Public speaking for quiet people

Michelle Dickinson
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Public speaking for quiet people
Public Speaking Skills for Quiet
People
Dr Michelle Dickinson @medickinson M316
Public speaking for quiet people
Public speaking for quiet people
Public speaking for quiet people
Sympathetic nervous system
Fight or flight response
Adrenaline
Panic
Red Face
Uncontrollable Heart Beat
Sweaty Palms
Sense of Panic
Flight mode
Public speaking for quiet people
What if those eyes were waiting to be fed by you?
Afraid of
Public
Speaking
74%
2013 research by the National Institute of Mental Health
Public speaking for quiet people
Do you get anxious when
speaking to a new person?
Would you rather work alone than
in a team?
Would you prefer to stay at home
than attend an after-work party?
medickinson
People
Conversations
Talking with
strangers
Thoughts
Introvert
Draining, must
recharge
Listen more, talk
in depth
Don’t
Internalise before
sharing
Extrovert
Energising
Initiate,
superficial chat
Talk anything
with anyone
Verbalise
thoughts
Dopamine – brain reward system responds
more strongly to risk and adventure in
extroverts.
Introverts easily over stimulated so seek
quiet time to lower this.
Individual differences in extraversion and
dopamine genetics predict neural reward
responses, Cognitive Brain Research 2005
Individual differences in amygdala-medial
prefrontal anatomy link negative affect,
impaired social functioning and polygenic
depression risk, The Journal of
Neuroscience, 2012
What if I………
…Screw it up?
…Look stupid?
…Don’t know the answer?
They want to learn
something.
You are just the
vehicle to
empower them.
medickinson
You were given the opportunity
because others want to hear
from you.
Don’t let self doubt put you off.
medickinson
“I think introverts can do well.
If you’re clever, you can learn to
get the benefits of being an
introvert, which might be
willing to go off for a few days
and think about a tough
problem, read everything you
can, push yourself very hard to
think out on the edge of that
area.”
Bill Gates
medickinson
Introverts over prepare,
we read, we reflect, we
take our time to make
sure its right.
medickinson
Preparing for a speech is
all about quiet time to
work on your delivery
and content.
medickinson
Our slides are effective,
informative and well
thought out.
medickinson
Preparing for
presentation involves
delivering solid
arguments backed up by
analytical data from our
research.
medickinson
Presentations don’t
require small talk or
social interaction.
medickinson
Taking time to think
before we speak
allows us to be clear
on our points and
removes the pressure
of on the spot
conversations.
medickinson
We can research our
topic by listening to
the needs of
our audience helping
us to prepare useful
content.
medickinson
Presentations are like
a deep one-on-one
conversation with
your audience.
medickinson
Presentations involve
you working alone
on stage with only
you speaking.
medickinson
Presentations give us a
chance to speak up without
being interrupted by more
dominant or confident
people.
medickinson
It’s OK to be nervous, but
imagine the confidence you
instill when you start strong.
Public speaking for quiet people
Memory imprints on the brain
differently through tongue
movement.
What are your eyebrows
doing?
Do you look passionate?
medickinson
Public speaking for quiet people
medickinson
This is a two way conversation.
Eye contact with your audience
doesn’t have to involve two sets of
eyes.
medickinson
Provide a way for non-verbal
questions to be asked.
medickinson
Red Face – clothing choice
Uncontrollable Heart Beat - music
Sweaty Palms – don’t hold anything!
Sense of Panic - breathe
Flight mode – wise food choice
It’s OK to leave the party
or to make it smaller
somewhere quieter.
medickinson
Public speaking for quiet people
Public Speaking Skills for Quiet
People
Dr Michelle Dickinson @medickinson M316
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Public speaking for quiet people

  • 2. Public Speaking Skills for Quiet People Dr Michelle Dickinson @medickinson M316
  • 6. Sympathetic nervous system Fight or flight response Adrenaline Panic
  • 7. Red Face Uncontrollable Heart Beat Sweaty Palms Sense of Panic Flight mode
  • 9. What if those eyes were waiting to be fed by you?
  • 10. Afraid of Public Speaking 74% 2013 research by the National Institute of Mental Health
  • 12. Do you get anxious when speaking to a new person? Would you rather work alone than in a team? Would you prefer to stay at home than attend an after-work party? medickinson
  • 13. People Conversations Talking with strangers Thoughts Introvert Draining, must recharge Listen more, talk in depth Don’t Internalise before sharing Extrovert Energising Initiate, superficial chat Talk anything with anyone Verbalise thoughts
  • 14. Dopamine – brain reward system responds more strongly to risk and adventure in extroverts. Introverts easily over stimulated so seek quiet time to lower this. Individual differences in extraversion and dopamine genetics predict neural reward responses, Cognitive Brain Research 2005 Individual differences in amygdala-medial prefrontal anatomy link negative affect, impaired social functioning and polygenic depression risk, The Journal of Neuroscience, 2012
  • 15. What if I……… …Screw it up? …Look stupid? …Don’t know the answer?
  • 16. They want to learn something. You are just the vehicle to empower them. medickinson
  • 17. You were given the opportunity because others want to hear from you. Don’t let self doubt put you off. medickinson
  • 18. “I think introverts can do well. If you’re clever, you can learn to get the benefits of being an introvert, which might be willing to go off for a few days and think about a tough problem, read everything you can, push yourself very hard to think out on the edge of that area.” Bill Gates
  • 20. Introverts over prepare, we read, we reflect, we take our time to make sure its right. medickinson
  • 21. Preparing for a speech is all about quiet time to work on your delivery and content. medickinson
  • 22. Our slides are effective, informative and well thought out. medickinson
  • 23. Preparing for presentation involves delivering solid arguments backed up by analytical data from our research. medickinson
  • 24. Presentations don’t require small talk or social interaction. medickinson
  • 25. Taking time to think before we speak allows us to be clear on our points and removes the pressure of on the spot conversations. medickinson
  • 26. We can research our topic by listening to the needs of our audience helping us to prepare useful content. medickinson
  • 27. Presentations are like a deep one-on-one conversation with your audience. medickinson
  • 28. Presentations involve you working alone on stage with only you speaking. medickinson
  • 29. Presentations give us a chance to speak up without being interrupted by more dominant or confident people. medickinson
  • 30. It’s OK to be nervous, but imagine the confidence you instill when you start strong.
  • 32. Memory imprints on the brain differently through tongue movement. What are your eyebrows doing? Do you look passionate? medickinson
  • 35. This is a two way conversation. Eye contact with your audience doesn’t have to involve two sets of eyes. medickinson
  • 36. Provide a way for non-verbal questions to be asked. medickinson
  • 37. Red Face – clothing choice Uncontrollable Heart Beat - music Sweaty Palms – don’t hold anything! Sense of Panic - breathe Flight mode – wise food choice
  • 38. It’s OK to leave the party or to make it smaller somewhere quieter. medickinson
  • 40. Public Speaking Skills for Quiet People Dr Michelle Dickinson @medickinson M316
  • 41. Subscribe to our fortnightly newsletter http://aka.ms/technetnz http://aka.ms/msdnnz http://aka.ms/ch9nz Free Online Learning http://aka.ms/mva Sessions on Demand
  • 43. © 2015 Microsoft Corporation. All rights reserved. Microsoft, Windows and other product names are or may be registered trademarks and/or trademarks in the U.S. and/or other countries. MICROSOFT MAKES NO WARRANTIES, EXPRESS, IMPLIED OR STATUTORY, AS TO THE INFORMATION IN THIS PRESENTATION.