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  1. 1. A MATCHMADE IN HEAVEN The Christian’s Guide To Finding God’s Perfect Match For YouPROMOTIONAL COPY By: Shaun Maddox
  2. 2. This Promotional Copy Is Sponsored By: Leona Lai For More Information Go To www.EagerLearner.com -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------All rights reserved. This document may not be sold, changed or altered in any way. Youdo have permission to be a blessing to others by sharing and passing along thispromotional copy to others.This promotional copy contains the four chapters of the book absolutely free. You willalso be getting an exclusive sneak peek into the remaining chapters of the book.NOTE: When you take advantage of the full version of this book, you willalso be receiving the following additional bonuses: 1. A Study Guide: Designed to help you retain the information that you learned from reading and studying the book. 2. Journal: So that you can write down and document your notes as well as any direction you receive from God. 3. Question Guide: Contains over 100 questions you need to ask your potential future mate. No single Christian should think about getting into any relationship without asking these important questions. 4. Prayer & Affirmations Book: Contains specific prayers for you, based on each of the lesson topics from the book, along with related affirmations designed to move you in the right direction towards reaching your goals in your relationships and in life. 5. Audio CD: This downloadable audio contains the entire book in audio format so that you can listen to it while you are on the go. You can burn it to a CD or put it on your MP3 player to listen to. Take Advantage of the Full Version NowNote: Take a moment to look through the table of contents in order to see what youcan expect once you take advantage of the full version of this book.
  3. 3. Table Of ContentsPreface………………………………………………………………………...............6Acknowledgements…………………………………………………………………...8His Story & Her Story……………………………………………………………….10Introduction…………………………………………………………………………..19Putting First Things First……………………………………………………………24  Well Done Good and Faithful Servant  Delight Yourself In The Lord  Keep Your Tower From Leaning  Make God Your Designated DriverYour Season Of Singleness (Blessing or Burden?)…………………………………30  You Complete Me  Not Married Means You Are Still Single  The Five Relationship Stages  Sign Me Up For The Single’s MinistryThe Definition Of Love………………………………………………………………38Searching For Mr. or Mrs. Right…………………………………………………...40  Will Somebody Please Close That Door  You Can’t Force It  When Opposites Attract  Take The Limits Off God  Don’t Be A Back Seat Driver  In The Right Place At The Right Time  Write The Vision  What You Say Is What You Get  Online Dating: The Good, The Bad, and The UglyAsk Me No Questions and I’ll Tell You No Lies…………………………………..55You Shall Know Them By Their Fruits……………………………………………58  How To Avoid Land Mines  What Do Cookies and Fool’s Gold Have In Common?God Doesn’t Wear A Watch………………………………………………………..62  God’s Delays Aren’t God’s Denials  Don’t Give Birth To The Wrong Baby  An Attitude of GratitudeUnanswered Prayers………………………………………………………………..71  Follow The Instruction Manual  Where There’s A Will…There’s A Way  Put Your Faith Into ActionIs Anybody Listening?...............................................................................................78  Too Much Static Can Ruin Your Reception
  4. 4.  Your Journey Begins With Your JournalTrue Love Always Waits…………………………………………..………….…….83  Stop Flirting With The Devil  Where The Mind Goes The Body Follows  How To Catch MonkeysPlant A Seed In Your Time Of Need…………………………………………..…..91Learn Your Role………………………………………………………………..…..94Marriage: The Final Frontier…………………………………………………..…97  Contract Marriage vs. Covenant Marriage  Can Marriage Really Work?  Satisfaction Guaranteed Or Your Heart Back  What Is God’s Purpose For Marriage?  Stop Practicing Divorce  Leave Your Baggage At The Door  Top Ten Marriage Myths  Does God Want Me To Be Single or Married?  Let’s Talk About Statistics  Stop Playing HouseThe Yoke’s On You………………………………………………………………110For Men Only…………………………………………………………………….112For Women Only…………………………………………………………………114Scripture Reference Guide………………………………………………………115Conclusion………………………………………………………………………...120
  5. 5. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION PrefaceNever in my wildest dreams did I ever think that one day I would be authoring books thatwould reach people all over the globe. I am living proof that with God all things arepossible and as a result I am able to share with you my story and my experience whichultimately brought you and me together through this book. Many times God brings thebest out of us through a little squeezing, and I’ll be the first to admit that some of my bestwork was born out of some pressure and hard times. Keep in mind that carbon, withenough pressure and time, eventually becomes a diamond. I have come to learn that whenGod “squeezes” you, He is looking to get the best out of you while extracting anddiscarding the worst.There were several occasions when I thought this book was complete but God showed methat there was more that needed to be included in it for it to be the greatest benefit to you.This book is for the Christian single as well as the person who is currently in arelationship but not yet married who desires to be one day. In other words, this book isfor you if you are single, have never been married, have been divorced, are widowed, andeven if you are dating right now. I will be discussing with you later in the book why“dating” Christians fall into the category of single.I realize that there are a lot of books out there on the market written for the singleChristian, however one thing I have noticed is that a good majority of them are written bysingle people. I believe that this book will be different from many of the others because itreveals the principles that I personally used when I was once single, which ultimately gotme to the point from being single to getting married. In other words, if someone wantedto learn how to drive or how to lose weight, who would be the first person they shouldseek out?The person who was still losing the weight or still learning how to drive or the personwho already lost the weight and passed their road test? Now don’t get me wrong, I amcertainly not saying that you cannot learn anything from someone who is single andwritten a book about it, all I am saying is that you should explore both sides and extractthe information from different sources that will help you reach your goal and what youare believing God for in your life.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 7www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  6. 6. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSIONThere are some pretty great books out there written by single Christians which can giveyou an excellent perspective that I may not be able to cover here in this book. It would bepretty presumptuous of me to even think that my book contains everything that you needto know without further need to obtain other resources to learn from. In fact, when yousigned up to receive this book, you were given access to some awesome additionalresources that are designed to give you even more knowledge on the topics discussedhere.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 8www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  7. 7. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Acknowledgements Throughout my entire life I have made countless decisions which have affected my life in numerous ways. Out of all of them, there are only two key decisions that I am truly thankful for making. The biggest one of course is my decision to accept Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior. The other decision I am truly thankful for is the decision to marry my beautiful and wonderful wife Adrian,who loves the Lord very much. She is a very kind, considerate and giving person and Ithank God each day for bringing her into my life. My wife has been such an inspiration tome and one of the many reasons I love her so is because no matter what I am goingthrough she is always there to uplift and encourage me.She is a true example of what God meant when he described what a Proverbs 31 womanshould be. Before we ever got married I remember plenty of days when I would call herto tell her I was having a bad day and rather than only sympathizing with me and tellingme everything would be alright, she would also take the time out to look up anappropriate scripture to help me get through whatever I was going through at the time. I am also very thankful for my in-laws who have been so very supportive to usthroughout our marriage. I tell people that you always hear horror stories about how badin-laws can be once you get married. I am thankful that this was not the case with mewhen I got married. I am also very thankful to God for you who this book was written forand I am so very thankful to God for taking me through one of the most educating andexciting journeys while I was single. During my season of singleness God showed mesome very important principles and Godly lessons which were responsible for meultimately being blessed with a wonderful wife. I am thankful for the opportunity to sharewith you what I learned during that time.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 9www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  8. 8. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Here is a picture of me and my beautiful wife Adrian.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 10www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  9. 9. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Introduction This book is dedicated to every single Christian out there who has ever desired to find that special someone who God has placed on this planet for them. It is my intent through this book to help you reach this point as a result of you developing a closer relationship with God and learning how to obtain the great things God has already promised you in His word,Well are you ready to begin? If so then I want to start off by first telling you that you aregoing to get out of this book exactly what you are willing to put in. You have the choiceto just skim over this material looking for a few quick answers or you can really take thetime to study this material, look up the scriptures, meditate on them, get the additionalresources provided, and complete all of the exercises found inside the study guide whichcomes along with this book. After each chapter, you will complete the questions in thestudy guide for that chapter before continuing on in the book. This material is quitedifferent from a lot of other “similar” books because it requires you to get involved andparticipate. You are going to have to do a lot more than just read the words on thesepages in order for you to get the most out of it. In life you can always choose to take theshort cut however if you do not get the results you are looking for then you will have noone else to blame but yourself. You must be willing to go the extra mile in order toachieve in life what you really want.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 11www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  10. 10. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSIONThe principles and lessons you are going to learn in this book will not only guide youwith getting your prayers answered for finding your perfect match from God, but you canalso apply them to getting almost anything that you may be believing God for. It willhowever take a bit more than simply reading a few pages in a book and then just idlysitting back and waiting for your miracle to just fall out of the sky.This book is not about showing you how to find yourself a mate in and of itself, butinstead is meant to show you how to obtain everything that God has in store for you ifyou are willing to follow His instruction manual. I remember all too well trying to puttogether a furniture shelf choosing not to read the instruction manual even though onewas provided. For some reason I thought that I could still do a good enough jobassembling it on my own. After all, how hard could it be as long as I looked at the pictureright? Was I ever wrong because it took me much longer to put it together than if I wouldhave just followed the instruction manual provided. If you fail to read the instructionmanual and then are not happy with the results of what you have built then you have noone else to blame but yourself. You cannot blame the instruction manual nor can youblame the author of the manual.Through God’s guidance I have tried to create a great resource for you that is simple tounderstand, scriptural, and Christ centered. My goal was to provide you with a resourcethat would be based on and backed up by the word of God. Every time you pick up thisbook to read it you should always have your bible open and ready to look up allreferenced scriptures. It will serve as your greatest tool and resource to use during yourreading and learning. Your bible is what is going to allow you to make the connectionbetween the words on these pages and the word of God. I have purposely not written outa majority of the scriptures here in the book because it is important that you look each ofthem up on your own.It was necessary for me to look them up and study them in order to write this book and itis equally important for you to do the same in order to learn from this book. If you areplanning on reading this book without your bible, then do yourself a huge favor and juststop reading right now because you will be doing yourself a great disservice. The nextimportant thing you are going to want to make sure you do is to pray before each timeyou read this book. You will be asking God to open your mind and speak to your spirit bygiving you understanding during your study time of this material. As you read eachchapter, you will definitely want to be sure to use the Prayer & Affirmations resource thatgoes along with this book.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 12www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  11. 11. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSIONLastly, as you are reading this book and studying the referenced scriptures, be sure toimmediately write down in your journal that also comes with this book, whateverthoughts that come to you. Now of course I am well aware of the fact that if you aredoing exactly as instructed and not taking any shortcuts, then it’s going to take you anextended period of time to complete a chapter. As I mentioned earlier, this book was notdesigned for you to just read through it quickly and walk away with only a surfaceunderstanding of the principles revealed to you.You may have heard before that the best way to learn a new language is to immerseyourself in that language. Well the best way to really learn this material and get thebiggest benefit from it is to immerse yourself in it as well. Finally, once you havecompleted a chapter in its entirety, then you will go to the study guide whichaccompanied this book and complete all of the activities for that particular chapter. Doingso is going to reinforce the material you have just learned and help move you along onthe road to reaching the goals you have set for yourself when you decided to takeadvantage of this book.Extensive research has been done on how people learn the best and retain information. Asyou refer to the “Cone of Learning” chart, you will see that the majority of information isremembered the more involved you are in the learning process. Sadly, as you can see,only a mere 10% of what you read is even remembered after just two short weeks. This iswhy it’s so important that you take advantage of all of the additional bonus resources thatcame with this book including the audio download. You can download the audio onto adisc or onto your MP3 player and listen to it while you are on the go whether it’s whileyou are working out, cleaning, or simply driving.Another great way to get involved with what you will be learning is to discuss what youhave learned with other like-minded individuals who may have similar goals as you doregarding this subject. This is why we have also made available free access to ourrecorded teleseminars to you and to everyone who have chosen to make the wise decisionof taking advantage of the full version of the book. These teleseminars feature differentexperts who will be sharing their extensive knowledge of this subject with listeners fromaround the world who desire to find their perfect match God’s way.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 13www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  12. 12. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSIONDuring our time together here are just a few things you are going to be learning: • What it takes for you to prepare for your mate as well as a successful marriage. • What steps you must take in order to get your prayers answered. • What God’s definition of what true love is and why so many people miss the mark on this one. • How to put your faith into action in order to get the results that you are desiring. • How to hear from God and block out all the interference that hinders you from getting direction from Him. • How to determine if any person you meet or are in relationship with now is actually the right one for you. • Some of the key mistakes that single Christians make while waiting on God. • The key questions you need to absolutely ask every one you desire to pursue a relationship with. • The secret to reaping a harvest in any area where you may have a need. • How to make sure you are lined up with God’s will for your life. • How to wait on God for what you are believing for and love doing it. • How to avoid the biggest mistakes Christians make before tying the knot and getting married. • The five dating stages you must go through on your road to marriage and what you must do at each stage to reap the biggest benefit during your dating experiences.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 14www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  13. 13. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Putting First Things First Chapter Sneak Peak….God is much more qualified to find the perfect mate for you than you are therefore youshould put it totally in His hands, keep Him first, and trust that He will bring them intoyour life according to His perfect timing. (Pro 3:5-6) There is no denying that if I wouldhave been placed solely in charge of “finding” my wife instead of letting go and lettingGod bring Her to me, then there is no telling what in the world I would have ended upwith. I am so thankful that I allowed God to do what He does best...which isEVERYTHING!Here are just a few key things you will be learning from this chapter: • The key step in finding the person God has set aside just for you. • What may be holding you back and keeping you from experiencing God’s best that He has for you. • The number one thing you must start doing immediately if you ever want to experience the perfect relationship you have been waiting for. • The importance of building the right Godly foundation before getting involved in any relationship as well as the steps for doing it. • Plus much more…Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 15www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  14. 14. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Your Season Of Singleness (Blessing or Burden?) Chapter Sneak Peak….Are you chasing happiness or are you experiencing happiness in whatever state you maybe in right now? The sad fact is that the majority of people spend all their lives chasinghappiness only to never really take possession of it. Rather than letting your happinessbecome conditional on a set of circumstances or events, let your happiness be based onChrist and all that He has already done for you and already given you.Your happiness should never rest in someone else but instead in Jesus. Remember,happiness comes from WITHIN even when you are WITHOUT. God’s ultimate goal foryour life isn’t necessarily “happiness” but rather your growth and development in Christ.Now of course this does not mean that God doesn’t want for you to be happy. On thecontrary, He wants for all His children to experience happiness just as any loving parentwould want for their children. However no parent who truly claims to love their child isgoing to sacrifice their child’s growth or safety for any amount of happiness.This chapter will be showing you how to overcome the frustrations of being single aswell as how to find peace in your current season. You will also be learning theimportance of becoming whole within yourself instead of relying on others to do this foryou. You will discover why Christians who are dating are still considered “single”. Youwill also be learning the 5 Relationship Stages you will need to go through to get you towhere you ultimately need to be.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 16www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  15. 15. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION The Definition Of Love Chapter Sneak Peak….If you were to ask several people what their definition of love is or how do they knowwhen they are in love, chances are good that you would probably get different answersfrom each of them. Different people have their own definition of what love is which iswhy it’s so important to make sure you refer to the bible for the true definition of love asit pertains to God. The true definition of Love can really be summed up in the scriptureJohn 3:16. This scripture tells us that God so loved the world that He gave His only Sonso that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. In fact thereare many instances in the bible which give us distinct clues as to the true meaning of loveas seen through God’s eyes.This chapter is going to give you an in-depth look at the true meaning of love as definedby God. So many people ask how they will know when someone really loves them. Wellafter reading this chapter you will never again have to wonder if someone really lovesyou or not because you will finally have a clear understanding. We will also bediscussing the three types of love and the roles they each play in your life. You are goingto absolutely “love” this chapter and the invaluable information you are going to receive.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 17www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  16. 16. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Searching For Mr. or Mrs. Right Chapter Sneak Peak…. Searching for love can be an uphill battle especially because we tend to put the absolute worst person in charge of this task and that person is ourselves. One of people’s biggest questions to me is exactly where are they supposed to find the right person and how can they tell if that person is actually the right one. Well the good news is that by the end of this chapter and this book, you are going to be miles aheadof most other people in getting these questions answered. The truth is there is no magicalshopping mall that you can go to in order to select the perfect person for you that comesready-made to order. In the beginning, I made the huge mistake of putting too muchfocus on searching for my perfect mate which always ended up with me looking for lovein all the wrong places.You are going to learn how to avoid the same mistakes that I made and that countless ofother single Christians have made when it comes to finding the right person. You will belearning what you need to be looking for during your search (and it’s not what you arethinking). You will discover the real deal about being in the right place and at the righttime. You will discover the two key steps you need to start doing today to reach yourtarget but sadly almost everyone is not doing including you. I am going to be sharingwith you the number one weapon of mass destruction that may be keeping you fromreaching the blessing you have been waiting for.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 18www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  17. 17. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Ask Me No Questions and I’ll Tell You No Lies Chapter Sneak Peak…. When me and Adrian were first introduced to each other we spent 100% of our time getting to know each other by phone since we each lived in different states. Because of this we didn’t spend time going to the movies or to the park, instead our time was spent getting to know the character, likes and dislikes, values, and way of thinking of each other. Weaccomplished this by asking not only a lot of questions but also asking the rightquestions. When you meet someone who you might be considering a relationship with,then the best way to know if you should even move forward with them will depend on theinformation you gather in advance through the questions you ask them.During the “get to know” stage be sure to refer to the Questions Guide that came withthis book as a bonus. You will find over 100 questions that are key for you to be askingwhen getting to know someone you may have intentions on getting into a relationshipwith. These questions will help you determine from the start whether that person is evenright for you or whether you are right for them. You will also be learning the three simplerules for asking these questions along with the top five questions you better not forget toask. Get Your Bonus Question Guide NowCopyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 19www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  18. 18. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION You Shall Know Them By Their Fruits Chapter Sneak Peak…. As a Christian seeking the right person for you, how in the world are you able to know if someone is actually who they claim to be? This seems to be one of the biggest frustrations I have heard from many single Christians. If this is one of your frustrations as well then it’s pretty safe to say that you are really going to learn a lot from this chapter. Nothing can be more disheartening than to find out someone was representing themselves as one thing when in fact they wereanother. Just because a tree is in an apple orchard doesn’t necessarily mean that it is anapple tree. You won’t truly know what kind of tree it is until it begins to bear fruit.Here are just a few key things you will be learning from this chapter: • How to avoid the common mistakes typically made when meeting someone. • How to avoid wasting your valuable time with the wrong person. • Discover if that potential mate is really the one God intended for you. • How to finally stop being deceived by those wolves in sheep’s clothing. • Plus much more….Many times meeting the wrong person can often be like encountering a landmine. Step inthe wrong place or put yourself in the wrong situation and you could find yourself insome serious trouble. This chapter is going to teach you how to avoid those landmines.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 20www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  19. 19. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION God Doesn’t Wear A Watch Chapter Sneak Peak…. I have been told on several occasions that I can be somewhat impatient at times. I am one of those people who constantly looks at his watch while waiting in a line as if the mere act of doing so is going to magically cause the line to move faster. Some of the key things I am going to answer for you in this chapter is why does God make you wait and what are some of the consequences of not waiting on God. I will be sharing with you some specific steps thatyou can put into action immediately that will help you during your period of waiting. Youmust remember that God is not bound to the same time constraints that we are. He doeseverything according to His own time and not according to yours.This chapter will be one of the most educational chapters for you because the period ofwaiting for most single Christians can be the toughest part of the process. If the devilcannot destroy your dreams and plans then he will settle on distracting you from reachingthem. This chapter is going to show you how to beat the devil at his own game while youare waiting on God. You will also be learning the steps you must take to get in God’s willand once you are in it…how to stay there.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 21www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  20. 20. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Unanswered Prayers Chapter Sneak Peak…. When you have a need, you are typically told to take it to God in prayer, which is simply our way of communicating with God. This chapter is going to deal with the question so many frustrated Christians find themselves asking. That question is: “why do some of my prayers go unanswered?” I will be sharing with you the key mistakes most people make and what most people, including yourself, may be leaving out which can be hindering your prayers from getting answered. Let’s start with one of my favorite scriptures in the bible which is found inPsalms 37:4. This scripture states: “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you thedesires of your heart.” Just because God says He will give you the desires of your heart,this scripture is not a blank check for you to just ask God for whatever you want nomatter how bad or harmful it may be for you or others.There is a right way to getting your prayers answered and there is also a wrong way.Getting on the right road to answered prayers is always going to involve taking the rightsteps but sadly too many Christians miss the mark in this category. By the time youcomplete this chapter, you will be on that road that will get you to answered prayers inyour very own life.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 22www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  21. 21. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Is Anybody Listening? Chapter Sneak Peak…. I am going to be explaining some fairly simple ways that you can begin implementing immediately to ensure that you are truly hearing from God. When trying to hear from God, many Christians find themselves in need of a “hearing aid” in order to assist them. Your hearing aid is the word of God. If someone were across the room and whispering something to you, then you would obviously need to move closer to them in order to be able to distinguish what it is that they are trying to say to you. Getting closer to God is the best thing to aid you in hearing from Him.So with that being said, how good is your hearing? The truth is God doesn’t really needto speak louder, we just need to hear better, now how can you do this effectively? Thischapter will be answering this question for you by showing you some specific steps forensuring you are truly hearing from God. Stop letting the static from the enemy disruptyour signal from God and start learning how to filter out the distractions which arekeeping you from getting direction from God towards finding your perfect match.I will also be discussing the three keys you need to do to be able to hear from God as wellas what your number one resource is that you have to assist you with this.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 23www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  22. 22. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION True Love Always Waits Chapter Sneak Peak…. Just about every Christian that I surveyed said that they believe that intimacy should be saved for marriage, however many of those same Christians still struggle with this issue. In this chapter I am going to discuss why so many people struggle with this and offer you some specific ways to help you in this area. Sadly in today’s society we spend more time trying to teach about the importance of practicing “safe” sex when we should be teaching more about “saving” sex.If you play with rattlesnakes then eventually you are going to get bitten. In other wordsdon’t play with or flirt with the devil. He is very sneaky and conniving and sometimes heknows you better than you know yourself and knows exactly which buttons to push to getyou to do what you should not do. You will be learning the specific tricks the devil isusing right now to deceive you and others in this area.This chapter identifies the 7 keys to help you avoid sexual sin. In order to be successful inthis area you must practice ALL of these seven keys and not just some of them. I havealready helped you out with key #6 from the list. You will find an Abstinence Pledge inyour study guide which comes with the full version of this book. Be sure to print it outand sign it and post it where you can see it.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 24www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  23. 23. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Plant A Seed In Your Time Of Need Chapter Sneak Peak…. “Whatever a man sows, that he also will reap.” I am certain that this is not the first time that you have heard of this principle. The sad fact is that many Christians never really grasp how powerful this Godly principle is. So many people come with a give me attitude without ever really taking the time to sow into what it is they may be believing God for. If you want more love then you must first be willing to give love. If you want respect then you must first give it. So I hearyou saying, “If I am looking for God to bless me with my perfect match then how exactlydo I sow this?” I am going to answer that for you by explaining in this chapter how I putthis principle into action before I ever met my wife.In this chapter, you are going to be learning the 3 principles of sowing and reaping whichwill prove invaluable to you for aiding you in achieving what it is you desire. Manypeople are still not convinced or believe that the law of sowing and reaping actuallyworks. This is probably why so many Christians fail to tithe. Just because someone isn’tconvinced about the law of gravity doesn’t mean they won’t still fall to the ground if theyjumped off a tall building. As you read this chapter and begin to discover the awesomepower of this principle, don’t be surprised when you reap the harvest that you have beenpraying for in your relationships and in your life.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 25www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  24. 24. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Learn Your Role Chapter Sneak Peak…. If you desire for God to bless you with a spouse then it is vital that you get a clear understanding of what your role will be in a marriage. It’s equally important that you get your answers based on what the bible says and not your own preconceived notions that you may have gotten from your parents, your friends, or even television. This chapter is going to prove to be a wonderful resource as it gives you some very specific stepsnecessary for you to get ready for your future role in marriage.Well before I even met Adrian, I had begun preparing for my role in marriage in order toone day become the husband God would want me to be once He blessed me with a wife.After Adrian and I met and we began to consider marriage, I told her that what we dowhile we are single will be indicative of what we do if we ever get married. The samerule applies to you as well. Everything you begin doing now will play an important partin what type of results you end up with later.Don’t leave anything to chance. Use the information you will find in this chapter to helpyou prepare for your future role in the wonderful production that God will be directingstarring you and your future match made in heaven.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 26www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  25. 25. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Marriage: The Final Frontier Chapter Sneak Peak….More than likely if you are reading this book then it is hopefully your goal to one dayfind the perfect match for you and eventually end up getting married. This chapter is oneof my favorites because it digs in deep to the real purpose of marriage and how to getyourself ready for it if that is what you one day desire. I must warn you though that thedevil isn’t just going to roll out the red carpet in anticipation of your journey towardsmarriage. He is going to fight it every chance he gets, especially if you have set it in yourheart to pursue a Godly marriage.This is why it is so important for you to prepare yourself as much as possible not onlywith this book but with all of the other great resources out there. This chapter isappropriately titled as it is because hopefully when you get involved in a relationship or ifyou are already in one, then marriage is hopefully the final destination you are movingtowards.Within this chapter you will discover the key differences between a “contract” marriageand a “covenant” marriage as well as how to prepare for a marriage one day that will lastrather than become another statistic.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 27www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  26. 26. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSIONSatisfaction Guaranteed Or Your Heart BackNowadays there are thousands of products that you can purchase that come with somesort of risk free guarantee or satisfaction guarantee. The purpose of these are so that theconsumer can feel confident about their purchase while knowing that if for some reasonthey are not completely satisfied with their decision, they can always return it. This is notthe way God intended for things to work in marriage, although thousands of people treattheir marriages in a similar fashion.When you make a purchase with a reputable company that offers a risk free guarantee,then it is fairly simple to return that item and get your money back. When it comes tomarriage, it’s obviously impossible to do this. Much of the dissatisfaction that occurs in amarriage is caused by false expectations of what an “ideal marriage” is supposed to looklike. This chapter will help you clarify what you can expect by showing you what God’spurpose is for marriage.By the way, speaking of a risk free guarantee; did I mention that when you takeadvantage of the full version of this book you also get a 60 DAY ~ 100% Risk FreeGuarantee? If for any reason at all you are not completely convinced that the book isworth every single penny you invested into it, you will get a full refund. (no questionsasked) With that type of guarantee, what are you waiting for? Go ahead now and takeadvantage of the full version. You have absolutely nothing to lose!Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 28www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  27. 27. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION The Yoke’s On You Chapter Sneak Peak…. The bible is very explicit about fellowshipping with someone who is unequally yoked. (2 Corinthians 6:14) While this scripture does not specifically elude to be only speaking about married people, it certainly can and should be applied to marriage. The problem that I found is many Christians have either no understanding of the true meaning of “equally yoked” or either only a vague understanding at best. What I am going to attempt to do in this section of the book is help you understand what ittruly means to be equally yoked with someone according to what God’s word says.When you decide to get into a relationship with someone that you hope leads to marriage,then it benefits you to have as many things going in your favor from the beginning. Whilethis book is an excellent start, following God’s instructions to be equally yoked with thatperson is most certainly a step in the right direction.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 29www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  28. 28. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Additional Resources Get More More Additional Resources Heaven Inspired Blog www.ChristianDatingExpert.comCopyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 30www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  29. 29. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Conclusion Chapter Sneak Peak….Well you have made it to the finish line, but the truth of the matter is that it’s really justthe beginning for you on your journey to finding your own match made in heaven. It ismy prayer that this book has been a true blessing and encouragement to you. It isimportant that you not just read this once but several times.I promise you that as you refer back to this book again in the future, more ideas andinsights will be revealed to you to help you on your wonderful journey with God, infinding your match made in heaven. Also you will want to take advantage of each of theresources that came with this book by reviewing the notes you took in your journal,continuing to refer back to the prayer and affirmation resource, and reviewing thematerial you completed in your study guide.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 31www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  30. 30. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSIONThroughout this journey together here, let’s just recap a few things that you have beenable to learn throughout this book: 1. How to avoid some of the most common mistakes that single Christians typically make. 2. The proper way for you to prepare for your ultimate role in marriage. 3. The key steps necessary for getting your prayers answered. 4. How to recognize the tricks the enemy is using right now on you to keep you from obtaining the right relationship with the right individual. 5. The correct way to build a proper Godly foundation for any relationship. 6. How to finally tell when someone really loves you when they say it. 7. How to be in the right place at the right time while waiting for God’s blessing. 8. The two key steps you may be failing to do to help you identify the perfect match for you. 9. How to avoid wasting your time over and over again with the wrong person. 10. How to get in God’s will for finding the perfect person He has for you. 11. How to hear from God when He is trying to give you vital information and how to eliminate the static that is hindering you from doing so. 12. Seven keys designed to help you avoid sexual sin. 13. The top ten marriage myths that are keeping single Christians in the dark about the true nature of marriage.Copyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 32www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  31. 31. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSIONREMINDER: When you take advantage of the full version of this book,you will also be receiving the following additional bonuses: 1. A Study Guide: Designed to help you retain the information that you learned from reading and studying the book. 2. Journal: So that you can write down and document your notes from the book, as well as any direction you receive from God. 3. Question Guide: Contains over 100 questions you need to ask your future mate. No single Christian should think about getting into any relationship without asking these important questions. 4. Prayer & Affirmations Book: Contains specific prayers for you, based on each of the lesson topics from the book, along with related affirmations designed to move you in the right direction towards reaching your goals in your relationships and in life. 5. Audio CD: This downloadable audio contains the entire book in audio format so that you can listen to it while you are on the go. You can burn it to a CD or put it on your MP3 player to listen to. SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? Take Advantage of the Full Version NowCopyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 33www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  32. 32. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSIONDid you know that if you signed up to receive a Promotional Copy of this book then youwere added to our list of people who will be receiving some great additional FREEresources from me that I know you will love. (Just my little way of bribing you to keeptelling others about my book) DON’T WORRY...if someone was nice enough to pass this promotional copy on to youand you didn’t have an opportunity to sign up for your FREE resources then you are inluck. You can still have access to them by visiting us online and signing up at: www.ChristianDatingExpert.comCopyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 34www.ChristianDatingExpert.com
  33. 33. ******************** A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN ******************** PROMOTIONAL COPY OF FULL VERSION Feel free to pass this book on and share it with others you feel could benefit from the information it contains. You CAN give it away, use it as a free bonus, prize, or promotional giveaway. YOU MAY NOT sell, change, or alter this book in any way, nor add to, or take away from any part of the content written within this book. Share this promotional copy with another unmarried Christian or with someone who knows an unmarried ChristianCopyright © 2010 All Rights Reserved Page 35www.ChristianDatingExpert.com

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