is delayed gratification
• If you measure the success of your parenting by the
short term wins and losses parenting can seem like a
discouraging road. Ultimately, this about the future.
key is consistency and follow through
Not controlling your kids but teaching them to
make wise choices.
“Train up a child in the way they should go, and even when they are old
they will not turn from it.” Proverbs 22:6
play a part in character
Overall character is something that is
• Hard Work or Effort is a Character
Trait (Doesn’t matter A or B did you
give God your BEST)
for your child
• With praise!
• With prizes!
• What is it? What does it look like?
every time you possibly can
Have the word stay up around your class
You know they have it in their heart and
• In your own speech and actions
• In board games
• In videos or TV shows
is cute now but will it be in 5 years, 10
years, as an adult?
I focusing on what is most important or
what is most urgent?
family is a Team!
•God and the four of
• The Urbans
because we believe it
is better to give than
always… go above
and beyond what is
TRADITIONS are you
using to build a team
isn’t not about winning the game it’s
about how we play the game. The effort is
rewarded not the score
making excuses for them when
someone tells you something your child
washed the disciples’ feet
There is a humility that needs to be taught
Affirm what the world doesn’t
– Jesus First, Others Second, You
Everyone is a winner when they obey!
“A fool gives vent to his anger but a wise
man keeps himself under control” Proverbs
“Be kind and loving to each other”
“Do everything without complaining or
arguing.” Philippians 2:14-16