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Web i n a r S e r i e scenter for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us...
About The Center for Christian Life Enrichment (CLE) • Located in the northern suburbs of Chicago • 50+ years of experienc...
Christian Life Enrichment Staff                             Richard Blue                             M.A., LCPC, NCC      ...
Today’s Presenter: Gabriela Cantu,   M.A., LPC   • Therapist, speaker, and group leader at the     Center for Christian Li...
This is for You•Have you ever found yourself in themidst of a conflict with your child andwondered how in the world it all...
Getting Unhooked          •How do you cope when your          worry and fear shifts quickly to          upset and anger?  ...
Merging Drama and Triangles: •Murray Bowen, Triangulation and Family Systems Theory •Eric Berne and Transactional Analysis...
Karpman Drama Triangle Persecutor                                                                                         ...
Busting Through the Triangle                                                 •Using Positive Intent to Break out of       ...
Karpman Drama (free) Triangle  Persecutor =>                                                                              ...
Next Steps • Give us a call or email for a   complimentary 30-minute   consultation • Questions about:    o Counseling in ...
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Parenting the button pushing childe

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Does your family fall into familiar roles and scripts that hold you back?

Do you want more clarity in how you affect your children and vice versa?

Want to incorporate social and emotional intelligence in your parenting?

Learn how to generate more responsibility and nourishment in your family. Lead with your engagement, wants, and needs to develop more fulfilling family dynamics. Find out how to extricate yourself from drama and discover how your family operates as a system.

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Parenting the button pushing childe

  1. 1. Web i n a r S e r i e scenter for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  2. 2. About The Center for Christian Life Enrichment (CLE) • Located in the northern suburbs of Chicago • 50+ years of experience and a decade of graduate education between our 5 therapists • Emotionally-focused approach to counseling • Cutting edge blend of psychology and Christian principles center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  3. 3. Christian Life Enrichment Staff Richard Blue M.A., LCPC, NCC Clinical Director rich.blue@cle.us.com Andrew Mercer (847) 272-3684, ext. 14 M.A., LPC www.outoftheblueblog.us andrew.mercer@cle.us.com LinkedIn (847) 272-3684, ext. 17 www.askmerce.com Nancy Rollins M.S., LCPC, NCC nancy.rollins@cle.us.com (847) 272-3684, ext. 13 Jon Noto M.A., LPC jonathan.noto@cle.us.com (847) 272-3684, ext. 11 Gabriela Caballero Cantú www.growinginfaith.net M.A., LPC gabriela.cantu@cle.us.com (847) 272-3684, ext. 15center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  4. 4. Today’s Presenter: Gabriela Cantu, M.A., LPC • Therapist, speaker, and group leader at the Center for Christian Life Enrichment • Working with individuals, families, and couples to discover a greater sense of life purpose and meaning • Speciality in multi and cross-cultural counseling • Leading dynamic growth-focused groups • Wife and Mother of threecenter for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  5. 5. This is for You•Have you ever found yourself in themidst of a conflict with your child andwondered how in the world it all started?•Have you ever reacted to your child moreharshly than the situation called for?•Have you ever been so upset bysomething so little that you knew theremust be more going on?center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  6. 6. Getting Unhooked •How do you cope when your worry and fear shifts quickly to upset and anger? •What does it mean to be hooked anyway? •What tools can you use to help?center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  7. 7. Merging Drama and Triangles: •Murray Bowen, Triangulation and Family Systems Theory •Eric Berne and Transactional Analysis •History of the Drama Triangle •What is Drama in the First Place?center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  8. 8. Karpman Drama Triangle Persecutor Rescuer• Bully • Co-Dependants• Needs to be Right • Care-takers• Threaten • Problem Solvers• Blame • Over-Protective• Punish • Fixers• Withdraw Victim • Incapable • Defeated • Poor Me • Mistreatedcenter for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  9. 9. Busting Through the Triangle •Using Positive Intent to Break out of the Triangle •Ask yourself, “What positive ‘thing’ is the victim, rescuer, and persecutor going for?”center for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  10. 10. Karpman Drama (free) Triangle Persecutor => Rescuer => Tell the Truth Empower Others Victim => Express Their Feelingscenter for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com
  11. 11. Next Steps • Give us a call or email for a complimentary 30-minute consultation • Questions about: o Counseling in general (is it right for me?) o Fees & Insurance o The content you heard today • (847) 272-3684 (ext. 150 for Gabriela) • gabrieal.cantu@cle.us.comcenter for christian life enrichment | 3100 dundee rd. ste. 102 | northbrook, il 60062 | www.cle.us.com

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