6 things that you should not say

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6 things that you should not say

  1. 1. GOOD PARENTING6 THINGSTHAT YOUSHOULD NOTSAY TOYOUR CHILD UDGAM SCHOOL FOR CHILDREN www.udgamschool.com
  2. 2. • Children are sensitiveGOOD PARENTING and putting down their emotions and feelings isTHAT’S the last thing that youRIDICULOUS! can do. At their level, they give importance toSTOP things that may notBEHAVING seem important to you. But try to understandLIKE A CHILD. what they are going through. UDGAM SCHOOL FOR CHILDREN www.udgamschool.com
  3. 3. • This is totally unfair asGOOD PARENTING individuals are different. Also by comparisonWHY between siblings, you areCAN’Y giving rise to rivalry and causing a rift betweenYOU BE them. Even comparing withMORE LIKE peers is not fair to the child and should not be done.YOURBROTHER? UDGAM SCHOOL FOR CHILDREN www.udgamschool.com
  4. 4. • The message that you sendGOOD PARENTING out here is that the child is worthless and incapable.YOU ARE This may actually makeSUCH A your child feel so and lead to underperformance. ItLOSER! YOU humiliates your child butDO does not lead to anyEVERYTHIG positive change.WRONG . UDGAM SCHOOL FOR CHILDREN www.udgamschool.com
  5. 5. • Although you may be hurtGOOD PARENTING because of your child’s actions, do not say thingsI DON’T that will cut him off. TheWANT TO child depends on the parents and cutting him offHAVE will lead to insecurity. AlsoANYTHING he will feel that he can doTO DO anything now as he is outside your jurisdiction.WITH YOUANYMORE! UDGAM SCHOOL FOR CHILDREN www.udgamschool.com
  6. 6. • Sometimes you may feelGOOD PARENTING totally defeated and resort to such kind of statements.I WISH This sends out a negative message and makes theYOU child feel unwanted.HADN’T Resolve the issue but do not make it more volatile.BEENBORN! UDGAM SCHOOL FOR CHILDREN www.udgamschool.com
  7. 7. • Saying things to this effectGOOD PARENTING will have a very negative effect on your child. YouI are not his peer but his parent and this will make him believe that he isHATE repulsive as he holds his parents to be the harbingerYOU! of truth. Don’t lose your maturity. UDGAM SCHOOL FOR CHILDREN www.udgamschool.com
  8. 8. RESOLVE ISSUES• Take a deep breath and pause from saying something hurtful.• Refocus and get things done instead of giving vent to anger.• Leave the situation by saying ‘We will talk about this later’.• If you are very angry simply leave the room.• Arguing with your child will make him or her lose respect.• Say things only once and do not yell as this shows your desperation.• Cut out privileges like television or pocket money instead of answering back when your child is very rude to you.• Never ignore your child. Show that you care.http://www.udgamschool.com info@udgamschool.com Thaltej, Ahmedabad-380 054 Phone:07926850339 Gujarat , India 99251 53153 UDGAM SCHOOL FOR CHILDREN www.udgamschool.com

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