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Relationships 4 prov 18 21 slides 032711

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Relationships 4 prov 18 21 slides 032711

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  3. 3. 1. All vehicles have the potential to end up in the breakdown lane, on the shoulder of the highway<br />
  4. 4. 1. All vehicles have the potential to end up in the breakdown lane, on the shoulder of the highway<br />2. We got there because we were not paying attention, and to get going again we need to add some fuel to the vehicle<br />
  5. 5. 2. We got there because we were not paying attention, and to get going again we need to add some fuel to the vehicle<br />3. All relationships are fueled by time, shared experiences, and communication<br />
  6. 6. Communication is not an exact science but an art.<br />
  7. 7. 1. Build trust, Matt 5:37<br />
  8. 8. To destroy communication, all you have to do is inject misinformation.<br />Matthew 5:37 But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.<br />
  9. 9. A. Deception<br />
  10. 10. A. Deception<br />B. Flattery, Psalm 12:3<br />Psalm 12:3 The LORD shall cut off all flattering lips, and the tongue that speaketh proud things:<br />
  11. 11. A. Deception<br />B. Flattery, Psalm 12:3<br />C. Broken promises<br />D. Silence<br />
  12. 12. Trust has to be earned—one declaration, one deed, one day at a time.<br />
  13. 13. 1. Build trust, Matt 5:37<br />2. Guard your thoughts, Matt 12:34<br />Matthew 12:34 O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.<br />
  14. 14. It’s your head that’s filling your heart, and your heart that’s filling your mouth, so transform your life by renewing your mind with the thoughts of God in his word.<br />Romans 12:2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind,<br />
  15. 15. 1. Build trust, Matt 5:37<br />2. Guard your thoughts, Matt 12:34<br />3. Use your ears, Psalm 116:1; Prov 18:13; 21:23;10:19<br />Psalm 116:1 I love the LORD, because he hath heard my voice and my supplications.<br />
  16. 16. <ul><li>Learn to listen and you will change the lives of people you relate to.</li></li></ul><li>L —Look at them<br />I —Invest in them<br />S —Stop everything else<br />T —Think about what is being said<br />E —Empathize with them<br />N —Notice body language<br />
  17. 17. 1. Build trust, Matt 5:37<br />2. Guard your thoughts, Matt 12:34<br />3. Use your ears, Psalm 116:1; Prov 18:13<br />4. Empower your words, Prov 18:21<br />
  18. 18. A. Be honest, Prov 24:26; Eph 4:15<br />Eph. 4:15 But speaking the truth in love, [we] may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:<br />
  19. 19. A. Be honest, Prov 24:26; Eph 4:15<br />B. Use touch, Luke 5:13<br />Luke 5:13 And [Jesus] put forth his hand, and touched [the leper], saying, I will: be thou clean. And immediately the leprosy departed from him.<br />
  20. 20. A. Be honest, Prov 24:26; Eph 4:15<br />B. Use touch, Luke 5:13<br />C. Ask questions, Mark 8:29<br />Mark 8:29 And [Jesus] saith unto [his disciples], But whom say ye that I am? And Peter answereth and saith unto him, Thou art the Christ.<br />
  21. 21. A. Be honest, Prov 24:26; Eph 4:15<br />B. Use touch, Luke 5:13<br />C. Ask questions, Mark 8:29<br />D. Give pictures, John 3:3ff<br />John 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.<br />

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