您的探索现在开始。
第六部 : 健康恋爱生活
Part 6: Healthy Dating Life
简介 Introduction:
一个实用的系列让我们活出
较少遗憾和更有目的的人生。
A practical series about living life
with fewer regrets and more purpose.
这系列 The series:
• 如何做出更好的决定
•
•
•
•

How to make better decisions

如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts
如何获得财务利差 How to gain fin...
“ 当我还单身的时候,我希望我知道
… .”“I wish I knew when I was single”…
• 我希望我可以单身长久一些,交多一
些知己 / 知心的朋友和更多的服侍上
帝 Can be single longer, mak...
“ 当我还单身的时候,我希望我知道… .”“
I wish I knew when I was single”…
• 当我在学院 / 大学的时後拥有好的财务基础
To have good financial foundation while i...
“ 当我还单身的时候,我希望我知道… .”“I

wish I knew when I was single”…
•如果单单只为了所谓的“状态”而约会将会带来灾
难
Dating for the sake of “status” only le...
一个强大、健康和充实的关系由你开
始! A strong, healthy and fulfilling
relationship begins with YOURSELF!
问题 Question:
当你遇到你合适的另一半时,你是否是对方寻
...
诗篇 139:14 我要称谢你,因我受造 ,奇妙可
畏 ;你的作为奇妙,这是我心深知道的
“I will give thanks to Thee, for I’m fearfully and
wonderfully made…” (Ps 139...
歌罗西书 1:9-12
9 因此,我们自从听见的日子,也就为你们
不住地祷告祈求,愿你们在一切属灵的智
慧悟性上,满心知道神的旨意, 10 好叫
你们行事为人对得起主,凡事蒙他喜悦
,在一切善事上结果子,渐渐地多知道
神; 11 照他荣耀的权能...
提摩太前书 6:10-11
“10 贪财是万恶之根。有人贪恋钱财,
就被引诱离了真道,用许多愁苦把自己
刺透了。 11 但你这属神的人要逃避这
些事,追求公义、敬虔、信心、爱心、
忍耐、温柔。
1.

这一切该从我们必须接受在神的国度里我们
是谁开始
It begins with us ACCEPTING who we are in God

2.

这一切必须从我们还是单身的时候开始认知
和追寻上帝
It begins with u...
彼得后书 1:5-8
“5 正因这缘故,你们要分外地殷勤:有了信心,
又要加上德行;有了德行,又要加上知识; 6 有
了知识,又要加上节制;有了节制,又要加上忍
耐;有了忍耐,又要加上虔敬; 7 有了虔敬,又
要加上爱弟兄的心;有了爱弟兄的心,...
“ 当我还在约会的时候,我希望我知道”… “ I
wish I knew when I was dating”…
• 拥有更好地目的,情感,属灵共同成长步伐成
为一对伴侣
Better pacing on purpose, emotion, s...
“ 当我还在约会的时候,我希望我知道” “ I wish
I knew when I was dating”…
• 问责制的重要性
The importance of accountability
• 性诱惑常常被低估
Sexual tempt...
“ 当我还在约会的时候,我希望我知
道… I wish I knew when I was dating”…
当我们在恋爱时间,这一切真的是关于
对于上帝的敬畏和信念。很多事情我们清
楚知道是不对的可是我们还是照做那是因
为我们的对于上帝的心志...
因此,要拥有一个健康恋爱确实是基于我们与
神的关系而不是关于另一半 / 伴侣是否是我合
适的对象。
Therefore, to have a healthy courtship is really
based on our relationsh...
信念 Conviction
•目的
•纯洁

Purpose
Purity
提多书 2:11-12
“
因为神救众人的恩典已经显明出来 ,  教训我
们除去不敬虔的心和世俗的情欲,在今世自
守、公义、敬虔度日”
“For the grace of God has appeared that offers
salvati...
第六部 : 健康恋爱生活
Part 6: Healthy Dating Life
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
131117 chi  i wish i knew series (part 6 - healthy dating life) by ps. steven teoh
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  1. 1. 您的探索现在开始。
  2. 2. 第六部 : 健康恋爱生活 Part 6: Healthy Dating Life
  3. 3. 简介 Introduction: 一个实用的系列让我们活出 较少遗憾和更有目的的人生。 A practical series about living life with fewer regrets and more purpose.
  4. 4. 这系列 The series: • 如何做出更好的决定 • • • • How to make better decisions 如何摆脱债务 How to get out of debts 如何获得财务利差 How to gain financial margin 如何拥有牢固的婚姻 How to have a strong marriage 如何建立一个健康的约会生活 / 育儿生活 How to build a healthy dating life / parenting life • 如何避免愤怒 How to keep anger at bay • 如何不要担忧 How to not worry
  5. 5. “ 当我还单身的时候,我希望我知道 … .”“I wish I knew when I was single”… • 我希望我可以单身长久一些,交多一 些知己 / 知心的朋友和更多的服侍上 帝 Can be single longer, make more close friends and serve God more • 单身拥有自己一套的自由和乐趣 Being single has its own set of freedom and fun
  6. 6. “ 当我还单身的时候,我希望我知道… .”“ I wish I knew when I was single”… • 当我在学院 / 大学的时後拥有好的财务基础 To have good financial foundation while in college • 当我还单身的时候,努力建立人物性格并且用 最大限度的时间来自我增值 To build character during singlehood and maximize the time for self-development
  7. 7. “ 当我还单身的时候,我希望我知道… .”“I wish I knew when I was single”… •如果单单只为了所谓的“状态”而约会将会带来灾 难 Dating for the sake of “status” only leads to disaster •使用“我希望把我还没信主的伴侣带领相信神”的 原因是不明智的,因为它大部分都不成功,并且 更往往会造成更大的问题 Using “I want to bring my unbelieving partner to God” reason is not wise as it doesn’t work most of the times and more often will cause bigger issues
  8. 8. 一个强大、健康和充实的关系由你开 始! A strong, healthy and fulfilling relationship begins with YOURSELF! 问题 Question: 当你遇到你合适的另一半时,你是否是对方寻 找合适的另一半呢? When you meet the RIGHT one, are you the RIGHT one that your RIGHT one is looking for?
  9. 9. 诗篇 139:14 我要称谢你,因我受造 ,奇妙可 畏 ;你的作为奇妙,这是我心深知道的 “I will give thanks to Thee, for I’m fearfully and wonderfully made…” (Ps 139:14, NASB)
  10. 10. 歌罗西书 1:9-12 9 因此,我们自从听见的日子,也就为你们 不住地祷告祈求,愿你们在一切属灵的智 慧悟性上,满心知道神的旨意, 10 好叫 你们行事为人对得起主,凡事蒙他喜悦 ,在一切善事上结果子,渐渐地多知道 神; 11 照他荣耀的权能,得以在各样的 力上加力,好叫你们凡事欢欢喜喜地忍耐 宽容。 12 又感谢父,叫我们能与众圣徒 在光明中同得基业。
  11. 11. 提摩太前书 6:10-11 “10 贪财是万恶之根。有人贪恋钱财, 就被引诱离了真道,用许多愁苦把自己 刺透了。 11 但你这属神的人要逃避这 些事,追求公义、敬虔、信心、爱心、 忍耐、温柔。
  12. 12. 1. 这一切该从我们必须接受在神的国度里我们 是谁开始 It begins with us ACCEPTING who we are in God 2. 这一切必须从我们还是单身的时候开始认知 和追寻上帝 It begins with us KNOWING and PURSUING God as a single 3. 这一切必须从我们建立一个强大而虔诚的人 物性格开始 It begins with us BUILDING a strong and godly character
  13. 13. 彼得后书 1:5-8 “5 正因这缘故,你们要分外地殷勤:有了信心, 又要加上德行;有了德行,又要加上知识; 6 有 了知识,又要加上节制;有了节制,又要加上忍 耐;有了忍耐,又要加上虔敬; 7 有了虔敬,又 要加上爱弟兄的心;有了爱弟兄的心,又要加上 爱众人的心。 8 你们若充充足足地有这几样,就 必使你们在认识我们的主耶稣基督上,不至于闲 懒不结果子了。”
  14. 14. “ 当我还在约会的时候,我希望我知道”… “ I wish I knew when I was dating”… • 拥有更好地目的,情感,属灵共同成长步伐成 为一对伴侣 Better pacing on purpose, emotion, spiritual growth together as a couple • 保持纯洁和扣人心弦的关系并且在同一时间是 以主为主在中间的关系 To keep the relationship pure and exciting at the same time Christ-centered
  15. 15. “ 当我还在约会的时候,我希望我知道” “ I wish I knew when I was dating”… • 问责制的重要性 The importance of accountability • 性诱惑常常被低估 Sexual temptation is often underestimated • 在身体和情感方面必须拥有更强大的自我守卫的 界限 A greater guard upon physical and emotional boundaries
  16. 16. “ 当我还在约会的时候,我希望我知 道… I wish I knew when I was dating”… 当我们在恋爱时间,这一切真的是关于 对于上帝的敬畏和信念。很多事情我们清 楚知道是不对的可是我们还是照做那是因 为我们的对于上帝的心志还不够坚强… . It’s really about the FEAR OF GOD and the CONVICTION we have during the courtship. A lot of things we knew but we still do because our hearts toward God are not strong….
  17. 17. 因此,要拥有一个健康恋爱确实是基于我们与 神的关系而不是关于另一半 / 伴侣是否是我合 适的对象。 Therefore, to have a healthy courtship is really based on our relationship with God NOT about whether the person is the right one or not. 停止祷告寻找合适另一半,而是你祷告你成为 另一半合适的伴侣! Stop praying for the right person, pray that you become the right person instead!
  18. 18. 信念 Conviction •目的 •纯洁 Purpose Purity
  19. 19. 提多书 2:11-12 “ 因为神救众人的恩典已经显明出来 ,  教训我 们除去不敬虔的心和世俗的情欲,在今世自 守、公义、敬虔度日” “For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age” Titus 2:11,12
  20. 20. 第六部 : 健康恋爱生活 Part 6: Healthy Dating Life

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