How to Impress a Girl on the First Date | 5 Things Women Instantly Look For in Men
5 Things Women Instantly
Look For in Men
Dating is like a dance between the prey and
the predator. You may not know this, but
women actually want to be caught and
devoured but by the right man!
To find the right man, women are instinctually
and subconsciously looking for specific traits
in men they meet.
So all you need to do then is know what those
things are and how to embody them so that
you can have her wanting you more without
having to try and convince her!
I’m Renee Slansky with The Attractive Man
Team, and I’m going to give you 5 things that
women instantly look for in a man on a first
How to Impress a Girl: The First Date
Ok so first dates really matter and here’s why;
this is where you are giving your first
impression. And just because you like the girl
and want a second date, doesn’t mean she is
going to feel the same….UNLESS you know
what she is looking for and able to tap into
that, triggering her response to want to know
Not going to lie, what I’m about to reveal to
you is pretty much what most women are
looking for in a first date, and truth be told it’s
not as complicated or as scary as you think.
So let’s unlock the volt and jump in:
Here is what women are looking for –
someone who can protect, provide, lead, love
and listen ( in a nutshell) and here is how that
translates to the first date:
1: Confidence – not just in your appearance
and body language but also in your actions,
words, and decisions. We don’t want ego, but
we do want a man who we feel has a sense of
direction and is able to take charge and lead.
This really comes across more in your energy
and presence …if you can walk into a room
and have a sense of confidence and leadership
about you without coming across as arrogant,
then we will swoon.
2: Decisiveness – nothing sexier than a man
with a plan who can just make decisions and
lead the way. We want to know you are able
to help us and be the man we crave and that
comes across so easily if you take decisions
(like ordering the wine or choosing the
restaurant etc) …again you come across as a
leader who can take control. And it makes us
feel like a damsel…it also gives us a hint you
can take control in the bedroom
3: Security – we want to feel safe to be
ourselves and not be compared to other
women. Whilst we also want to feel you could
protect us physically and care about our
safety. If you come across too domineering
then we can feel unsafe in your presence and
want to retreat. But if you shrink back from
the confrontation hiding behind us then we
won’t see you as a man who can fulfill our
primal needs to be kept safe.
4: Listening skills – If you can actively show
interest in what we are saying it makes us feel
like a priority. It also sends the signal that you
care about what we say and who we are
which are indications of the ability to love.
And listening also makes us feel safer around
you and being able to trust and open up to
5: Chivalry – we don’t want a hero, but we do
want a man who makes us feel like a lady.
Simple things like opening the door for us,
pouring the water, taking the bill, are all signs
that you want to make us feel valued and
special. It’s also an indication that you have
the possibility to give us romance which is
what women crave.
The thing is guys, tapping into what makes us
tick makes us also want to do the same for
you. Relationships aren’t just about giving so
you can get, but by stepping up and playing
your role so that you can build a solid
foundation right from the first date.
The amount of women that are literally out
there looking for just these 5 basics is
incredible. So if you want to set yourself apart
from the others and get her thinking about
you, all you have to do is focus on those 5
things to create a lasting first impression.
When you are on the date, a woman wants a
man who isn’t afraid to make a move, that’s
why we created…