Dating violence is an attempt by one member of an unmarried couple to gain power and control over the other through threats or acts of violence. Teenagers may experience dating violence due to inexperience with relationships, peer pressure, a desire for independence, or romanticized views of love. Signs of potential dating violence include jealousy, controlling behavior, intimidation, violence, pressure, substance abuse, and blaming the victim. Anyone experiencing abuse should seek help from trusted individuals and authorities. Friends of abuse victims should offer support without judgment and help create a safety plan.

1. Teen Dating Violence

3. What is dating violence? Dating violence is an attempt to gain power and control over another person through perpetration or threat of an act of violence by at least one member of an unmarried couple on the other member within the context of dating.

7. The Cycle of Violence Tension-building Explosion Remorse, Apologies Honeymoon 1 2 3

11. Top Ten Signs of Potential Dating Violence 1. Jealousness and possessiveness towards you. 2. Attempts at control by being bossy to you. 3. Frightens or intimidates you into fearing how he/she will react to things you say or do. 4. Is violent and loses temper quickly. 5. Pressures you sexually. 6. Abuses alcohol or drugs. 7. Blames you when he/she mistreats you. 8. Has a history of bad relationships 9. Believes men should be in control and powerful while women should remain submissive and passive. 10. Your family and friends have warned you about this person or told you they are worried about your safety.