New book chronicles familys medical plightMom and son hope story helps people navigate medical processScott Iwasaki, The Park RecordPosted: 09/30/2011 03:06:58 PM MDTPark City High School senior Kevin Whiting has felt pain in his lower abdomen all his life.He felt it each time his body hit a growth spurt, and by the time he was 13 and a student at TreasureMountain Middle School, the pain was so severe, he couldnt eat, let alone function as a normalteenager.His parents Vicki and Jeff took him to doctors and specialists but were told the same thing.Kevin was anorexic.The problem was, he wasnt. Kevin had been misdiagnosed and was actually suffering from WilkesSyndrome, an ailment where the Superior Mesenteric Artery cut off his small intestines so foodcouldnt pass through.The symptoms were severe weight loss and pain, said his mother Vicki Whiting during a jointinterview she and Kevin had with The Park Record."Kevin was treated with anti-anxiety medication and anti depressants to cure his anorexia," VickiWhiting said. "That was when Kevin became suicidal because he was taking medicines he shouldnthave been on."Unfortunately, once her son was labeled as anorexic, it became the de facto diagnosis."It precluded Kevin from getting the diagnostics he should have received, and to get the medical systemto move past the short-hand explanation was one of the hardest things we had to go through," she said.After going to four or five specialists, the Whitings went to a family friend who was a colorectalsurgeon."He knew me well enough to run the diagnostics that needed to be done, and the remedy was surgery,"Iwasaki, Scott. "New Book Chronicles Familys Medical Plight." The Park Record. The ParkRecord, 30 Sept. 2011. Web. 22 Mar. 2013.
Kevin said.The Whitings plight is documented in a new book called "In Pain We Trust: A Conversation BetweenMother and Son on the Journey from Sickness to Health." The book will be released on Oct. 10.The idea for the book came after Kevins duodenojejunostomy, which is an operation that forms apassage between the beginning and middle of the small intestine."The last time the surgery had been done at Primary Childrens Hospital was 10 years ago but at thatpoint, Kevin was taller than five feet and weighed only 65 pounds," Vicki said.After the surgery, Kevin still was being nourished through a pick line that ran through his veins, saidVicki Whiting."We spent a lot of time in the car going from doctor appointments to school," she said. "Usually hisspirits were high, but one particular day, they werent and he said, maybe there was some way we couldmake it so someone didnt have to go through what he did."The idea stuck with Vicki, who is a professor at Westminster College, and she decided to write a book."Since I do write as part of my occupation and my articles are meant to inform and share ideas, it wasthe only thing I had to share from my skill set," she said.The book was different than writing about mentorships, global leaderships and social entrepreneurshiparticles she was used to writing, but in some ways easier."Kevin and I both felt we had an important story to share," she said. "We felt it could make a differencefor other kids who may be suffering through chronic, complex illnesses, or who were having troublehaving their voices heard as they worked through the medical system."At other times, it was more difficult."Going back through and reliving the painful story and realizing at many junctures, the outcome couldhave been much different, was hard for us," Vicki said. "My husband Jeff would come home and knowwe had been writing because of the heaviness in the air."Kevin had a difficult time writing because it brought back scary events that he had tried to block out ofhis mind.Iwasaki, Scott. "New Book Chronicles Familys Medical Plight." The Park Record. The ParkRecord, 30 Sept. 2011. Web. 22 Mar. 2013.
"It did help therapeutically, though," he said. "It also put forward memories that I didnt recall, becausesometimes when something happened I was trying to distract myself form the pain or I was so druggedup that I didnt remember."However, the writing sessions were important to both, so they continued."Because the book is chronological, I would write my section and tell Kevin what I was writing aboutand ask him about his takes on the events," Vicki said. "He would give me his story or essay and Iwould transcribe it or edit it. To have Kevins voice in the book is brilliant and I think is a contributionthat I havent found anywhere else."Another challenge was knowing when not to open the door too wide on the familys privacy."I tend to live my life pretty open, so it wasnt hard for me to write my part, but the tricky part of it allis the fact that its the story of our family," Vicki said. "My husband tends to be the one who makes itthrough a problem and march forward, and still its hard for him to see the pictures. My oldest son,Philip is a private person, and then we have our youngest daughter Katie, so we had to make sure wewerent bringing in aspects of our private life that others would feel uncomfortable having out in thepublic."Book publishers had different ideas of how to distribute the book."McGraw-Hill publishers saw it playing a role in nursing school as a comprehensive case to go alongwith a nursing fundamentals text," Vicki said. "So we ultimately left it up to Kevin to choose.""I thought the book meant more as a story than as a text," he said. "As a text, no one would attach tothe characters as much."So the family chose to publish through Blooming Twig Books, which will release it as a story.Having the book published helped Vicki deal with some of the uncertainties she faced during the crisis."I realize now that I did make the best choices I could have at the time," she said. "Even if people dontbuy the book, its documented so people like Kevins kids and his grandkids can know who he is."Kevin still hopes the book will help parents, doctors and children listen to each other."Id like it to helps a doctor be more compassionate with a patient or help with a parent navigate theIwasaki, Scott. "New Book Chronicles Familys Medical Plight." The Park Record. The ParkRecord, 30 Sept. 2011. Web. 22 Mar. 2013.
medical system or have a kid deal with their own pains," he said."In Pain We Trust" will be available Oct. 10 at www.amazon.com and byvisiting www.vickiwhiting.com.Iwasaki, Scott. "New Book Chronicles Familys Medical Plight." The Park Record. The ParkRecord, 30 Sept. 2011. Web. 22 Mar. 2013.