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  1. 1. My Profile, Bio-Data, Certificates and Photos: Please Refer 30 Attachments!This is a Matrimonial Enquiry sent to you via both are totally stranger to each-other so far although I am humbly and very gently sending thisprofile including attached my Bio-Data, Recommendation Letters, Health Report, SecurityClearance, World Bank Recognization and my Latest Photographs to an unknown e-mail ID for ageneral enquiry and information dissemination motive, with an expectation that it may be relevantto someone interested.I am not sure yet, whether the marriage is matter of chance or choice. If this is a matter of chanceand luck, I am curious to find my luck soon! I have used different modern approach and lookingforward to see the anticipated result. Lets see what will be the consequences in the future asunknown in life is both challenge as well as opportunity which is a part of our life.I am extremely sorry for bothering you, which is not my ill-intension, at all! You may simply ignoreand delete enclosed profile, CV, working certificates and all other my reference materials for yourreview purpose, which you can also access simply by clicking the link and/or kindly forward thisinformation among your relatives, female colleagues, lady friend circles and their parents, ifsomeone is also seriously interested for this and has made her mind for the same purpose. Thankyou very much for your kind cooperation in advance. The following section is only for theconcerned one and her related family members, where I have honestly described my realisticbackground as marital relationship must be based on the bond of trust and honesty.Dear Friend:Please accept warm regards! I am humbly corresponding with reference to the matrimonial enquiryfor your kind rational assessment purpose for a closed but healthy friendship at the beginning andthen possible match in the near future, if both of us are made for each-other upon our compatibilityand comfort! I am a Developmental and Management Practitioner by training and profession. Thisyear, probably after few months, I am thinking and planning for my marriage with at least a"University Graduate, but preferred Masters Degree and Job Holder or Self-employed, PrettyLooking, Well Cultured Girl."If the lady is unemployed at present, she should have career-oriented mind after marriage to use hereducation as well as in enhancing for balanced marital life. The main reason for setting all theseminimum practical criteria is to thoroughly empower the prospective life partner and acquire areciprocal synergy for our lifelong personal growth and development. For this rationale, I wish toemotionally, morally and psychologically encourage and motivate my ideal life partner for herprofessionalism, edification and overall personality development. But, what I only expect on herintrinsic lady persona is: natural compassion in the heart of a well-cultured lady as well as positiveattitude and optimistic mind since she will be the source of an inspiration for a man during difficultcircumstances as well as for a positive transformation in our lives.
  2. 2. However, the reality talks lauder than dreams! At present, I represent the working class economy:we both must work for our livelihood. Currently, I have some hundreds of books in the name ofproperty in my own name with a four-roomed cemented home and some pieces of land in Tarai-Sunaul Bazaar, Nawalparashi, which is an outcome of purely my personal income! But, I wasgrown up and educated around Jawalakhel from the age of 10. Consequently, at any cost, we cannotsettle in Terai and must dwell in the metropolitan urban areas. Our sisters and all relatives havealready established their own homes in this valley and I/we also must construct a permanentresidence in Kathmandu soon, although for at least few years, we have to happily live in a rental flaton temporary basis, especially around Lalitpur Municipality.As far as my core profession is concerned, I am actively involving with the internationaldevelopmental organizations since 1990. When I was exactly 16 years in ninety, I started a careerwith the UK Governments DFID/Enabling State Programme Nepal; Office of the Prime Ministerand Council of Ministers; Himalaya Broadcasting Company (HBC) Radio Station; United NationsPopulation Fund, Country Technical Services Team for South and West Asia (UNFPA, CST forSAWA Countries); DFID/Rural Access Program (RAP); Japan International CooperationAgency/Japan Medical Association (JICA/JMA) funded School and Community Health Project(SCHP) and Save the Children-Norway (previously Redd Barna, Norwegian semi-governmentinternational humanitarian organization). (Please refer the enclosed resume, working certificates,recommendation letters, health report, security clearance, World Bank recognization, etc. and/orclick the ink, I was also temporarily implicated as an independent Freelancer Consultant for UNICEF/ROSA, USAID/IFES and USAID/NDI for two years. Lately, I was working with the JapanInternational Cooperation Agency (JICA)/Nepal Office in the capacity of an AS Officer until Ishifted to an UN Agency in 2008.At present, I am working with one of the Specialized Agencies of the United Nations (UN) System,based in Nepal, at Harihar Bhawan, Pulchowk, Lalitpur, in the Administrative Capacity, which is along-term permanent fixed job.As far as my pedagogical background is concerned, I have completed Double Masters Degree i.e.Masters in Business Studies (MBS) and MA Rural Development, both in first divisions. Moreover,at the same time, I am also pursuing third masters degree in Public Administration (MPA) course. Ihave simultaneously made my mind to enroll for MPhil course as well to upgrade myself for PhD ina long run of my life, which is one of the most pertinent future dreams for me.Regarding my social background, I am Single (Never Married), Chhetri, 1974 Birth, Aries, 60 kgweight, height 53 with fair complexion. (Please see attached photos and/orclick links: for my 700 photos in total 20pages without downloading them and/or click another link for my 200 snaps). I am none-alcoholic butoccasional smoker, extroverted and determined laborious person for a set-goal. I am only son withtwo married and one single sister. Our father used to be local level politician in Triveni-Susta VDCduring his youth up to 1970, which is nostalgia for us in these days. On the other hand, he is also anIndian retired army with the pension from India (70) and mother is housewife (67). They both livein hometown to look after home and land and quarterly visit us for a week as well as collecting theirpension from Indian embassy.
  3. 3. Finally, if you feel comfortable to happily live in a rental house for few years; if you are alsoseriously searching an ideal life partner; if your inner soul considers that we both might be likeminded friends for lifelong and our matching will be the perfect one; if you trust me as a gentlemanby the hub of your heart and curious for a matrimonial relationship, we can meet as a very goodfriend at first and should try to sincerely understand each-other thoroughly. When our innerchemistry, feeling, manner, interest and ethos are compatible and comfortable for both of us, wewill spontaneously and unknowingly feel emotional attachment based on heart-to-heart relationship,then we can rationally decide for our marriage-life as soon as possible, basically after obtainingmutual consent and concurrence from our family members and parents.At a very fine and lucky moment, a meeting even with a stranger sometimes may bring majortransformation in our lives! Optimistically speaking, who knows future: we both may prove to bethe ideal lifelong friends and exact dream partner of each-others! For this purpose, you may contactme without any hesitations at (977-01) 98510-86884/9841 813529. Then, if you feel comfort andsecure, I will invite you along with your best friends and parents for a courtesy coffee meeting atJawalakhel for our formal introduction that will be the best way to initiate our long lasting cordialrelationship. Beside this, you can assign your reliable relatives and parents as your representativefor an initial discussion with our guardians or myself. Furthermore, alternatively, you may forwardyour latest snaps and accurate information to us in making a logical family decision for thepossibility of amicable relationship, which is based on the bond of trust and honesty.By the way, being an only brother of three my most respectable and loving sisters, I can easilyunderstand that it is extremely difficult in approaching to an unknown person, particularly for thelady. I, therefore, would like to ensure you that: 1) Names of several referees will be provided atany time in exploring the facts about me and my family background; 2) Several meetings amongparents/family members will be organized to properly familiarize both the family members; 3)Medical health reports will be submitted; 4) Academic credentials and working certificates will bepresented; 5) Your parents/guardians can independently inquiry and research to verify mybackground; 6) I/we will certainly facilitate for the acclimatization process to easily adopt our newrole and responsibility in the totally new environments; and 7) Sufficient time will be allocated toclosely recognize and understand each-other from insight but the final decision is yours: madam!If your family members wish to meet my parents/guardians to seriously discuss on this issue morebroadly, please let me know so that I can provide you their direct contact address for furtherdetailed discussions. I can also arrange a series of meetings among our parents/guardians tomaterialize our lifelong visualized dreams into the reality. Finally, please refer all the attachmentswith this e-mail and looking forward to hear from you a positive response soon!With Warm Regards!Raj K Pandey Chhetri, (MBS, MA)Jawalakhel, LalitpurGPO Box: 19862, Kathmandu (Nepal)Mobile: (977-01) 98510 86884Mobile: (977-01) 9841
  4. 4. MY SUPPLEMENTARY PROFILEProfession: Raj K Pandey started his career in 1990, at the age of 16 with: 1) Save the ChildrenNorway (Redd Barna); 2) Japan Medical Association (JMA)/School and Community Health Project(SCHP); 3) UK Governments Department for International Development (DFID)/Rural AccessProgram (RAP); 4) United Nations Population Fund, Country Technical Services Team for Southand West Asia (UNFPA CST for SAWA Countries); 5) Himalaya Broadcasting Company (HBC)Radio Station; 6) Office of the Prime Minister and Council of Ministers through Strengthening theOffice of the Prime Minister and Council of Ministers Project funded by DFID; 7) DFID/EnablingState Program-Nepal.Moreover, he was also implicated as a short-term Consultant with: i) UNICEF/Regional Office forSouth Asia (ROSA); ii) USAID/International Federation of Electoral System (IFES); and iii)USAID/National Democratic Institute (NDI). Prior joining one of the Specialized Agencies of theUnited Nations (UN) System in 2008, where he is working as an administrative staff in these days,he was involved with the Japan International Cooperation Agency (JICA) Nepal Office in thecapacity of an AS Officer.Education: He has completed his Double Masters Degree i.e. Masters in Business Studies (MBS)and MA (Rural Development), both in the first division. Simultaneously, he is also perusing histhird Masters Degree in Public Administration (MPA) Course in the early morning in these days.Moreover, he has strongly made his mind to enroll for MPhil Course as well sometimes in thefuture to upgrade himself for PhD in a long-run of his life, which is one of the significant long-termdreams of his life.Attributes: He is a self-disciplined, self-made, self-developed and self-directed person withoutguidance from anybody. He dreamed, visualized and worked hard to materialize his vision, goal andaim, which made him active, laborious and confident to cope the difficult challenges andcircumstances. On the other hand, when he was in his early teenage and younger age, he used towork exceptionally hard both for his professional career as well as education. He was able to workfor up to 18-19 hours daily in that struggle period and used to sleep merely 4-5 hours.Consequently, he successfully continued his full time job and education simultaneously. However,when he gets leisure time in these days, particularly during Saturday and Sunday, he simply enjoysfor — laying on bed, traveling around countryside, reading newspapers, listening music, working ina computer for writing something, dine delicious meals, chatting, sharing and joking on genericissues with all the family members, especially two sisters, who are living very closed to his house,reviewing literatures/reports, watching latest movies/TV and sleeping for very late hours.Personality: He is liberal minded, independent, honest, talkative and extroverted person. He oftentrusts people easily but they exploit his gentleness, soberness and softness for their own vestedinterests, which makes him sad. He prefers simple life with the better human capital for own innersatisfaction purpose.Ideal: He respects women and men who are simple, gentle and liberal, although he likes straightforward nature and speak of mind. However, he disgusts and immediately discontinues even thehumanitarian relationship with the liar, hypocrite, arrogant and sadist persons as they are good fornothing for others.
  5. 5. Strength: He is strongly determined person for his goals and visions, which makes him exhaustedand burnt-out. Consequently, he can hardly smile, laugh and get pleasure in his life! Moreover, hemostly feels loneliness as he can hardly sacrifice his time for an unproductive purpose and socialrelationship.Weakness: a) He is, however, not a perfect household manager particularly for cooking, laundry,ironing and other domestic work as he never practiced such activities in his entire life due tosufficient love and take care rendered by his mother/sisters. b) When someone behaves dishonest,sadist and egoistic way, he completely ignores him/her and never attempts to reestablish any furtherhumanitarian relationship.With Best Regards!Raj K Pandey Chhetri, (MBS, MA)Jawalakhel, Lalitpur,GPO Box: 19862, Kathmandu (Nepal)Mobile: (977-01) 98510 86884Mobile: (977-01) 9841 813529rajkpandey2000@yahoo.comrajkpandey2000@hotmail.comrajkpandey2000@gmail.comANNEX: WHY E-MARRIES PROPOSAL?Dear Friend:This justification and all attachments will logically explain, analyze and convince you not onlyabout the e-marriage proposal, but also on the humanitarian relationship in general, and male andfemale marital relationship in specific from different prospective. The following section will beuseful for all of us to clearly understand the practical difficulties during match making process inour life. This text has been disseminated via onbehalf of its originator, especially for the interested single lady - University Graduate, JobHolder/Self-Employed and Nice Looking Girl.The primary cause for using the webmail based information technology (IT) system for a generalmatrimonial related enquiry is due to the distance induced bravery. I am directly and personallyapproaching for the lifes most sensitive, difficult and challenging issue on a supposition that themarriage is the most natural, psychological, emotional and social dire need of both — male andfemale, sometimes once in a life. Moreover, each family may have an eligible bachelor — familymembers, relatives, social networks, colleagues and friend circles — who might have informallysearching a suitable match for their grown-up children through existing traditional social networkapproach due to the push/pull factors, but they might also have not been completely able to find outthe right candidate for their fully grown-up children in consideration of several other issues.We are aware that all unmarried persons, including us, have an imaginative image for an ideal lifepartner on our subconscious minds/dreams from the very early teenage of our lives. To find ourlifelong envisioned ideal/dream person into the reality, our minds/souls unknowingly keep onsearching/exploring around with an expectation that s/he, who is imaginarily living with us in oursubconscious minds from the very early age, will come soon even in the reality of life.
  6. 6. We hope that s/he will be the right friend to spend rest of our lives together for the better aestheticvalues, which will permanently end the bitter loneliness feeling and inner vacuum within ourselves.But, very few people are lucky enough for such unconditional true love, which all can not find intheir life. However, unfortunately, our age keeps on running out rapidly for waiting that especialfriend in real life, albeit we are not sure yet, when we will meet her/him in the reality.Consequently, when we do not meet our lifelong expected dreams into the reality, it creates enoughanxiety, stress, frustration, personality and psychological disorders among us and we feel extremelysad.Likewise, both arranged and love marriage have certain pros and cons but like minded values andethos based marries, where both will have total freedom of choice for the rational selection of anappropriate life partner, is the best approach since decision of social-knot directly affects both.Moreover, we have limited social networks, family ties and relatives, where we can hardly find thedreamed and qualified partner due to lack of an easy and direct access with her/him. On the otherhand, our extremely busy mechanical routine life from early morning to late evening for our otherdaily priorities, has limited us for the better option to expand the social network. As a result, thetremendously competitive world, especially in the fast metropolitan life, has made us extremelylonely even among the huge mob of the people, as we can hardly mix-up with them due to theirvaried nature as well as lack of sufficient spare time with us.Similarly, we are totally option and voiceless to select a suitable right partner, when marriesproposal is put forward from our closed relatives since we can hardly say no to them despite ourseveral reservations. The marries facilitators also unnecessarily exaggerate on the qualities of thepossible grooms/brides, which may not be realistic in the practical life. But, marries decision thatwe make only once in a life is for the sake of entirely ourselves, not to make others happy since itdetermines our future. Moreover, even a self-chosen love marries and/or arranged marriage canhardly be guaranteed for lifelong success, durable and happy relationship until our death.Subsequently, it is always a creative tension as well as hidden mental stress to make a marriagerelated single decision with a totally unseen person, which is exactly like a gambling, either we willbe winner or looser!However, we have to ultimately trust an unfamiliar opposite gender and select a totally unseenperson as a lifelong partner out of six billion plus population on this earth. Although, we are notsure yet, who s/he will be, where s/he is now, what s/he is doing, how s/he will approach to us andwhen s/he will be our real friend as well as how our future relationship will go with her/him. We,ultimately, need to focus merely for his/her comfort/happiness until we die as soon as s/he entersinto our life as change maker, who will impart significantly differences throughout our life.Beside this, what we are mainly lacking to find out our lifelong visualized opposite ideal partner is— easy access, effective negotiation, two-way communication, sufficient time for interactions andmost importantly inner courage and self-confidence to approach her and directly propose formarriage due to fear of rejection. However, the sky is unlimited and six billion-plus populated worldis beyond our horizon, although we dont have an easy access to directly contact her. It is not awrong idea to creatively but gently approach her and exchange our mutual information for anenquiry since s/he might also have been waiting for the entry of a right person into her life for hermarriage purpose — who knows we may be the hero by mistake as we both may have been made asan ideal life partner for each-others! As marries is one time great event in our life and we can try
  7. 7. our level best to invite the proposal from the most eligible, well-cultured person/family backgroundas far as possible.But, we should never enforce/persuade the second party to make a decision favorable to us since themarriage relationship must be based on independent personal decision of both — without externalinfluence, pressure, threat, hanky-panky and so on — even from family members. Lets continue ourdream till we get the best one, when dream is over and shattered, we will really suffer for loosinghope in life. We should not easily accept the cowardice defeat, without waging another effectivewar to achieve the lifelong visualized person as we can find exactly the same what and whom wedream, if marries is truly made in heaven.I, therefore, have used atypical modus-operandi in exploring ideal life partner and it is expected thats/he will be the exact lady, whom I have imagined and retained in my subconscious mind from earlyteenage. Lets see how general people in our conservative society will perceive such a differentmethod as individual interpretations/judgments are the outcomes of our backgrounds. But, I amcertain that she will be the lady with exact attributes, who will positively accept not only such aunique process, but also other several social transformations as mediocre narrow mind can neverwelcome any changes in the new environments since they are totally happy to live in the traditionalstatus-qua situation due to fear of unwanted social criticism and likely risk in life.The most essential pre-requirement for possible happy marital life is that both male and female, firstof all, should have natural attraction from heart, without external influence, at a preliminary face-to-face meeting — both should feel click in their minds to see each-others at the first sight. The firstmeeting and its overall impressions generally determine whether the further contacts will bestrengthened/interrupted. If both feel compatible and comfortable with each-other duringintroductory conversation process, their minds and hearts will spontaneously but unknowinglyadmit as like-minded prospective friends despite other several men-made gaps and obstacles —economical, social, educational, psychological and professional — as both have emotionally,mentally as well as psychologically accepted without any pre-occupied minds and persuasions.If both are honest, respectable, loveable and acceptable, a kind of special feeling, thought andemotional rapport will be developed within ourselves, which will further enhance for the deep-rooted love, affection, interdependency and psycho-socio belongingness to reinforce the post-marital life. Subsequently, both will heartily accept not only the roses but also the thrones sincecouple has strong emotional and sentimental heart-to-heart bonds based on natural attraction, trustand self-commitment for the life-long association until death, which nobody can easily alter. As thehuman relationship is related with the meeting of like-minded minds and the common wave-lengthcan further enhance for the retention of long-term marital relationship in our life.Moreover, if we find exact dreamed partner, all our senses might be positively persuaded andheartbeat might be amplified due to an unique feeling within us — exactly the same natural processthat we can closely observe among animal kingdom — where inner natural chemistry between themdetermines their attraction/repulsion for further relationship at a very first meeting of both.We can also boost pleasure of mind, inner happiness and satisfaction through natural process, ifcouple has liking minds and web length for each other via — reciprocal unconditional love, caring,sharing, mutual understanding and respect for feeling and emotion of the husband and wife, whichshould based on the ground of mutual trust and honesty. It is a general human tendency thatwhatever we perform, we simply act upon in order to avoid the pain and gain the pleasure. We,
  8. 8. therefore, worry and fear with the likely change process and reluctant to renounce the comfortzones, but we have to eventually accept new roles and responsibilities despite uncertain results inour life. If spouse have certain common grounds, particularly in terms of their socio-cultural values, ethos,interests, likings, disliking as well as shared dreams and visions, the post-marital life will enhancebetter synergy, positive energy, creativity and prosperity for both. However, if marriage iscompletely based on compromises, conditionality, baseless commitments and dishonesty, it mayprove counterproductive at any time in a long run since the relationship must be based on the bondof trust and honesty as it is simply the beginning of relationship not the end. Moreover, if weestablish a marital relationship on the ground of untruth, dishonesty, exaggeration and hanky-panky,it will mentally hurt your partner due to a betrayed deal, which will make her/him lifelong regretfulthat will never keep your partner happy. If your partner is not happy at all due to your dishonesty, itis obvious s/he can never keep you/your family members happy as well.Moreover, approached person might not have made her mind for her marriage at this particularjuncture and/or she might have settled. Similarly, both might not have met their pre-occupied basicexpectations and criteria as well as both may have differences in terms of their so-called socio-economy, socio-cultural and family-based values, which may indirectly affect post-marital life,particularly during elderly age because of the likely cultural socks. Consequently, everybody hasfreedom of choice for the rational decision for her/his marriage without external pressure andpersuasion since being self-master we should not feel regrets for our self-decision.Finally, if your eligible unmarried lady family members, friend circles, relatives and femalecolleagues — at least an university graduate, job holder/self-employed and well-cultured prettylooking lady — is thinking for her marriage within this year, please convey and forward thisinformation. As a result, she/her family members can rationally assess our suitability from differentprospective for the perfect matching as far as we can make it, if marries is a matter of choice! Yourtiny efforts will directly support us to reduce the information poverty and search of an ideal life-partner of two persons will be permanently over. If your interested lady friends/their familymembers wish to contact me/my parents/sisters to discuss seriously, please feel free to contact us.Please refer all the attachments and looking forward for a positive response soon.Warm Regards!Raj K Pandey Chhetri, (MBS, MA)Jawalakhel, LalitpurGPO Box: 19862, Kathmandu (Nepal)Mobile: (977-01) 98510 86884Mobile: (977-01) 9841
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