Citizen advocacy slideshow

Chatham-Savannah
 Citizen Advocacy
Tania & Heather
                                         Tania Sammons became a citizen advocate in
                                         October 1999. She was asked to be a spokesperson
                                         on behalf of a young woman who was being
                                         expelled from public school because of being
                                         pregnant. What Tania learned is that if you have a
                                         disability and become pregnant you leave school,
                                         and if you don’t have a disability, you stay in
                                         school to work toward your diploma. As Tania
                                         and her protégé Heather got to know each other,
                                         Tania found how to be helpful in many other
                                         ways.




        Heather chose Tania as her
           birth coach and once the
      baby was born, Tania became
            a bit like an older sister
           helping a younger sister
          learn a lot of new things.
Tania and her husband Rich helped Heather graduate
                                           from Groves High school and get set up in a small
                                           inexpensive apartment in Port Wentworth. Tania
                                           invited three experienced mothers: Linda Wittish who
                                           is a magazine editor, Neel Foster who is an artist, and
                                           Molly McGoldrick who is a social activist, to become
                                           “the wise women.” Three young women with big
                                           professional lives but not yet with children—Holly
                                           McCullough, curator of the Telfair museum, Anne
                                           Fuller, a real-estate agent, and Annie Sarabia, a public
                                           relations consultant, became the “wild women.” This
                                           little group of people have helped Heather with her
                                           motherhood over the past 13 years.




   “She is my best friend” is how Heather described Tania at a recent citizen advocacy annual
meeting. Tania invited Bill Dawers, writer for the Savannah Morning News, to become a mentor
 for Heather’s younger brother. This is a story of many people connecting with many people in
                                      many different ways.
Mrs. Mozelle
                                                             & June



 Mrs. Mozelle Collier was one of Savannah’s most powerful women. She wanted to start a Scout
Troop for African American girls back before that sort of thing was heard of. She wound up being
 the den mother for 8 troops at one time. She also wound up on the national Girl Scout board of
 directors later in her life. She became a citizen advocate for a youngster named June who was in
  foster care via Department of Children Services. The assumption was that a child with Down
Syndrome was “un-adoptable.” Mrs. Collier went to the DFCS office every month and asked the
 social workers “What did you do last month to help June find a forever family?” This persistent
                            spokesmanship paid off and June was adopted.
Janie & Rachel



Janie Johnson, a marketing representative for Southern Bell, agreed to become a crisis advocate. She got up out
of her bed at 10:00 p.m. one night to go to Memorial Medical Center to talk her way into the pediatric intensive
  care unit to be with a child, Rachel, who was badly beaten. Her mother of the beaten child had followed her
boyfriend to Savannah. The boyfriend was the abuser. There was no other local family. Janie went the next day
and the next and the next and became “the unofficial aunt.” She was the first person to realize that Rachel had
   some sight left and made sure that everyone knew that she was going to be back the next day and the next.
  When it came time for Rachel to leave the hospital, there was talk of sending her to Pennsylvania, where her
mother was from, and having her committed to the state’s institutional system. Janie resisted and took dozens
 of pieces of paper out of her purse, each with the name of a person who had said “If there is anything I can do
 to help this child, you should let me know.” Janie said that all of these people would need to be called before
the institutional idea could be considered. One of the people called shared the story with a neighbor who went
  to their Association for Retarded Citizens board meeting and shared the story. One of the people who heard
   the story there shared it with one of their neighbors who said, “My husband Frank and I have been talking
           about adopting a child.” This is the family that Rachel has lived with for the past 20 years.
Al & Quinton
                              Al and Lucille Collins
                              have both been educators
                              for the great part of their
                              adult lives. Now retired
                              they live near Savannah
                              State University. Al
                              accepted an invitation to
                              become a citizen advocate
                              for a teenager who was
                              slipping into the Juvenile
                              Justice system. Quinton
                              had been expelled from
                              school and was living
                              with his mother who was
                              unfortunately having very
                              serious mental health
                              problems.

Al and Quinton first met on a Saturday morning over the Breakfast Bar at Shoney’s on Victory Drive.
 From there they went back to Al’s house to shoot some pool in his den. Al began to visit Quinton at
 home and helped him get back in school. He’d visit the school to make sure things were going OK.
   On some Saturdays Al would have Quinton come over and help around his house, make some
  money, have lunch and play pool. Quinton's mom continued to struggle and they both moved in
 with his grandmother on East 35th Street. Tragically, her house burned, and she was killed. Quinton
came to Al’s the next morning and he raised some emergency money through his church for Quinton
     and his mother. The family rallied and Quinton and his mom went to live with relatives in
                                             Jacksonville.
Al & Donald




 In 1986 Al Chassereau was introduced to a youngster named Donald who was living at Georgia
 Regional Hospital. After picking Donald up and spending time together for about 6 months, Al
 decided that he no longer wanted to take Don back to the institution. They decided to become a
family and Al adopted Donald. Don had grown from boy to man and Al has grown from man to
                                            father.
Linda & Carmen
   Linda Davis was introduced to a 24 year old young
      woman named Carmen who lived at Chatham
 Nursing Home. Linda lived in Savannah and worked
   in Hinesville. This was important in that Carmen’s
    parents lived in Hinesville. Linda visited Carmen
   often at the nursing home and also began to get to
   know her mother and father. She was able to help
  Carmen's mom and dad realize that they had gotten
    really bad advice about Chatham Nursing Home
being where Carmen should live. She helped them see
 that Carmen belonged at home. She helped them find
    some supportive services to make that possible as
well. Linda learned a hard lesson as a citizen advocate.
    She told us that one time she had lost her temper
about something in the nursing home and that she had
  yelled at people in the nurse’s station. After Carmen
went to back to live with her family she said in her soft
voice, “Do you remember the time you yelled at them?
  They pulled my finger back that night.” We need to
   remember to be strategic as advocates, rather than
  simply vocal, to consider the safety of the person we
  are advocating for as well as the issue or concern we
                  are bringing forward.
Cassie & Ashley




   Cassie Carpenter lives on Wilmington Island with her mom and dad and two
   sisters. She is speaking at one of our covered dish annual meetings. Cassie is
 talking about being a citizen advocate for a youngster who is about her age and
  who lives on Wilmington Island as well. Cassie told us about the ways she and
  Ashley had found to spend time together and have fun together. Many human
   service professionals in Chatham county would consider Ashley to have very
complex disabilities. Cassie, like most youngsters worries less about all of that and
                        more about how to have fun together.
Trey and Kenneth
                                                                 One of the nice
                                                                 things these men
                                                                 do together is
                                                                 celebrate Kenneth’s
                                                                 birthday every year
                                                                 in real style. New
                                                                 suits, ties, and
 Trey Matthews became Kenneth’s citizen advocate                 shoes are bought.
 in August of 1998. Kenneth was often living in the              Trey organizes a
  streets, sometimes living with people who would                big dinner, either in
literally pick him up and confine him in their home              a good restaurant
   and take his Supplemental Security Check. Trey                or at his house.
    had repeatedly complained about one of these                 Friends are invited,
      situations to the Department of Family and                 and new friends are
   Children Services Adult Protection Service Unit.              made. For Kenneth
  They had visited twice and taken no action. Trey               and for the people
 went to pick Kenneth up one Saturday and found                  who have gotten to
 him in horrible shape. He called the Pooler police.             know him through
  An officer arrived and called for back up after he             Trey and his
    saw the conditions in the home. Kenneth was                  friends, it is an
  taken by ambulance to Memorial Medical Center                  evening of joy.
    for medical treatment. Trey lobbied for better
 response from the local human service system and
eventually Kenneth was assisted to find a reputable
                   adult foster home.
Susan Earl




    Susan Earl agreed to go to a meeting about a child who was being expelled from school and sent to
 Georgia Regional Hospital. She remembers sitting at a table with over a dozen various educators and a
    very shy 12 year old. After a lot of people said what they thought the right thing to do was, Susan
   gently asked this young man himself what he thought. He hated being in a 3rd grade classroom with
children much younger than he was. He wanted to go to what he called “real school.” One thing lead to
 another and Susan came to realize that school was just the tip of the iceberg in this youngster’s life. She
 began going to Juvenile Court with him, expecting the probation officers and court workers to be more
   creative and more passionate. She also began to see how many people in his family were falling into
 trouble and began to realize how hard it would be for him to have a different life. As years have turned
  into decades, nearly two decades now, Susan has stayed in touch. 96 letters, 96 letters from prison she
   keeps in a shoe box. 96 letters to her, 96 she has sent to him. Susan highlights the idea of “standing
   with” as well as the idea of “creating change.” She highlights the idea of bearing witness to another
 persons suffering. We value the idea of not walking away when you realize that you can’t fix or change
                                          things. We value solidarity.
Tina and the Kellys
     Adoption is a role that some people who become citizen advocates choose. Letha Kelly had been a citizen
  advocate for a woman who lived in her neighborhood. She helped Donna read her mail, pay her bills and do
 other things until Donna moved from Savannah. Letha learned that being blind was not what had hurt Donna
  the most in her life. She learned that being rejected by her family was the deep wound in Donna’s life and she
   decided that one day she wanted to prevent that wound from developing in a child. Letha and her husband
Kevin began thinking about adopting a child because of this experience. They thought about it for several years
 and then one day Letha called Tom Kohler and said “We are ready.” Tom arranged for the Kellys to meet Tina
  Marie who lived in a foster home here in Savannah. After they met, Letha and Kevin knew she was the child
they wanted. They brought their daughter to meet Tina soon after. It was a family decision. Tina would become
 Tina Kelly if the paperwork and adoption process could fall into place. This turned out to be tougher than you
 would think. Eventually a fine and kind attorney here in Savannah Jon Sprague took the situation in hand and
   moved the process forward. Tina Marie went to live with her new family, the family that would become her
forever family. Tina was just a baby. She has since graduated from Gwinnett County High School where she was
   in the Honors Art Appreciation class (her mom is an art teacher so she comes by it naturally). Now Tina, her
                   mom and dad are looking for ways for her to find a good and interesting job.
Solomon and Jo Amusan work
                                   downtown. Solomon is an attorney,
                                   and Jo runs his office. They also run
                                    a couple of small businesses. They
                                     are very busy people, but not too
                                   busy for Solomon to accept the role
                                   of legal guardian and ally for a man
                                     named Nakia. Solomon accepted
                                       this role in January 1998 after a
                                       citizen advocate, Louisa Abbot
                                   spoke with him about a young man
                                        who had been dropped off at
                                    Georgia Regional Hospital on his
                                     18th birthday by the woman who
                                    was his foster mother. Nakia was
                                     now with out a place to live and
                                   with out anyone to really worry too
                                      much about it. Solomon began
Nikia and the                      attending meetings and sticking up
                                    for Nakia. He used his charm and
Amusans                              persistence and status as Nakia’s
                                      legal guardian to press the state
                                     officials to provide a home place
      Nakia’s photograph is on
                                     rather than an institutional space
       the table with all of the       for Nakia. On some Saturdays,
        Amusan family photos           Solomon picks Nakia up in his
            in their law office.   vintage Mercedes Benz and they go
                                    out to breakfast and then hit some
                                             garage sales together.
Pat & Burke

       Mr. Pat Lyons and Mr. Burke Whitney were introduced to one another in January of
       2001. Mr. Whitney’s mother had passed away leaving no family here in Savannah to
       monitor what sort of life Burke would be living at the group home where he lived.
      Pat owns River Services, a boating supply business in Thunderbolt. He grew up here,
      is part of a big family, and is an active member at Blessed Sacrament Church near his
      home in Ardsley Park. Pat, his wife Patti, and Burke enjoyed going to Savannah Sand
     Gnat baseball games and Burke loved coming over to Pat and Patti’s house. Burke was
     in the hospital several times and Pat learned how to be more than an visitor. He would
      call himself a protector. He came to see that it would be too easy for people to make a
     mistake or to choose not to offer Burke the best of care. Pat learned that part of being a
      citizen advocate is to be a protector and that you have to be present to protect. When
        Burke died several years ago, Pat and Patti traveled to Washington D.C. to attend
              Burke’s burial in Arlington Cemetery where Burke’s parents are buried.
Louisa & Theresa


Louisa Abbot and Theresa Ennis have known one
    another since June of 1994. During that time
  Louisa has followed Theresa as she was moved
from nursing home to nursing home in and out of
  Chatham County. She didn’t give up when she
  realized that Theresa's life was hard and would
   probably stay hard for a long time. She found
    great strength in Theresa; the women share a
personal relationship filled with moments of true
 grace. Judge Abbot has tried to inspire the State
   of Georgia to offer home life, not bed space, to
Theresa. This is a good example of someone truly
           growing to love another person.
Gary Foss was in a tough situation in 1980. He had moved to Savannah
                        from California where his family had made life miserable for him. Once
                        here, he wound up trading his Supplemental Security check for a place
                        to stay and got caught up in the 28% interest loan companies that used
                        to dot our downtown before it became so upscale. Tom Kohler met Gary
                        through a man who worked at Goodwill Industries and after meeting
                        and getting to know Gary a little bit he invited local businessman
                        Sheldon Tenenbaum to become Gary’s citizen advocate.




Gary and
 Sheldon
   Over a period of years Sheldon has helped Gary find an apartment he could afford and helped
       him keep his financial affairs in better order. Both men share and admire a common trait.
      Both men are stubborn and admire toughness and tenacity in other people. Over the years
    Sheldon has enlisted the help of many other people as he has tried to make sure Gary has the
      things he needs to live a comfortable life. Here you see him with City Council person Leon
   Chaplin. The diaper bag over his shoulder is for daughter Jessica, now several years graduated
                                                                          from Brown University.
Lots of funny stories are part of what these
                                               two people have between them. One of my
                                               favorites is the time that Sheldon was in
                                               Israel with a group showing our local
                                               congressional delegation around. Gary got
                                               through several layers of secretaries and
                                               through long distance calls to have a phone
                                               handed to Sheldon while he was standing on
                                               the Golan Heights to “ask Sheldon a
                                               question.” This was before cell phones. This
                                               was when you had staff to deflect calls while
                                               you did important business. No staff could
                                               stop Gary.




        Gary recently celebrated his 60th
        birthday with Sheldon doing the
honors of cutting the cake. There were
         times, many times when people
  thought Gary would never live a full
 life. It turns out that he will live a full
 life thanks to having one person take
him really seriously as a human being.
Sherry and Sally




Sherry Erskine and Sally Hearn were introduced in 1979. Sally was middle aged, Sherry in her
  30’s and just starting out in what is now a successful pension planning business. When they
 met, Ms. Hearn was living in a personal care home run by a woman Sherry came to call “the
  devil woman.” She helped Ms. Hearn find her own apartment. Ms. Hearn has lived in her
   own place, done her own shopping, and lived her own life since then. Red is Ms. Hearn's
 favorite color. Christmas her favorite holiday. One of the great traditions at Sherry’s house at
 Christmas is Ms. Hearn singing country music. She has a classic country voice filled with the
      sound of hard life and hope that makes country music real and right. What do good
 dependable decent daughters do for their mothers as their mothers age? These are the things
                               that Sherry does for Ms. Hearn today.
Stories of Citizen Advocacy are
 told in many different ways…
Local newspaper columnist and English professor Bill Dawers has taken several citizen advocacy
stories and created a 15 minute spoken word performance piece titled Voices of Advocacy. This is
          performed in coffee shops and other public and private venues around town.
Helping people be together allows
people to see one another in new ways.
We have been blessed to have
many fine mentors along the
          way…
Ms. Reeves leading the way…




District Attorney David Locke, Real Estate
Developer John Neely, and Savannah
Morning News Editor Tom Barton with Ms.
Reeves




                                Board member and moral compass Ms. Addie Reeves.
Two powerful teachers…




           Tom Lamar and Judge Louisa Abbot
Over the years, Mr. W. W.
                                                   Law spent several
                                                   afternoons with us. He
                                                   knew everyone and was
                                                   always willing to help us
                                                   meet people. He also was
                                                   full of wisdom. We asked
                                                   him one day “Mr. Law,
                                                   what scares you the most
                                                   these days?”. We assumed
Outgoing chairman, Tom                             he would talk about race
Hussey, with incoming                              relations or the erosion of
                                                   passion in the civil rights
chairman Mr. Jim Burke                             movement or economic
                                                   inequality. Without a
                                                   moment of hesitation he
                                                   said “people are so busy
                                                   going to meetings that
                         Tom Kohler and W.W. Law   they don’t have time to
                                                   visit”. That’s what scared
                                                   him the most. Lots of
                                                   wisdom.
Reverend Douglas
                                                     Huneke




Mrs. Ellis




                                                         Reverend Douglas Huneke from Tilburn
                                                            Presbyterian Church in San Francisco
                                                       California has decades of experience in the
                                                        study of altruism. We packed into the JEA
                                                         auditorium for a public presentation and
                                                          spent two days listening to and learning
                                                                          from Reverend Huneke.
This is the best financial supporter you can have.
Mrs. Ellis has given every year for over 20 years
and when she comes to the annual meeting she
looks, listens and decides if she will give in the
next year.
Through the years we have found
lots of different ways to bring lots
  of different people together in
         surprising ways…
Citizen advocacy slideshow
CSCA Annual Meeting




 Every spring we have a covered dish dinner and annual meeting. Between 100 and 140 people turn out for
food, fellowship, and stories. Jodee Sadowski from The world famous Breakfast Club at Tybee volunteers as
                                        kitchen manager some times.
Food of all kinds pours out of people’s kitchens and into
    the social hall of First Presbyterian Church on
                  Washington Avenue.
We invite citizen advocates to
share what they are learning with
 other citizen advocates and with
    the community at large….
Here you see Assistant City Manager Henry Moore talking about his protégé’s life at
Coastal Correctional Institute and about how William was literally dropped off at the
door of the mental health center when discharged from prison: a difficult situation for
                a man who does not read, use the phone or live here.




                Barbara Heuer, Martha Nesbitt, Stephanie Churchill, Malcolm
                  Mackenzie listen and consider Henry Moore’s citizen advocacy
                                              story
Linda Wittish listens as the conversation is captured on
                         chart paper. Many of the small group meetings are
                         recorded in this way and are later prepared and mailed
                         to other citizen advocates. Learning from people who are
                         actually involved, learning and framing their experience
                         and insights is a big part of how citizen advocacy works.
                         Practical sweat of the brow keeps us focused.




     Ms. Pam Hensley talks with a roomful of citizen advocates about the difference of living in a
nursing home and living in her own home thanks to the effort of citizen advocate Margaret Minis
 and other friends and allies. Bill Dawers, who writes City Beat for the Savannah Morning News
                                                                                           listens.
When people who would
                     not ordinarily meet begin to
                     spend time together and
                     learn from one another, a
                     different kind of community
                     begins to form. Here you see
                     Rexanna Lester, Executive
                     Editor of the Savannah
                     Morning News, learning
                     from Mr. Jim Burke,
                     someone who quickly
                     became an important and
                     unexpected teacher for
                     Rexanna.



           Citizen
   advocates and
 board members
    are invited to
       gather and
     deepen their
   understanding
  of the rationale
     and value of
citizen advocacy.
“Sometimes in our lives we all have pain. We all have sorrow. But if we are
wise, we know that there's always tomorrow.”
                                                             “I'll be your friend, I‘ll help you carry on”
       “For it won't be long till I'm gonna need somebody to lean on.”
                                                   “If there is a load you have to bear that you can't
“So just call on me brother, when you need a hand. carry, I'm right up the road; I'll share your load “
We all need somebody to lean on”




    For two decades we have ended each meeting with the classic Bill Withers
    tune Lean on Me.
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Citizen advocacy slideshow

  • 2. Tania & Heather Tania Sammons became a citizen advocate in October 1999. She was asked to be a spokesperson on behalf of a young woman who was being expelled from public school because of being pregnant. What Tania learned is that if you have a disability and become pregnant you leave school, and if you don’t have a disability, you stay in school to work toward your diploma. As Tania and her protégé Heather got to know each other, Tania found how to be helpful in many other ways. Heather chose Tania as her birth coach and once the baby was born, Tania became a bit like an older sister helping a younger sister learn a lot of new things.
  • 3. Tania and her husband Rich helped Heather graduate from Groves High school and get set up in a small inexpensive apartment in Port Wentworth. Tania invited three experienced mothers: Linda Wittish who is a magazine editor, Neel Foster who is an artist, and Molly McGoldrick who is a social activist, to become “the wise women.” Three young women with big professional lives but not yet with children—Holly McCullough, curator of the Telfair museum, Anne Fuller, a real-estate agent, and Annie Sarabia, a public relations consultant, became the “wild women.” This little group of people have helped Heather with her motherhood over the past 13 years. “She is my best friend” is how Heather described Tania at a recent citizen advocacy annual meeting. Tania invited Bill Dawers, writer for the Savannah Morning News, to become a mentor for Heather’s younger brother. This is a story of many people connecting with many people in many different ways.
  • 4. Mrs. Mozelle & June Mrs. Mozelle Collier was one of Savannah’s most powerful women. She wanted to start a Scout Troop for African American girls back before that sort of thing was heard of. She wound up being the den mother for 8 troops at one time. She also wound up on the national Girl Scout board of directors later in her life. She became a citizen advocate for a youngster named June who was in foster care via Department of Children Services. The assumption was that a child with Down Syndrome was “un-adoptable.” Mrs. Collier went to the DFCS office every month and asked the social workers “What did you do last month to help June find a forever family?” This persistent spokesmanship paid off and June was adopted.
  • 5. Janie & Rachel Janie Johnson, a marketing representative for Southern Bell, agreed to become a crisis advocate. She got up out of her bed at 10:00 p.m. one night to go to Memorial Medical Center to talk her way into the pediatric intensive care unit to be with a child, Rachel, who was badly beaten. Her mother of the beaten child had followed her boyfriend to Savannah. The boyfriend was the abuser. There was no other local family. Janie went the next day and the next and the next and became “the unofficial aunt.” She was the first person to realize that Rachel had some sight left and made sure that everyone knew that she was going to be back the next day and the next. When it came time for Rachel to leave the hospital, there was talk of sending her to Pennsylvania, where her mother was from, and having her committed to the state’s institutional system. Janie resisted and took dozens of pieces of paper out of her purse, each with the name of a person who had said “If there is anything I can do to help this child, you should let me know.” Janie said that all of these people would need to be called before the institutional idea could be considered. One of the people called shared the story with a neighbor who went to their Association for Retarded Citizens board meeting and shared the story. One of the people who heard the story there shared it with one of their neighbors who said, “My husband Frank and I have been talking about adopting a child.” This is the family that Rachel has lived with for the past 20 years.
  • 6. Al & Quinton Al and Lucille Collins have both been educators for the great part of their adult lives. Now retired they live near Savannah State University. Al accepted an invitation to become a citizen advocate for a teenager who was slipping into the Juvenile Justice system. Quinton had been expelled from school and was living with his mother who was unfortunately having very serious mental health problems. Al and Quinton first met on a Saturday morning over the Breakfast Bar at Shoney’s on Victory Drive. From there they went back to Al’s house to shoot some pool in his den. Al began to visit Quinton at home and helped him get back in school. He’d visit the school to make sure things were going OK. On some Saturdays Al would have Quinton come over and help around his house, make some money, have lunch and play pool. Quinton's mom continued to struggle and they both moved in with his grandmother on East 35th Street. Tragically, her house burned, and she was killed. Quinton came to Al’s the next morning and he raised some emergency money through his church for Quinton and his mother. The family rallied and Quinton and his mom went to live with relatives in Jacksonville.
  • 7. Al & Donald In 1986 Al Chassereau was introduced to a youngster named Donald who was living at Georgia Regional Hospital. After picking Donald up and spending time together for about 6 months, Al decided that he no longer wanted to take Don back to the institution. They decided to become a family and Al adopted Donald. Don had grown from boy to man and Al has grown from man to father.
  • 8. Linda & Carmen Linda Davis was introduced to a 24 year old young woman named Carmen who lived at Chatham Nursing Home. Linda lived in Savannah and worked in Hinesville. This was important in that Carmen’s parents lived in Hinesville. Linda visited Carmen often at the nursing home and also began to get to know her mother and father. She was able to help Carmen's mom and dad realize that they had gotten really bad advice about Chatham Nursing Home being where Carmen should live. She helped them see that Carmen belonged at home. She helped them find some supportive services to make that possible as well. Linda learned a hard lesson as a citizen advocate. She told us that one time she had lost her temper about something in the nursing home and that she had yelled at people in the nurse’s station. After Carmen went to back to live with her family she said in her soft voice, “Do you remember the time you yelled at them? They pulled my finger back that night.” We need to remember to be strategic as advocates, rather than simply vocal, to consider the safety of the person we are advocating for as well as the issue or concern we are bringing forward.
  • 9. Cassie & Ashley Cassie Carpenter lives on Wilmington Island with her mom and dad and two sisters. She is speaking at one of our covered dish annual meetings. Cassie is talking about being a citizen advocate for a youngster who is about her age and who lives on Wilmington Island as well. Cassie told us about the ways she and Ashley had found to spend time together and have fun together. Many human service professionals in Chatham county would consider Ashley to have very complex disabilities. Cassie, like most youngsters worries less about all of that and more about how to have fun together.
  • 10. Trey and Kenneth One of the nice things these men do together is celebrate Kenneth’s birthday every year in real style. New suits, ties, and Trey Matthews became Kenneth’s citizen advocate shoes are bought. in August of 1998. Kenneth was often living in the Trey organizes a streets, sometimes living with people who would big dinner, either in literally pick him up and confine him in their home a good restaurant and take his Supplemental Security Check. Trey or at his house. had repeatedly complained about one of these Friends are invited, situations to the Department of Family and and new friends are Children Services Adult Protection Service Unit. made. For Kenneth They had visited twice and taken no action. Trey and for the people went to pick Kenneth up one Saturday and found who have gotten to him in horrible shape. He called the Pooler police. know him through An officer arrived and called for back up after he Trey and his saw the conditions in the home. Kenneth was friends, it is an taken by ambulance to Memorial Medical Center evening of joy. for medical treatment. Trey lobbied for better response from the local human service system and eventually Kenneth was assisted to find a reputable adult foster home.
  • 11. Susan Earl Susan Earl agreed to go to a meeting about a child who was being expelled from school and sent to Georgia Regional Hospital. She remembers sitting at a table with over a dozen various educators and a very shy 12 year old. After a lot of people said what they thought the right thing to do was, Susan gently asked this young man himself what he thought. He hated being in a 3rd grade classroom with children much younger than he was. He wanted to go to what he called “real school.” One thing lead to another and Susan came to realize that school was just the tip of the iceberg in this youngster’s life. She began going to Juvenile Court with him, expecting the probation officers and court workers to be more creative and more passionate. She also began to see how many people in his family were falling into trouble and began to realize how hard it would be for him to have a different life. As years have turned into decades, nearly two decades now, Susan has stayed in touch. 96 letters, 96 letters from prison she keeps in a shoe box. 96 letters to her, 96 she has sent to him. Susan highlights the idea of “standing with” as well as the idea of “creating change.” She highlights the idea of bearing witness to another persons suffering. We value the idea of not walking away when you realize that you can’t fix or change things. We value solidarity.
  • 12. Tina and the Kellys Adoption is a role that some people who become citizen advocates choose. Letha Kelly had been a citizen advocate for a woman who lived in her neighborhood. She helped Donna read her mail, pay her bills and do other things until Donna moved from Savannah. Letha learned that being blind was not what had hurt Donna the most in her life. She learned that being rejected by her family was the deep wound in Donna’s life and she decided that one day she wanted to prevent that wound from developing in a child. Letha and her husband Kevin began thinking about adopting a child because of this experience. They thought about it for several years and then one day Letha called Tom Kohler and said “We are ready.” Tom arranged for the Kellys to meet Tina Marie who lived in a foster home here in Savannah. After they met, Letha and Kevin knew she was the child they wanted. They brought their daughter to meet Tina soon after. It was a family decision. Tina would become Tina Kelly if the paperwork and adoption process could fall into place. This turned out to be tougher than you would think. Eventually a fine and kind attorney here in Savannah Jon Sprague took the situation in hand and moved the process forward. Tina Marie went to live with her new family, the family that would become her forever family. Tina was just a baby. She has since graduated from Gwinnett County High School where she was in the Honors Art Appreciation class (her mom is an art teacher so she comes by it naturally). Now Tina, her mom and dad are looking for ways for her to find a good and interesting job.
  • 13. Solomon and Jo Amusan work downtown. Solomon is an attorney, and Jo runs his office. They also run a couple of small businesses. They are very busy people, but not too busy for Solomon to accept the role of legal guardian and ally for a man named Nakia. Solomon accepted this role in January 1998 after a citizen advocate, Louisa Abbot spoke with him about a young man who had been dropped off at Georgia Regional Hospital on his 18th birthday by the woman who was his foster mother. Nakia was now with out a place to live and with out anyone to really worry too much about it. Solomon began Nikia and the attending meetings and sticking up for Nakia. He used his charm and Amusans persistence and status as Nakia’s legal guardian to press the state officials to provide a home place Nakia’s photograph is on rather than an institutional space the table with all of the for Nakia. On some Saturdays, Amusan family photos Solomon picks Nakia up in his in their law office. vintage Mercedes Benz and they go out to breakfast and then hit some garage sales together.
  • 14. Pat & Burke Mr. Pat Lyons and Mr. Burke Whitney were introduced to one another in January of 2001. Mr. Whitney’s mother had passed away leaving no family here in Savannah to monitor what sort of life Burke would be living at the group home where he lived. Pat owns River Services, a boating supply business in Thunderbolt. He grew up here, is part of a big family, and is an active member at Blessed Sacrament Church near his home in Ardsley Park. Pat, his wife Patti, and Burke enjoyed going to Savannah Sand Gnat baseball games and Burke loved coming over to Pat and Patti’s house. Burke was in the hospital several times and Pat learned how to be more than an visitor. He would call himself a protector. He came to see that it would be too easy for people to make a mistake or to choose not to offer Burke the best of care. Pat learned that part of being a citizen advocate is to be a protector and that you have to be present to protect. When Burke died several years ago, Pat and Patti traveled to Washington D.C. to attend Burke’s burial in Arlington Cemetery where Burke’s parents are buried.
  • 15. Louisa & Theresa Louisa Abbot and Theresa Ennis have known one another since June of 1994. During that time Louisa has followed Theresa as she was moved from nursing home to nursing home in and out of Chatham County. She didn’t give up when she realized that Theresa's life was hard and would probably stay hard for a long time. She found great strength in Theresa; the women share a personal relationship filled with moments of true grace. Judge Abbot has tried to inspire the State of Georgia to offer home life, not bed space, to Theresa. This is a good example of someone truly growing to love another person.
  • 16. Gary Foss was in a tough situation in 1980. He had moved to Savannah from California where his family had made life miserable for him. Once here, he wound up trading his Supplemental Security check for a place to stay and got caught up in the 28% interest loan companies that used to dot our downtown before it became so upscale. Tom Kohler met Gary through a man who worked at Goodwill Industries and after meeting and getting to know Gary a little bit he invited local businessman Sheldon Tenenbaum to become Gary’s citizen advocate. Gary and Sheldon Over a period of years Sheldon has helped Gary find an apartment he could afford and helped him keep his financial affairs in better order. Both men share and admire a common trait. Both men are stubborn and admire toughness and tenacity in other people. Over the years Sheldon has enlisted the help of many other people as he has tried to make sure Gary has the things he needs to live a comfortable life. Here you see him with City Council person Leon Chaplin. The diaper bag over his shoulder is for daughter Jessica, now several years graduated from Brown University.
  • 17. Lots of funny stories are part of what these two people have between them. One of my favorites is the time that Sheldon was in Israel with a group showing our local congressional delegation around. Gary got through several layers of secretaries and through long distance calls to have a phone handed to Sheldon while he was standing on the Golan Heights to “ask Sheldon a question.” This was before cell phones. This was when you had staff to deflect calls while you did important business. No staff could stop Gary. Gary recently celebrated his 60th birthday with Sheldon doing the honors of cutting the cake. There were times, many times when people thought Gary would never live a full life. It turns out that he will live a full life thanks to having one person take him really seriously as a human being.
  • 18. Sherry and Sally Sherry Erskine and Sally Hearn were introduced in 1979. Sally was middle aged, Sherry in her 30’s and just starting out in what is now a successful pension planning business. When they met, Ms. Hearn was living in a personal care home run by a woman Sherry came to call “the devil woman.” She helped Ms. Hearn find her own apartment. Ms. Hearn has lived in her own place, done her own shopping, and lived her own life since then. Red is Ms. Hearn's favorite color. Christmas her favorite holiday. One of the great traditions at Sherry’s house at Christmas is Ms. Hearn singing country music. She has a classic country voice filled with the sound of hard life and hope that makes country music real and right. What do good dependable decent daughters do for their mothers as their mothers age? These are the things that Sherry does for Ms. Hearn today.
  • 19. Stories of Citizen Advocacy are told in many different ways…
  • 20. Local newspaper columnist and English professor Bill Dawers has taken several citizen advocacy stories and created a 15 minute spoken word performance piece titled Voices of Advocacy. This is performed in coffee shops and other public and private venues around town.
  • 21. Helping people be together allows people to see one another in new ways.
  • 22. We have been blessed to have many fine mentors along the way…
  • 23. Ms. Reeves leading the way… District Attorney David Locke, Real Estate Developer John Neely, and Savannah Morning News Editor Tom Barton with Ms. Reeves Board member and moral compass Ms. Addie Reeves.
  • 24. Two powerful teachers… Tom Lamar and Judge Louisa Abbot
  • 25. Over the years, Mr. W. W. Law spent several afternoons with us. He knew everyone and was always willing to help us meet people. He also was full of wisdom. We asked him one day “Mr. Law, what scares you the most these days?”. We assumed Outgoing chairman, Tom he would talk about race Hussey, with incoming relations or the erosion of passion in the civil rights chairman Mr. Jim Burke movement or economic inequality. Without a moment of hesitation he said “people are so busy going to meetings that Tom Kohler and W.W. Law they don’t have time to visit”. That’s what scared him the most. Lots of wisdom.
  • 26. Reverend Douglas Huneke Mrs. Ellis Reverend Douglas Huneke from Tilburn Presbyterian Church in San Francisco California has decades of experience in the study of altruism. We packed into the JEA auditorium for a public presentation and spent two days listening to and learning from Reverend Huneke. This is the best financial supporter you can have. Mrs. Ellis has given every year for over 20 years and when she comes to the annual meeting she looks, listens and decides if she will give in the next year.
  • 27. Through the years we have found lots of different ways to bring lots of different people together in surprising ways…
  • 29. CSCA Annual Meeting Every spring we have a covered dish dinner and annual meeting. Between 100 and 140 people turn out for food, fellowship, and stories. Jodee Sadowski from The world famous Breakfast Club at Tybee volunteers as kitchen manager some times.
  • 30. Food of all kinds pours out of people’s kitchens and into the social hall of First Presbyterian Church on Washington Avenue.
  • 31. We invite citizen advocates to share what they are learning with other citizen advocates and with the community at large….
  • 32. Here you see Assistant City Manager Henry Moore talking about his protégé’s life at Coastal Correctional Institute and about how William was literally dropped off at the door of the mental health center when discharged from prison: a difficult situation for a man who does not read, use the phone or live here. Barbara Heuer, Martha Nesbitt, Stephanie Churchill, Malcolm Mackenzie listen and consider Henry Moore’s citizen advocacy story
  • 33. Linda Wittish listens as the conversation is captured on chart paper. Many of the small group meetings are recorded in this way and are later prepared and mailed to other citizen advocates. Learning from people who are actually involved, learning and framing their experience and insights is a big part of how citizen advocacy works. Practical sweat of the brow keeps us focused. Ms. Pam Hensley talks with a roomful of citizen advocates about the difference of living in a nursing home and living in her own home thanks to the effort of citizen advocate Margaret Minis and other friends and allies. Bill Dawers, who writes City Beat for the Savannah Morning News listens.
  • 34. When people who would not ordinarily meet begin to spend time together and learn from one another, a different kind of community begins to form. Here you see Rexanna Lester, Executive Editor of the Savannah Morning News, learning from Mr. Jim Burke, someone who quickly became an important and unexpected teacher for Rexanna. Citizen advocates and board members are invited to gather and deepen their understanding of the rationale and value of citizen advocacy.
  • 35. “Sometimes in our lives we all have pain. We all have sorrow. But if we are wise, we know that there's always tomorrow.” “I'll be your friend, I‘ll help you carry on” “For it won't be long till I'm gonna need somebody to lean on.” “If there is a load you have to bear that you can't “So just call on me brother, when you need a hand. carry, I'm right up the road; I'll share your load “ We all need somebody to lean on” For two decades we have ended each meeting with the classic Bill Withers tune Lean on Me.