Couples 7

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Couples 7

  1. 1. Chapter 7: X3Pure Couples Series
  2. 2. Dealing with Anger
  3. 3. Dealing with Anger • Four styles of conflict.
  4. 4. Dealing with Anger • Four styles of conflict. - Win - Yield - Withdraw - Resolve
  5. 5. Dealing with Anger • Four styles of conflict. - Win - Yield - Withdraw - Resolve • Conflict can be good if it’s resolved.
  6. 6. Dealing with Anger • Four styles of conflict. - Win - Yield - Withdraw - Resolve • Conflict can be good if it’s resolved. • Confronting in love.
  7. 7. Anger
  8. 8. Anger • 3 Types of Anger
  9. 9. Anger • 3 Types of Anger - Situation specific
  10. 10. Anger • 3 Types of Anger - Situation specific - Displaced anger
  11. 11. Anger • 3 Types of Anger - Situation specific - Displaced anger - Chronic anger
  12. 12. Chronic Anger
  13. 13. Chronic Anger • Chronic anger is situation-specific but displaced from another situation.
  14. 14. Chronic Anger • Chronic anger is situation-specific but displaced from another situation. • Similar to displaced anger but chronic anger is connected to your past, a wound, or abuse. Chronic anger is usually the result of unresolved issues.
  15. 15. Chronic Anger
  16. 16. Chronic Anger • To deal with chronic anger you must forgive.
  17. 17. Chronic Anger • To deal with chronic anger you must forgive. • Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a past event.
  18. 18. Chronic Anger • To deal with chronic anger you must forgive. • Chronic anger is usually tied to a person or a past event. • Until you are able to forgive you will never break free from chronic anger.
  19. 19. Forgiveness
  20. 20. Forgiveness • Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”
  21. 21. Forgiveness • Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” • It is a command
  22. 22. Forgiveness • Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” • It is a command Be kind
  23. 23. Forgiveness • Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” • It is a command Be kind Be compassionate
  24. 24. Forgiveness • Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” • It is a command Be kind Be compassionate Forgive
  25. 25. Forgiveness • Ephesians 4.32 “Be kind and compassionate toward one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” • It is a command Be kind Be compassionate Forgive • In Christ
  26. 26. Forgiveness
  27. 27. Forgiveness • “When you forgive someone you set a prisoner free only to discover that you were the prisoner.”
  28. 28. Forgiveness • “When you forgive someone you set a prisoner free only to discover that you were the prisoner.” • Forgiveness is not about the other person, it’s about me.
  29. 29. Homework Assignment
  30. 30. Homework Assignment • Begin the process of forgiveness today

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