You failed?You failed?
"You failed? Congratulations! Surprised? People are never successful by birth.
Whomsoever is a Tycoon in their domain has come across innumerable
failures but they never gave up; they overcame those failures! So, did
you fail? Congratulations!!! You are on the right track!"
But really, when we FAIL, what happens? Does the sky fall? Do we lose our homes?
Our shirts? Or worst of all - our pride? And if all these things happen and we're still
finding time to view this presentation, was the outcome really so devastating?
You might believe that failure
is defeat. But it is not so. More
than anything, failure is an
opportunity: the opportunity
to re-evaluate your goals and
your mistakes, to know
and improve yourself.
The most successful people have encountered failure more than
once in their lives, but…
they moved on and turned it to their advantage.
So should you!!!
More often than not, FAILURE is nothing more than a shift in
expectations. You thought you wanted one thing to happen,
but instead you get something else.
Instead of thinking that you hit rock bottom and that there's nothing
you can do, you should see it as an opportunity to reboot your system
of ideas, to change your plan of action, to make a fresh start.
Having failed at something means that your old plan was faulty. So make
a new one! Change your perspective! What went wrong? What can be
changed and what can be adjusted?
You will notice that a lot of your actions were ineffective, a lot of
your priorities were inessential.
Failure means that there's nothing left to hold on to, so you can
become objective. Take advantage of this opportunity.
Having lost everything means that there's nothing left to lose. This is your chance to
be adventurous, to do the things you feared when you still had a job, a relationship,
a plan. Now you're free of responsibilities, so why not dive into the unknown?
One of the ways to start over is to do
the exact opposite of what you used
to do before failing. Whatever it was
that got you into this situation was
wrong, and you don't want to make
the same mistake twice.
But perhaps the best side of failure is
that you won't be afraid of it anymore,
because you've already been there. Next
time you won't be hesitant and doubtful,
because you now know that the worst
that could happen is a new beginning.
"Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed
of an equal or greater benefit." - Napoleon Hill
Happy Accidents are definitely
seeds of great might. They're
those well-disguised gifts that –
if allowed to spawn rather than
spurn - can easily become your
own life's Next Big Thing.
Failure is NOT a thing to be avoided,
but rather, THE golden objective to
pursue, accumulate, tally, gulp, and
experience at every opportunity.
Fail, fail, fail, and fail some more at something (or everything!) you LOVE
to do, and sooner or later you are destined to succeed - whether or not
you're wearing clean underwear.
"Don't be afraid to fail. Don't waste energy trying to cover up failure. Learn
from your failures and go on to the next challenge. IT'S OK TO FAIL!
If you're not failing, you're not growing." - H. Stanley Judd
I like to succeed at everything I do! If there is one thing that I have learned over the
years, it is that failure is NOT fatal. I have also learned that practice does not make
perfect - there is no such thing as perfection - there is only improvement!!!
Rule # 1 : Try, try, and try again.
Rule # 2 : Have fun while you are trying.
Rule # 3 : When you make a mistake - fail at something - go back to rule # 1.
Control your self-talk to be
positive and uplifting – focus
on what you CAN do – rather
than on the fear of 'what
might happen if......".
"In some attempts, it is glorious
even to fail." - Longinus
It is important to take risks. Often, when feeling the fear of trying new things, it is
more about our comfort zone than it is about intelligence. The good news is that
you can stretch your comfort zone and become bigger than that which scares you!
The fear of failure is self-imposed.
That's the good news! It's all in the
way we think about something. So,
change the way you think and then
you change your performance.
May you always have the strength and courage to FAIL MISERABLY
at every opportunity, and may you live on to become one
of the biggest failures the world has ever known!!!!!!
So stand up and face your failure. It is the best part of your experience.
disaster should have to power to stop you. Change your ways, change
your goals, change your friends if you need to, but never stop.
In life is
Thank You Very Much