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Bullying, Cyberbullying & CyberSecurity:

THE ROLE OF THE RA
Information you NEED to know!
•

Define Bullying & the difference between
Learning Objectives:
fighting

•

Identify Helping Skills you can use with you...
Over &
Over
Sad or
Power

Afraid
DESTROY or DAMAGE
friendships and status
Someone reports
being bullied....

What do you
do?
The Helping Relationship


Foundational Skills
•
•
•
•
•

ACTIVE Listening
Empathy
Positive Affirmation
Modeling
Appropr...
• Don’t be one. Think about what you are doing.
Talk about it!!!

Stay out of it!
Don’t
spread
rumors.

Don’t laugh along
...
“Before you get mad…”
You

can learn a lot...

Others
What

can learn A LOT about you!!!

do you want them to know???
#SpringBreak13

Great GPA
Activities
Your
Stuff that makes you
Billboard...
look GOOD!
What about your “friends”???
What about your “friends”???
Meet Josh…
430 friends

Right
He was tagged can join you
Your “f...
PRIVACY SETTINGS

A STRONG password:
But remember…
What do your apps know
Check them at 8 you?ever week
At online is
NOTHI...
Biggest problems residents face...


Solution Giving
 Offering Alternatives
 Information Giving

 Offering Advice ???



Feedback





Support
Constr...
Characteristics of
Effective Helpers:
• Being Empathetic
• Being Open
• Being Real
• Having High Integrity
• Being an Expe...
Is it fair for
Can you
adults to judge
really get in
you on your
trouble??
profile?
• Invasive? Maybe.
• Fair? It’s public...
Impressions...
Bullying & the Law in Mass
• Criminal harassment

• Civil rights violations
• Taking photos
• Taking video
• The new law
•Don’t Respond!

•Ignore it!
• Print it.
•Tell the service provider.
•Talk about it.
•Think about what you post!
Treat your password
like your
toothbrus
Bullying & The Role of the Resident Assistant
Bullying & The Role of the Resident Assistant
Bullying & The Role of the Resident Assistant
Bullying & The Role of the Resident Assistant
Bullying & The Role of the Resident Assistant
Bullying & The Role of the Resident Assistant
Bullying & The Role of the Resident Assistant
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Bullying & The Role of the Resident Assistant

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A workshop I developed for Resident Assistants at Stonehill College to help them identify Bullying in the residence halls, and provide them with tools to help promote a safe living and learning environment.

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Bullying & The Role of the Resident Assistant

  1. 1. Bullying, Cyberbullying & CyberSecurity: THE ROLE OF THE RA Information you NEED to know!
  2. 2. • Define Bullying & the difference between Learning Objectives: fighting • Identify Helping Skills you can use with your residents • Provide you with resources and ways to be an effective helper • Understand the “publicness” of the Internet and its’ consequences • Understand that privacy does not exist on the Internet
  3. 3. Over & Over Sad or Power Afraid
  4. 4. DESTROY or DAMAGE friendships and status
  5. 5. Someone reports being bullied.... What do you do?
  6. 6. The Helping Relationship  Foundational Skills • • • • • ACTIVE Listening Empathy Positive Affirmation Modeling Appropriate Self-Disclosure
  7. 7. • Don’t be one. Think about what you are doing. Talk about it!!! Stay out of it! Don’t spread rumors. Don’t laugh along Don’t join in.
  8. 8. “Before you get mad…”
  9. 9. You can learn a lot... Others What can learn A LOT about you!!! do you want them to know???
  10. 10. #SpringBreak13 Great GPA Activities Your Stuff that makes you Billboard... look GOOD!
  11. 11. What about your “friends”??? What about your “friends”??? Meet Josh… 430 friends Right He was tagged can join you Your “friends” They can tag click, copy, into GEOTAGGING any in a photogroup they want - & without your permission. you in photos paste
  12. 12. PRIVACY SETTINGS A STRONG password: But remember… What do your apps know Check them at 8 you?ever week At online is NOTHINGleast least once a really about characters Upper case, lower case, numbers, and private!!! symbols Which is more secure?? J0g!@!@!@!@!@! Mh65GH8c10Sy1j
  13. 13. Biggest problems residents face...
  14. 14.  Solution Giving  Offering Alternatives  Information Giving  Offering Advice ???  Feedback    Support Constructive Criticism Active Listening
  15. 15. Characteristics of Effective Helpers: • Being Empathetic • Being Open • Being Real • Having High Integrity • Being an Experiencer of Life • Having Good Emotional Health • Being an Alliance Builder • Being Competent
  16. 16. Is it fair for Can you adults to judge really get in you on your trouble?? profile? • Invasive? Maybe. • Fair? It’s public information. The person who posts it is making it public.
  17. 17. Impressions...
  18. 18. Bullying & the Law in Mass • Criminal harassment • Civil rights violations • Taking photos • Taking video • The new law
  19. 19. •Don’t Respond! •Ignore it! • Print it. •Tell the service provider. •Talk about it. •Think about what you post!
  20. 20. Treat your password like your toothbrus

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