Secret To Successful Online Dating


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Secret To Successful Online Dating

  1. 1. Secret to Successful Online Dating
  2. 2. Do you want to know the secret of successful online dating? <ul><li>Individuals that are successful at online dating know how to do certain things. </li></ul><ul><li>They know how to communicate, </li></ul><ul><li>Know who to maximize their dating potentials; </li></ul><ul><li>They check the Internet and connect with others regularly. </li></ul>
  3. 3. Change Your Luck <ul><li>However like the real dating seen, many other many individuals using online dating sites, have about zero luck getting dates. </li></ul><ul><li>It can be you online ad that will either get you dates or keep you from them. </li></ul>
  4. 4. If you want to be successful don’t do any of the following online dating killers.
  5. 5. 1. Choose a lewd user name <ul><li>Your profile name is how people will see you. </li></ul><ul><li>You to use it to promote yourself so chose wisely. You do not want to use a lewd name. </li></ul><ul><li>So, if your user name is “nastybabe69” or “hungrywolfXXX,” then chances are, you won’t find a long-lasting mate. </li></ul><ul><li>Using such a name may get you attention but it is likely not really attention that you want. </li></ul><ul><li>You will likely just get a bunch of spammers emailing you. </li></ul><ul><li>Try and think of something intriguing that will generate some interest from other users. </li></ul><ul><li>Think about your good traits and then try and find one that you can spin off into a user name that will perk other people’s curiosities. </li></ul><ul><li>You still may get spammers but you likely get some genuinely interesting people to contact you. </li></ul>
  6. 6. 2. No partner requirements <ul><li>Remember you want to find a date with someone that you will get along with. </li></ul><ul><li>To do this you need to advertise what you are looking for. </li></ul><ul><li>If you don’t does this, who knows who you will end up with. </li></ul><ul><li>Also if you do not add partner requirements, others that are looking will likely ignore your ad. </li></ul><ul><li>This is because, just like you, they are looking for someone they are compatible with. </li></ul><ul><li>If you have no partner requirements, it becomes difficult for them to see if you may be interesting to them. </li></ul><ul><li>People don’t like difficult, they will always take the easy path. In this case, the easy path is to ignore your ad, because they don’t know anything about you. </li></ul><ul><li>It is like marketing, you do not want to waste your time and money advertising to a large group that will not buy. </li></ul><ul><li>You want to advertise to a smaller group that you know will buy. </li></ul>
  7. 7. 3. No photo <ul><li>  You will want to include a photo unless you are using a service like Ashley Madison which caters to people looking to have affairs. </li></ul><ul><li>If you are married, you can check them out here. You can join if you are single too. </li></ul><ul><li>Most of the other people using the service will post a photo. </li></ul><ul><li>This helps people to find others that they are attracted too. </li></ul><ul><li>If you have no photo, people will assume there is a reason for that and will likely ignore your ad. </li></ul><ul><li>Do not use some one else’s photo. </li></ul><ul><li>The point is to get a date and at some point you will have to meet that person so they will see the real you. </li></ul><ul><li>Now remember you are advertising though. You should use the best possible photo that you can. </li></ul><ul><li>You want the photo to be a picture of you but you also want that photo to be the best photo of you. </li></ul><ul><li>You may want to use a service like glamour shots or something similar because they will bring your best face forward. </li></ul><ul><li>It will be money well spent. </li></ul><ul><li>  </li></ul>
  8. 8. 4. Don’t email or reply prospective mates <ul><li>You really just cannot sit back and wait for someone to find you. </li></ul><ul><li>If you are spending money on a dating service then, you will need to initiate contact with people that you are interested in. </li></ul><ul><li>Many online dating sites enable you to send a message to a prospective mate. </li></ul><ul><li>You should remember one thing. </li></ul><ul><li>Most “sales” are gained by following up. </li></ul><ul><li>So make sure you follow up your initial message with at follow up message. </li></ul><ul><li>If you follow up, I bet that you success rate increases dramatically. </li></ul>
  9. 9. 5. Keep your ad bare <ul><li>Again you need to sell yourself and your assets. </li></ul><ul><li>You also want to target people that you will be attracted to and not those that you will not be attracted to. </li></ul><ul><li>You need to put in your personal information to ensure that you can find good potential dates. </li></ul><ul><li>Also it is this information along with the rest of the ad that will spark interest and hopefully get potential dates to contact you. </li></ul>
  10. 10. 6. You place your ad and never go back to the website again. <ul><li>  Like any marketing you need to track and analyze your results. </li></ul><ul><li>Are you getting the response that you wanted? </li></ul><ul><li>If not then you should go back and make a slight change to your ad. </li></ul><ul><li>Do not change the whole thing, just make one little change. </li></ul><ul><li>See if that change leads to more success. </li></ul><ul><li>If not then go back and make another small change and see if that works. </li></ul><ul><li>What you want to do is nail down, what works and what doesn’t. </li></ul><ul><li>You do this by tracking your changes and over time you will get a really good idea of what works and what doesn’t for your target market (people you would be interested in). </li></ul>
  11. 11. <ul><li>Once you get your add to the point where you are getting the response that you wanted, you still should try and update it occasionally to see if you can get an even better response. </li></ul><ul><li>Also you will see that your success will change over time. </li></ul><ul><li>What worked a few months ago, may not be working now. </li></ul><ul><li>You should then make and change like you did previously to find out what is currently working. </li></ul><ul><li>This is continuous process and you will have to keep re-evaluating the market place. </li></ul>