During a photo exhibit, I overheard the photographer saying: “ To photograph a naked woman, you need to love women”. I smiled, because to my mind that seemed kind of obvious... But before anyone commented, he finished the thought:
<ul><li>“ Not love in the sexual sense, </li></ul><ul><li>to have a hardon for naked women, </li></ul><ul><li>that kind of thing. </li></ul><ul><li>That can be done too. </li></ul><ul><li>But I mean to love women, </li></ul><ul><li>in a deeper sense.” </li></ul>
G ostar do universo feminino. Observar que cada calcinha é única, tem uma rendinha diferente e ficar entretido com isso - afirmou. “ To love the feminine universe. To observe that each pantie is unique, with a different lace, and be entertained by it!” - he stated.
It’s not enough to be straight and manly. To really love a woman, other rare requirements are needed. That’s why the girls are going around so unsatisfied. Sensitivity is fundamental. Patience too.
The man that has no patience to listen to a woman’s need to talk or sensitivity to conquer her everyday, doesn’t love women. He might enjoy having sex with women. But that’s quite different.
To love a woman is something deeper. It’s to enter her universe, To delight in the way she accounts every minute of her work day. To behold her in awe of the feminine body, curves, hair, breasts.
But also, to cultivate womanly wisdom, her intuition; to admire her smile, which is much more spontaneous than ours.
To love a woman is to want to make her happy. To offer flowers without any special reason except to watch her smile. It’s to listen patiently to all her complaints. A man that loves a woman isn’t worried about how many women he’s made love to, but rather to the quality of love he’s made.
How many women did he sexually fulfill, making them feel wanted, desired, loved, unique, goddesses, in bed, as well as in life. A men that loves women, doesn’t “make love” to a woman. He penetrates not only her body, but her soul as well, breathing, feeling, loving every little corner of her body and of her being.
“ To live a great love affair, it’s necessary to belong completely to your lady” wrote the poet Vinícius de Moraes; To trully love a woman, the man must be totally faithfull...betray her, never! Love her to the roots of her hair!
To admire her, to let yourself fall in love with her smile every morning when you wake-up...and specially, to conquer her, to seduce her, always as if for the first time.
The man that has no patience, no drive, nor any “know-how” to seduce his woman many times over, have no illusions – he doesn’t like women at all. To conquer a woman’s body and soul is something so gratifying that has to be tried several times.
Some men that don’t like women, want to conquer several women. Those that like women, conquer the same woman several times.
And that gratifies us, strengthens us, and gives us a new dimension. The dimension of poetry; of love in its utter instance; of the inpenetrable feminine universe.
To love a woman is to penetrate her universe, not hold her in captivity, but rather free her, and admire her unsurpassable freedom.
Listen closely to the lyrics of this music: “ Have you ever really loved a woman?” - (Bryan Adams) Perfect!
As you can see, to love to make love to a woman is easy. But to really love a woman... well, that’s not so easy!... But it can be done, if you’re a real man!