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  • Let’s talk brain development
  • mid brain and reptilian brains do not not thinkThey do not make choices or understand consequencesThey handle the next 15 seconds. There is no future. These two brains give us moment to moment aliveThey tell us to eat, defend ourselves, even kill – critical behaviors for survival.
  • mid brain and reptilian brains do not not thinkThey do not make choices or understand consequencesThey handle the next 15 seconds. There is no future. These two brains give us moment to moment aliveThey tell us to eat, defend ourselves, even kill – critical behaviors for survival.
  • mid brain and reptilian brains do not not thinkThey do not make choices or understand consequencesThey handle the next 15 seconds. There is no future. These two brains give us moment to moment aliveThey tell us to eat, defend ourselves, even kill – critical behaviors for survival.
  • mid brain and reptilian brains do not not thinkThey do not make choices or understand consequencesThey handle the next 15 seconds. There is no future. These two brains give us moment to moment aliveThey tell us to eat, defend ourselves, even kill – critical behaviors for survival.
  • Normally, the prefrontal cortex keeps the midbrain in check. It exerts a top down control over the survival impulses of the midbrainBut when you have a child in survival, this top down control fails and the midbrain becomes more powerful in guiding behavior than the cortexThis isn’t about morals, personality, or choice. It is at the level of survival. 
  • Normally, the prefrontal cortex keeps the midbrain in check. It exerts a top down control over the survival impulses of the midbrainBut when you have a child in survival, this top down control fails and the midbrain becomes more powerful in guiding behavior than the cortexThis isn’t about morals, personality, or choice. It is at the level of survival. 
  • and the midbrain becomes more powerful in guiding behavior than the cortexThis isn’t about morals, personality, or choice. It is at the level of survival. 
  • and the midbrain becomes more powerful in guiding behavior than the cortexThis isn’t about morals, personality, or choice. It is at the level of survival. 
  • and the midbrain becomes more powerful in guiding behavior than the cortexThis isn’t about morals, personality, or choice. It is at the level of survival. 
  • Mom’s Conference – 1 – You Tube Video with Music“It’s in Every One of Us”“You Are So Beautiful”“How Could Anyone?”
  • Mc online day1-part1-rev

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    4. 4. Dorothy A. Talbert<br />
    5. 5. Comments from other Mothers<br /><ul><li>“Peace in my home is missing.”
    6. 6. “I have never really felt loved by my mother.”
    7. 7. “I’m scared of failure and I’m scared of success.”
    8. 8. “I have lost my overall confidence.”
    9. 9. “I want to FEEL real true honest love.”</li></li></ul><li>Comments from other Mothers<br /><ul><li>“Love is not enough.”
    10. 10. “I want to lose the fear and learn to love my children unconditionally. I don’t think I can even comprehend what unconditional love is.”
    11. 11. “There are very few ‘good days’ in my life.”
    12. 12. “I truly don’t know what it will take to be happy and fulfilled.”</li></li></ul><li>Comments from other Mothers<br /><ul><li>What are you uncertain about? “The future of my children.”
    13. 13. What are you certain about? “Nothing.”
    14. 14. “I feel invisible, powerless, and worthless.”</li></li></ul><li>What is missing from your life?<br /><ul><li>“Love for all my children and love for myself is missing.”
    15. 15. “Daily peace is missing from my life and an overall sense of belonging.”
    16. 16. “My connection to myself; I sense a disconnection.”
    17. 17. “A sense of purpose in life – What am I here for?”</li></li></ul><li>
    18. 18. Bringing You the Latest and Greatest in Neuroscience!<br />
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    21. 21. You Have It Already In You<br /><ul><li>Love is not a feeling or an emotion---it is a state.
    22. 22. Love is simply a way of being in this world.
    23. 23. Being in a state of love is always possible. It never goes away.</li></li></ul><li>You Have It Already In You<br /><ul><li>You already have the answers in you…you just can’t find them because pain and fear are dominating your thoughts and actions.
    24. 24. This conference is about going more deeply into what you already have and changing your focus.
    25. 25. The treasure is within you. It is simply a matter of having the courage to look inside.</li></li></ul><li>
    26. 26. As a parent, the only thing that can make you happy is who you become, not how your children behave.<br />
    27. 27. Being in the Present Moment<br />You Have It Already In You<br />The Power of Now<br />One of the greatest obstacles between you and your child is you.<br />The present moment, love and forgiveness, and new patterns hold the key to change.<br />
    28. 28. The Loss of Self<br /><ul><li>At conception, you arecomplete and whole.
    29. 29. You are born with access to unlimited love and unlimited happiness.
    30. 30. As you expressed your needs, some needs were met with negative reactions from your caregivers.
    31. 31. These negative message began to create your “software.”</li></li></ul><li>
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    34. 34. Negative Messages<br /><ul><li> “Stop crying.”
    35. 35. “Be a big girl.”
    36. 36. “Stop whining.”
    37. 37. “Stop that…you’re being too silly.”
    38. 38. “You’re too old for that.”
    39. 39. “Stop dreaming….you have to be realistic.”</li></li></ul><li>
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    41. 41. Prefrontal<br />cortex<br />
    42. 42. Prefrontal<br />cortex<br />Mid-Brain<br />(Limbic System)<br />
    43. 43. Prefrontal<br />cortex<br />Mid-Brain<br />(Limbic System)<br />Reptilian Brain<br />
    44. 44. Prefrontal<br />cortex<br />Mid-Brain<br />(Limbic System)<br />Reptilian Brain<br />
    45. 45. Prefrontal<br />cortex<br />Mid-Brain<br />(Limbic System)<br />Reptilian Brain<br />
    46. 46. Prefrontal<br />cortex<br />Mid-Brain<br />(Limbic System)<br />SURVIVAL<br />Reptilian Brain<br />
    47. 47. Prefrontal<br />cortex<br />Mid-Brain<br />(Limbic System)<br />SURVIVAL<br />Reptilian Brain<br />
    48. 48. The part of the brain you use gets more blood flow.<br />Prefrontal<br />cortex<br />Mid-Brain<br />(Limbic System)<br />SURVIVAL<br />Reptilian Brain<br />
    49. 49. Returning Back to Love<br />
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    51. 51. Returning Back to Love<br />How do you return back to Top Down Control ?<br />Expression of the pain at the emotional level<br />Body awareness<br />Relationships – being accepted, understood, and loved<br />Learning to anchor yourself in the present moment<br />Learning to love yourself<br />Forgiveness<br />Finding your voice<br />Giving yourself permission to have needs<br />Reclaiming your personal power<br />Redefining your beliefs<br />Learning how to change your state<br />
    52. 52. Beginning the Journey Inward<br />

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