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A Arte De Educar Com Limites, Sem Medo De Errar.

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A Educação só será proveitosa se houver firmeza dos pais e dos adultos em geral. Limites; eis a palavra-chave.

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A Arte De Educar Com Limites, Sem Medo De Errar.

  1. 1. Prof. Dílson Catarino [email_address] www.gramaticaonline.com.br A Arte de educar com limites, sem medo de errar.
  2. 2. <ul><li>Pesquisa realizada em BH com pais de alunos de </li></ul><ul><li>escolas particulares, em agosto de 2005: </li></ul><ul><li>28% querem que seus filhos cursem Medicina; </li></ul><ul><li>22%, Direito </li></ul><ul><li>21%, Odontologia </li></ul><ul><li>18%, Jornalismo </li></ul><ul><li>11%, os demais cursos. </li></ul><ul><li>Fonte: Instituto Gallup de Opinião </li></ul>Que queremos para nossos filhos?
  3. 3. Que queremos de nossos filhos? <ul><li>Cobranças demasiadas; </li></ul><ul><li>Críticas infundadas; </li></ul><ul><li>Castigos inadequados; </li></ul><ul><li>As crianças precisam mais de modelos do que </li></ul><ul><li>de críticas. </li></ul><ul><li>(Joseph Joubert – Filósofo francês – Séc. XVIII) </li></ul>
  4. 4. <ul><li>Não se deve educar com a preocupação de dar o melhor possível, pois somos apenas pessoas normais. </li></ul><ul><li>Deve-se, sim, usar bom senso. </li></ul><ul><li>As crianças têm personalidades e ritmos diferentes. </li></ul><ul><li>Não se pode lidar com todas elas usando os mesmos métodos . </li></ul>uma criança = outra criança / Educar é fácil, pois não
  5. 5. <ul><li>E sim primar pela </li></ul>Ter bom senso não é buscar a perfeição DISCIPLINA .
  6. 6. Disciplina <ul><li>Arte de ensinar os comportamentos apropriados. </li></ul><ul><li>Processo pelo qual se aprendem os limites das </li></ul><ul><li>ações aceitáveis, pois... </li></ul>... quando se sabe quais são seus limites, sente-se mais seguro. <ul><li>Não pode haver direito sem a correspondente </li></ul><ul><li>prestação de deveres, nem privilégio </li></ul><ul><li>sem responsabilidades. </li></ul>
  7. 7. Como estabelecer limites <ul><li>Ser Sensato; agir com bom senso : </li></ul><ul><li>Conhecer as capacidades da criança, antes de </li></ul><ul><li>estabelecer expectativas a respeito delas. </li></ul><ul><li>Ser Explícito; falar com clareza : </li></ul><ul><li>As crianças podem não compreender as idéias que os adultos tentam comunicar. Permita que a criança repita </li></ul><ul><li>as exigências, usando suas próprias palavras. </li></ul>
  8. 8. <ul><li>Ser Firme : </li></ul><ul><li>Estabeleça regras necessárias e importantes, </li></ul><ul><li>cumpra-as e faça-as ser cumpridas </li></ul><ul><li>Ser Justo : </li></ul><ul><li>As crianças têm de saber o que pode acontecer </li></ul><ul><li>quando desobedecem às normas. As conseqüências deveriam ser o ensinamento, e não a punição </li></ul>Como estabelecer limites
  9. 9. <ul><li>Ser Paciente : </li></ul><ul><li>Educar leva tempo não só para os adultos, mas </li></ul><ul><li>também para as crianças. </li></ul><ul><li>Ser orientado no sentido de preservar a criança : </li></ul><ul><li>Os limites servem para orientar, e não para provar </li></ul><ul><li>quem manda </li></ul>Como estabelecer limites SISTEMA MAXI DE ENSINO
  10. 10. Assim não se educa: <ul><li>Ameaças vazias ou exageradas : </li></ul><ul><ul><li>ameaças que não serão cumpridas. </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Dizer uma coisa; fazer outra : </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Isso ensina a criança a ser manipuladora e </li></ul></ul><ul><ul><li>a não acreditar no que se diz. </li></ul></ul>
  11. 11. <ul><li>Pergunte a seu pai / Pergunte a sua mãe : </li></ul><ul><ul><li>Isso produz artistas em trapaças. </li></ul></ul><ul><li>Reações diferentes a situações idênticas : </li></ul><ul><ul><li>A criança fica confusa e insegura. </li></ul></ul>Assim não se educa:
  12. 12. Assim se educa “ Ser Inteligente é ter capacidade de resolver problemas” (Howard Gardner) Ensinar os jovens a resolver seus problemas, pois…
  13. 13. Ser afetivo com os jovens, pois... A afetividade é a mola propulsora das ações. É o que atribui valor às atividades. N ecessita , porém, da inteligência , que lhe fornece os meios e esclarece os fins. . (Jean Piaget) Assim se educa:
  14. 14. <ul><li>A afetividade e a inteligência constituem </li></ul><ul><li>um par inseparável na evolução psíquica. </li></ul><ul><li>(Henri Wallon) </li></ul>Ou seja... Devemos tornar-nos cidadãos exemplares, dedicando-nos a viver em paz, harmonia e afeição fraternal.
  15. 15. Punição: ter ou não ter? Eis a questão. <ul><li>Tarefa detestável, mas alguém precisa fazê-la. </li></ul><ul><li>Ela, porém, tem de ser... </li></ul>PUNIÇÃO CONSTRUTIVA
  16. 16. Punição construtiva <ul><li>Punição de custo ou por tempo : </li></ul><ul><li>Alguma atividade cotidiana: TV, computador, som...; </li></ul><ul><li>integralmente ou por alguns minutos, ou mesmo horas. </li></ul><ul><li>Sem recompensa : </li></ul>Oferece-se algo em troca do bom comportamento, que, se não houver, de forma alguma pode ser dado.
  17. 17. Tipos de recompensa <ul><li>Recompensa de atividades : </li></ul><ul><li>Qualquer atividade de que a criança goste. </li></ul><ul><li>Recompensas materiais : </li></ul><ul><li>Presentes de qualquer espécie </li></ul><ul><li>Recompensa de qualquer maneira : </li></ul><ul><li>Algo que a criança ganharia de qualquer maneira: </li></ul><ul><li>sapatos, roupas... </li></ul>
  18. 18. Tipos de recompensa <ul><li>Vales : </li></ul><ul><li>Algo (estrelas, adesivos, cruzes...) que representa </li></ul><ul><li>outra coisa mais importante ou que pode ser negociado </li></ul><ul><li>por atividade ou objeto. </li></ul><ul><li>Recompensas sociais : </li></ul><ul><li>Elogios, abraços, beijos, sorrisos, cumprimentos... </li></ul><ul><li>Essa recompensa tem de ser constante. </li></ul>
  19. 19. Quem sabe educar com limites, sem medo de errar, é bom educador. <ul><li>Ataca o problema sem atacar as pessoas. </li></ul><ul><li>Fortalece seus laços cada dia com alguns abraços. </li></ul>O Bom Educador...
  20. 20. O Bom Educador <ul><li>Não tem medo de ser firme com as crianças, e não promete o que não pode cumprir. </li></ul>
  21. 21. O Bom Educador <ul><li>Sabe que o importante da Educação não é o </li></ul><ul><li>Conhecimento dos fatos, mas sim dos... </li></ul>VALORES!
  22. 22. Ensinar e aprender é a nossa história

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