Perfecting Our Parenting Paradigm for Parenting  Ages 13-19 Proverbs 1:8-9
Thesis: <ul><li>In training teenagers, more will be  caught  than will be taught. </li></ul>
Point 1. <ul><li>Taking the time to discipline children early in life saves you a lot of grief  later  on. </li></ul>
Point 2. <ul><li>A principle-ized paradigm for raising teenagers is based in the recognition that to perfect your parentin...
A Paradigm for Bringing Up Adolescents <ul><li>1. Teenagers need authority expressed as loving  influence </li></ul>
<ul><li>To  provoke  your child means to challenge them in such a way that it calls forth a hostile reaction. </li></ul>De...
Point 3. <ul><li>Teenagers should be taught to develop good judgment by being  allowed  to make some of their own judgment...
Definitions: <ul><li>Nurture  is communicating life skills by cultivating a child’s mind and morals to correct their mista...
Tips on Transitioning <ul><li>A. Moving from exercising authority through control to exercising it by influence depends on...
Tips on Transitioning <ul><li>A. Moving from exercising authority through control to exercising it by influence depends on...
Tips on Transitioning <ul><li>A. Moving from exercising authority through control to exercising it by influence depends on...
Tips on Transitioning <ul><li>A. Moving from exercising authority through control to exercising it by influence depends on...
Point 4. <ul><li>Boundaries  must be based on who you are dealing with in each issue, because the goal is to help a teenag...
The Divine  Trinity  on Raising Teens <ul><li>1. Search the scriptures </li></ul><ul><li>2. Seek the assistance of the Spi...
A Paradigm for Bringing Up Adolescents <ul><li>2. Develop systems that are designed to  minimize  conflict </li></ul>
A Paradigm for Bringing Up Adolescents <ul><li>2. Develop systems that are designed to minimize conflict </li></ul><ul><li...
A Paradigm for Bringing Up Adolescents <ul><li>2. Develop systems that are designed to minimize conflict </li></ul><ul><li...
Point 5. <ul><li>You don’t have to approve what is popular, but you have to be  aware  of pop culture. </li></ul>
Point 6. <ul><li>What’s really involved in a paradigm for parenting older kids is a battle for their  heart . </li></ul>
Waging the War for Your Teenager Wisely <ul><li>A. Understand that what is at stake in raising our teens is who and what t...
Waging the War for Your Teenager Wisely <ul><li>B. Identify potential  idols  that seek to take the place of God </li></ul>
Waging the War for Your Teenager Wisely <ul><li>B. Identify potential idols that seek to take the place of God </li></ul><...
Waging the War for Your Teenager Wisely <ul><li>D. Deal with your own  guilt  now </li></ul>mrbc
Point 7. <ul><li>Your  attitude  is going to get you in more trouble with your teenager than anything else. </li></ul>
Point 8. <ul><li>Humility  and meekness will breed mutual respect so you have to be a partner in their struggle, because i...
Conclusion: <ul><li>You have to be the one who is every day and in every way pointing your teens to  Christ . </li></ul>
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Parenting 6 proverbs 1 8 9 c 050110

  1. 1. Perfecting Our Parenting Paradigm for Parenting Ages 13-19 Proverbs 1:8-9
  2. 2. Thesis: <ul><li>In training teenagers, more will be caught than will be taught. </li></ul>
  3. 3. Point 1. <ul><li>Taking the time to discipline children early in life saves you a lot of grief later on. </li></ul>
  4. 4. Point 2. <ul><li>A principle-ized paradigm for raising teenagers is based in the recognition that to perfect your parenting you must change your strategy over time. </li></ul>
  5. 5. A Paradigm for Bringing Up Adolescents <ul><li>1. Teenagers need authority expressed as loving influence </li></ul>
  6. 6. <ul><li>To provoke your child means to challenge them in such a way that it calls forth a hostile reaction. </li></ul>Definition:
  7. 7. Point 3. <ul><li>Teenagers should be taught to develop good judgment by being allowed to make some of their own judgments. </li></ul>
  8. 8. Definitions: <ul><li>Nurture is communicating life skills by cultivating a child’s mind and morals to correct their mistakes and curb their passions. </li></ul><ul><li>Admonition implies we love a child enough to warn them and exhort them rather than stand by and ignore them. </li></ul>
  9. 9. Tips on Transitioning <ul><li>A. Moving from exercising authority through control to exercising it by influence depends on the personality and maturity of your child </li></ul>
  10. 10. Tips on Transitioning <ul><li>A. Moving from exercising authority through control to exercising it by influence depends on the personality and maturity of your child </li></ul><ul><li>B. Know your kids </li></ul>
  11. 11. Tips on Transitioning <ul><li>A. Moving from exercising authority through control to exercising it by influence depends on the personality and maturity of your child </li></ul><ul><li>B. Know your kids </li></ul><ul><li>C. Understand your Bible </li></ul>
  12. 12. Tips on Transitioning <ul><li>A. Moving from exercising authority through control to exercising it by influence depends on the personality and maturity of your child </li></ul><ul><li>B. Know your kids </li></ul><ul><li>C. Understand your Bible </li></ul><ul><li>D. Ask God for guidance </li></ul>
  13. 13. Point 4. <ul><li>Boundaries must be based on who you are dealing with in each issue, because the goal is to help a teenager develop good judgment while they are with you so they will make good decisions once they are on their own. </li></ul>
  14. 14. The Divine Trinity on Raising Teens <ul><li>1. Search the scriptures </li></ul><ul><li>2. Seek the assistance of the Spirit </li></ul><ul><li>3. Respond based on the your personal knowledge of how to appeal to your child’s conscience </li></ul>
  15. 15. A Paradigm for Bringing Up Adolescents <ul><li>2. Develop systems that are designed to minimize conflict </li></ul>
  16. 16. A Paradigm for Bringing Up Adolescents <ul><li>2. Develop systems that are designed to minimize conflict </li></ul><ul><li>3. Let reality provide the discipline </li></ul>
  17. 17. A Paradigm for Bringing Up Adolescents <ul><li>2. Develop systems that are designed to minimize conflict </li></ul><ul><li>3. Let reality provide the discipline </li></ul><ul><li>4. Talk about matters of the heart </li></ul>
  18. 18. Point 5. <ul><li>You don’t have to approve what is popular, but you have to be aware of pop culture. </li></ul>
  19. 19. Point 6. <ul><li>What’s really involved in a paradigm for parenting older kids is a battle for their heart . </li></ul>
  20. 20. Waging the War for Your Teenager Wisely <ul><li>A. Understand that what is at stake in raising our teens is who and what they worship </li></ul>
  21. 21. Waging the War for Your Teenager Wisely <ul><li>B. Identify potential idols that seek to take the place of God </li></ul>
  22. 22. Waging the War for Your Teenager Wisely <ul><li>B. Identify potential idols that seek to take the place of God </li></ul><ul><li>C. Expect to be shocked, but don’t be judgmental </li></ul>
  23. 23. Waging the War for Your Teenager Wisely <ul><li>D. Deal with your own guilt now </li></ul>mrbc
  24. 24. Point 7. <ul><li>Your attitude is going to get you in more trouble with your teenager than anything else. </li></ul>
  25. 25. Point 8. <ul><li>Humility and meekness will breed mutual respect so you have to be a partner in their struggle, because it is your transparency, honesty and candor that helps your kid come to grips with what they are going through. </li></ul>
  26. 26. Conclusion: <ul><li>You have to be the one who is every day and in every way pointing your teens to Christ . </li></ul>

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