Dealing With Perfectionism Elianas Ppt


Published on

ESL learner's refelction on her shortcoming

  • Be the first to comment

  • Be the first to like this

No Downloads
Total views
On SlideShare
From Embeds
Number of Embeds
Embeds 0
No embeds

No notes for slide

Dealing With Perfectionism Elianas Ppt

  1. 1. My main shortcoming By: Eliana Ramirez September 20, 2010
  2. 2. What is the concept? <ul><li>A perfectionist is a person that insists that things should be done perfectly </li></ul>
  3. 3. I’m perfectionist (symptoms) <ul><li>I think I develop very well my projects. But I always think I had could do it better. </li></ul><ul><li>No matter what I do, nothing is ever good enough for me. </li></ul><ul><li>I always want something else. </li></ul><ul><li>I’m very strict, specially at my work. </li></ul>
  4. 4. Negative consequences <ul><li>If you are a perfectionist person, you’ll be stressed all the time, because you always want that all things are perfect. </li></ul><ul><li>In consequence, The stress could cause illness in any part of your body. You could eventually suffer a heart attack, in the worse of the cases. </li></ul><ul><li>You can be in a bad – tempered all the time, specially when a person don’t do the things in the way you want it. </li></ul>
  5. 5. Negative consequences <ul><li>You don’t value your own efforts and the other one. </li></ul><ul><li>Nothing is ever good enough for you. So, you can’t be happy with your life. </li></ul><ul><li>There isn’t satisfaction at any moment of your life, because you always want something else. </li></ul>
  6. 6. Positive consequences <ul><li>In general, when you are a perfectionist, you are very responsible. </li></ul><ul><li>You can have a lot of possibilities for getting successful in different fields. </li></ul><ul><li>You are an organized person. </li></ul><ul><li>You can become an important leader. </li></ul><ul><li>You can be a good employee. </li></ul>
  7. 7. How you can overcome it!! <ul><li>You should understand that the human being can make mistakes; the most important in these cases is that you can correct your own mistakes and learn of them. </li></ul><ul><li>It’s very important to remember that in the world aren’t everything perfect, the unique perfect being is God. </li></ul><ul><li>You should learn to value your efforts, at the same time that you should value the efforts of the other persons. </li></ul>
  8. 8. How you can overcome it!! <ul><li>You should understand that If you is a person perfectionist, you never will be happy, you’ll stay sad because you have been hoping better results, although the current results were very good. </li></ul><ul><li>You should know that when you gave all what you could have given for getting a goal, you can relax. </li></ul>
  9. 9. This shortcoming can be seen in your face!!! WITHOUT SHORTCOMING WITH SHORTCOMING
  10. 10. BYE……. <ul><li>THANK YOU FOR YOUR ATTENTION!!!! </li></ul>