekly reports, emailed • http://curbi.com/c/iccguru
  60. 60. AndroidCellPhones SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY
  61. 61. SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY CellPhoneCarriers
  62. 62. SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY CellPhoneCarriers
  63. 63. SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY CellPhoneCarriers
  64. 64. SAFEONLINE TO KEEP YOUR FAMILY CellPhoneCarriers
  65. 65. Scott’s Final Tips 1)Educate yourselves on social media whenever possible 2)Know the log-ins of all your children's accounts 3)Take away technology at bedtime 4)Talk about consequences of social media 5)Consider some monitoring software
  66. 66. Connect with your KIDS • Facebook / instagram • Texting • Face-Time / Skype • iPad games • Game consoles WITH your kids
  67. 67. Connect with your KIDS

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