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Get Your Goals


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Every success story or great accomplishment begins with the first step - Clarifying our purpose/goals/directions. There are stories which enlightened and drive me. Without goals in life, we are just walking around blindly and led by people who can do us good or harm. In order to feel truly happy and fulfilled, we must enjoy the journey to our planned destinations with our loved ones and right people. In the pursuit of our goals, we must not forget about the resources that we already possessed, commit to give our thanks and be in a state of gratitude always.

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Get Your Goals

  1. 1. YOUR GOALS!GET Vision + ActionNobody can stop youfrom achieving your goals, _______except yourself. SuccessRAYMONDTAY
  2. 2. GET YOUR GOALS!Copyright © 2011 Raymond Tay.First Published in July 2011.Published by Raymond Tay (Singapore)Email: raymond@leaderswheel.comBlog: by Angela TayAll rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system,or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording,scanning, or otherwise, without the prior permission of the author.This book is sold subject to the condition that it shall not, by way of trade or otherwise, be lent,resold, hired out or otherwise circulated without the publisher’s prior consent in any form ofbinding or cover other than that in which it is published and without a similar condition includingthis condition being imposed on the subsequent purchaser.Limit of Liability/ Disclaimer of Warranty:While the publisher and author have used their best efforts in preparing this book, they make norepresentations or warranties with respect to the accuracy or completeness of the contents of thisbook and specifically disclaim any implied warranties of merchantability or fitness for aparticular purpose. No warranty may be created or extended by sales representatives or writtensales materials. The advice and strategies contained herein may not be suitable for your situation.You should consult with a professional where appropriate. Neither the publisher nor author shallbe liable for any loss of profit or any other commercial damages, including but not limited tospecial, incidental, consequential, or other damages.Copyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 2
  3. 3. GET YOUR GOALS! WORDS ABOUT GET YOUR GOALS!“I myself find it an excellent reminder on how important that we do set goals to get them. Youhave rightfully made it so easy to achieve them with the examples. Reading this book will putanyone in the right perspective faced by many, if you are not getting your goals. Definitelyworth reading!”MR. THOMAS FERNANDEZChairman & CEO of PestBusters Pte LtdCo-Author of National Bestselling Book, “Secrets To Dominate Your Niche”“From goal-setting to visualisation to action planning, Raymond has summed up the keyprinciples of how anyone can achieve his dream - a crash course for achieving success inlife.”MR. DAVID KOW, ACB, CLRegional Performance Excellence ManagerRicoh Asia Pacific Pte Ltd“Congratulations! It is a good start. It gives me a feel that Raymond have read and tried theseprinciples in his life. It would make good handout to his participants.”DR. GURURAJ BHATSenior ConsultantEnterprise Development Centre @ Singapore Malay Chamber of Commerce & Industry“Raymond has worked very hard in school and in writing this book. Congratulations!”MR. HENG SWEE KEATMinister for Education in SingaporeMember of Parliament for Tampines Group Representation ConstituencyCopyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 3
  4. 4. GET YOUR GOALS! WHAT PARTICIPANTS SAY ABOUT RAYMOND’S GOAL SETTING TRAINING“I am able to make empowering & realistic goals, build greater self-awareness and cultivatediscipline in myself.”~ SAMUEL LOW“They are very enthusiastic, friendly and funny. Everything (videos, stories and games) is veryinteresting. Well done! Thank you!”~ SITI NUR HIDAYAH“I find the talk useful as it helps me to dream of what I want to be when I grow up.”~ ATIKAH“The course is inch perfect and the trainers are very helpful in offering personal advice.”~ KELVIN LEE“Nothing needs to be improved as the talk is rather good.”~ JIANG JING“The passion displayed by the trainers is truly commendable. They are able to build rapportwith the participants and the materials provided are useful.”~ MRS STELLA CHONG“The speakers are lively, friendly and able to relate to the participants very well. The talk isfun and engaging for the participants.”~ Mdm Wu“The presenters are well prepared and had delivered the presentation confidently andeffectively. They had built a good rapport with the participants.”~ Mdm QuekCopyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 4
  5. 5. GET YOUR GOALS! CONTENTSAcknowledgements 61. Taking the First Step: Be Educated 72. Be the Committed Shooter 83. Who Never Fails Before? 94. The Power of Written Goal 105. Ultimate Success Formula 146. If You Believe, You Can! 167. Your Guiding Values 228. Your Vision Board 249. Goals Setting Quiz 2610. Be in a State of Gratitude 27Bibliography 31About the Author 32Copyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 5
  6. 6. GET YOUR GOALS! ACKNOWLEDGEMENTSTo my parents, Tay Cheow Kwee and Ng Sau Har, who give me the unconditional love andsupport throughout the years. To my two beautiful sisters, Angela and Louise, who offer helpand assistance whenever I need it. To my business partner and buddy, Keith who trusts andbelieves in the work that we do together. To my best friends, Zheng Shen and Yuan Chong, wholisten and support me in whatever things I do. To all my teachers, lecturers and professors fromEast View Secondary School, Temasek Polytechnic and National University of Singapore whohave taught me and shaped the person I am today.Copyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 6
  7. 7. GET YOUR GOALS! 1. TAKING THE FIRST STEP: BE EDUCATEDBy reading this book, I believe you are a person who is committed in learning and personalgrowth. Nothing happens unless first a dream. Goal setting is the first step behind everysuccess story. You may be told by other people about the importance of goal setting over andover again. Don’t fall in the trap of “law of familiarity” by telling yourself or others, “I know it isimportant” or “Don’t remind me again”. You know something but you are not doing it. It is just apiece of useless information. The biggest stumbling block in people’s lives is inaction. Stopmaking wishes, start visualising your goals and making them into reality. Let’s begin to openyour mind to new ideas & possibilities as well as starting to think of what really makes youhappy and fulfilled. You can also start by clarifying your life purpose and goals. Learn to ask theright questions:  Do you want to earn $5,000 or more a month?  Do you hope to save $100,000 and invest it?  Are you unhappy with your current body shape? Want to lose 15kg in the next 3 months? Or plan to gain more weight and grow your muscles?  Are you feeling lonely? Want to find your soulmate?  Do you aim to expand your network and meet high quality people?  Want to buy your dream home or car?  Do you wish to volunteer in your neighbourhood and serve the less privileged people?  Are you looking for personal growth? Want to learn a new language?Copyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 7
  8. 8. GET YOUR GOALS! 2. BE THE COMMITTED SHOOTERSome of your wants’ may be your goals or targets.Before we write them down, I want to share with youabout a shooting contest.There are only 3 contestants: Ashley, Billy and Calvin.In this contest, there are strange rules or conditions forthe contestants. The 1st shooter, Ashley, will beblindfolded and the 2nd shooter will just be a normalperson to throw the dart. The last shooter, Calvin, is given the privilege to walk to the dartboardand place the dart at the bullseye. So who do you think will win the contest? Ashley Billy CalvinThe answer is obvious. The winner will be Calvin. Why do I tell you about this shooting contest?In life, there are 3 different types of people in this world about setting goals. The first type ofpeople is the “blind” man who has no goal in life and doesn’t care much in the daily activitiesor work. He/she often just does what he/she is being told. The chance of success is absolutelyzero. The second type of people is the “Ok” man or the typical person who will set goal butdoesn’t care after that. He/she hopes to succeed and will leave it to God/parents/employers toCopyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 8
  9. 9. GET YOUR GOALS!take care of them. The chance of success is between 50% and 60%. At least, this person knowsthe directions that he/she is heading. The third type which is my favourite is the “eXcel-being”who has clear goals and believes it is a MUST to succeed. He/she will do whatever it takes toget his/her goals (as long as it is ethical and legal). The chance of success is almost 100%.Although there are always things or events that we can’t control, we can choose how we respondto them and change our approach to fit in the situation. We must be firm in our decisions butflexible in our approach. 3. WHO NEVER FAILS BEFORE?Are you afraid of failure? Do you know any successful people whohave not failed? Almost all successful people have failed one wayor another. Do you know how KFC started? Who created KFC?The man is Colonel Sanders. He went to many restaurant ownersand told them, “I have a great chicken recipe and I think if you use it,there’ll be more people coming to your restaurant to eat. I just get paid a % of your increaseprofits/earnings.” Then almost every owner replied, “Are you crazy? Why must I use yourchicken recipe? I’ve my own.” Many rejected him. But did he stop? No. He went on and asked1,009 owners before he heard his first “yes”. Isn’t it inspiring? Do you also know that Galileowas sent to jail for 8 years because people thought he was insane and should be incarcerated forclaiming the earth revolved around the sun? Walt Disney originally created a character namedOswald the Rabbit. When he went to his distributor to negotiate a better rate for the creation ofthe character, he found out that he didn’t own the rights to the character, and that the distributordid. Furthermore, that same distributor stole his employees right under him by offering thembetter pay. After this major setback, he went on to create Mickey Mouse. Successful people treatCopyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 9
  10. 10. GET YOUR GOALS!failure as feedback for them to improve. Similarly to Mr. Thomas Edison, he said, “I have notfailed. I have just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” 4. THE POWER OF WRITTEN GOALGail Matthews, from Dominican University, had conducted a research on the impact of writtengoals. She found a total of 267 participants from businesses, organizations, and businessnetworking groups. However, only 149 participants completed the study. The final participantsranged in age from 23 to 72, with 37 males and 112 females. Participants came from the UnitedStates, Belgium, England, India, Australia and Japan and included a variety of entrepreneurs,educators, healthcare professionals, artists, attorneys, bankers, marketers, human servicesproviders, managers, vice presidents, directors of non-profits, etc.Participants were randomly assigned to one of 5 conditions (groups):  Group 1 - Unwritten Goal  Group 2 - Written Goal  Group 3 - Written Goal & Action Commitments  Group 4 - Written Goal, Action Commitments to a Friend  Group 5 - Written Goal, Action Commitments & Progress Reports to a Friend.Participants in Group 1 were simply asked to think about their goals (what they wanted toaccomplish over the next 4 weeks) and then asked to rate that goal on the following dimensions:Difficulty, Importance, the extent to which they had the Skills & Resources to accomplish thegoal, their Commitment and Motivation to the goal, whether or not they had pursued this goal…Copyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 10
  11. 11. GET YOUR GOALS! Purchase NOW to read the rest of the book!! Visit my blog ( or email me at for more information.Copyright © 2011 Raymond Tay 11