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CREATE INFLUENCE
ON DEMAND
Rapid Rapport:
@berniemaloney 1
INCREASE COMMUNICATION
EFFECTIVENESS UP TO 5X
What you get:
@berniemaloney 2
WOULD IT BE OK TO SEE A DEMO?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YcTgjR5iV1Y
@berniemaloney 3
@berniemaloney 4
Bernie Maloney, CSP
PE, CSM, CSPO
Master Practitioner
Neuro Linguistic Programming
Agile Coach
Accelerati...
I’VE GOT GOOD NEWS & BAD NEWS
@berniemaloney 5
@berniemaloney 6
@berniemaloney 7
OUTLINE
Outcome: Recognize and Practice
Verbal Technology to Create Influence On Demand
• Why: Significance and Basis
• Ho...
WHY = FIRST IMPRESSIONS MATTER
Before Confirmation Bias
@berniemaloney 9
Does the 1st 60 seconds really matter?
@berniemaloney 10
Ever had a telemarketer call?
@berniemaloney 11
& you asked to hear more?
@berniemaloney 12
Even socially
@berniemaloney 13
Confirmation Bias
@berniemaloney 14
HOW: APPLICATIONS IN TECHNOLOGY TEAMS
@berniemaloney 15
Communication Goes (way, way, way) Beyond Words
e.g. Ray Birdwhistle, University of Pennsylvania
Verbal vectors:
@berniema...
Translating into (Agile) Practice
@berniemaloney 17
7%
@berniemaloney 18
35+%
@berniemaloney 19
55%
@berniemaloney 20
5X? OR 10X?
What if teams increase communication effectiveness by even half this?
@berniemaloney 21
@berniemaloney 22
THE TIP? LOWER UNCONSCIOUS BARRIERS
@berniemaloney 23
The Principle
@berniemaloney 24
Build Rapport: Offer similar patterns
Tonality (35+%!)
Words (7%): keys to how people represent information – another talk...
Pair off: Verbal Mirroring & Matching
Keep statements short (get multiple practice exchanges)
Person A: Start with a Quest...
Insights: Verbal Mirroring & Matching
@berniemaloney 27
WHAT’S BEHIND THIS?
Get the Abstraction
@berniemaloney 28
It began in the Santa Cruz Mountains…
@berniemaloney 29
Virginia Satir’s Change Model
@berniemaloney 30
Principle: Success Leaves Footprints
@berniemaloney 31
NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION
@berniemaloney 32
NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION
@berniemaloney 33
2B bps info
2MB (~16 Mb)
(HD 1920x1080)
@berniemaloney 34
NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION
@berniemaloney 35
2B bps info
NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION
@berniemaloney 36
2B bps info
Conscious Mind processes
~134 bps
in groups of
7 +/- 2 “chunks”
132 b
(12 px by 11 px)
@berniemaloney 37
NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION
@berniemaloney 38
2B bps info
Conscious Mind processes
~134 bps
in groups of
7 +/- 2 “chunks”
D...
NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION
Unconscious Programming = Barrier: Friend or Foe? Fight or Flight?
@berniemaloney 39
2B bps inf...
Keep statements short (get multiple practice exchanges)
Question || Short Response || Question back
Keep movements gentle,...
Insights: Physical Mirroring & Matching
@berniemaloney 41
@berniemaloney 42
Keep statements short (get multiple practice exchanges)
Question || Short Response || Question back
Keep movements gentle,...
Insights: Pacing & Leading
@berniemaloney 44
BONUS (time permitting): Mis-Matching
Keep statements short
Person A: State an insight from this or another source today
P...
Insights: Verbal Mis-Matching
@berniemaloney 46
SUMMARY
@berniemaloney 47
TWO TYPES OF STUDENTS
@berniemaloney 48
@berniemaloney 49
@berniemaloney 50
DECIDE: WHICH TYPE ARE YOU?
@berniemaloney 51
Communication Goes (way, way, way) Beyond Words
Tonality (35+%!)
Words (7%): keys to how people represent information
Phys...
Building Rapport Lowers Unconscious Barriers
@berniemaloney 53
35+%: Observe & Signal Rapport by Verbal Matching
Tone, Pitch
Tempo: Speed & Cadence
Timbre
Volume
@berniemaloney 54
RESOURCES
Seminal Work:
Richard Bandler & John Grinder,
Frogs into Princes
For a far easier Introduction:
Michael Brooks,
...
APPLIED RESOURCES
FOR THOSE WHO LEAD
A practical application to inspire action:
Simon Sinek
Start With Why
A guide leverag...
START RIGHT NOW
@berniemaloney 57
@berniemaloney 58
Bernie Maloney, CSP
PE, CSM, CSPO
bit.ly/speedmygenius
Agile Coach
Accelerating Genius
Turning Strategie...
FIN
Ut Prosim. Namaste.
@berniemaloney 59
@berniemaloney 60
IMAGES
• Carrot
http://www.channelweb.co.uk/IMG/857/190857/carrot-on-
stick.jpg
• Great Dane / Terrier
http://www.dogguide...
IMAGES
• Spyglass
http://www.garabatosydibujos.com/wp-
content/uploads/2015/01/conocer.jpg
• Santa Cruz Mountains
https://...
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Create Influence, On Demand

  1. 1. CREATE INFLUENCE ON DEMAND Rapid Rapport: @berniemaloney 1
  2. 2. INCREASE COMMUNICATION EFFECTIVENESS UP TO 5X What you get: @berniemaloney 2
  3. 3. WOULD IT BE OK TO SEE A DEMO? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YcTgjR5iV1Y @berniemaloney 3
  4. 4. @berniemaloney 4 Bernie Maloney, CSP PE, CSM, CSPO Master Practitioner Neuro Linguistic Programming Agile Coach Accelerating Genius Turning Strategies into Results From Startup to Beyond $100M
  5. 5. I’VE GOT GOOD NEWS & BAD NEWS @berniemaloney 5
  6. 6. @berniemaloney 6
  7. 7. @berniemaloney 7
  8. 8. OUTLINE Outcome: Recognize and Practice Verbal Technology to Create Influence On Demand • Why: Significance and Basis • How: Applications in Technology Teams • What’s Behind This: Get the Abstraction • Summary & Resources @berniemaloney 8
  9. 9. WHY = FIRST IMPRESSIONS MATTER Before Confirmation Bias @berniemaloney 9
  10. 10. Does the 1st 60 seconds really matter? @berniemaloney 10
  11. 11. Ever had a telemarketer call? @berniemaloney 11
  12. 12. & you asked to hear more? @berniemaloney 12
  13. 13. Even socially @berniemaloney 13
  14. 14. Confirmation Bias @berniemaloney 14
  15. 15. HOW: APPLICATIONS IN TECHNOLOGY TEAMS @berniemaloney 15
  16. 16. Communication Goes (way, way, way) Beyond Words e.g. Ray Birdwhistle, University of Pennsylvania Verbal vectors: @berniemaloney 16 55% 38% 7% Physiology Tonality Words Tone, Pitch Tempo: Speed & Cadence Timbre Volume
  17. 17. Translating into (Agile) Practice @berniemaloney 17
  18. 18. 7% @berniemaloney 18
  19. 19. 35+% @berniemaloney 19
  20. 20. 55% @berniemaloney 20
  21. 21. 5X? OR 10X? What if teams increase communication effectiveness by even half this? @berniemaloney 21
  22. 22. @berniemaloney 22
  23. 23. THE TIP? LOWER UNCONSCIOUS BARRIERS @berniemaloney 23
  24. 24. The Principle @berniemaloney 24
  25. 25. Build Rapport: Offer similar patterns Tonality (35+%!) Words (7%): keys to how people represent information – another talk Physiological (55%!) @berniemaloney 25 --------------------- ---------------------
  26. 26. Pair off: Verbal Mirroring & Matching Keep statements short (get multiple practice exchanges) Person A: Start with a Question Person B: Short response, using similar verbal behaviors > Question Switch roles at signal @berniemaloney 26 Tone, Pitch Tempo: Speed & Cadence Timbre Volume
  27. 27. Insights: Verbal Mirroring & Matching @berniemaloney 27
  28. 28. WHAT’S BEHIND THIS? Get the Abstraction @berniemaloney 28
  29. 29. It began in the Santa Cruz Mountains… @berniemaloney 29
  30. 30. Virginia Satir’s Change Model @berniemaloney 30
  31. 31. Principle: Success Leaves Footprints @berniemaloney 31
  32. 32. NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION @berniemaloney 32
  33. 33. NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION @berniemaloney 33 2B bps info
  34. 34. 2MB (~16 Mb) (HD 1920x1080) @berniemaloney 34
  35. 35. NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION @berniemaloney 35 2B bps info
  36. 36. NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION @berniemaloney 36 2B bps info Conscious Mind processes ~134 bps in groups of 7 +/- 2 “chunks”
  37. 37. 132 b (12 px by 11 px) @berniemaloney 37
  38. 38. NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION @berniemaloney 38 2B bps info Conscious Mind processes ~134 bps in groups of 7 +/- 2 “chunks” Delete Distort Generalize
  39. 39. NLP MODEL OF COMMUNICATION Unconscious Programming = Barrier: Friend or Foe? Fight or Flight? @berniemaloney 39 2B bps info Conscious Mind processes ~134 bps in groups of 7 +/- 2 “chunks” Delete Distort Generalize
  40. 40. Keep statements short (get multiple practice exchanges) Question || Short Response || Question back Keep movements gentle, and when noticed, offer similar behavior Pair off: Layer in Physical Mirroring & Matching @berniemaloney 40 Tone, Pitch Tempo: Speed & Cadence Timbre Volume
  41. 41. Insights: Physical Mirroring & Matching @berniemaloney 41
  42. 42. @berniemaloney 42
  43. 43. Keep statements short (get multiple practice exchanges) Question || Short Response || Question back Keep movements gentle, once physical rapport noticed, shift a little & observe Pair off: Pacing & Leading @berniemaloney 43
  44. 44. Insights: Pacing & Leading @berniemaloney 44
  45. 45. BONUS (time permitting): Mis-Matching Keep statements short Person A: State an insight from this or another source today Person B: Respond using VERY DIFFERENT verbal behaviors Switch roles at signal @berniemaloney 45 Tone, Pitch Tempo: Speed & Cadence Timbre Volume
  46. 46. Insights: Verbal Mis-Matching @berniemaloney 46
  47. 47. SUMMARY @berniemaloney 47
  48. 48. TWO TYPES OF STUDENTS @berniemaloney 48
  49. 49. @berniemaloney 49
  50. 50. @berniemaloney 50
  51. 51. DECIDE: WHICH TYPE ARE YOU? @berniemaloney 51
  52. 52. Communication Goes (way, way, way) Beyond Words Tonality (35+%!) Words (7%): keys to how people represent information Physiological (55%!) @berniemaloney 52 55% 38% 7% Physiology Tonality Words
  53. 53. Building Rapport Lowers Unconscious Barriers @berniemaloney 53
  54. 54. 35+%: Observe & Signal Rapport by Verbal Matching Tone, Pitch Tempo: Speed & Cadence Timbre Volume @berniemaloney 54
  55. 55. RESOURCES Seminal Work: Richard Bandler & John Grinder, Frogs into Princes For a far easier Introduction: Michael Brooks, Instant Rapport (available in libraries) @berniemaloney 55
  56. 56. APPLIED RESOURCES FOR THOSE WHO LEAD A practical application to inspire action: Simon Sinek Start With Why A guide leveraging Agile to transform organizations : Stephen Denning The Leader’s Guide to Radical Management @berniemaloney 56
  57. 57. START RIGHT NOW @berniemaloney 57
  58. 58. @berniemaloney 58 Bernie Maloney, CSP PE, CSM, CSPO bit.ly/speedmygenius Agile Coach Accelerating Genius Turning Strategies into Results From Startup to Beyond $100M
  59. 59. FIN Ut Prosim. Namaste. @berniemaloney 59
  60. 60. @berniemaloney 60
  61. 61. IMAGES • Carrot http://www.channelweb.co.uk/IMG/857/190857/carrot-on- stick.jpg • Great Dane / Terrier http://www.dogguide.net/blog/wp- content/uploads/2009/03/2082382924_fc9bcd8ece1.jpg • Soccer Practice http://www.articulosweb.net/blog/wp- content/uploads/2012/03/el-entrenamiento-de-futbol-15.jpg • Meetings http://www.jobsooq.com/uploads/career_advice_img/13972 07185_CA-4.png • Bobblehead Telemarketer http://wanderingjew.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/tel emarketer.jpg • Annoyed on Phone http://claudiabroome.com/blog/wp- content/uploads/2013/09/angry-woman.jpg • Pleased on Phone http://cf.ltkcdn.net/baby/images/std/4090-284x425- Online_showers.jpg • Speed Dating http://web.boardroominsiders.com/Portals/273391/images/s peed_dating.jpg • Math Clock http://media-cache- ec0.pinimg.com/736x/72/e4/72/72e4722fb5f68c2ad1fb8054 641a1d1b.jpg • Email Line http://www.alborsanews.com/beta/wp- content/uploads/2014/12/810.jpg • Smiling on Phone http://fordcrnagora.me/glavna_slika/ford_kontakt.jpg • Team Meeting http://www.doseofme.com/wp- content/uploads/2014/08/Development-Meeting- 600x450.jpg • Closed Gate https://www.flickr.com/photos/zenmama/1435969720/in/da teposted/ • Office Bobblehead http://s3.amazonaws.com/s3.timetoast.com/public/uploads/ photos/4620296/Dwight.jpg • Tennis http://www.nydailynews.com/sports/more-sports/venus- serena-williams-win-wimbledon-doubles-crown-article- 1.349563 • Singing https://sites.google.com/site/israel60programs/kolotpic1.JPG @berniemaloney 62
  62. 62. IMAGES • Spyglass http://www.garabatosydibujos.com/wp- content/uploads/2015/01/conocer.jpg • Santa Cruz Mountains https://s-media-cache- ak0.pinimg.com/236x/8c/71/24/8c71240963d7bfbef8afb8bd 351870b3.jpg • Satir Curve http://www.stevenmsmith.com/images/satir_graph.png • Footprints http://imagecache6.allposters.com/LRG/27/2723/8HIND00Z.j pg • Tree in Field http://p1.pichost.me/i/32/1548738.jpg • 5 Senses Composite http://www.thedailystar.net/sites/default/files/styles/big_5/ public/feature/images/senses-new.jpg • Lounging on Deck http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KO- 7Bcy0dcM/TWazHZCTXEI/AAAAAAAAABQ/yk6t6ASGitQ/s320 /mirror1bg.jpg • Connected Head Threads http://owni.fr/files/2010/10/conversations.jpg • Cyclists http://cdn.media.cyclingnews.com/2009/11/18/1/ben_bostr om_and_manny_prado_pacing_600.jpg • Square Peg http://www.drivingretention.com/wp- content/uploads/2012/01/square-peg-round-hole- 300x225.jpg • Bookshelf http://in1.ccio.co/Z6/49/BE/273241902361347891E4uxcTUc c.jpg • Open Gate http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1129/670209311_704e524783. jpg • Frogs Into Princes http://smile.amazon.com/Frogs-into-Princes-Linguistic- Programming/dp/0911226192 • Instant Rapport http://smile.amazon.com/Instant-Rapport-Michael- Brooks/dp/0446391336 • Start with Why http://smile.amazon.com/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire- Everyone/dp/1591846447 • Leader’s Guide to Radical Management http://smile.amazon.com/Leaders-Guide-Radical- Management-Reinventing/dp/0470548681 @berniemaloney 63

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