About Well that is complicated but I will be brief. I have no kids (but 2 cats) and have married the right woman finally on my second try. I have two families- one here and one in South Africa. I have been down many tough rods (but who hasn't) and they have made me a stronger person overall. I am now a positive person, who has patience and appreciates every good day i have. I am spontaneously funny, and try to find humor with a lot of lifes moments.