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2. What goes through your mind when
you approach a girl?

3. If you approach girls. Many guys don't.

4. Or they wait until they are introduced,
or they meet them through social
circles, or they meet them online.

5. But being able to approach girls you
find interesting, and start
conversations with them is a very
wonderful skill to have.

6. Now, many guys approach girls, but
they find the process incredible nerve
racking.

7. Meaning they've got to warm
themselves up.

8. They've got to have a couple of drinks.

9. They've got to go out with their
buddies and make sure they've always
got moral support.

10. That's certainly better than never
approaching, but that mind set has
several limitations.

11. One is that you are going out
specifically to meet girls.

12. This means it's going to be very hard
to be spontaneous.

13. Imagine you hook up with your dream
girl this way.

14. You get married, have a bunch of kids,
and you're sitting their with your
grand kids.

15. "Grandma, how'd you and grandpa
meet?"

16. "Oh, he was so sweet.”

17. “I was downtown in the local meet
market, and he came up with his buds,
all hammered, and spit out some pretty
sweet game on me. He kept negging
me and doing some crazy 'push-pull'
that had me ALL confused!"

18. I hate to break it to you, but this isn't
how most girls dream of meeting their
soul mates.

19. They'd like to believe that it "just
happened."

20. They'd much rather believe you came
up to them in the library, or the coffee
shop, or some bookstore.

21. And they knew you were interested,
and you knew they knew, etc.

22. In order for THAT to happen, you've
got to ditch the idea of "going out to
meet girls" and embrace the idea of
just living your life, and talking to girls
you find attractive and interesting as a
normal course of who you are.

23. Which means if you're hanging out in a
coffee shop (not to meet girls but just
because you like to chill in that
particular environment) and you see a
cutie, you simply start a conversation
and see what happens.

24. If she seems interested and game, you
keep talking.

25. If she pulls back, closes off, or doesn't
want to be bothered, you eject quickly
AND politely.

26. No harm, no foul.

27. One of the biggest mistakes guys have
is not having any criteria.

28. Meaning they see a cute girl, and they
suddenly accept her just the way she
is, before they even meet her.

29. Then when they walk up, it's a matter
of getting "accepted" or "rejected."

30. But consider this, one of your most
important criteria should be that SHE
be open enough, self confident
enough, and spontaneous enough to
at least talk to you for a couple of
minutes.

31. On top of that, another important
criterion is that she be interested in
you enough to keep talking, or
exchange numbers to talk some more,
later on.

32. If she doesn't meet these two criteria,
then she doesn't qualify.

33. Nothing wrong with that.

34. So instead of going over and hoping
you get accepted, go over just to find
out what's what.

35. It will make it a lot
easier.
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