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The Biggest Risk Of All

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I was driving somewhere the other day
with an Australian friend.

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We were going to some restaurant,
she knew where it was, I didn't, so she
was giving me directions.

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She said, "turn left up there after the
zebra crossing."

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And I immediately thought, "What? I
don't see any zebras?"

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See in the states, where I'm from, we
call them "cross walks" or "pedestrian
crossing."

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And if you're driving in the mountains
you might see a warning sign that says,
"Deer crossing."

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So when she said "zebra crossing," it
sounded like a place where zebras
cross the street.

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Of course, a second later I realized that
the "zebra" was a description of what
it LOOKED LIKE, rather than a
description of what it was USED FOR.

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The old, "form" vs. "function"
argument.

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Some things are described by how
they look, others are described by
what they do.

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In Japan, they say that "every meal is
enjoyed twice."

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Once when you look at it, and once
when you eat it.

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This means when they prepare meals,
the PRESENTATION is just as important
as the TASTE.

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Sometimes more so.

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Now, personally, I'm the type of guy
who'd rather pay ONLY for taste.

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I don't really care what it looks like.
But that's just me.

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I'm NOT the kind of guy who takes
photos of his meal before he eats.

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In fact, I'm usually FINISHED before
everyone else has started! (But I
digress...)

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The point is that if you spend TOO
MUCH time worried about what you
LOOK LIKE, you'll impact what you are
able to DO.

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Form is fantastic, so long as it doesn't
impede function.

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Now, what is the FUNCTION of your
life, you may ask?

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The truth is that YOU are the ONLY
ONE who can answer that question.

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Of course, since very few people take
the time to determine the purpose of
their own lives, it generally gets
decided by others.

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Bosses, spouses, kids, parents, TV
commercials.

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It seems that people are desperate to
find meaning ANYWHERE but within
themselves.

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The problem is if you look OUTSIDE
yourself for meaning, YOU, and YOUR
LIFE will eventually be DEFINED by
those outside sources.

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Not yourself.

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And since this happens very slowly,
you run a HUGE RISK.

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And that is you'll get to the end of your
life and wonder what the heck just
happened!

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And guess what? Why do people look
OUTSIDE themselves for answers?

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They are AFRAID of choosing on their
own. And making a mistake. And
having to "do over."

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So instead of living through several
"short term" and "low consequence"
risks, they leave ALL THE RISK to the
end of their lives.

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Hoping it will end up OK!

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Well, I don't know about you, but
screw that noise!

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Of course, living ON PURPOSE requires
courageous introspection.

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You MUST be willing to question things
about yourself most are too scared to.

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But if you do, you'll get things MOST
NEVER KNOW.

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