Some people, no matter
what you say or do, they
They simply dislike
finds always a
reason to be
In the other hand, there
is people who always
finds a reason to be
optimisic, who are
It is well known, that when the NASA makes a
selection to send people to space, they take well
care of their Optimistic Coeficient.
Could you imagine flying to the
moon with a pesimistic?
Das wird nie funktionieren! Das ist unmöglich! Das haben wir noch nie anders gemacht!
It will never work!.......This is impossible!..............................
..........................................We never did it this way!.....
Are we born
Or is it
When you tell a child that
next morning you are going
...it will not able to sleep, and
at 3 in the morning will
awaken you, asking: are we
...when you tell your wife you
are going to beach, she will
say...it will rain...it will be
What has happened to us?
When you start at a new
job, you are excited, you
stand up early morning,
have all your things
ready .............And now?
We live in a world on which
people think that you are not
rational, if you are happy.
We live in a world, that people
think that you are not working
if you are laughing.
A negative attitude is like a flat tire:
your life will not go on until you replace it.
To get lasting
results on it, it
is needed to
work on two
One thing is clear:
Your life will not
change if you do
not change it
Sitting and waiting
will not work.
It is up to us, if
we allow to be
There is people
who give you
others steal it
No one can make you to have a miserable life. It is you who chooses to allow them to do it.
How to identify a negative Person?
Is always the victim
Only speaks about its own problems
Makes nothing to progress
Takes no responsabilities
Lies and hides
Is against changes
Searches and shows others failures
Is never wrong
Happy with others miseries
First of all, a
negative person is
like a hunchbaked:
does not see its
„Nobody can get out of his own
Labyrinth with a foreign key“
You will never win a
discussion with a
Is only concerned about
its own interest.
Will only listen to talk
With these people you
better avoid any
for misfortune sticks like
“You will never reach
your destination if you
stop and throw stones
at every dog that
The only thing on we
have real control, is on
our own thoughts.
Be careful with your own
Your unconscious is
has no sense of humor,
and will take it seriously.
In order to
we need to
have a deeper
look at our
Human brain has 3 levels.
1-Reptilian brain. Takes care of all life sustain and reproductive processes, it
regulates autonomous vital body processes such as breathing, heartbeat and
2-Limbic System is responsible for emotions, memories (yes, they are there),
and is where our unconscious resides.
3-Neo Cortex. Here sensations are processed, here we are thinking and develop
plans; actions such as walking, speaking or writing, are to be controlled here,
and is where our conscious resides.
Reptilian brain is not interested in our mood or will.
Only in our survival.
As a perfect boss, will control us and let us do, as long as we do
not act against our own survival.
It will give us hints when
we do it wrong.
If we continue wrong, it
will have no other choice
than to stop us badly,
no matter what it takes.
Headaches and sleepless nights use to be the first symthoms
We need to take care of
We can‘t say our wife that
she is the most important
thing in our life, and put
on her a pig every night.
Even if she can be
reptilian brain will not,
and will send us an
as serious and/or
Therefore, after 35 years of age, it is a must having physical activity daily.
No excuses, no exceptions.
No one will love you
more than you do,
and no one will
respect you more
than you do
Your beloved ones will
you will be happier, and
your reptilian brain will
allow you going on.
The limbic system.
Here is where our
reside. And more
In a disorderly
manner, receives all
virtually with no
filter or barrier.
Remember, it is
can be carried
Therefore, be extremely careful about how and with what are you feeding it.
We are not what we are.
We are what we want to be.
Fate is not written.
Brain does not understand the
difference between fiction and reality.
Only sees what it wants to see.
Therefore, we can master our future.
Let us see how it works
If last night you dreamed you spent whole night with Claudia
or Antonio, your brain will not notice if it was true or not.
You will feel exactly as if you effectively did.
If you are to select someone for your company,
added to professional skills..
would you not choose someone cheerful, enthusiastic, tolerant,
good worker, dynamic, good communicator, with joy for life?
If you are to select someone for your life,added to having common interests..
would you not choose someone cheerful, enthusiastic, tolerant, good worker, dynamic,
good communicator, with joy for life?
To be someone
tolerant, good worker,
joy for life...
Are these things to be
learned in a school,
or attitudes you can
If you would select
such a person, it is
logical to think that
the rest of the world
would do the same.
So it is obvious that
when you are choosing
you are choosing your
You attract to your life and are attracted by similar to you
Whenever bad things will happen in your life, ask yourself why did they happen,
learn from it , and make the needful changes. This way you will master your entire life.
The people just complaining about having bad luck, are victims,
and acting as a victim, no one is able to get it changed
Cortex: Our rational brain. In regards with attitude, its only function is to justify and make
possible the decisions taken in our subconscious.
Its intellectual development is as
From 0 to 3 years of age, up to 65%
From 3 to 6 years of age, up to 85%
From 6 to 12 years of age, up to 98%
From that point, you learn nothing or
almost nothing relevant.
After 12 years old, 12.000 brain cells will
Bad news, our brain is not prepared to
last 95 years.
Do not allow your brain to fall in inactivity.
Read, read and read. Do not stop learning.
Is the only defense we have today against Alzheimer.
Alzheimer is a neural-degenerative
illness, due to the loss of acetylcholine,
the substance that allows our brain
cells to inter communicate.
Learning and reading promote and
strengthen these interconnections.
The later you start to “exercise” your
brain, the more probabilities you have
to get this illness at a young age.
And above all, you owe it to you
beloved ones, your husband, your
wife, your children.
Nobody is ready to share its live with an Idiot along 50 years
Remember: We are born to be happy…
…not to be perfect.
Everything that makes us happy, to laugh, to dance,
to jump, to make love, will mess your hair…
All humans smile in the
Our lack of happiness due to the things we don’t have,
has its inception in the lack of gratitude for the things we do have.
“You can only be always happy, if you are able to be happy with anything” Confucio
“Kindness is the language the deaf can hear and the blind can see” Mark Twain
Only do the things you feel passion by doing them
Above all, if ithe ways seems to be tricky, maybe is simply because you are in the right way.
When we try to be better than we are, our surroundings will be better too.
You are free to choose, and to take decisions, even if you are the only who understands them.
Take your decisions with courage, generosity and a little of madness.
We will only understand life if we stop looking for explanations.
To learn means to enter in a unknown world, where the most simple things use to be the most
Be ready to change, to challenge yourself.
Don’t be afraid of challenges. Keep going on and on.
Remember that without faith, a battle can be lost even if it seemed it was won.
Make sure to always remember what you want, and what you don’t.
And start again.
The secret resides on not being afraid to be wrong, and to know that it is a must to be humble to learn.
Be patient to wait for the exact moment, and congratulate for your achievements.
And if this was not enough, analize the causes, and try again with even more strength.
The world is the hand of those who are brave enough to dream and take the risk to live their own dreams.
Emilio Duró. “Optimismo e Ilusión” Conference in YouTube in Spanish
Dr. John Bargh, Yale’s University Psicologist, http://www.yale.edu/acmelab/
Eduard Punset “Viaje al Optimismo” https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eduard_Punset
G.H.Eggetsberger Gerhard_H._Eggetsberger on Wikipedia
Paul MacLean https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_D._MacLean
John Grinder https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Grinder
Richard Bandler https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Bandler
Chris Hadfield An Astronaut Guide to Optimism
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Do not miss the second part „Kein Bock reloaded“,
Where we will have a deeper look at the issue.
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