Ending a Relationship is Never Easy


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Ending a relationship can be really difficult and you don't want it to be any more upsetting than necessary. If you are considering ending a relationship you might be contemplating the best way to do it, but is there really a right way?

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Ending a Relationship is Never Easy

  1. 1. Ending a Relationship is Never EasyEnding a relationship can be really difficult and you dont want it to be any moreupsetting than necessary. If you are considering ending a relationship you mightbe contemplating the best way to do it, but is there really a right way?Ideally it would be good to end a relationship on good terms and without toomuch drama and pain. Unfortunately the ideal ending to a relationship doesnthappen very often, but instead relationships often end in a bad way leavingbehind feelings of anger and sadness. When the break up is drawn out and messyit can leave both parties furious at each other and very bitter.If you know in your heart that your relationship is over and are just trying to findthe right way to end it, then keep in mind that this person is one that you haveloved and has shared a big part of your life. Find the right time to talk to yourpartner openly and honestly and let them know exactly how you feel. Let herknow your true feelings but dont go blaming her for anything, as soon as youstart the blame game that is when it can turn nasty.If the breakup comes as a shock to your ex then she will have a thousandquestions running through her mind, so the more that you can explain to her thebetter. By explaining your feelings and your decision to your partner then it willalso help you to know in your own mind that you are making the right decision. Ifyou have been in the relationship for a long time then you really do want to takethe time to break it to her gently and not just walk out leaving her wonderingwhat happened.You never know if you sit down and talk about how you are feeling you mighteven come up with another solution rather than just ending the relationshipcompletely. Perhaps you can spend some time apart to think things through andevaluate your situation before making a final decision one way or the other.Or course this advice above is based on a relationship that has been reasonablyhappy. For example, things will be a bit different if you are ending a relationshipbecause your partner is abusive. If you make the decision to end a relationshipthat is abusive then it is usually best that you leave the relationship as soon as you
  2. 2. can. Some relationships can be so abusive that a person is too scared to leave forfear that their partner will find them, so you will need to plan your departurecarefully and you may need to seek help.Even if you are the person ending the relationship, you can still feel sadness andloneliness when it is over. Just remember, that when one door closes anotherdoor opens and although the end of a relationship is a sad time, you are nowbeginning the rest of your life, so enjoy every minute of it.I am interested in relationship and dating; I survived a break up with the love ofmy life and managed to get her back in less than a month, to download a free e-book on how to get back to your ex, please click here.Read more about my experience and download a FREE relationship e-book in mywebsite http://makingupofbreakup.com/