5 Keys to Unlock Your Dreams by Life Coach & Author Malti Bhojwani - Key 2

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5 Keys to Unlock Your Dreams by Life Coach & Author Malti Bhojwani - Key 2

  1. 1. 5 KEYS TO BEGIN LIVING THE LIFESTYLE OF YOUR DREAMS NOW! (NOT LATER) KEY 2
  2. 2. 5 KEYS KEY 1 – SEE KEY 2 – DECIDE KEY 3 – THE GAP KEY 4 – TAKE (the 1st) ACTION KEY 5 – CONTINUE
  3. 3. KEY 2 - DECIDE • DECIDE • DECLARE • DELETE • RECONNECT
  4. 4. DECIDE • DECIDE what you don’t want in your life based on what you HONESTLY can now SEE. Look at the areas where you ranked at 6 or below. • So what you DO WANT is simply the OPPOSITE of that. • For these 30 days please choose just 1 AREA. (NOT LOVE!)
  5. 5. DECLARE IT! • My INTENTION: WRITE it down clearly and in a way that is short and specific. ALL OR NOTHING – GO FOR IT OPTION: SHOUT IT OUT FROM THE MOUNTAIN TOP: POST IT ON YOUR FACEBOOK AND SHARE IT ON My Facebook Page
  6. 6. DECLARING IS POWERFUEL (not a typo)  • LOOK AT MAKING YOUR DECLARATION LIKE ADDING FUEL TO YOUR INTENTION!!! • I DECLARED THAT I WOULD HAVE MY BOOK PUBLISHED BY November 2011 (It came out in July 2012) REACH FOR THE STARS…you may land on the moon!
  7. 7. DECLARE • You get whatever accomplishment you are willing to declare. – Georgia O’Keefe • When you have the confidence to declare these decisions, you breathe power into them. • The conviction you demonstrate by declaring your decision is the energy that fuels your desires. – Malti Bhojwani – “Don’t Think of a Blue Ball”
  8. 8. • The reason we do not declare is that we doubt and therefore are afraid of failing in front of others. • “With clear intention, you get clear results. There is POWER when you are clear on what you want.”
  9. 9. SHARING THIS DECLARATION… • People who you know would never support you in this declaration may be the ones you need to consider for deletion or at least moved to the “outer-circle”. • Consider people from your past or outer-circle who you could reconnect with and share this declaration.
  10. 10. DELETE • people - because being around them or hearing from them does not give you any joy. • delete them from your phone, email lists, social media. • Look out for constant drama, or conversations that drag you into a realm of complaining and criticising. • You could tell them that you are working on a project and need to be left alone for a while. If they can respect that, then perhaps you may be able to reconsider your decision to delete them and instead have them in your “outercircle” for now.
  11. 11. DELETE • Be strong about setting up your boundaries. • Remember, say no to say yes to something more important to you. • Don’t worry about what they may think of you. • This is different for family for whom you have an underlying love and concern, in which case be discerning enough to work on your boundaries and communicating style with them.
  12. 12. RECONNECT • SOMETIMES unfinished business can cause a rift in old friendships. • TAKE CAN HONEST LOOK at what you can do to mend it. • RECONNECT with people by engaging and being CURIOUS about their lives. • USE social media, if you like. LinkedIn is a great way to make professional reconnections!
  13. 13. DECLARATION • Post your 1 BIG DECLARATION on FACEBOOK or… • Announce it to 10 friends or… • Tell your coach plus 4 friends or at the least… • Share it with me plus 2 friends
  14. 14. KEY 3 – GAP • Take an HONEST look • How wide is the GAP? • What are you doing in your life that is actually taking you I the OPPOSIITE direction. • Then you make excuses about it saying you ONLY once in a way. • Blind spots that are counter-productive • You could be moving forward but you are doing stuff that are taking you backwards, so you end up in the same spot, instead of bridging the gap

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