Fully automated attacks take companies into insolvency. The attackers use the latest automation technology to break into your company, making it nearly impossible to prevent an attack. The only question left: when will it happen? While the tech industry has advanced in the last decade towards platform engineering and multiple releases per hour, security tooling and culture have yet to catch up. Working with the most advanced companies with high security and privacy requirements, we observed a shift in how those teams collaborate. This talk shares the learnings from hundreds of discussions and how companies use new approaches to build and ship more robust application delivery with platform and security engineering.