Remember It communicates feeling – the primary way of expressing our emotions or instinctive reactions Sometimes intended and non intended It often complements oral/verbal communication Influenced by culture Difficult to fake
Types of NVC Body Language Space Para Language
Body Language Face and eyes are the most important facets of body language Gestures, movement of legs, hands, torso & head
Space Understand the space language (cultural) 4 zones: Intimate, personal, social & public Not everyone likes being touched!
ParalanguageIn Verbal: I didn’t SAY you were stupid I didn’t say YOU were stupidIn Text:You are late vs YOU ARELATE! ;) or <3
IndianismsCommon mistakes Indians do whilewriting/talking
What ya! I am here only! ( I am here) Myself Amit (my name is Amit/I am Amit) We are awaiting updation by manager I am taking rest / He is taking his lunch now I would(will) be coming to the meeting Put on the switch/put this dress (switch it on/ put on the dress) Don’t eat my head
Pass out! Kindly revert (kindly reply) He died many years back (years ago) Let’s discuss about sports today (discuss sports) Let’s order for biryani (order biryani) Do one thing, restart it, he is out of station. Prepone Ring him up, he is gymming I have my goggles & slippers, what’s the program? What is your good name?
Some tips Maximum of 2 pages front and back (URLs) Be original, at least with your objective Make a LinkedIn page, ask for recommendations from professors, others in the industry Write about specific skills This person has no clue about any