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Girl Wants to Be Just Friends? Here's 1 Weird Technique to Change Her Mind


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When the most special girl in your life says she only likes you as a friend, your world and your hopes come crashing down... and you feel sick to your stomach.

When a girl wants to be just friends, you can either keep doing what you're doing that is NOT ATTRACTING HER, or learn how to trigger attraction inside her mind.

Watch this slideshow to learn how.

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Girl Wants to Be Just Friends? Here's 1 Weird Technique to Change Her Mind

  1. 1. Girl Wants to Be Just Friends? By: Frankie Cola Here's 1 Weird Technique to Change Her Mind
  2. 2. It's a painful experience we have all gone through... A special girl you are friends with tells you she doesn't have the same feelings for you as you have for her.
  3. 3. You feel sick, cold, and shivery. You feel like your whole world has come crashing down, you lose your appetite, you spend your days alone in front of your computer trying to “cope”.
  4. 4. Now here's something you need to know: If a girl wants to be just friends, it's for a reason -- you aren't creating enough ATTRACTION. You aren't doing the specific types of behaviors that get women attracted to you sexually and romantically.
  5. 5. Now as a man, triggering sexual attraction inside of a woman is the most important skill you will ever learn in your ENTIRE LIFE.
  6. 6. If you TRULY want to get this part of your life handled: You can either... A) Keep doing what you're doing (which doesn't attract girls) or... B) You can learn how to act like the ATTRACTIVE man that women think of sexually and romantically
  7. 7. Here's the intriguing technique that makes you more attractive in her eyes and makes her think of you differently
  8. 8. Today we have a question from a guy who is probably in a situation you can connect with Let's hear it.
  9. 9. >>>My Comments Ryan - Here are the good news and the bad news. The bad news, is that there's no way to LOGICALLY convince her to "feel attraction" for you. This is because for women to like you, you have to EMOTIONALLY convince her. Which brings us to the good news...
  10. 10. The good news is that you can do behaviors to create these feelings of attraction in her and get her to feel emotions for you. Yes says she only feels a little "spark" for you… but it's still a SPARK... and it can get magnified into a BIG INTENSE SPARK... if you do the right things.
  11. 11. So let's focus on how to make one particular girl feel a stronger spark of emotions for you so that you get out of the friend zone. To change her feelings, you have to change the "pattern" of interaction you have with her, so that she unconsciously starts wanting to get sexual with you.
  12. 12. The effect you want to create is that she suddenly starts feeling an attraction for you that she can't explain. Of course this has to do with the fact that you changed the "pattern" of interaction with her.
  13. 13. You replaced the old "unattractive" pattern, and created a NEW upgraded version of you pattern. (By the way, here's how to break that pattern and make a girl obsessed about you)
  14. 14. Let's now move on to the next question...
  15. 15. Look Tom, first things first. She wants some space right now… and the more you go into her space, the more you push her away. So stop contacting her immediately.
  16. 16. Now here's a very important insight most men don't know: Whenever women give reasons for taking a "break" like ● "I need 3 months away from you" ● "I need space" ● "I need to find myself" ● "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" ...what she REALLY means is, "I am losing attraction for you, I need time to sort my feelings out in my head, and I need time away from you right now"
  17. 17. Therefore, only take her excuses with a grain of salt, and learn to see the UNDERLYING REASON for her behavior... ATTRACTION. Your focus should be: "How do I make her feel attraction for me again?"
  18. 18. The behavior that triggers attraction in a woman is counterintuitive. And it's usually the OPPOSITE of what most guys do...
  19. 19. When a woman wants to be just friends, most men agree to be her friend... ...And so they try to "sneak" back into the "boyfriend zone" through the friend zone. ...But each and every time, it's a failed effort, and they only end up more FRUSTRATED than they were before.
  20. 20. That's why when a girl wants to be just friends, you tell her that you're not interested in being just friends... And then you leave the door open by telling her to get in touch with you if she changes her mind. Then you go no contact with her COMPLETELY (forever) until she contacts you again.
  21. 21. In doing this, you act like a man by standing up for what you want without accepting what you don't want. By acting masculine in this way, you increase the chances of the woman changing her mind and wanting to be with you again.
  22. 22. Another very important insight you should know is that a woman's feelings are fickle. You mentioned how she went from "I love you so much it hurts" to"I need three months away from you"… right? Similarly, she can go from "I need some space, let's just be friends" to "I want to see you". (EVEN if she told you she wants to be just friends) Feelings Are Fickle
  23. 23. Why? Because girls make decisions based almost ENTIRELY on their FEELINGS at that moment in time. And you know what? Feelings can change! And in both directions!
  24. 24. Listen, I'm not guaranteeing 100% that you'll get her back... doing this course of action is the 1. The quickest way of getting over her... and 2. The behavior that will give you the highest chance of getting her back...
  25. 25. That's because when you give a woman space, you are becoming scarce and unavailable, and this gives her the space to MISS YOU. This is when she starts wondering why you haven't texted her frequently like before (she'll want that attention back)... and she'll start wondering if you've met someone new.
  26. 26. You dangle a string over a cat to tease it. If the cat can't get the string, it will keep trying... and it will continue CHASING the string. However, if you give the cat what it wants, (the string)… it suddenly becomes bored and doesn't seem interested in the string anymore... and so it walks away. This is called the "Cat String Theory" Getting a Girl to Obsess Over You is Like Dangling a Piece of String Over a Cat
  27. 27. Well women are similar to cats in many ways. Like dangling a string over them... there are a certain set of rules you need to follow, in order, to seduce them and make them obsessed with you.
  28. 28. My friend Bobby Rio uses a great technique that applies the “cat string theory” to turn you irresistible to women and make them chase you. Bobby discovered there are 12 specific attraction weapons you can use over and over again to create that “cat-string” effect that gets a girl obsessed over you. He calls it, “The Scrambler.” Click Here to Learn the Scrambler