Thematic Table Topic:      “Perceptive Communication”                              April 21, 2010                         ...
Topic: Communicating Mindfully           “Reflective Listening Skill”     • Mindfulness:         1) Being fully present in...
The Purpose of Today’s Topic                  Develop ways of                   pulling yourself                  into the...
Key Factor: Identification of           feeling, values and issues     • It sounds like you’re really concerned about your...
Combination of Key Factor                to Mindfulness     • How-To         “Emotional Intelligence”           { self-awa...
Examples of Positive Feeling      Accepted; appreciated;               encouraged; elated;       apprehensive           ...
Examples of Negative Feeling      abandoned;alienate;alone  ashamed      accused;attacked; blamed  awkward      afrai...
Example of Values      acceptance                             creativity      accomplishment;success                 d...
Reference     • Reflective Listening Skill           SIRU Conflict Resolution Workshop hosted by           Robbi: www.com...
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Perceptive Communication Skills

  1. 1. Thematic Table Topic: “Perceptive Communication” April 21, 2010 Topic Master: VP of Education Kim, Sung-JinSU TOAST,Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
  2. 2. Topic: Communicating Mindfully “Reflective Listening Skill” • Mindfulness: 1) Being fully present in the moment 2) Seeing things as they are without trying to change them • Reflective Listening: “A skill that involves listening intently for an individual’s feelings and values, as well as the issue(s) to be resolved”SU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
  3. 3. The Purpose of Today’s Topic Develop ways of pulling yourself into the presentSU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
  4. 4. Key Factor: Identification of feeling, values and issues • It sounds like you’re really concerned about your girl friend and her safety is important to you. Is this right? • It sounds like you’re annoyed that your neighbor wants you to keep it down while you’re having a ball at night, and you appreciate it your personal choice. Did I get that?SU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
  5. 5. Combination of Key Factor to Mindfulness • How-To “Emotional Intelligence” { self-awareness, resilience, empathy }SU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
  6. 6. Examples of Positive Feeling  Accepted; appreciated;  encouraged; elated; apprehensive enthused;exhilarated  balanced;connected  focused  cared for;supported  grateful; gratified  comfortable  hopeful  confident; proud  relieved  delighted; happy  responsible; secure  deserving;respected  sympathetic  eager, anxious • NegativeSU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
  7. 7. Examples of Negative Feeling  abandoned;alienate;alone  ashamed  accused;attacked; blamed  awkward  afraid;fearful; frightened;  beaten;defeated terrified  bewildered  annoyed;agitated;aggravat  bored ed;angry;bitter;infuriated  burned out;drained ambivalent;uncertain  compromised  anxious; concerned  crushed;devastated  confused  desperate  cheated;betrayed  disappointed;disgusted  empty  overwhelemedSU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
  8. 8. Example of Values  acceptance  creativity  accomplishment;success  dependability  accuracy  independence  acknowledgement  discipline;self-control  appreciation  diversity;flexibility  belonging  fairness  cleanliness;neatness  family;friendship  consistency  integrity  commitment  personal choice  cooperation;teamwork  privacy  spontaneity  safetySU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International
  9. 9. Reference • Reflective Listening Skill  SIRU Conflict Resolution Workshop hosted by Robbi: www.communicating-mindfully.com • Mindfulness & Emotional Intelligence  Dan Huston’s materials  Daniel Goleman, “Emotional Intelligence”SU TOAST, Syracuse University Students Chapter of Toastmasters International

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