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COLLAR 101Sadhaka “Mel” Resident   BDSM Specialist Synner’s Haven Club
OUTLINE•   This lecture examines all elements of Collars in BDSM. There will be about 15    minutes of “lecture” followed ...
TYPE OF COLLARS•   Dog Collar - simple, can be bought in a pet store    http://img.hisupplier.com/var/userImages/old/vecky...
COLLARING STAGES•   Statement Collar – casual collars often worn at parties or munches, usually by an    unowned submissiv...
COLLARING CEREMONIES•   A formal ritual, usually in front of friends and family in the BDSM community, where a    dominant...
QUESTIONS•   Types - If you are Dominant, which type of collar did you give or intend to give your    submissive? Why? If ...
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Collar 101

  1. 1. COLLAR 101Sadhaka “Mel” Resident BDSM Specialist Synner’s Haven Club
  2. 2. OUTLINE• This lecture examines all elements of Collars in BDSM. There will be about 15 minutes of “lecture” followed by directed discussion on personal experiences .• Type of Collars• Collaring Stages• Collaring Ceremonies• Variations on Collars• Questions
  3. 3. TYPE OF COLLARS• Dog Collar - simple, can be bought in a pet store http://img.hisupplier.com/var/userImages/old/veckylee/veckylee$612205159.gif• Leather Buckle Collar – like a belt around the neck http://image.dhgate.com/albu_271882045_00/1.0x0.jpg• Fabric Collar – ornate, meant to be showy http://libertinesque-blog.com/wp- content/uploads/2010/06/04-lace-collar-a.jpg• Chain Collar – metal collar, looks like a dog chain http://img0.etsystatic.com/003/0/6014378/il_fullxfull.398557024_e8ji.jpg• Steel Rope – metal collar, one continuous loop http://img0.etsystatic.com/003/0/6014378/il_fullxfull.398557024_e8ji.jpg• Posture Collar – restricts neck movement http://ecx.images- amazon.com/images/I/311AVj25p1L._SL500_SS500_.jpg
  4. 4. COLLARING STAGES• Statement Collar – casual collars often worn at parties or munches, usually by an unowned submissive, more about showing role in community• Collar of Protection – physical collar or piece of jewelry representative of a dominant, used for newer/transitional submissives to protect against harassment and abuse• Collar of Consideration – collar given by dominant to submissive during trial period, usually given for a set period of time, can be revoked• Training Collar – collar given after formal acceptance of D/s relationship, negotiation process evolves during this stage• Formal Collar – collar given usually in formal ceremony, final acceptence of relationship• Slave Collar – special type of formal collar where submissive gives up all rights upon acceptence• Cyber Collar – a virtual collar in a virtual D/s relationship, was common in IRC and chat rooms, 3D worlds follow more traditional collars
  5. 5. COLLARING CEREMONIES• A formal ritual, usually in front of friends and family in the BDSM community, where a dominant presents the collar to the submissive• Compares to a wedding ceremony• Typing “collaring ceremony BDSM” is Google resents plenty of examples - http://www.submissiveguide.com/2011/02/research-page-collaring-and-ceremonies/
  6. 6. QUESTIONS• Types - If you are Dominant, which type of collar did you give or intend to give your submissive? Why? If you are submissive, does the collar feel appropriate or which one would feel appropriate? Why?• Stages – Do you think statement collars have value or have they become too much of a fad? Have you ever been involved in collar of protection as a Dominant or a submissive? What about a training collar? Dominants and submissives - tell us about your formal collar. Do virtual collars have value?• Ceremonies – Tell us about your ceremony or tell us about your ideal ceremony.

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