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seeing another point of view assembly

  1. 1. SeeingAnother Point of View
  2. 2. Seeing another point of view…. • Know that people don’t always see things in the same way. • See things from someone else’s point of view.
  3. 3. I am really fed up with my friend .... She borrowed my new book. She promised she would bring it to my house after school today. After school I waited for ages for her to come, but she obviously couldn’t be bothered. I rang my friend and told her what I thought of her. Would you believe it, instead of saying sorry she started making stupid excuses – so I just put the phone down on her.• Is it OK for her to feel so cross?• Is what she did right?• Should she carry on being friends or break friends with this girl?
  4. 4. Hi, I’m really sad at the moment. Last night I fell off my skateboard and really hurt my head – I had to go to the hospital and they kept me in all night. I was so lonely, I wanted to ring my best friend, because I felt so sad, but I wasn’t allowed. What’s worse is my best friend just rang up – Iwas so pleased because I couldn’t wait to tell herall about it, but guess what – before I could eventell her what had happened she started shouting at me about something I was supposed to have given her back – well how could I if I was inhospital? I don’t think she’s going to be my best friend any more – she slammed the phone down and didn’t even ask how I was. How does this girl feel? • Is it OK for her to feel like this? • What should she do?
  5. 5. Both the girls are actually telling the same story but from their own points of view. Neither of them knew the whole story. When there is an argument or ‘conflict’, one of the most important things you need to do is to find out what the situation was like from the other person’s point of view. Do this when you are feeling calm.
  6. 6. To do this both girls need to talk to each other and use good listening skills.• Sitting or standing still• Looking the other person• Showing that they are interested and understand
  7. 7. How do you think the girl felt when her friend put the phone How do you down on her? think the girl felt when her friend didn’t turn up with Why do you think the book? they felt that way? What could the girls have done Does it change the differently?way they really think about each other?
  8. 8. Remember! When you fall out with someone it is always important to talk. Try to see the situation from someone else’s point of view.
  9. 9. Making up ... To make friends after falling out try:- •saying sorry (be brave, this can be difficult) •offering a token, (a ‘peace offering’) •asking if the person would like to play a game •touching little fingers or using a secret signal or gesture •saying a special rhyme (e.g. ‘Make friends, make friends, never, never break friends’).
  10. 10. Use Ready, Steady, Go!ReadyBoth ‘sides’ should be calm – it’s never anygood trying to make up when you are angry.SteadyTake it in turns to say what you are feelingand why; and what you would like to happen.Listen well – don’t interrupt.GoPick a solution that everyone is happy with.
  11. 11. If the girls had talked while they were still very angrywith each other, do you thinkthey would have managed to listen to each other and solve the problem?To keep friends,we need to make sure that we don’t let our angry feelings get the better of us.