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“Why Can’t I Move
On?”
Narcissistic Abuse:
A Complex Trauma
Compiled by Jeni Mawter
www.jenimawter.com
http://www.mymajors.com/blog/creativeoutlook/files/2013/10/chained-dreams-online.jpg
What happened when you met your
narcissist?
The narcissist mirrored your needs, desires,
fears and insecurities. They mirr...
Narcissistic Relationships
are mutually
addictive
http://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/originals/b4/78/db/b478dbc011d6086ed99...
Narcissistic Relationships
are mutually
addictive
The Narcissist
wants to be:
Loved
Adored
Admired
Cherished
http://thumbs...
A Relationship with a
Narcissist
comes at a cost
Mental Cost = Sanity/Self-
esteem/Confidence
Physical Cost = Energy/Safet...
http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/dd/b2/73/ddb273f68f08c262425fd14f0f10c89d.jpg
“Why do you
keep paying
with your life?”
Maybe you don’t know
what you’ve been dealing
with
http://www.adamsmith.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/ignorance-620x300.p...
Maybe you ignore Warning
Signs
http://naijaoddstories.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/wpid-17.jpeg
Don’t listen to your intuition?
http://brainworldmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/shutterstock_99404807.jpg
Maybe you do know
EVERYTHING about
Narcissistic Personality
http://media-cache-ec3.pinimg.com/736x/dc/23/ec/dc23ec68e11e3f...
Yet you
still
can’t
move on!
Knowledge
hasn’t helped you
http://assets.mixxtopia.com/images/730x%3E/80/91/0d/80910d0dfde84859be2c44a84616f107.jpg
Knowledge alone is not enough
https://homesforfamilies.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/knowledgeispower.gif
Maybe you choose not to
act?
http://fc03.deviantart.net/fs47/f/2009/239/3/4/
i__m_sorry__my_hands_are_tied__
by_boobookitt...
Maybe you don’t know how to
act?
http://www.psychologyatsouthyarra.com.au/images/psychology_help.jpg
Don’t know where to start?
http://orgjunkie.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/when-you-dont-know-where-to-start2.jpg
What
to do?
Who
am I?
http://modifiedarts.org/wp-content/
uploads/Potter-11.jpg
Caution!
https://farm8.staticflickr.com/7019/6489863301_3269733f06.jpg
Why are you stuck
in this perpetual cycle?
Stuck in the aftermath of
Narcissistic Abuse?
Some thoughts
…
Have you become
dehumanized?
As human beings we:
- have essential needs to be accepted,
loved and respected by ourselves a...
Society Let You Down? - Myths
http://sd.keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk
Society Let You Down? – Family
http://real.fstatuses.com/cards/hearts/642154.jpg
Society Let You Down? –
Religious Leaders
http://images.3aw.com.au/2012/12/19/3901153/191212-Religious-Symbols.jpg
Society Let You Down? –
Health Professionals
http://www.paulkiritsis.net/drugabuse.jpg
Society Let You Down? -
Counselors
http://image.slidesharecdn.com/7mythsaboutnarcissism-110215075316-phpapp02/95/7-myths-a...
Society Let You Down? –
Law Enforcement
http://d3thflcq1yqzn0.cloudfront.net/022416038_prevstill.jpeg
Society Let You Down? –
Legal System
Narcissists
love
Courtroom Drama
http://storytweetblog.com/2014/09/13/
narcissistic-r...
Society Let You Down? –
You
ME?!!!
http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2012/111/3/d/what_do_you_mean_meme_by_jasperseidel-d4...
Maybe you won’t believe
the abuse is deliberate
https://www.pilkington.com/~/media/Platform/Icons/Pilkington%20Product%20C...
You’re keeping up a façade
http://fc05.deviantart.net/fs70/i/2013/231/4/b/behind_the_mask_by_kaizoku_hime-d6it0f3.jpg
You feel ashamed …
http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Society/Pix/pictures/2011/7/6/1309962558124/Young-black-man-with-
h...
You’ve been in denial
http://economictimes.indiatimes.com/thumb/msid-22175182,width-310,resizemode-4/poke-me-shouldnt-we-
...
You’ve been living with the
false hope that things will
change
http://fc00.deviantart.net/fs14/f/2007/043/0/7/false_hope_b...
It feels like you’ve got
too much to lose
http://www.jobboardscripts.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/stay-or-leave.jpg
You’re being Triangulated
http://www.theravive.com/blog/image.axd?picture=2009%2F7%2Ftriangulation-a.jpg
You feel overwhelmed
http://b.fastcompany.net/multisite_files/fastcompany/imagecache/1280/poster/2014/10/3037633-poster-p-...
You feel abandoned
http://www.runningwithspoons.com
You’re confused …
http://thereselives.files.wordpress.com/2014/02/large.jpg
When you Dissociate to
Disappear,
http://metaphoricalmarathons.files.wordpress.com/2012/11/20121115-143310.jpg
it feels like you’ve lost your
soul
http://images.fineartamerica.com/images-medium-large-5/a-lost-soul-brian-graybill.jpg
You’ve become a “Missing
Person”
in a body
http://pixelsatanexhibition-com.zippykid.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2013...
You don’t know who you are
anymore
http://www.pastortullian.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/identity_crisis-291x3001.jpg
Your assumptions about
yourself
have been shattered. You now
feel:- Vulnerable
- Unlovable
- Irrational
- Immoral
- Unwort...
You don’t have the energy
to move on
You were taught wrong!
http://www.liveluvcreate.com/image/love_respect_forgive-439073.html
When you expect nothing
in return you’ve learnt …
http://blank.to/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/5_k.jpg
You’ve become Nothing
http://samuelatgilgal.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/criticism-784297.jpg
Maybe you’ve been betrayed
too many
times!
http://www.psychic-medium-readings.co.uk/blog/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/betray...
You’ve lost all your trust
http://drewchial.files.wordpress.com/2013/04/trust-fall.jpg
Maybe there are too many
narcissists in your life?!
http://uploads0.wikiart.org/images/honore-daumier/meeting-of-thirty-fi...
Your boundaries are being
violated
http://musictherapyeolcare.files.wordpress.com/2014/03/fence.jpg?w=672&h=372&crop=1
You are in a permanent state
of
Hypervigilence
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NJ9wC5l-
8nE/Tqn6nW_3uzI/AAAAAAAABVk/PimfqmmjPX8/...
You can’t concentrate or
sleep
http://www.batte.com/images/figures/e.exhaustion.w.jpg
You’re exhausted …
http://data1.whicdn.com/images/40542999/thumb.jpg
You’re bogged down with
negative self talk
http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/image3.jpg
You’re confused by
mixed messages
http://www.9lenses.com/wp-content/uploads/The_Ultimate_Love-Hate_Relationship_–_Marketin...
You think you’re going
Crazy!
http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs71/i/2011/357/e/5/i__m_not_crazy____am_i__by_maxkill300-d4k1m5d...
The Pain is Physical and
Constant
http://kalabalu.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/22-649x627.jpeg
Yet your wounds are invisible
http://wwwassets.rand.org/content/rand/capabilities/solutions/addressing-the-invisible-wound...
Tactic: Reversal of Victim
Role
The Narcissist puts a huge amount of effort into their
public persona. Bystanders believe ...
People don’t understand
the extent of your torment
http://media-cache-
ak0.pinimg.com/originals/9a/c1/25/9ac1255051f26cc63...
So there’s No Validation
We heal
when
we are
heard
and
validated
No Validation means No Justice
from
 Legal Systems
 Family
 Friends
 Work Colleagues
 Peers
 New Partners
 Health S...
It feels like it’s never over
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bI36yWhwDLw/UciMvOCoDuI/AAAAAAAAAaE/pWKyiAudbKI/s1600/spider.jpg
Nothing gets resolved!!!
http://cps-static.rovicorp.com/3/JPG_400/MI0002/095/MI0002095848.jpg?partner=allrovi.com
You feel trapped
http://static.squarespace.com/static/540cc627e4b068678cd35206/t/5435aad5e4b09dbd92ea6da2/1412803285714/
0...
You’re Emotionally ‘Shut
Down’
http://chosen129.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2014/04/HolleyGerth-Quote.jpg
‘Self’ doubting
http://www.nextbigwhat.com/pi-of-life-please-stop-hiding-in-the-cracks-297/
Isolation gives ‘Self’
Protection
http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/c7/80/2b/c7802bf8ab9702442374b03cfaaa8c26.jpg
You keep re-living the pain
http://www.psychologytoday.com/files/imagecache/og/blogs/40875/2010/12/51578-41666.jpg
Your pain is your identity
http://www.imaginationstudio.com/images/digiart/damedium/Identity%20Crisis.jpg
You’re stuck on being ‘The
Victim’
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-
7C9UIz3JozU/Uw2BLvI3AvI/AAAAAAAAARE/eHZEDe4hgBU/s1600/
Steve...
You’re Stuck in the Past
http://images.psxextreme.com/wallpapers/ps3/lost_identity_1273.jpg
Unresolved
Grief and Forgiveness
http://brainbodybalance.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/forgiveness1-300x227.png
You’re too nice! In order to move on
you must reject what drives you
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-jfUgrSCsIUI/TnJBF-
42xbI/AA...
You feel meaningless
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/203/488566808_3c5703fecb.jpg?v=1178597646
You feel used and
discarded
http://dethcheez.deviantart.com/art/Discarded-2-Close-Up-60849999
You feel powerless
http://www.carolecgood.com/1206409464X4DK13I.jpg
You feel
battle
worn
http://thechive.files.wordpress.com
/2013/01/top-taps-127-42.jpg
?w=500&h=750
Why is it so easy
for an abuser
to get away with it
and so difficult
for an abuse victim
to be heard?
Unless others have experienced
Narcissistic Abuse they don’t
believe it
https://afternarcissisticabuse.files.wordpress.com...
You can’t change
a Narcissist
so you have to
change your ‘Self’
What is your ‘Self’?
http://images.fineartamerica.com/images-medium-large/who-am-i-sladjana-
endt.jpg
Needs
Desires
Opinio...
Start by
finding the
missing
‘You’
http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/
originals/7a/54/f6/7a54f6983fa3ae
7506473501c28fee9b...
Maybe create a new ‘You’
http://i.vimeocdn.com/video/493294383_640.jpg
Watch this space!
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About Jeni Mawter
Jeni Mawter is an Australian
writer whose young adult
multi-text novel, Kiss Kill, is
about Narcissistic...
Narcissistic Abuse
thrives in secrecy
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A person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder sucks the life and shatters the soul out of the caring person in the relationship. Healing from Narcissistic Abuse is a long and painful process. To move on from this toxic and hopeless situation seems insurmountable. This PowerPoint was created to address the question I am most commonly asked: ‘Why Can’t I Move On?’ I hope it helps. Jeni Mawter

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Why Can't I Move On? Narcissistic Abuse: A Complex Trauma. Compiled by Jeni Mawter

  1. 1. “Why Can’t I Move On?” Narcissistic Abuse: A Complex Trauma Compiled by Jeni Mawter www.jenimawter.com
  2. 2. http://www.mymajors.com/blog/creativeoutlook/files/2013/10/chained-dreams-online.jpg
  3. 3. What happened when you met your narcissist? The narcissist mirrored your needs, desires, fears and insecurities. They mirrored your ideals, beliefs and value systems. They shared your ethics and human compassion. They were the whole package. Mind + Body + Spirit + Soul = Soul Mate You’d found your Soul Mate!
  4. 4. Narcissistic Relationships are mutually addictive http://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/originals/b4/78/db/b478dbc011d6086ed99c19e7a55a9769.jpg
  5. 5. Narcissistic Relationships are mutually addictive The Narcissist wants to be: Loved Adored Admired Cherished http://thumbs.dreamstime.com/x/chain-hearts- 17930342.jpg You want to be: Loved Adored Admired Cherished
  6. 6. A Relationship with a Narcissist comes at a cost Mental Cost = Sanity/Self- esteem/Confidence Physical Cost = Energy/Safety/Health Psychological Cost = Fear/Depression/Anxiety Spiritual Cost = Lose your ‘Self’/Soul/Spirit Social Cost = Reputation/Networks/Supports Sexual Cost = Relationships/Pleasure/Trust
  7. 7. http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/dd/b2/73/ddb273f68f08c262425fd14f0f10c89d.jpg
  8. 8. “Why do you keep paying with your life?”
  9. 9. Maybe you don’t know what you’ve been dealing with http://www.adamsmith.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/ignorance-620x300.png
  10. 10. Maybe you ignore Warning Signs http://naijaoddstories.files.wordpress.com/2013/08/wpid-17.jpeg
  11. 11. Don’t listen to your intuition? http://brainworldmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/shutterstock_99404807.jpg
  12. 12. Maybe you do know EVERYTHING about Narcissistic Personality http://media-cache-ec3.pinimg.com/736x/dc/23/ec/dc23ec68e11e3fd8856c66529a204c8c.jpg
  13. 13. Yet you still can’t move on!
  14. 14. Knowledge hasn’t helped you http://assets.mixxtopia.com/images/730x%3E/80/91/0d/80910d0dfde84859be2c44a84616f107.jpg
  15. 15. Knowledge alone is not enough https://homesforfamilies.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/knowledgeispower.gif
  16. 16. Maybe you choose not to act? http://fc03.deviantart.net/fs47/f/2009/239/3/4/ i__m_sorry__my_hands_are_tied__ by_boobookittyfuck.jpg
  17. 17. Maybe you don’t know how to act? http://www.psychologyatsouthyarra.com.au/images/psychology_help.jpg
  18. 18. Don’t know where to start? http://orgjunkie.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/when-you-dont-know-where-to-start2.jpg
  19. 19. What to do? Who am I? http://modifiedarts.org/wp-content/ uploads/Potter-11.jpg
  20. 20. Caution! https://farm8.staticflickr.com/7019/6489863301_3269733f06.jpg
  21. 21. Why are you stuck in this perpetual cycle? Stuck in the aftermath of Narcissistic Abuse? Some thoughts …
  22. 22. Have you become dehumanized? As human beings we: - have essential needs to be accepted, loved and respected by ourselves and others. - have dreams and hopes for meaningful and productive futures. - need to feel connected with others.
  23. 23. Society Let You Down? - Myths http://sd.keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk
  24. 24. Society Let You Down? – Family http://real.fstatuses.com/cards/hearts/642154.jpg
  25. 25. Society Let You Down? – Religious Leaders http://images.3aw.com.au/2012/12/19/3901153/191212-Religious-Symbols.jpg
  26. 26. Society Let You Down? – Health Professionals http://www.paulkiritsis.net/drugabuse.jpg
  27. 27. Society Let You Down? - Counselors http://image.slidesharecdn.com/7mythsaboutnarcissism-110215075316-phpapp02/95/7-myths-about-narcissism-4- 728.jpg?cb=1411737172
  28. 28. Society Let You Down? – Law Enforcement http://d3thflcq1yqzn0.cloudfront.net/022416038_prevstill.jpeg
  29. 29. Society Let You Down? – Legal System Narcissists love Courtroom Drama http://storytweetblog.com/2014/09/13/ narcissistic-repercussion/
  30. 30. Society Let You Down? – You ME?!!! http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2012/111/3/d/what_do_you_mean_meme_by_jasperseidel-d4x2gtr.jpg
  31. 31. Maybe you won’t believe the abuse is deliberate https://www.pilkington.com/~/media/Platform/Icons/Pilkington%20Product%20Categories/BLC%20Safety%20Securi ty.ashx?mw=200
  32. 32. You’re keeping up a façade http://fc05.deviantart.net/fs70/i/2013/231/4/b/behind_the_mask_by_kaizoku_hime-d6it0f3.jpg
  33. 33. You feel ashamed … http://static.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Society/Pix/pictures/2011/7/6/1309962558124/Young-black-man-with- head-007.jpg
  34. 34. You’ve been in denial http://economictimes.indiatimes.com/thumb/msid-22175182,width-310,resizemode-4/poke-me-shouldnt-we- stop-being-in-denial-over-the-health-of-our-leaders-people-readers-react.jpg
  35. 35. You’ve been living with the false hope that things will change http://fc00.deviantart.net/fs14/f/2007/043/0/7/false_hope_by_feelmefromtheINSIDE.jpg
  36. 36. It feels like you’ve got too much to lose http://www.jobboardscripts.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/stay-or-leave.jpg
  37. 37. You’re being Triangulated http://www.theravive.com/blog/image.axd?picture=2009%2F7%2Ftriangulation-a.jpg
  38. 38. You feel overwhelmed http://b.fastcompany.net/multisite_files/fastcompany/imagecache/1280/poster/2014/10/3037633-poster-p-1-6-steps- to-stop-feeling-so-overwhelmed.jpg
  39. 39. You feel abandoned http://www.runningwithspoons.com
  40. 40. You’re confused … http://thereselives.files.wordpress.com/2014/02/large.jpg
  41. 41. When you Dissociate to Disappear, http://metaphoricalmarathons.files.wordpress.com/2012/11/20121115-143310.jpg
  42. 42. it feels like you’ve lost your soul http://images.fineartamerica.com/images-medium-large-5/a-lost-soul-brian-graybill.jpg
  43. 43. You’ve become a “Missing Person” in a body http://pixelsatanexhibition-com.zippykid.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/michelle- robinson_uselessness-project-365-looking-for-the-lost-self_130201-1024x768.jpg
  44. 44. You don’t know who you are anymore http://www.pastortullian.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/identity_crisis-291x3001.jpg
  45. 45. Your assumptions about yourself have been shattered. You now feel:- Vulnerable - Unlovable - Irrational - Immoral - Unworthy - Unforgiving - Irrelevant - Weak - A poor judge of character - Shameful - Not Safe - Undeserving - Lack confidence - Gullible - Desperate - Bitter - Angry - Naïve - A failure - Traumatized - Powerless
  46. 46. You don’t have the energy to move on
  47. 47. You were taught wrong! http://www.liveluvcreate.com/image/love_respect_forgive-439073.html
  48. 48. When you expect nothing in return you’ve learnt … http://blank.to/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/5_k.jpg
  49. 49. You’ve become Nothing http://samuelatgilgal.files.wordpress.com/2008/05/criticism-784297.jpg
  50. 50. Maybe you’ve been betrayed too many times! http://www.psychic-medium-readings.co.uk/blog/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/betrayal-240x300.jpg
  51. 51. You’ve lost all your trust http://drewchial.files.wordpress.com/2013/04/trust-fall.jpg
  52. 52. Maybe there are too many narcissists in your life?! http://uploads0.wikiart.org/images/honore-daumier/meeting-of-thirty-five-heads-of-expression.jpg
  53. 53. Your boundaries are being violated http://musictherapyeolcare.files.wordpress.com/2014/03/fence.jpg?w=672&h=372&crop=1
  54. 54. You are in a permanent state of Hypervigilence http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-NJ9wC5l- 8nE/Tqn6nW_3uzI/AAAAAAAABVk/PimfqmmjPX8/s400/Fight%2BOr%2BFlight%2BUncertainty.jpg
  55. 55. You can’t concentrate or sleep http://www.batte.com/images/figures/e.exhaustion.w.jpg
  56. 56. You’re exhausted … http://data1.whicdn.com/images/40542999/thumb.jpg
  57. 57. You’re bogged down with negative self talk http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/image3.jpg
  58. 58. You’re confused by mixed messages http://www.9lenses.com/wp-content/uploads/The_Ultimate_Love-Hate_Relationship_–_Marketing__Sales.gif
  59. 59. You think you’re going Crazy! http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs71/i/2011/357/e/5/i__m_not_crazy____am_i__by_maxkill300-d4k1m5d.jpg
  60. 60. The Pain is Physical and Constant http://kalabalu.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/22-649x627.jpeg
  61. 61. Yet your wounds are invisible http://wwwassets.rand.org/content/rand/capabilities/solutions/addressing-the-invisible-wounds-of- war/_jcr_content/par/solution/contextImage.aspectfit.0x0.jpg/1393779650822.jpg
  62. 62. Tactic: Reversal of Victim Role The Narcissist puts a huge amount of effort into their public persona. Bystanders believe that they are genuine, righteous and kind. If a victim attempts to disclose their maliciousness The Narcissist makes derogatory remarks about the target’s mental state, character and motives. They use role reversal, feigning moral indignation and playing the role of victim. Believing the public persona supporters see the real victim, attempting to be heard, as the abusive one.
  63. 63. People don’t understand the extent of your torment http://media-cache- ak0.pinimg.com/originals/9a/c1/25/9ac1255051f26cc63203a58ab14556a1.jpg
  64. 64. So there’s No Validation We heal when we are heard and validated
  65. 65. No Validation means No Justice from  Legal Systems  Family  Friends  Work Colleagues  Peers  New Partners  Health Systems http://www.wallpaperhere.com/System_Failure_6939/downloa d_1024x768
  66. 66. It feels like it’s never over http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-bI36yWhwDLw/UciMvOCoDuI/AAAAAAAAAaE/pWKyiAudbKI/s1600/spider.jpg
  67. 67. Nothing gets resolved!!! http://cps-static.rovicorp.com/3/JPG_400/MI0002/095/MI0002095848.jpg?partner=allrovi.com
  68. 68. You feel trapped http://static.squarespace.com/static/540cc627e4b068678cd35206/t/5435aad5e4b09dbd92ea6da2/1412803285714/ 06web.jpg
  69. 69. You’re Emotionally ‘Shut Down’ http://chosen129.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2014/04/HolleyGerth-Quote.jpg
  70. 70. ‘Self’ doubting http://www.nextbigwhat.com/pi-of-life-please-stop-hiding-in-the-cracks-297/
  71. 71. Isolation gives ‘Self’ Protection http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/c7/80/2b/c7802bf8ab9702442374b03cfaaa8c26.jpg
  72. 72. You keep re-living the pain http://www.psychologytoday.com/files/imagecache/og/blogs/40875/2010/12/51578-41666.jpg
  73. 73. Your pain is your identity http://www.imaginationstudio.com/images/digiart/damedium/Identity%20Crisis.jpg
  74. 74. You’re stuck on being ‘The Victim’ http://3.bp.blogspot.com/- 7C9UIz3JozU/Uw2BLvI3AvI/AAAAAAAAARE/eHZEDe4hgBU/s1600/ Steve+Maraboli+Quote+Victim+Mentality.jpg
  75. 75. You’re Stuck in the Past http://images.psxextreme.com/wallpapers/ps3/lost_identity_1273.jpg
  76. 76. Unresolved Grief and Forgiveness http://brainbodybalance.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/forgiveness1-300x227.png
  77. 77. You’re too nice! In order to move on you must reject what drives you http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-jfUgrSCsIUI/TnJBF- 42xbI/AAAAAAAAANA/RgeO0vYQf_8/s1600/I+Face+Trials+with+an+Open+Mind%252C+Faith%252C+Love+
  78. 78. You feel meaningless http://farm1.static.flickr.com/203/488566808_3c5703fecb.jpg?v=1178597646
  79. 79. You feel used and discarded http://dethcheez.deviantart.com/art/Discarded-2-Close-Up-60849999
  80. 80. You feel powerless http://www.carolecgood.com/1206409464X4DK13I.jpg
  81. 81. You feel battle worn http://thechive.files.wordpress.com /2013/01/top-taps-127-42.jpg ?w=500&h=750
  82. 82. Why is it so easy for an abuser to get away with it and so difficult for an abuse victim to be heard?
  83. 83. Unless others have experienced Narcissistic Abuse they don’t believe it https://afternarcissisticabuse.files.wordpress.com/2013/12/1inexplicable.jpg?w=604
  84. 84. You can’t change a Narcissist so you have to change your ‘Self’
  85. 85. What is your ‘Self’? http://images.fineartamerica.com/images-medium-large/who-am-i-sladjana- endt.jpg Needs Desires Opinions Thoughts Feelings Values Beliefs Voice Ideals
  86. 86. Start by finding the missing ‘You’ http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/ originals/7a/54/f6/7a54f6983fa3ae 7506473501c28fee9b.jpg
  87. 87. Maybe create a new ‘You’ http://i.vimeocdn.com/video/493294383_640.jpg
  88. 88. Watch this space! http://www.birmingham-box.co.uk/files/images/applicationfiles/1128.001eeb5e/800x600.fitdown.jpg
  89. 89. About Jeni Mawter Jeni Mawter is an Australian writer whose young adult multi-text novel, Kiss Kill, is about Narcissistic Personality Disorder. http://amzn.com/B00PIADCNY www.jenimawter.com
  90. 90. Narcissistic Abuse thrives in secrecy Please share http://pixabay.com/p-310969/?no_redirect
  91. 91. Other Narcissistic Personality Disorder links to share  http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/red-flags-to- narcissistic-personality-disorder-compiled-by-jeni- mawter  http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/narcissistic- victim-syndrome-a-powerpoint-by-jeni-mawter  http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/moving-on- from-narcissistic-abuse-due-to-narcissistic- personality-disorder-npd-compiled-by-jeni-mawter  http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/verbal-abuse- and-the-narcissist-communication-tactics-designed- to-make-you-crazy

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