Communication
Current Model of Communication <ul><li>We communicate in order to “Survive” or “Fix” </li></ul><ul><li>We make our “Words”...
When communication does not produce desired results <ul><li>Blame others </li></ul><ul><li>Withdraw </li></ul><ul><li>Acce...
In order to Survive or Fix We <ul><li>Protect </li></ul><ul><li>Control </li></ul><ul><li>Avoid </li></ul><ul><li>Defend <...
Point of View <ul><li>My point of View is the Truth </li></ul><ul><li>We remember only that Fits My point of View </li></u...
Context for Conversation <ul><li>Be responsible </li></ul><ul><li>Communicate where you have been inauthentic </li></ul><u...
New Model of Communication <ul><li>Nothing to Fix, Nothing to survive </li></ul><ul><li>Coming from Love and Affinity </li...
Foundation (Pillars) New Model of Communication <ul><li>INTEGRITY </li></ul><ul><li>RESPONSIBILITY </li></ul><ul><li>GENER...
Integrity <ul><li>Words and actions are consistent </li></ul><ul><li>Does not mean No breakdown </li></ul><ul><li>Clean up...
Responsibility <ul><li>Willingness to be a Cause in the matter </li></ul><ul><li>Not discovered or described </li></ul><ul...
Generosity <ul><li>Giving something up when you don’t have to </li></ul><ul><li>Generosity of Spirit </li></ul><ul><li>Gen...
Fundamentals  New Model of Communication <ul><li>Listening from Nothing (Not from Past) </li></ul><ul><li>You are the spac...
Practice Where I Ought to Be <ul><li>Giving things up – Not by sacrifice but by choice </li></ul><ul><li>Acknowledging </l...
Completeness <ul><li>Real communication brings completeness in relationships </li></ul><ul><li>Listening brings completene...
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Communication

  1. 1. Communication
  2. 2. Current Model of Communication <ul><li>We communicate in order to “Survive” or “Fix” </li></ul><ul><li>We make our “Words” fit with the “World” </li></ul><ul><li>3 gears of communication </li></ul><ul><li>- Describe </li></ul><ul><li>- Express </li></ul><ul><li>- Command </li></ul>
  3. 3. When communication does not produce desired results <ul><li>Blame others </li></ul><ul><li>Withdraw </li></ul><ul><li>Accept it as way of Life </li></ul><ul><li>Lack Freedom and Power of Self expression </li></ul>
  4. 4. In order to Survive or Fix We <ul><li>Protect </li></ul><ul><li>Control </li></ul><ul><li>Avoid </li></ul><ul><li>Defend </li></ul><ul><li>Force an outcome </li></ul><ul><li>Manipulate </li></ul><ul><li>Resist </li></ul><ul><li>Convince </li></ul><ul><li>Withhold </li></ul>
  5. 5. Point of View <ul><li>My point of View is the Truth </li></ul><ul><li>We remember only that Fits My point of View </li></ul><ul><li>Great things happen – We forget, </li></ul><ul><li>Painful things – We remember </li></ul><ul><li>We are trapped in “My point of View” </li></ul><ul><li>Real communication Happens when “Your point of View” is AS IMPORTANT as “My Point of View” </li></ul>
  6. 6. Context for Conversation <ul><li>Be responsible </li></ul><ul><li>Communicate where you have been inauthentic </li></ul><ul><li>Essence of Communication is BEING INTENTIONAL – Matter of creation and not reaction </li></ul>
  7. 7. New Model of Communication <ul><li>Nothing to Fix, Nothing to survive </li></ul><ul><li>Coming from Love and Affinity </li></ul><ul><li>Me and World is ONE </li></ul><ul><li>Words Create the World </li></ul><ul><li>The Power of WORDS will “Move the WORLD” </li></ul><ul><li>World exists only in Language </li></ul><ul><li>Dig out your in authenticities </li></ul><ul><li>Communicate to Inspire, Touch and Move others </li></ul>
  8. 8. Foundation (Pillars) New Model of Communication <ul><li>INTEGRITY </li></ul><ul><li>RESPONSIBILITY </li></ul><ul><li>GENEROSITY </li></ul>
  9. 9. Integrity <ul><li>Words and actions are consistent </li></ul><ul><li>Does not mean No breakdown </li></ul><ul><li>Clean up broken promise/s </li></ul><ul><li>Is always Expanding or Contracting </li></ul>
  10. 10. Responsibility <ul><li>Willingness to be a Cause in the matter </li></ul><ul><li>Not discovered or described </li></ul><ul><li>Be cause in having things working in your life </li></ul><ul><li>Listening to what is coming out of your mouth </li></ul><ul><li>Being responsible of the outcome that comes out of conversation for you and others </li></ul>
  11. 11. Generosity <ul><li>Giving something up when you don’t have to </li></ul><ul><li>Generosity of Spirit </li></ul><ul><li>Generosity in Listening </li></ul><ul><li>Space and possibility for communication </li></ul><ul><li>Not earned for no reason </li></ul>
  12. 12. Fundamentals New Model of Communication <ul><li>Listening from Nothing (Not from Past) </li></ul><ul><li>You are the space or possibility for communication </li></ul><ul><li>Possibility of anything and everything </li></ul><ul><li>Listening provides silence – A space in which clearing can happen in communication </li></ul><ul><li>Listening is a Gift – Best gift of Nothing </li></ul>
  13. 13. Practice Where I Ought to Be <ul><li>Giving things up – Not by sacrifice but by choice </li></ul><ul><li>Acknowledging </li></ul><ul><li>Accepting – Different from Tolerating </li></ul><ul><li>Forgiving – Giving up for ever the right </li></ul><ul><li>Being of Service – No sacrifice, complete joy, enjoy giving than receiving </li></ul><ul><li>Dancing in the conversation – No one is leading, let the conversation unfold </li></ul><ul><li>Bringing Everything and Nothing to the conversation – Authenticity try on getting their view/world </li></ul>
  14. 14. Completeness <ul><li>Real communication brings completeness in relationships </li></ul><ul><li>Listening brings completeness in relationships </li></ul><ul><li>To create something we need to start from Nothing </li></ul><ul><li>Get the content of what other person is saying, fully and totally </li></ul><ul><li>Compassion is to getting in other persons World </li></ul><ul><li>Without “Completion” life is about incomplete conversations </li></ul><ul><li>“ Completion” in relationships is 100% your responsibility </li></ul>

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