THE RIDDLE OF HAPPINESS: SUCCESS IS NOT FOR ALL, FOR THOSE WHO
CAN NOT BE HAPPY.
Iten Dr. Mario Camacho Mendoza

THE RIDDL...
How can you be happy, yes you are "a failure," a "nothings"? Yeah do not get job promotion or
career success? Yeah work as...
Many confuse the fact that happiness is free, to make it easy, the reality is that it is not, because
we live in disturbed...
properly then!-As-grandmothers say responsibly and will, or simply "do as we do them," joining
in this growing group of se...
should be on the live "mentality and sad, because in the end, if monsters or huge beasts speak, we
return to the dinosaurs...
Not our fault, because from childhood we programmed and manipulated in a total behaviorism,
are numbered, registered and t...
sacrifice family imposed on us, and in that sense, they are very expensive to go without worth a
tenth of the investment.
...
own our own executioner, keep our demons, our monsters are always hungry for recognition,
praise, vanity, selfishness, whi...
external, artificial, why complain when nobody sees in us what we really are or not we find what

we really want? How can ...
book high or it may save you from yourself, if you are not willing to make that happen, if you do
not believe in truth, if...
want "yesterday" , without recognizing that it may not deserve all we want; spent hours at the
computer, in social network...
that the Lord plays through us in the score of life, because there is no compelling evidence that
God exists, that come fr...
physical or earthly laws, do not say you leave everything and go as Buddha sit under a tree to
live in contemplation, just...
climate, basing our "professional growth" in both we curved back to kiss the boots of the boss not to put the word "l" - T...
vocation or profile, only one thing matters and asked: How much pay regardless of the harm we
cause not only personal, if ...
The real work generates advancement of the individual and of the society in which it is inserted,
no advancement of techno...
Understand then, the work is not a curse, it is a right! From men and women made in the image
of its Creator, it is a duty...
mindset that you have to remain silent without the slightest shred of dignity or employment
initiative with "unwritten com...
consumerism, and does not suit you we strengthen us "antibodies" social as honesty, legality and
civility, encourages us t...
and honest to be happy, are actually "warm up" for the real action that generates
happiness: Love, That in the words of th...
As living in a modern society is not synonymous with living in one that is fair, how can it be? If
more than ninety percen...
Just believe that happiness is perfect harmony, where nothing can stress or distress us, we
become stressed to create a st...
whom death was not eternal dishonor itself; All ancient cultures, are Maya, Egyptian or Spartan
flourished and grew becaus...
they are immersed in a group consisting fear system, if live as exist in real, present and perfect
tense, fear no future t...
What has this to do with happiness? might wonder, simple: Happiness is not the result of the
absence of fear or suffering,...
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
The riddle of happiness: The succes its not for all, only for those who cant not be happy
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the heart is more than a place to pump blood only function of muscle, which is actually a sophisticated organic carburetor electromagnetic pulses capable of mixing with metaendorfinas oxygen and other substances to enrich the blood , making it high octane fuel a trigger for the pulse of life, for breath, for it is said that the will is iron, and is not metaphorical , since the heart has the property of combining metal or iron enrich the blood with carbon oxygen, the appropriate dose of metaendorfinas and other minerals not yet known latent in it -a call which stardust , in reference to its origin - conforming force tougher than steelthe will ! currently considered a brain cognitive faculty , when it is really the heart that produces electromagnetic reaction that we call willpower, beyond a capacity to decide ,is the will power! Capable of forming the subject matter and govern our being , beyond accepting the most comfortable , forging the best choice , human will has opened more roads than dynamite , has prompted more exploration and discovery than any other tool or resource , is the true energy capacity that drives men and women.

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  1. 1. THE RIDDLE OF HAPPINESS: SUCCESS IS NOT FOR ALL, FOR THOSE WHO CAN NOT BE HAPPY. Iten Dr. Mario Camacho Mendoza THE RIDDLE OF HAPPINESS SUCCESS IS NOT FOR ALL, ONLY FOR THOSE WHO CAN NOT BE HAPPY. Dr. Iten Mario Camacho Mendoza ISBN-13: 978-607-00-7600-8 Complete digital version of the book converted to PDF format, allowing to be added to digital or virtual library, for the purpose of reading, study, consulting, academic and institutional dissemination and analysis only. Total or partial reproduction for profit or interest in particular. Contact and printed orders: profesorheuristico@hotmail.com
  2. 2. How can you be happy, yes you are "a failure," a "nothings"? Yeah do not get job promotion or career success? Yeah work as pack animals and live as a slave? If not enough to cover bills and invoices? Yes you do not have the popularity of prefab rock star or the body of the film diva of the moment? Yes your partner or family do not understand or do not value and just depression or anxiety are your most loyal companies?Yeah not you bought the latest version of your smart phone or clothes in the color of the season? Yeah do not get what you want, or you are with who you want or where you want and all the evils of life you happen to you like a bad "karma" or tragic fate? These and other dilemmas, are ravaging our true self, who suffocate in thick layers of convenience and selfishness to get the much desired social acceptance, forcing us to do so many things we do not want to be where we do not like, do not say what we think, what we want to be silent and buy what you do not need. We are raised in a sadomasochistic consumer society that encourages us faults and insecurities, shouting us in every commercial, every social convention, each imposed routine, which can not be happy if we are not first successful if we do fortunately still at the expense of our calling, if our body is not beautiful, even at the expense of health, in general, if we do not possess and flaunt what the system sold to us as objects of desire and status, from a gem to a luxury vehicle, and even human trophies, like the beautiful decorative wife or "young girlfriend" is used or plant, as we work to get those privileges and pleasures we consume in anxiety, depression, neurosis or compulsion, "holding my breath" enduring punishment and waiting for "good fortune" or dreaming that they will come "better times" and are programmed to suffer, they torture us so much that the moment you no longer wish relief arrives, but others suffer, pay for everything that hurt us, hurt or depressed, so we "emotional accumulating bills," we are unable to understand us and anyone else who must learn to pay, in the first place, namely to refrain from generating them. When awaited "success" comes or goal that sacrificed everything is achieved, we are now unable to enjoy it, because all that neurosis, anxiety or stress incapacitated us emotionally, and it happens we have after retire sports cars where ever we turn even the radio or enjoy the ride, as ever envision doing, face the wind and the sun shining in his eyes, we are very tired and for that, we left a lot on the road, we sacrifice a lot, but we realize too late , which both wanted was not what would make us happy, then we just assume that vehicle or "trophy wife", although we can not enjoy them, converted into smug "emotional eunuchs" and resentful, concentrates retaliate everything that affect us, simply because "we already have the power to do" humiliate or offend those below us economically, socially or occupationally are. As we reach the "top" of success, we spend our life like the rabbit from Alice in Wonderland, always rushed, always anxious, neurotic returned by stress, the days get shorter we for many occupations, and nights long to think of many concerns; going frantic for those paths of the winners, who are already unable, to enjoy what generates peace, the simplicity of life, which is free, we only wish all it costs a lot of money, not we really understand what we already know, that happiness is the joy of effort, the giving and not the receiving, not as a goal to achieve leading, but enjoy the journey, it is not looking for a room outdoor relaxation, like a picture postcard, to feel that peace of mind, but to look within, to be in balance, even in the midst of the storm.
  3. 3. Many confuse the fact that happiness is free, to make it easy, the reality is that it is not, because we live in disturbed times, where the past with the present and future, where everyone can see and be in all mixes everywhere at once, yet in none, and all that we desire, want or need was "yesterday", absolutely everything is sense of urgency-when in fact, nothing in life is urgent, it is perfect, as it should and when it should be-but the efforts, the "overdrive" emotional and physical to which we submit to get those satisfactions seem to last an eternity in stifling jobs, who tell you that being happy is simple much wrong, to be free is else, and it is not easy in itself, but because the complex, the contractuados us, we have no peace nor tranquility in the mind and heart, in short, to be happy we must first grow, be comprehensive, responsible, balanced and harmonics, we can not enjoy the physical and emotional trot imposes our routine, we need to be able to put a stop to the frenetic pace, change of tune in this dance that is life. But it is difficult to grow emotionally and spiritually in a consumer environment that encourages us to not release the breast, to be as dependent and selfish children, so we go through life in our papers "drama queens" or "martyrs of suffering" instead of taking responsibility and accountability for our actions, by our decisions, we love victimizing, blame-as long as they do not us a Greek tragedy-all, in which, of course, the center of the universe we ourselves on which fall all the "gypsy curse" and "the fury of the gods", promoting sadomasochistic personality, and believing that "what we deserve" is a function of what we want or have suffered by not having it, feeling that life and people we "defraud" because "we expected a lot from them," when we do not know what to expect of ourselves right, and we always want a medal for what little they do, a diploma or a statue to raise us by our " great suffering ", when most of the things that happen, are neither good nor bad, just the consequence or effect of our own actions or decisions, either by actions or omissions. Mature requires responsibility, acceptance of acts and consequences, independent and sovereign of our own passions and fears, rather than generating resistance to that maturity, that change, clinging to hope that our mistakes "divine providence" solve our problems and conflicts, we must get to work and start the journey to emotional and spiritual maturity that allows us to strengthen our natural ability to be happy, to tame our desires and passions, we must work on our person, our being, like a sculpture, it is necessary to mold sweat, strive, to hammer and chisel tip, devastate the heavy stone, deformed and useless in these modern consumer societies have made us to release the divine being that is inside his prisoner. Unfortunately, the problem is not as simple as it looks, because it's not a problem As we know the solutions, apathy or emotional laziness just left in the discourse and ignore in our daily actions, that is differentthing;! Leftover know about love of neighbor, the consequences of bad habits and vices, but we do the "innocent victims", hoping not to suffer the consequences, and when they arrive, because sooner or later, the bills come, we tore the robes and shouted to the sky: Why my gosh, I did to deserve this As if we did not know ample, if we smoke high probability of lung cancer if we drink excessively or uncontrollably, make mistakes, bad? take actions or bad decisions, so we lower our self-esteem to the ground, not to be judged by others, and receive his compassion, pity or complicity. That is why happiness is a riddle that involves personal and non dilemma of choosing between right and everything else is not, between following human values of respect, love of neighbor, compassion for our fellow man, honest work and without corruption of any kind do things
  4. 4. properly then!-As-grandmothers say responsibly and will, or simply "do as we do them," joining in this growing group of selfishness and indifference, of double standards in which, all that matters is our welfare, our plans, our success is otherwise required or politically correct speech, only that there is a detail, and we decided to be remiss in the performance of such codes of ethical conduct, so many others have decided, and when we "measured with the same yardstick" because we do not like the game, and we cry justice, righteousness, kindness and humanity. Solutions to our emotional or social problems are many, we know only that we become "the virgin speaks" pretend dementia for convenience, because we accept that we know the solution is to accept the uncomfortable truth that we have the will to change , the interest to work on bad habits or flawed personal and work relationships, we're on our routine minded scammers, trying to fool the scale, others with implants, undergarments "contain and shape" figure, all insert, all plastic, all chemicals, it is not appropriate to recognize that the best formula is activase, shut the mouths of junk food, eating a balanced diet and do some exercise. Continue on all fronts of our life as sneak thieves, hoping to obtain or snatch a result we know beforehand not deserve or have worked for him, asking again to "divine providence" help us pass a test without studying, slimming without exercising, stop drinking or smoking "patch", "gum" or even hypnosis, to do everything with the mindset of "there it goes" or "chance is gum and paste" Personally, not to work to clean up or strengthen a relationship, because men and women love to victimize, to be those who say, "Poor thing, as good man and bad woman touched" or you say, "Poor woman is a saint for putting that demon, "the truth is that unless you are kidnapped or the victim of rape, nobody is forced to endure that which does not want to tolerate, and if so, we should at least have the honesty to recognize that motives or interests also have to stay where both harm us or just not be good for us, for fear or lost self-esteem are not excuses to carry our crosses documents, if a job is unjust, let him protest and will be difficult at first, but find a better and fairer place for your enthusiasm and effort, if a person or girlfriend, despite your efforts, is harmful to your life or contribute to strengthening the relationship leaving the entire burden on you, withdraw from it, with the place vacated, can get someone better 's right for you, in general, all these issues pose us many uncertainties, many doubts, many uncertainties and questions, but if you work with good will, in the end only you will be an unanswered question: Why did not before ?. Find your way always, do not stand like a piece of dead tree, do not have to die sown where you were born, how many people know frustrated with the job they have? But were not seen doing anything to undertake, let alone by mount a large company, but at least organize expenses and find a second job as sales catalogs or home repairs, among many options for balancing family expenses, the fact is that we reject the work, but pray for his wages of fear because we are unable to generate greater welfare for ourselves which we offer remain dependent therefore fall into mediocre mindset that: "They pretend to pay me and I do like to work",and we live in a culture deception, "early bird" in which we accept dishonesty, thinking: "Shrimp that sleeps, wakes up in the market," and that if anyone was a victim fraud, abused or cheated in some way, it's because he deserves it, being silly, weak or naive, because make up on the injustices, abuses, and the opposite to be humans pretending stupidly: "This world is the stronger, that life is cruel and
  5. 5. should be on the live "mentality and sad, because in the end, if monsters or huge beasts speak, we return to the dinosaurs, with all his ferocity, fangs and claws, became extinct. With these guidelines of conduct, social life becomes a circus, a tragicomedy in which, when we get through questionable means an outcome we call clever, witty or any other word to replace dishonesty, we are proud of our actions and smiled as they say, remembering our "tricks" but when we happend to be deceived, then yes, society is corrupt, evil system and unfair life is for all of the above that we awaken to a new mindset of effort and will, respect and tolerance, for life if you do not have a purpose, it's just wasted time that achievements materials do not count, because where we're going, are useless "trophy" or "treasures"that we can not carry or have to give us any credit, so long as we live to work, to consume, to accumulate, we will have opportunity to give that time we are treated so-called life, a purpose that justifies our existence. Understand then that we can not be happy in our current model of convenience and consumerism, we can not cheat life, because invariably deceived will be ourselves, which is why we invented that "being successful" to "be a winner "as an excuse for those who want to achieve an artificial happiness through consumption that encourage selfishness and vices and bad habits, indifference and resistance to change for the better, to mature, to be responsible for our actions, understanding that even pain has its rationale, as a warning that something is wrong, whether physical or emotional, it is again important to develop resistance to pain, frustration, "failure" in a society where everything was for yesterday, ready and disposable, already no known physical, emotional or spiritual strength. We speak both consumption because it is the pattern that governs our lives, which so behaviorist makes us think that being prosperous is to have material wealth, we go through life with a "business mentality" in which all that matters is "do money ", our life revolves around this paradigm, money is the indicator, the thermometer of our abilities and talents of our" success in life ", studied over the odds for big business, forbetter" curriculum vitae "to compete! And it is something serious, because we are very competitive, to the point that we are willing to sacrifice whatever, health, family and happiness in order to "win" to "be the best,"In a world of competitions, win lose their meaning original, which was to praise the qualities of the human being through fair, a competition where all won by simply being themselves and give their best effort, degenerating to a "race to the pinnacle of success" in which winning at any cost is all that matters, and falling into a terrible "war mentality", in which the end justifies the means, and no truce or mercy to the fallen, wherein as in any war, in Actually, all have lost even the victors. In this jungle, where the daily routine of our modern battle is fought, we become insensitive, moody, neurotic, intolerant, frustrated and repressed, like those hidden monsters, werewolves and other beasts of horror movies, so we project to the threats and stress of everyday competition, and when we come to realize, and hurt a fellow or left abandoned to those we love, all for those eager to win, you take away the joy of what we do, the smile a new day, the joy of life, everything is projected into a future that never comes, all work and build "future", nothing wrong has to be managed and planned, especially temperance and perseverance, but life is lived here and now as the joy for life and happiness is concerned, be sure to never be happy today to succeed tomorrow! Make no mistake, the sacrifice is one thing, interest other not contend your humanity outside goals or empty causes because one day you wake up being all that ever be said for having done that you never thought or wanted to do.
  6. 6. Not our fault, because from childhood we programmed and manipulated in a total behaviorism, are numbered, registered and tagged, we stripped of individuality to be the expression of every human being, teaching us that we should distinguish by colors, shields, by status symbols to demonstrate our place in society, to school we go, that brand of clothing or accessories we use, that whole set of material objects are demonstrating "the worth or not the place we have" us they train, which monkeys trained to avoid exceeding the compass, and dance to the system imposed on us in this convention and present consumer society, only one thing matters: To be successful, resulting in generating wealth, and as we were created to create, to generate opposed to the material, we strip away everything that is not used for this purpose are feelings, values, dreams, everything that makes us human! becoming complicit in our own degeneration as beings capable of feeling love, compassion, happiness, joy, happiness. So born fashions, our selfishness, our frustration of not being able to express the individuality of our being, insecurity resulting to forget that we have the privilege to be authentic, and opted, even if we were born tocreate, which is much but compared with eagles or lions by behaving like scavengers, coveting, buying or stealing identities of others, conforming with what the system throws us because we are already unable to generate and project a distinct identity, whether in a shirt brand or couture dress, look! A shirt or bag brand, that is, as if we won, we still take pride in iron brand or someone else, who by insecurity, all we confer superiority and thus , power over our decisions, not to mention that also for these "exclusive" designers work in order to pay off the cards with which coasted coveted brands, we are then cattle, servants to use their own salary to pay for his uniform, working as slaves and are proud of their pinstripe suits and shackles, which is why the global consumer society is the perfect dictatorship, a field planting beings as soon not have the privilege to be considered human. Therefore, every day things are disposable, life is almost nothing, we all say, "no longer do things as before" automobiles, household furnishings, previously took "life" now must be replaced because you enen a very limited shelf life, if not previously run by the "new improved version" is no secret, just watch the ads for smartphones and computers, has not yet come to showcases the model you expect, and longer have to hold the next version, and yet, we are hoping that early department stores open their doors to be the first to buy that junk, which from the day of purchase, is obsolete, and requires an update or already have a new version, so ensure to have us as the donkey working blindfolded and carrot tied to a stick, without the damage to the planet, with so much waste, so much plastic, so much garbage generated. That's the void of our being, the lack of values we feel compulsive satisfaction acquire smartphone or newest tablet, or the most expensive car that our salary can afford, even it assume that it took a month or a year's salary complete, a month in lower case! Full thirty days! Yes we died today, would give a thousand of these devices by just one of those days, one of their hours, to cherish our parents, our spouse, our children, to pause in the routine and enjoy the sunrise of that landscape, to dance that song or dedicate that time to our true passion or vocation, whether paint or just walk, a single hour, representing costs, unless the exclusive leather case such cell or tablet, or the door of our brand new car; All of the above, I well know, but like real sick, addicted drug consumption that we are, we hardly matters, destroy our being, our family, just to get the artificial satisfaction gives us, the real price we pay for such items, are the personal cost and
  7. 7. sacrifice family imposed on us, and in that sense, they are very expensive to go without worth a tenth of the investment. We have lost the culture of effort and estimate the achievement, need daily doses, we can not expect even to plant a tomato to make a salad, which seems to us, we want it but you! And we feel great, demigods, having the "privilege" of living in "civilization" where you can buy anything when it is, and guaranteed overnight delivery, because if not, it is even free feeling to be thankful to live in the "big cities" where you can buy a coffee for your insomnia when the morning you want, but maybe if we lived as before, and we produced, would satisfactorily tired, we would sleep well, and that would not have insomnia. If only we did not feel the need to own such objects to reaffirm our lost self-esteem, maybe we would not have to endure such a stressful job, or a work which takes us away from those loved ones, and in the end, leave us alone with that "super phone", because we have no one to talk to, or with the "luxury car brand", because we have a walk with whom, we must always consider the need to acquire an object, and not let us handle consumerist machinery, always ask yourself: Do I really need Will it happen something serious if I do not buy Get used to not spend what you do not have, do not buy what you do not really need, and to live according to your means, avoid the compulsion? buying and consuming, see how many of your emotional and personal conflicts, family, work and financial disappear, because the happiness you have a simple formula: it is inversely proportional to the effort expended to achieve success. Happiness in our society and lifestyle represents a problem that are troubled by the human being, thought, or manipulated by outside interests, conditional on its existence to action parameters, for fashion or custom, which do not match the internal feelings, stifling his true identity and authenticity as well give up unconsciously to be happy, to fight for our true dreams and desires, those that allow us to obtain inner balance and harmony, which conformed sugar substitute with an "artificial" happiness, success called, The worst mistake, is to believe that to be happy, we must first pass the keeper of "success", as the student who intends not rest or enjoy anything, not even get his degree, and then what;? sometimes achieve certain goals, only shows us the emptiness of our being, after much struggle and sacrifice, the euphoria of success, we realize that it was not really what we wanted, did not change anything, you're still the same, no matter if we wait months to pay for such expensive technology equipment, or other objects and circumstances in our life, like that job promotion for which both we ignore, as we finally got our hands on the object of our desire, we realized that that vacuum is still there, instead of trying to be happy, we insist on a new crusade in a higher goal in"the paths of victory", we condemn ourselves to be a starving eternal dissatisfied eternals, dissatisfied, and why is Like a curse to have the water and not to drink;! success is a spell, a curse So we see no condemnation, no value, no love what really matters in our lives, to eat without hunger, not sleep with sleep, to drink without being thirsty, hurt our family, our community, our planet; Happiness is healing, magic mirror that lets you see inside and break the spell. The conflict of our existence begins to divide into two, one being sentenced to be hidden, which is the most beautiful, authentic, real, and one external, our selfish giant, always haunted by projecting its existence, you know why? Because actually there it's just a reflection of our insecurity, our fear;! whole sacrifice we make and the resources we invest for such a projection of our being to achieve success, you remove them or charge the other, we are our Cinderella and
  8. 8. own our own executioner, keep our demons, our monsters are always hungry for recognition, praise, vanity, selfishness, while we confine to a dark dungeon in this beautiful being that God created. Nevertheless, beaten, injured, abandoned and neglected, that person who just do and all you reproach, to whom all blame, who would have just health to support the work that allows you to pay what you want, to who put obese because making money is more important than your health, who would deny quality time with their loved ones and their true passions, because by that selfish-giant time is money-that person loves you in silence, quietly waiting , resigned as a lover, to awaken from your nightmare of consumer dissatisfaction and turn around to see her with the respect and love you more than she needs to, and see that it is not a stranger, you're the one that was lost! And when you recognize the mirror, you'll see that time is the most important, because it allows you to enjoy what you love, that money is just an illusion, a sick and empty system and society. Happiness is handmade, because it is created by hand, it's a tailored suit, success is artificial, are objects produced in series, the people who are happy, you must first be true, but, how to be If you set your value?objects in the external, the alien, a limited edition car for example, which some say proud to be your "trophy" from a lifetime of slave labor, "there are only 100 worldwide! "who is genuine, smile, know your car, straight or old, especially if it was your father, or conquered that girlfriend is now his beloved wife, is unique! Priceless know who is genuine is the person who gives existence and value things;! Who lives in insecurity and little valued, searches objects demonstrate its value, so we wear other people's clothes, to project tasteful, walk as Christmas trees, with labels and cell hanging, as our pants or blouses are engraved the name of another person, the designer, to show others that spend a lot on clothes, we are canopies, commercial street, objects and objects that we hold, in large events, everyone who comes dressed says, when asked who the suit or pants, jewelry or shoes, many speak names of such famous designers, few are authentic and respond "for they are mine." In this ridiculous culture of ostentation, who brings up large quantities of gold, says project their wealth and prosperity, slaves from other times laugh at us, they gave their lives for freedom, break the chains, which are of iron or gold, no hace diferencia; El vestido y calzado por más costosos que sean, no te harán ver como el modelo al que le pagaron para que las promocionara, y ni tú te sentirás bien, pues no hará que desaparezca el sobre peso, ni tu mala condición física; cuando entiendas que al activarte, cuidar tu alimentación y aceptarte tal cual eres, en resumen, al sentirte bien, la marca de la camisa, de tu automóvil o de tus accesorios, será lo de menos, pues quien se verá bien serás tú , no tus objetos caros. For an authentic person, objects are for use, not for Present themselves and less for love, a watch is to tell time, no matter how bright or plastic, is a vehicle to transport themselves, no matter how fancy or austere, the goals are the same, fill a need, but the amenities are good, are not more important than people, you are worthy of love, to care, How many wives would be happy with half the time the man dedicated to clean and shiny maintain your car, motorcycle, or any of their "toys"?, How many children have cried wanting a caress to comfort them from their parents for having dirty playing the seats of that car? unfortunately, we are immersed in the culture of love objects and use people, and then wonder why it is so hard to find love, someone special to see ourselves, What irony! Yes the first or neglect do not see ourselves that interior! If all seek
  9. 9. external, artificial, why complain when nobody sees in us what we really are or not we find what we really want? How can we then give what you do not have or do not ask for what you deserve? Before being authentic, one must be accepted as is, not to conform, to really improve, to identify what really is worth investing our time and effort, leaving waste on objects that cover pay us, instead of spending all your salary in a wardrobe, with're always unhappy, invest in paying a gym, which will be like by far cheaper than the payments of your bills for those things that really do not need, and impulse purchases to momentarily satisfy your frustrations, or better yet, take your partner's hand and walks in the park, if you buy, buy something because really, a real bike, not fixed, some comfortable walking shoes, not a modern treadmill, the eternal excuse not to take care of our bodies, our health, is the time, work, but if your accounts were reduced to half, because only you bought what you really need, no need to work overtime, or could accept work for lower wages, but that requires fewer hours, giving her such overtime to really matter in your life. Understanding the industrial or business work is simple production of wealth, therefore never ends, never enough, you can drop dead infarcted and ever you have finished your tasks or pending, because these exponentially generated, that is, for every problem that solutions emerge two, when solutions those two, there will be four waiting, so your work achievements not reflect your human capacity or quality as a person, rather it is the opposite, those who are considered "large" in a company, it is because not only have sacrificed their lives to give results and get such recognition, but they have neglected other aspects like family in their eagerness to professional competence, it is preferable that your family will love and remember long enough and quality strangers you consider the most successful or "best", because you risk that your life is meaningless for neglecting other aspects that you need for a healthy balance, working just enough, but yes, do it with dedication and effort, joy and commitment, be honest and diligent in your orders, but not to become the reason for your existence, because those are other higher, such as family, personal development and spiritual growth, happiness and love in Brief That is the true productivity, the rest is simple human slavery that generates unproductive, because men and women are generating true wealth has nothing to do with plastic and metal. This boils down to the old story of Diogenes, whom other philosopher, he was a sycophant King said when she saw him mocking dining lentils: "Yes would learn to be subservient to the king, you would not eat that crap lentil" what Diogenes replied: "Yes you would learn to eat lentils, would not have to flatter the King." tells the story that when he was banished from his native city, he said: "They condemn me go and I sentence you to stay" , even speaking with the same Alexander, who, as world conqueror, after hearing said impressed that man without possession or powerless: "If it were not Alexander, I should like to be Diogenes", this security is projecting authentic, and is the same as a first step we need to be happy, confidence in ourselves, not in the objects that we can buy or securities that we hold, above all, understand that success is to beat the other, happiness conquer himself as the difference between Alexander the Great, master of the ancient world known, but a slave to his fears and passions, and Diogenes, conqueror of himself. Of course, all the above ! already know And often we deceive ourselves with self-help books or self-improvement, it's like when we paid the monthly gym but never go, or buy expensive exercise equipment you never use; excuses to justify our pay, meaning that we try to deceive, any sacred
  10. 10. book high or it may save you from yourself, if you are not willing to make that happen, if you do not believe in truth, if you are not committed to the cause or company, things do not go just by wanting it, because we all want so many things if not doing, practicing the speech, it is not because of what you want, but what deserves your effort, trying to understand that in life, every action there is a reaction, when you are consistent with your thinking, speaking and acting, the results are equally consistent, so people say that bad things happen to good people, or vice versa, that wicked are lucky, it is neither one nor the other, be good, apart from personal satisfaction and spiritual growth, does not really mean a sure win, as being bad is no guarantee that a punishment or failure will, as they say popularly: You should not expect a bull envista do not, just because you are a vegetarian. For the success or failure does not really matter the moral quality, good or evil, and it is precisely because it is artificial, external, measurable and has cost, just about to pay the price. For happiness, however, is not required to have, one being, why is priceless, that is, it's free! Triumph pursued, is conquered, in daily life, play, live and die for him happiness is generated, is internal, therefore, for those seeking victory, failure is a cause of suffering for those who are happy, it is only the opportunity to be better, given himself more in their attempts to what they want, for what they believe, what they love, the result does not really matter, which is why, they are able to be happy despite the defeat, adversity, suffering, so simple I'll tell you: Success is a goal, happiness is a way. We know then that the exercise apparatus, for expensive and modern it is, will not give you the figure you want just because what you bought, what you wear! , get on and exercising as well as read the Bible you will be saved, you must implement, but rather believe the lies, reducing creams buy or listen Sunday sermons and give a tithe or alms to alleviate our guilt, in general, we always look "miracle cures" for everything, the most convenient option, no matter how expensive it lies, while involving no effort really. We understand that we work hard, because it cost a lot of money to buy the remedy for the problem we have, and if we fail, do not reproach us, because "we did our best shot," when it was not, only we did "our best spending ", when we stop spending and start indeed, by force of will, to work on your goals, dreams or desires, we realize that they are virtually free economically than even save you money, for example, if we want to lose weight, one day say, "are we finished the fat!", we went to walk, or we just put to dance an hour into our room before a swim and sleep, but mostly closed mouth with cravings or food junk, eating healthy, the result of activate ourselves to be that in a couple of months, we will have dropped a couple of sizes, improved fitness and overall wellbeing, we will have saved the monthly gym, buying equipment and of course, of"sportswear" and other "necessary accessories" in another scenario, without the account of the restaurants or money spent on chips, soda, junk food or "cravings" , with which we saturate our daily body actually be happy, is not only free, but you will save much, much money, to the point that hardly come to need it, exercise the body, it's like bringing the soul, something artificial, as they say: "Something is not right in a society in which they're driving to the gym to ride a stationary bike " , do not you think? Activated, means taking a real bike and turn even your block, look, smell and feel the world around you. This is where we say: "I do not play" , because we want to, we dream of success, to happiness, but little do to get it, we live in the culture of instant, what "ready" , of the disposable, everything
  11. 11. want "yesterday" , without recognizing that it may not deserve all we want; spent hours at the computer, in social networks that provide a virtual reality, understand, live a lie, only there we see ourselves as only there photos"doctored" or "our kind of profile" hide what they do not have the will to work in reality, which is more convenient to ignore that exercising to improve, then we all complain that everybody lies, that nothing is it seems, but seek friends "online" that project what we have, that beauty, that popularity we need, a girl can get, regardless of quality or moral feelings, with a photo in swimsuit hundreds of Instant friends, admirers or suitors, but "that kind" will not be so, when they choose between a couple, because then complain that no one saw or praised her physically, and not recognize that was the first thing she exhibited as models or actresses who say, "I want to value my talent" , while posing nude for a men's magazine. What outcome can we expect at such inconsistency? Actually, we know that we have not tried hard enough, you even do not deserve what we ordered, but we always have the mindset that: "Chance is chewing gum, and hits" , that just because we want "our pretty face we deserve", and if things do not work, then we can always blame someone else, taking the role so well that we get, that of victim, if we offer something material, if we sell virtually therefore we should not complain when we treated as an object, so men, presume the statement, wallet, hold vehicles or property, or pose and muscles involved in expensive cloths and fine perfumes, and then weep bitterly for being " used " by a "bad woman" who "never loved" , sooner or later, you get what you deserve by their actions, not what you want! In short, consistency and accountability are vital to be authentic , you can not say one thing and do another, if you do, do not complain of the result; Only you are responsible for your own person, your actions, your words, to be happy is to be authentic, and to do this, first consistent and responsible, honest with himself, using this simple recipe: "Act as you think, or you'll end up thinking about how you act." In our society we are taught to be silent about what we really mean, but do not teach us to respect, to be tolerant, we live in a social bubble simulation, in which nobody says what he really thinks about offending or clash, but we are able damage viciously and betrayal to achieve success, using others as stepping stones, and this is the source of social evil, when we say ! "What good happened to you, fool" when we give condolences or false words breath and actually glad of failure, suffering, defeat others, this sadistic selfishness is the clearest indicator of our emptiness as humans, we never so pleased someone, or we were willing to help, as when a failure or difficulty we consider "less" than ourselves, and "will spare your life", so we become the flaming of justice and decency finger; drink be careful to point out to someone, because as the saying goes, " for finger pointing to the next, three hand make for ourselves ", above, grows as poison ivy in our being paid by the more powerful fertilizer: Fear, fear losing what we have, but many times, not even real, that we believe will have, we talk so much freedom, but we're terrified freedom! want her "light", that is, with security and the illusion of control that we are so comforting, to which both we cling; got news for you: Life is not safe, there are no guarantees, the more you want to secure a result, avoid an outcome, the more you're encouraging, and if that does not should happen is that your fear you will have already absorbed, and the result was worse which tried to avoid. That, in a nutshell is our nature, our origin, we are fertile, stardust, we decide what kind of seed sown in it, whether dark fear or bright happiness, the result will always result in such planting, we are the instrument of our Creator, and as such, must be tuned to be able to play the notes, and that capacity is a pitch of strings, called happiness, Until we are tuned not understand the melody
  12. 12. that the Lord plays through us in the score of life, because there is no compelling evidence that God exists, that come from the sky and that he will return, when we are kneeling, wounded or defeated, instinctively raise our eyes to heaven, looking in strength and comfort our cradle. Because fear, father of all evil, it is not real, is only the projection of the worst case scenario to a particular situation, in which our brain warns us not to act, to preserve, it is a sense of distorted survival I misrepresented this, contaminating a future in which that fear is born, but that fear is never in the present, is always like "a bad hunch" that while we must know how to use as a conservation tool, we can not allow for that govern our present fear of the future, in this society, with a logic of war, we are forced to live in constant state of alert, fear, which generates emotional stress, insomnia, anxiety and other mental imbalances and affectations or emotional, that fear, that constant defense posture, wearing us long term once and suffer the object of such fear, because we spend our lives in fear of being hurt, of failure, success, death, life, to change, to everything! , and we are not sheep, we are human beings who are not destined to live in fear. When we understand that failure or death is not the worst thing that can happen, we will not fear and hold on, because we know that in this life no one gets out alive, so is not "lengthen our time" if not enjoy, of do everything with joy that there are very long lives that have not been for nothing, and others, so beautifully brief, that have changed the fate of entire peoples, that light, that is life, you can hide in a cave for nothing off, waiting for his term natural, or you can light your way and your peers, by the time that the Creator provided, that life, the choices are made, no goals, it is even if these are true, therefore let not "film" that projects you fear you affect your determinations present, it is like starting to mourn the death of a loved years before that happens, you will be blurring with desire control a beautiful feeling , suffering and made to suffer because you cling to want to control something that is outside of you, death is inevitable, so it is useless to feel anxiety, apprehension or depression, we must discipline such emotions to let go, let be, and then come joy and gratitude for life, because there will be no suffering, no fear, neither good nor bad, just the inner happiness resulting from such understanding and inner balance. When we see a beautiful sunrise, do not cry to think that only last a few minutes, we enjoyed it, enjoy it, because we know that after the beautiful sunny day, a beautiful starry night come and life, to be enjoyed at every stage, because it always will come back, we know it or not, as in the case of death, as we know it terrifies, when we understand that everything is impermanent, that nothing ends, it just evolves to a new level, a new stage, we will stop feel that apprehension, that grasping this fear to live the present, which becomes so fast in the past, which we carrying for years, through our future path is making the painful journey, thinking life is like precious elixir, a canteen of water in the desert, to be estimated, covet every drop, and do not need to "spend it", when it is a beautiful waterfall that flows forever, without beginning or end, where we soaked, to which we enjoy, we were given a purpose to use it, how it is made, is another thing, the sum of our actions and determinations, such is the difference between being lived and live life, between going hungry affections that desert not to drink our "canteen", which in the end will be full, because we will have to move -like it or not- to the next stage, which can not take anything in this there is the simplest formula for anxiety, as we were told the police: "what will be for you, and you take off, what does not, or that you get." It seems without reason or logic, and it is! 's life and happiness is something beyond human reason and logic, because they have divine origin, can not be measured nor contained by such
  13. 13. physical or earthly laws, do not say you leave everything and go as Buddha sit under a tree to live in contemplation, just make you aware of the fears you hold themselves to the illusion of control, but do not give solution or breakthrough, all they do is actually become awkward and afraid to live life, because we're loading "tools" in case they are needed -and is that of a thousand tools loads, do you need precisely what you have, clinging to "old glories"refusing the opportunity for new achievements, new creations, thinking "I got here, very still and quietly that I look prettier" or denying the opportunity for new experiences cling "tooth and nail" to relationships or situations that no longer provide for more We must learn to let go, to ignoring the fear that says "you will on the ground", and think: "Overall, the soil does not pass" and aventarte to this new stage, this new relationship with this new lease on life because otherwise we will be in life as these "spirits" of horror films that refuse to accept this new stage, and they condemned to wander in a place which no longer belong, refusing the opportunity to advance, it is what fear offers a dubious preservation, simple illusion of control in exchange for our secure emotional and spiritual evolution. Because many might say ironically: "I can not I go to the field to pick flowers and sing under the moon to the stars, because I have to work! I have responsibilities "! hide behind us in our own slavery because we fear that freedom where happiness grows wild, the fact is that the work is not only necessary, but an ingredient of the true emotional and spiritual balance of human beings, but no such degradation we know today by "career success" : if we do an examination of conscience, few would be those who actually work to those responsibilities, because although there are bills to pay and children to support, so they are not important these luxury items that we consider necessary, your kids do not care if you talk about a basic, cheap phone, they want only to listen, is the "successful profesionista" you consider yourself is one that desperately needs to project, when if you did not have to pay that modern equipment, anyway, using for the same, you could spend more time with them, your children, your partner, your family, and we could go on with the list of "working tools" or objects "indispensable for proper professional image" from clothing to footwear catalog purchases or beauty products, we considered necessary, and we have to work more to pay, in fact, are unnecessary, are selfish reflection our vanity, our insecurity, not the real needs of our family, our home, and more, will eventually take the family resources for home if needed, for by paying bills or debts, reduce spending we increased moodiness and frustration, but when they tell us why we spend so much on them, indignant reply: "Well, for that work, is just something that I consent" or "I can not go to work as a beggar" .forget that if there is a true "class" and distinction in people, these are called Simplicity and humility , which are transmitted not only in a physical cleansing, but emotional and spiritual, we can understand as neatness. So, we confuse the stress of supporting "the boss", his scolding and even insults, we were silent about labor abuses, and we settle unnoticed without asserting our opinion, right or dignity, the true fulfillment of our duty or task at hand, this creates frustration downloaded with customers or citizens that we should at work, as our work in a private company or a government agency, such as "endure" all of the above, sorry we have the right to expect people because "it's time our breakfast" in general, we are very productive in reality, many of the "jobs" modern, especially in the public sector, not get even or half the salary paid, as expected results are always negative, never the goals are reached, there are always complaints, are always poor statistical results of productivity, but overall, as we said, we can always blame others, lack resources, even the
  14. 14. climate, basing our "professional growth" in both we curved back to kiss the boots of the boss not to put the word "l" - That meritocracy in which are experts in humble ourselves before the powerful and humble the humble is the evidence of our lack of awareness, respect and love to the next, when men and women of good conscience, will try not to speak except with truth and not act except with kindness, but again, We're talking about missing values, and is not critical to the bureaucracy, as if they were happy, they felt made as individuals, would be selfish evil, but the reality is that they are victims of such consumer system, always dissatisfied, always frustrated, always stressed never reaches them the check, never reach the fortnight, they have to stand all day, regardless of your health or emotions, when the alarm sounds, running to dress and take a quick shuttle, his first battle: Reach time to check the card, and that is why we take your breakfast to eat when you can or can at that time slavish labor, with wages of fear, then sit in his little chair and look like paper or monitor really they were doing something, while the "big bosses" juicy profits, profits are shared influences and often improper, Ah! And above all, must be submissive and grateful for the "job security" ; ? Grateful to be slaves to which life will be reduced to check input and output card to receive a check each month on condition of head and the crouching heart? Yeah that check at least worthwhile, if not in pieces among the debts that brings the same work as loan payments for meals, for shoes, for clothes, for all that in times of emptiness and dissatisfaction acquired in those offices that are incubators of mediocrity. We therefore propose a professional or public servant heuristic, which develops as a first quality, attitude and aptitude in the service, as in human work activities appropriate treatment of our fellow forms are woven, is a trade, business or institution public or private, by practicing values such as honesty, kindness and empathy in general, a new service paradigm, whereby joy in our work is, while a culture of respect generated by human labor but mostly having a transverse axis in its mission, vision and objectives, its rationale therefore beyond doctrinal positions or conceptions Weberian effect that bureaucrat not remain synonymous with corruption, procrastination, inefficiency and mediocrity : public servant is one who serves the public and the staff that works, if not done neither the one nor the other, it is a parasite. In the current model, bureaucrats are always in a mentality and attitude of tacit refusal, not thinking about how to serve or solve the problem, if not get rid as soon as possible to the procedure or service required by the city, listening carefully to identify when it can become "someone else's problem" the matter, some say no one has a record of "batting" as impressive as a bureaucrat or customer service window, because you need to release all or it is not within of its functions and powers, but makes administrative procrastination an art, which we call functional bureaucratic rhetoric, the reality is that public servants do not need more powers to act on behalf of his people, need only will great training not only empathy because it does not say corruption, nepotism or givingness that for this many will paint themselves "Over there had begun my dear say smiling" and everything is relaxed or streamlines magically, which are bureaucrats must begin with a simple exercise, meet like our bride to citizens with respect and courtesy, approaching a term known asadhocracy , in which we all have at least some allocation in the decision making, but it is in real social benefit, where by faith and good will, all processed attached to law and justice is suddenly free and expeditious. To this we must invest in the values and feelings of man and woman who serves as a public servant, not the skills or specializations, as jobs are considered only means to achieve the purpose of consumption, no matter how satisfied you feel with him, I enjoy running or just if our
  15. 15. vocation or profile, only one thing matters and asked: How much pay regardless of the harm we cause not only personal, if not that we cause to others for our lack of attitude and fitness, because nobody questions whether you have the skills, experience or training necessary for the performance of a public function, simply fighting for the job and once obtained, focus on permanence, effectiveness and efficiency in the service passes the background , as citizens to the rationale for our role should or service. Within the Intelligent Emotionality there is also a work ethic, discipline, allowing us to analyze, implement and evaluate our daily work as civil servants or public servants, beyond what is paid in certain position, such discipline allows us to be sincere and analyze advantages and disadvantages of such activity, not only for our individual or family, but for our neighbors to arrive or we impact with such activity, reaching a professional congruence dictate us facts of consciousness, by which we must define ourselves as human beings, be ethical in practice is simply not the lawyer accepts a case for going against their principles and justice, the doctor refuses to operate if you know it's only to swell the bill or operating if necessary even if that invoice is not paid, the police humble salary, refuses to accept a bribe to act or refrain from even the laborer or construction worker who refuses to carry out or apply a mixture of cement arm weak or low irons quality, because he knows that home may collapse tomorrow with a family inside, all of the above as a whole, it is an unwritten code of ethics that empathetic by their observance and exercise will make us whole human beings worthy effort by work activity is willing to give us. We have disproved that worthy human activity and constructive purpose called work degenerándola a consumerist slavery, in which work is synonymous with monotony, routine torture, dissatisfaction, the real work exalts and ennobles human beings, nothing has to do with the masochistic conception of original sin, has to do with the exercise of physical, intellectual and spiritual capacities, as in the Olympics, allows us to be through him higher each day, be stronger, faster, more able, work is a blessing, who works not enjoying this exercise, sick, body, emotions and soul, sweat for what one seeks is the best way to remove the negative system, like toxins it were, sweating so one makes us chasing lions, hyenas not scavengers who steal herd gossiping. That blessing called work, which was before the man and woman feel attached to their land, grateful to her and her Creator for the fruit of their efforts bread, which allowed him to enjoy a sense of belonging, go to sleep satisfied matchday fulfilled , feel worthy and useful against your wife or husband, a role model for their children and a source of respect for their neighbors and community is lost, today we do not build anything, do not grow anything, we know not compose anything, we think yes because we faxes and copiers, computers and other machines that perform these functions, but we have become useless hands, his mind, no longer able to perform as our parents and grandparents a simple addition or subtraction pencil and paper, used to go with a plastic card to pay for packaged food, all that many know and do is touch a finger button microwave oven to be ready dinner, which by the way, is composed of all less real food and juices that we are anything but natural fruit juice, eat burgers and other packaged food containing only traces of the worst quality meat, washed and chemically treated to such deception, that taste great, but are chemical , Conservatives, is not in truth or delicious, and healthy, even as we said, what it says it is not food that in this modern eat are chemicals in short, we've become parasites, consumers and generators one thing: Rubbish.
  16. 16. The real work generates advancement of the individual and of the society in which it is inserted, no advancement of technologies or systems which should serve for their tasks, however, we are who we are enslaved by this technological system; Today There is a dynamic scientific and technological progress, but not a social evolution, and strengthening human being, ie better technology does not necessarily mean a better quality of life as well as a "better job" does not guarantee the fulfillment of the individual, if this does not work in your vocation or spirit of service to his fellow man will become more useful to himself and his social group; But success is not useful, or others, it's about winning, cult selfishness. The work articulates the scaffolding of a culture, a people, and if we inoperative, stressful, castrating and slave labor, as a result, our society is suffering from such evils, and who resent the symptoms, we are those who still foolish social dynamics such selfishness is the true face of negligible work, weigh to sell; When we see the opportunity to achieve such personal and group development, to exercise our capabilities and achieve the necessary balance, be happy; Nothing , are modern slaves, shackles we are now tablets, computers and cell phones, no longer requires the system to put walls or chains, we are complying with refuge inside the cell, called today, cubicles or offices, away from freedom, fearful, feeling you'll starve if we let go of the hand of our oppressor consumerist life we live in huge industrial complex with shops virtual stripe, nothing is ours, we only have the illusion that pay us, because even that which does not exist such as tickets or paper currency we now only waited for a fortnight we "deposit" to a plastic card, which, we allocate"online" all our payments and fees, we are "happy" one day fortnight, when we run our plastic to buy, because charge; Ultimately, we are less than the laborers of the past, at least, we felt in the hands the weight of the silver coins was paid his effort . Work is nothing but your effort, and therefore, the decision of how to use it, it's yours, do not prostitute for a payment, employ it in terms of satisfaction and personal construction, otherwise, your workforce will always be the service of capital, the machines, the consumer globalized system, should not be focused to produce goods, but to satisfy needs and balancing social problems work are tasks that should put the responsibility of conscience, according to your abilities and physical, mental and spiritual attitudes, let's no way to respond to the needs that the system creates you, your work must be the expression of your humanity, not your line, If you believe, as the author of this book, which we are God's creation, then you must we understand that we are in his image and likeness, God expresses in his work all his greatness! man and woman then they are called then, as created in his image and likeness that were, to manifest his greatness , his nobility, his divinity, through such actions or tasks known as work, not to be slaves virtual cyber shackles imposed modernity. Citing a beautiful book: "the human work proceeds directly from persons created in the image of God and called to prolong together and mutual benefit, the work of creation by subduing the earth (cf. Gn 1: 28, GS 34, CA 31) .'s work is, therefore, a duty . 'If any would not work, neither should he eat "(2 Thes 3, 10, cf 1 Thes 4, 11) Work honors the Creator's gifts and the talents received Maybe. also be redemptive . enduring the hardship of work (cf. Gn 3: 14-19), in union with Jesus , the carpenter of Nazareth and the one crucified on Calvary, man collaborates in a certain fashion with the Son of God in his redemptive work. Shown as a disciple of Christ carrying the Cross every day, in the work he is called to do (cf LE 27.) Work can be a means of sanctification and of animating earthly realities with the Spirit of Christ. "
  17. 17. Understand then, the work is not a curse, it is a right! From men and women made in the image of its Creator, it is a duty of our being, through which we seek decent breadwinner, As, our "modern work" pervert its nature, purpose, and therefore, we deform forced to grow as a crooked tree, we shape the dynamics of success, when we are destined to grow straight, to be happy. The work should cover at most a third of our daily schedule, so we should not ask why it increases to "make merit" or stay overtime, weekends or until the boss order, "The Secret" is to stop consuming or buy what they do not really need, not to strive for that extra-economic, popularly As they say: "There is richer has the most, but who needs the least", your work should bring you three emotions important: dignity, identity and sense of belonging; work must expose and strengthen our reason for being, If you are developing an activity that will not pay you more than metal or plastic, used your intelligence to get out of it, and to change you one that honors your soul and Divine origin. There is already the proposed heuristic teacher, so we will only approval of professionals and public servants heuristic, realizing that all work or not in government, we are public servants, because our activity directly impacts our neighbors, we are drivers or vendors, currently there is much talk of "Move to Mexico" as a guiding principle of public policy, however, is that shaft rector start wrong, because it is not moving a person or social group as if it were something inanimate, a lump that must load or drag, must be put in motion to Mexico! Which means more dynamic, enabled the economy not to patch or temporary remedies, for which we need change in attitude in the service, since by more resources allocated or "inject" an enterprise or social program, if the people who run it do not have the proper attitude of service, program goals can not be achieved, much less self sustainability in the company or economy. Unfortunately, we are in developed sub societies, consumer and simulation, not actual production to be self-sustaining, so we rely on the "budget", without really struggled, being on "the list" is all that concerns us, depending on our governments to survive, when governments should depend on the governed; This phenomenon also replicated work personally, nowadays people are not really hard, you only hear what they want to hear, cheap philosophy, hackneyed phrases of encouragement and conventional thinking OK, nobody says that such an attitude is comfortable and hypocritical, it is better to roll up their sleeves and do, really do!, because there are so many revolutionaries, philosophers and philanthropists "virtual" they feel have fulfilled humanity by giving "Like" to a publication or "up" pretty pictures of landscapes or children on a card or"picture pal face", accepted as philosophical thoughts and deep, The Internet is saturated with all that junk, all approve, give them I like but do not see that are changing humanity, are only getting more dangerous, take those thoughts based inofficious repeat their importance, are no longer revealing or jars, moving images of children suffering and social injustices and know , download our "brave anger" in a comment"revolutionary" against corruption, bad rulers, something improper or unfair, but in reality we do nothing, that is the true function "Machiavellian" networks social-aside from being "perfect spies" - are as riot police, in which society vents his anger, to avoid acting against this truly evil ruler of these unjust actions. The workers employed by the state are immersed in a meritocracy with high proximity of power, which translates into anxious, neurotic, bitter and very suitable for such global government consumption bureaucrats, all of whom we perform public service we are "infected " with the
  18. 18. mindset that you have to remain silent without the slightest shred of dignity or employment initiative with "unwritten commandments" as fellow public safety and military learning to wear the uniform the motto: " if you want to grow old police become asshole " or "No one appreciates all we do well, but the first mistake they put out on the street," When we get paid to do the right thing, the honest support of our families is the best thanks and payment, but it seems that we expect a medal for bravery or merit in case we decide to fulfill the duty to which we committed ourselves, being a humble preventive police also learn great maxims, such as reminding us that: " Best know better know who sent obey " and that through the line of duty which is summarized in two principles: Protect and serve, you may reach the fullness, even though such a service life of sacrifice is required, since whoever obeys his conscience is able to rule over their desires. We do not require professionals, public servants and police "specialized" if not socially committed injustice that hurts others as their own, once a police officer, before a hefty bribe for a case of rape a young girl, which was reflected a curse I put bread on the table of their bloodstained or tears children and wondered if corruption could be curbed by having compassion, empathy, feeling that the injured person is our mother, our wife, our daughter, I think ! itself would not have enough money in the world to bribe, and that both as one who offereth it so requests, be deeply ashamed; Currently studying law for exceptions or where it is easier to break, public servants have specialties, masters and doctorates who only translate into a higher rate in their "quota" of corruption, with the philosophy that: "the Law is for the enemies, justice for the friends" of again, he insists, then it is not knowledge, but the feelings, because in countries with culture of corruption, we know that the more "high" come a "problem" will be more expensive to fix; While this shift in consciousness not takes place in all of us continue to live in the culture of bribery that comply with police when they leave "something to drink" and elegant attorneys and judges who collect their "quotas" in dollars. Son dignity and identity in the service the best rewards and brakes at the same time, because we know that doing what we do is how we become who we are, so this approach is the most effective way to strengthen the institutions because in reality, we have a theory of corruption, in which paid and autorregulamos outside the state, then falling into acts of corruption, the public servant loses his inauguration longer authority for what we are paying for wrongdoing an equal, another lawbreaker, in short, corruption makes us pirates, removes responsibility to the state, who actually leaves the only option to build, prosper or succeed, the transgress the law, and thus the right of his fellow men, work is not designed to amass wealth or make winners, aims to give the human being identity, dignity and livelihood, but we live in a constant reasonable simulation and move away from the unlikely creative power, we become "practical" and thus justify breaking the laws, been curiously incapable of providing everything necessary to its citizens in order to promulgate to be raped, and thus take away the moral authority to demand what is right from informality, since the illegality can not demand justice, convenient thing for a government that can not procure and Conduct, and this theory is applied to the economy, education and other pillars that support the state. That is why in our societies double standards, the official discourse that is far in practice actually encourages, articulating all a web of laws and regulations that we know will not be observed or compliments, tendiéndonos trap corruption, fostering the culture of illegality, because the first corrupt, inefficient and illegal is that state, which is infected by cancer of globalized
  19. 19. consumerism, and does not suit you we strengthen us "antibodies" social as honesty, legality and civility, encourages us to be weak, to continue as a leech sucking our blood for that reason requires us to their way not to modify it, because those governments do not suit them men and women with a culture of legality true, and that a new society would be a new government, then as grandparents say, we and current governments, are a kind, as those who "Birds of a feather flock together." All technological trash that chokes our planet under makeup nationalist slogans waving flags of "order and progress", using as towers in the world stage of science and technology that keep us "in line" with its friendly face, but we know that there are more diseases and conditions that generated those who say cure, but instill fear us look ridiculous if we had a "spiritual" in this material world, tachándonos ignorant, to cling to their knowledge that are artificial feelings and not express our humanity that will, creativity and kindness, this translates to useless consumer societies in the image of the "vampires" that hold us in virtual or artificial colonies are "United Vampires" because can subsist by themselves, or resist the light of truth, guests need for nourishment. Order and progress are good, but not as much as those maxims of liberty, equality and fraternity, which allows us to undertake all the way with quality and emotional and social responsibility, because liberty is strength without manure to power, what good is being free if we are weak and have no chance to beat the system? 's why we have all the amenities, we only need to press a button for an automatic machine make everything for us, so that we forget that we can do for you we make difficult, so that our will be spoiled to the point that always choose the easiest, so, our freedom does not worry the system, that they learned of enslaved brothers in past centuries, because they only put chains and shackles, but let them body, will and heart exercised by suffering, by work, were strong and brave as a bull, and when they broke the chains, nothing prevented them end the oppressive regime; Now we have apparently all freedoms, but asleep obese heart and will. Some men believed, like Marx, that man in an ideal state would be good and live in fair balance, but you can not give what you do not have or who does not deserve it, man may not be willing to sacrifice for a similar if not has taught her by example what is the sacrifice, if not first formed the same in that sense, it is far from the imposition or punishment, the human being is selfish, neither good nor bad, just selfish nature, issue is the understanding of the nature of such selfishness, forging a society based on what we might call a "good selfishness" that is based on preserving and increasing our virtues within a State having Remuneration as principal axis rotation of power because it corrupts, so no one should be able to exercise fully and indefinitely, the ruling class will be for all, no one will have a standard of living higher than average due to the public service, that is why happiness is considered as a matter of state public policy and social interest was said. Long as we remember, and we hope our work above, he expects only our thing: That we execute with love! No forward or masochistic convenience, in the words of St. Augustine or Augustine, to be impartial all belief: "Love and do what you want, If you shut up, shut up with love; If you scream, scream with love If you correct and will correct with love, If I forgive, forgive with love If you love rooted in you, nothing else but love will be your fruit "; This constitutes the last step of being happy, do everything with love! Then all we talk about being real, honest, neat, consistent
  20. 20. and honest to be happy, are actually "warm up" for the real action that generates happiness: Love, That in the words of the same character: "It's a precious pearl which, if it exists, are useless other things, and if it exists, everything else left over. " How can we love others if we are not able to recognize, accept and love ourselves first? If we do not love or ourselves, for it will not want, does not give or keep, Will is caring, prioritize, not pay or "reward" for failures, defects or absences as parents, as partner or friend; Indulging not eat a steak or buy an expensive perfume, is to allow our being to express the comfort and feel, to relax the control means and self-repression, I loosened the tie or leave makeup aside and just inhale and exhale satisfaction, compliance with life and ourselves; Only then can we begin to interest us genuinely for others, in that respect we afford to be selfish, but selfish with that materialism, with success, to give our being and we love what we deny such a deity; Happiness has a simple formula: it is inversely proportional to the effort expended for success. Many live to work, as if we had a spare life, in which we could enjoy everything in this youth, maturity sacrifice for this "get ahead" "to be someone in life"; already know that then spend all the fortune amassed to try to get healthy, lost affections, we also know that people dying is over, that life does not allow you to accumulate wealth "to go"; Not crazy then pawn your life, health and stress for a prize, a trophy that is success, which is sure to get, and to reach it, do not take it? ' The happiness you got there, all the time, at the touch of your partner, your child smile in the little things of life, like feeling the breeze on your face, laugh and even mourn, happiness is so great that everything fits in it, are real lucky those men and women who turn away from this madness, do not allow success, consumerism generates them that dissatisfaction, feelings of uneasiness that, conscience, and live in harmony, accepting its reality, to themselves and others. Therefore, you must understand that success is a charm, as the song of the sirens, which will lead inevitably to disaster, as exercised in our being a seduction that allows you to manipulate our desires, exploit our frustrations and insecurities, this same mermaid, this same monster generates us with their singing, with which we become satellites, "zombies success", no identity, no will, agglomerated in hives, and artificial housing complexes in cities, all consuming, all contaminated and produce nothing; Thus respond and automatically to stimuli and commands of the system, as these undead films that only want to eat the brains of the living, success makes us look like robots satisfiers that he creates for always keep us hungry for more pleasure, more technology, more "instant happiness" , to consume and possess gives us; While feeding our ego, our vanity, our insecurity, consumes our humanity, our kindness, our capacity for happiness , Success is therefore a predatory beast its prey, drugging her to consume their essence. We are your food! Success is not there to make us happy, but to allow the consumer system devouring us, for which we first deformed and degenerate, we as beings created in the image and likeness Divine, and therefore creators, to parasites, takes away the most precious human being, freedom, we are poultry or ornamental, very comfortable in appropriate technologically cages, obese and lazy, incapable and, as these captive birds fly, we go through life experimenting with recipes of others, and therefore, living lives of others, which is why the frustration of losing, to reach a point where we do not recognize, in which we feel suffocated, we settling for "the lesser evil" , we bet paths already tested, and busiest, and it turns out the constructive way of life in every man and woman is intimate, it may seem a lot, but none, like fingerprints, are exactly equal to the other.
  21. 21. As living in a modern society is not synonymous with living in one that is fair, how can it be? If more than ninety percent of the wealth produced is concentrated in only one percent of the world population, which constitute the new globalized corporate power and world order whose main objective remain excited about reaching the bait piece to make us run for their trails carrying their wealth, which we are made to believe that all or at least we have a chance to access them, when in fact never the see or enjoy, we're just destined to feel them on our backs, so they have turned us into beasts of burden in those crabs in the bucket encimándose each other and collapsing before reaching top, complicating the puzzle to make us believe that we are well or at most that we are slaves, the truth is that no, we are auto submitted by handling and vitiation of will, because they learned that slaves external foreman are revealed by what they found how to turn our desires into our masters, which is why it vital for such a system of consumerism, as you only need to keep looking and well fed that inner foreman who call within Smart Emotionality our Álteramo or Álterdominus. Courage to take up arms against a tyrant is required against an oppressive regime, but when that system goes global corporately and by a virus called consumerism makes us each of us into tyrants and oppressors such insurrection is not so simple, because the repressors ourselves or at least one party who obey, our alter, that revolution is complicated because it ceases to be external, not enough to take a rifle or burn the house, as also our clothes and everything we own is infected, and it taught us to love both prefer to live such objects contaminated burn, so that the necessary revolutions are consciences and wills, not of guns and cannons. It is in this genesis of the problem, that happiness goes from simple and intimate, to the complicated and multifactorial externals, so we should not ask how to be happy, if you do not is for us to be happy, and if we own path to reach it, or if you really want to walk the path that push us in that social and material inertia media consumerism is so complicated and artificial we turn something natural and simple, to the point of existential dilemmas be able to break the harmony in humans or disfigure its comprehensive and harmonious development, we who put together the wagon backwards, then, blame God or fate, so hard to walk this path that is life, and not have to do as if go for it pushed, malformed and contractuados; If life we were a marathon, we're running with shoes on backwards, loading equipment telling us needed, when it's just a drag on our progress, therefore, never forget: The great teachers, walking barefoot, humble in his dress and serene in its path. Happiness is an emotional state that is reached when "reaches" a desired goal, and that encourages or motivates conquer new goals, as traditionally defined it, from its Latin root felicitas- More successful is the idea of a internal condition of satisfaction and joy, which does not necessarily have to "achieve something" , is sometimes there is not even that effort, The mysteries of life do not exist, I just do not see them,everything is a mystery, if you are myopic with graduation wrong! , if we are unable to piece together where we fragment something given to us in one piece; masochistic We believe that happiness is something that costs a lot, which only can be achieved with sweat, blood and suffering, or at the expense of our principles, our own being, we are puppies chasing its tail, or worse, those great professionals, executives and entrepreneurs, donkeys blindfolded pursuing a tied carrot with a stick behind her, for them, happiness is success, is always beyond, they never will be enough any achievement because "victory" is addictive, no matter be happy, if not "continue to succeed."
  22. 22. Just believe that happiness is perfect harmony, where nothing can stress or distress us, we become stressed to create a stress free environment, disturbance, problems, scented candles we light, decree, pray, That we are wrong! Those in stress and anxiety in the minds us, things are not aware, we are who we grant them that power;'re wasting hotbed of happiness, problems, the same life that was not given, as fertile ground for planting the seed Harmony called happiness, life is simple, has no secrets, we who do not have the perspective or worldview harmonious and appropriate for more to see it and understand it, feel it and live it. Being happy is so amazingly simple, easy and free, you do not believe, and eagerly seek the wealth, acceptance, triumph, success and excellence, this balance of our being, which can only be found without condition and cost, in the depths of it, because it is not about having, but of being, not to know, if not feel, or, if not to do. That is why we must be based on personal acceptance of who we are, not the outside, so "crooked or twisted, you" must love you and respect you, and then if there is something you want to improve from that point you start work to improve, with honesty and consistency, this is about doing the best that your effort will allow with what was given to you, not wanting to transform at the expense of our health and balance that you should not change, I mean to obsessed by the color of their skin, their eyes, their height, rather than weight, your body, those that code value in accepting physical appearance, why sacrifice your interior, leaving empty and unhappy, because they can never achieve satisfaction, acceptance in either of its two forms, personal or social, because nobody respects actually who does not respect himself; Thus, our efforts must be directed to the true, to what we can and must change, improve, but without changing who we are, without violating our being by the desire to pretend something does not exist. An authentic, consistent and generating happiness person is more than honest, it's neat! , in dress, but also, and more importantly, Neat in their thinking, in his words, in his actions, All this will be their only label, which will show what it's worth as a person, for the right kind, that we said is humility and simplicity, shines more than gold and speaks more clearly than all the yelling vanity; few today aspire to an honorable life, everyone wants a life "successful" , no matter how much they have to prostitute his being to get, A happy man or woman is priceless, therefore, not sold, not prostitutes nor their thinking, their words or their actions; These men and women understand that there are more important things than winning, so they are respectful, chivalrous, compassionate and considerate of the next, for them to lose or gain, devoid of any meaning or significance if improperly obtained, at the expense of others' suffering or from the sale of their ideals, their conscience; There is no glory in a dishonorable victory, no shame in defeat when you did your best, it's worth a good loser than a bad winner; principles of honor and decency that are of mockery in this society "modern" selfish and plastic, in which winning is everything, regardless of costs, therefore earners within it, always lost themselves. This view of life is not new, many philosophies "old", some forgotten already knew and practiced; sought in life perfecting virtues, not the accumulation of wealth, were conscious of rectitude, honesty , the courage it took to rise above the fears and act, were seasoned with the courage of a fierce but balanced, replacing fear with respect and caution towards the opponent and nature, but above all, never lost benevolence, using the power acquired for the common good, with a high sense of compassion and helping others, generating a deep respect and courtesy, without which those warriors were considered worse than animals, being too honest to themselves, having high estimates the honor and loyalty, above, is roughly the Bushido, Samurai or road, for
  23. 23. whom death was not eternal dishonor itself; All ancient cultures, are Maya, Egyptian or Spartan flourished and grew because they sought its interior, exercised and strengthened both physically and mentally and spiritually, so that the development of their society was a reflection of the internal evolution. This is not a self-improvement book of which you say you're an eagle, you're a warrior, a champion, much less a single plastic figure called "winner", because it has the purpose of inflarte like a balloon with air Hot!The author aims to convey a feeling, not knowledge, and know so many things and no good, because we do the opposite to our welfare, that feeling in your heart must go on, you know you're not a eagle, or a lion or any other imposing or majestic animal are human! do not have wings to soar, you spirit to be traced to the stars, the universe, the Creator, I did not have the claws of the lion but can have God in your heart and your will into action is more powerful than teeth and tusks Nor are we warriors, they have a mindset of war, confrontation, more balanced and philosophical wanting to sell the idea, a warrior is to war, to fight, and if you see life with that perspective, with that mentality of war, suffer! So always be alert, ready to fight against the world, against others, is glamorous think of being a warrior king , a powerful knight in shining armor, gleaming sword, but those thoughts of refuge only demonstrate the size of our fear, our insecurity True Masters, Authentic warriors, walk barefoot, humble, confident without a weapon, no need , guns are for damage, even with the pretext of defending, the real power lies in sacrifice, in the absence of anxiety and fear, weapons of any kind, are the embodiment of insecurity and guilt or charge consciousness which wears are the reflection of the true destructive weapon: fear. If our self-esteem is damaged motivated is good, but we do not compare ourselves with lions, tigers, eagles, kings, warriors or powerful sorcerers; Well would foster a false security in figures outside, it is best to build such confidence in what we truly are : Humans, created in the image and likeness of the Almighty, as Divine! Is there anything more majestic? With this, you want to set that fear is definitely a basic human feeling, and necessary for the preservation as a species, but not to govern our actions, because although we preserved, does not allow evolution , should we change our understanding of the power, strength and ability, they are wrong those parameters which complexed us, as being powerful or well armed is no guarantee of survival, dinosaurs were impressive, deadly machines and still hunting well, were extinguished, the repulsive cockroaches, on the other hand, were preserved, and tested is that ant humble cargo fifty times its weight, and in fact, much stronger and more powerful then a lion So, at the end of accounts, a cockroach or an ant, are more powerful than the current or extinct Tyrannosaurus Rex lions and eagles, As you work and trust who you are, your abilities , be aware of your limitations, not in figures external power, because sometimes, as in that species or those warriors, failure, death or termination comes on weight because they are unable to bear their own weapons and defense shields, clinging and unable to adapt or evolve it, So we, today we are so worried about playing defense, for "muster" we lose agility, the ability to move, to think, to feel, to act fearlessly and firmly, you must trust your feelings not in your tools or "weapons work" because when the battery is running out, the power goes or no "wi-fi" , we become useless "fully equipped", as soldiers with heavy armor and powerful weapons with hundreds of bullets, which are killed by a warrior agile lightweight barefoot with bow and arrow accurate. We could say that fear exists or does not exist and both positions would be true, but it's definitely more than a state of mind, it is an emotion like any other, is simply the most common, because
  24. 24. they are immersed in a group consisting fear system, if live as exist in real, present and perfect tense, fear no future time when nested, is the theory behind the method and its application Heart Smart Emotionality, for which there is fear to the extent that we satisfied with it, but the point is that in our present-past imperfect if any, denying that there would be an error, it is necessary to conform to feel different fertilizer, fuel and we can move forward step in our way. The aim of emotional discipline proposed in our method is more than transforming, shaping the fear and suffering into joy and sacrifice, is not cheap motivation that says you can fly like eagles or face any adversity, because there can only wish and believe You must deserve it, exercising it, feel; Same with happiness, do not say that you will walk smiling all the time in an ecstasy of joy, just to have the ability to be, be happy does not mean you do not feel pain, suffering, insecurity or fear, it means you have the ability to shape those feelings and pay them to happiness, you are able to generate a spark, which is to ignite that fire in your heart as often as necessary to always keep in the warmth of joy Ser happy is like making love with the person you love, all is not orgasm, in fact this lasts a few seconds, but the joy and the feelings that you generate caresses, the heat of the beloved and communion of hearts, let you wait a lifetime if necessary to get back together, not matter the odds, love will drive you to the ends of the world if that is necessary to meet him. Well, happiness is making love with life, is the communion of your being with the universe, the Creator, the creation of feelings through emotional discipline, which enables you to love and accept yourself first, then accept and love your life, your family, your job, and then when that happens, without realizing it, you're in love and you will be happy; lie who say that the best motivation is fear, it is good yes, but the second, nothing like love, we know not generate or maintain the flame of faith, living joy, and let us more comfortable feel fear, is something else, so to reiterate, it is not a matter of knowledge, but of feelings, motivate themselves must be a act of conscience that recharge our energy depleted or lost away from acts of flattery, group complacency or false security, the first thing to avoid is the victimization to justify our dissatisfaction with life, and share what I always ask myself, to form of shock therapy, the temptation to dress the victim by circumstances, when difficulties overwhelm and people hurt, betray or fail, when one exclaims: Why is this happening to me? , "If I did it right like me I said or did not fail, if so and perengana cheated or not worth having or earning what I can not " , then, to the "injustice" of life and people into my "poor thing" person, remember a Grand Master, and I say, "Yes Jesus was crucified, not by scrubbing me me And I understand with love to do things, allows us to not get frustrated with a result, which in truth no longer matters when one strives nobly and passion for life, without expecting any reward or profit, then you are coming by condensation, ie, having the ability to be not transformers, but shapers, creators, not just consumers, since the quality of the great men and women, is to convert the air they breathe in force action, falling exhausted or defeated, and only need to close your eyes and inhale deeply injecting oxygen into the lungs and forces the heart to stand up and continue. Know that invincible is not one who never loses, but which always incorporates, then when your fear and victimization invite you bow down in tears or fetal position in a dark corner, anime die in a Greek tragedy, licking your wounds and regretting all your lost or not valued by others, ask yourself effort: ? Want a medal for sacrifice and suffering and replaces self-pity for the noble courage, which is true dignity, for he who is not able to stand before the ravages of life not worth living, as one who is unable to defend fearing the woman he loves, does not deserve to have it.
  25. 25. What has this to do with happiness? might wonder, simple: Happiness is not the result of the absence of fear or suffering, is the ability to conform fuel to advance; From use as a step or bench that fear , that suffering, like a stone that drags us or prevent us reach; If you expect complete harmony, peace and prosperity around you to be happy, These fried! Happiness is not conquered, nor expected as a fluke, is generated? If you are not able to have inner peace in a storm, you will not be able to be happy, even in success, to be happy, not just enough that you want as many say, you have to put into action the desire to build in that dream, remember: Happiness is like a real woman, not sold, comes to who is worthy of having it, so that we are not suitors of those who conmiseran their poverty, those who tell the beloved woman not his height, which will never give you what you deserve, you wallow in the mire of mediocrity; Let us be of those that are not justified, they are silent and act, striving to limit the beloved and as seen in this sincere effort and love, the purest of offerings that will indicate we are worthy of it. Here the word capacity takes on a new dimension, as it is the key to being happy, being able! Which means the proper use and self-sustaining increase our emotional capacities, that is why: Our emotions are our measure, or as they say praying: "Calls strong backs, no light load", because negative feelings such as fear, sadness, insecurity, selfishness, anxiety or depression, fill our being as a water tank, saturating as sewage, polluting, is by we see it "walking drums" rancor, resentment, frustration, maliciousness; these "winners" is a tyrant boss, an abusive authority or a selfish neighbor actually deserve only pity, because they are not able to have a filtration system and cleaning of your being, and simple, like any system, we human beings, we must "hold" and keep us all that hurt or affect us, as we become pressure cookers, we must be able havea filtration system and residual negative feelings treatment for "filter them;" So, we will have no fear of fear, not how difficult or flee renounce the possibility of happiness for the fear to fail or get hurt; be able to process and purify our being of any emotional pollution, we will guarantee not let go opportunities to be happy about these fears or negative feelings; This is actually a variant of the old maxim in the Art of War:"Invincibility lies in the defense, the chances of victory in the attack". We need to restore or strengthen our capabilities, to love, to admire, to be grateful, to forgive, to be humble, admit mistakes, learn to ask for help and not abuse it, you know shut up and listen, because we are in a hostile society, on an insane war of "all against all", there is always a threat, always someone there will be better weapons, better resources, better skills than ours, because of frustration, neurosis and depression, that compulsion "to be the best " We sell our youth for diplomas and degrees, our maturity working tirelessly in that career success, we are not aware that, in competing with others, we have already defeated ourselves, all want the best weapons, the best resources, better jobs, and being so obsessed with this logic of war as having "the best tools," we lose sight of that if everyone wants to win by attacking, then we better be able to have good defenses to be invincible; Returning to the example of the Grand Masters, humble and barefoot warriors, which did not require armor and sword, they were invincible, is somewhat difficult to understand the logic of war that governs us, but think for a moment the following: "If I can be immune to the ravages of life, those negative feelings, I am invincible! and therefore do not require weapons or armor, for any situation, emotion or who wants me affect, however sharp it is and the stronger your attack, you can not beat me, then then, will have defeated " Happiness is that, invincibility, despite the ravages of life, our defenses will prevail while success is attack,

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