Kathy, Rochester MNLori, Los Angeles, CAKaren Adams, TennesseeMoya Smith, Aurora, COAnd the participants……
Let’s talk brain development
0-2 Connected to mom. There isn’t an ego….no self, no separate self. The brain isn’t sophisticated enough2-10 When the ego develops, we develop programs for happiness – unconscious programs for happiness Two sources: 1. primary caregiver – what they say 2. environment – internalize culture, religion, gender, sexual identity The brain is only a receiver, it becomes a processor later in pre-adolescence10-16 Begin to filter out programs that don’t work and aren’t your truth The brain is sophisticated enough to understand that what happened to you wasn’t goodJesus’ life: He walked thru every boundary, sometimes you have to step up and stand up for what is rightIn a non-linear world, we are all oneWhat I give to the world, I give to me. We are all connected.
Being in a state of love is always possible. It never goes away.</li></li></ul><li>You Have It Already In You<br /><ul><li>You already have the answers in you…you just can’t find them because pain and fear are dominating your thoughts and actions.
This weekend is about going more deeply into what you already have and changing your focus.
The treasure is within you. It is simply a matter of having the courage to look inside.</li></ul>The Power of Now<br />
As a parent, the only thing that can make you happy is who you become, not how your children behave.<br />
Being in the Present Moment<br />You Have It Already In You<br />The Power of Now<br />One of the greatest obstacles between you and your child is you.<br />The present moment, love and forgiveness, and new patterns hold the key to change.<br />
The Loss of Self<br /><ul><li>At conception, you arecomplete and whole.
You are born with access to unlimited love and unlimited happiness.
As you expressed your needs, some needs were met with negative reactions from your caregivers.
These negative message began to create your “software.”</li></li></ul><li>
Past and Future</li></ul>Where does healing take place?<br />
Returning Back to Love<br />How do you get there?<br />Expression of the pain at the emotional level<br />Body awareness<br />Relationships – being accepted, understood, and loved<br />Learning to anchor yourself in the present moment<br />Learning to love yourself<br />Forgiveness<br />Finding your voice<br />Giving yourself permission to have needs<br />Reclaiming your personal power<br />Redefining your beliefs<br />Learning how to change your state<br />