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Be a Better you

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Be a Better you

  1. 1. Be a better you! Al-Wafaa Lecture series Muhamad Shabarek, 16/01/2010
  2. 2. The 12 lectures • Be a better you • Plan your future • Tomorrow is a better day • Public speaking + debating + communication skills • Etiquette and ethics • Active citizenship • Activity: meet your role models • Educate yourself • Manage your resources • Career orientation • Overcome your weaknesses • You've created a new you: Market it! ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  3. 3. Why be Better?? Life is all about change, so there are two options, to change to the better or to change to the worse. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  4. 4. Better know yourself • In 2 mins draw yourself using any shape or color you feel they represent you. • In another 3 mins write next to the shape: – your name – who you are – best achievement in your life • Show what you did to everyone ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  5. 5. YOU ARE UNIQUE AND THIS IS YOUR ASSET No one else in the WORLD is like YOU ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  6. 6. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers WHAT MAKES A PERSON 100% SUCCESSFUL 12+21+3+11=47% L+U+C+K SUCCESS A B C D E …Z 1 32 4 5 …26
  7. 7. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers SUCCESS L+O+V+E 12+15+22+5=54% M+O+N+E+Y 13+15+14+5+25=72%
  8. 8. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers SUCCESS † From Achieving Effective Meetings – Not Easy But Possible, Bradford D. Smart in a survey of 635 executives. L+E+A+D+E+R+S+H+I+P 12+5+1+4+5+18+19+8+9+16 = 97% H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%
  9. 9. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers SUCCESS A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100 % CHANGE your ATTITUDE Create your own PATH to SUCCESS
  10. 10. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers LIFE is SHORT What is my Fire WITHIN ? LIVE YOUR DREAMS How will I be REMEMBERED ? What makes life worth LIVING ? What do I DREAM of ? Leave a LEGACY
  11. 11. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers What is YOUR VISION? 1 Year 5 Years 10 Years What will you be remembered for? Personal – Professional
  12. 12. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers Define your vision VISION Goals
  13. 13. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers Your VISION- The POWER of Leverage Your VISION Talents Money Contact & Relationships Emotions Your Beliefs
  14. 14. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers SWOT yourself VISION Goals
  15. 15. Life is (should be) all about • Setting priorities • Doing the right thing at the right time • Being at the right place (at the right time) • Succeeding in achieving your mission • Keeping the balance between professional and personal life ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  16. 16. Today’s list (3 mins) • Make a list concluding all your activities since you woke up this morning (include everything) ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  17. 17. Urgent vs important • Everything we do in life can be divided in two categories: – Urgent • Requires immediate attention • Urgent matters are usually visual • Are often pleasant, easy and fun to do – Important • Has to do with results • Contribute to you mission values and high priority goals ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  18. 18. Today’s list (Cont.) • Look at the list you created earlier • Divide all the activities in urgent and important matters ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  19. 19. Four quadrants of Life • Basically we spend our time in four ways: – Doing what is important and Urgent – Doing what is important but not Urgent – Doing what is not important but Urgent – Doing what is not important and not Urgent ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  20. 20. Life balance Not Urgent + Important Urgent + Important Not Urgent + Not Important Urgent + not Important ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  21. 21. ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers Not Urgent + Important Urgent + Important
  22. 22. Hints and tricks to be better ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  23. 23. • Life is made up of chances and opportunities, what comes never returns but other ones will come for sure • Forget the past because time won’t forget you • The outside is what we see first • Nobody sees your weaknesses but yourself ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers
  24. 24. • Be transparent and honest. The truth always hurts less. • Believe in what do you no matter what the others think of it • Do not under- or over- estimate anything • Create your network ©Copyright by JCI and intended for the exclusive use of JCI affiliated organizations, members and trainers

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